Preface: I am a white guy after having interacted with a lot of Asian and Indian guys, I know that there are a sizable number of them that want the cute blonde type. If this does not apply to you and you just don't dig blondes or white girls in general, just ignore the thread but I know that there are those of you out there who want these types of girls. I've witnessed this in PUA and countless times in real life. I've had plenty of experience around both and have helped a couple of my friends IRL get with these kinds of girls so listen (in this case read) up!

Most race discussions on here likely boil down to this very subject. I am doing this because I have had a lot of good Asian and Indian friends over the years and I kinda feel for you guys, that and I am done with going for blondes. A lot of this guide is not going to be all nice sweet rosy motivational stuff, it is going to be harsh but you asked for it!

How to get those blondes!

If stereotypes apply (USA here), hot blondes and Asian/Indian guys are about as far apart as one can get. One comes from a spoiled background of having everything handed to her while the other is taught to work hard to achieve success in life. The blonde values partying and social status while the Asian guy values getting an education and a promising career. For this reason, it is very rare to see an Asian and especially an Indian guy with the hot blonde type. TBH, whenever I see Asian or Indian guys with cute white girls, it is usually a brunette that is along the lines of a Zoey Deschannel or a redhead, very rarely do I see them with these kinds of women. But I am here to give you advice rather than have you end up being another statistic.

  1. The obvious: lift, westernize yourself, and work on your game. FYI, if you have an accent (especially an Indian one), you're screwed. As I will explain later, it is mandatory for you to be an alpha male to get these kinds of girls.

I've never seen or met a more immigrant type Asian guy get these kinds of girls, it was always the white washed ones like Harold and Kumar. If you have an accent, you have to lose it (especially if you have an Indian accent). Not only will it hurt you with these girls, it will hurt you with most girls outside of your race in general. Hot blondes are shallow because they can be. When they are used to Chads and higher SMV guys of all races hitting on them, they don't want a Bobby Lee lookalike unless he is Bobby Lee himself.

Most of the Asian and Indian men I've known who did alright with the hot blonde party girl demographic were generally over 5'10, very westernized, kinda douchey, and either ripped or jacked.

  1. You can't afford to be too picky here, broaden your options.

We all want that hot 20 year old blonde who drives a BMW she got from daddy's money and is in some sorority, but you're going to have to open yourself up to more options. The kind of an SMV you would need to pull those kinds of girls will take years of work, lots of luck, and top tier game. Welcome the idea of hooking up with that post wall blonde 7, she is likely going to be more receptive to you and offer you more fun times. Instead of going for a sorority sister, maybe hook up with the blonde hippie girl who has a foreign guy fetish. At least get some practice in so you can destroy your limiting beliefs about getting these kinds of girls.

From my experience, foreign blondes are much more open to going for Asian and Brown men and they're generally more attractive too. I've known handsome Asian and Brown men that were sought after by Scandinavian, Russian, and Slavic women. I actually tell this to most Asian and Indian men after they have maxed their SMV, they usually get the cute blondes they like and find that these girls are much more receptive to them compared to the All-American kind of girl.

  1. Online dating and cold approach might not work in your favor, you're going to have to rely on social circle game for the most part.

Hot blondes get approached constantly to the point where they have a high bitch shield. The same is true for these women in online dating, they get too many messages to even entertain looking through all of them. You're going to have a rough time here regardless of what you do. Ideally, you want to be in a situation where you are interacting with these kinds of women and letting them truly know you. One of my Korean friends met this blonde 8 through volunteering, he is now engaged to her.

You want to be in a situation where these girls are getting to see you for more than just your looks. For them, good looking is Chris Evans, not some handsome Bollywood actor or Glenn from Walking Dead (or any minority in most cases). Bar game (except for some rare few cases), club game, and online game are generally not going to work for you.

  1. Location matters, you have to go to where these women are.

If you're aiming to get cute blondes in San Francisco where more than half of the women are not white and cute white girls in general are rare, you're going to have a rough time. Throw in some of the negative stigma that exists towards Asian and Indian men there, you will now find it practically impossible to get these kinds of women. Now changing locations just to be with certain kinds of women is pathetic, but if you're that desperate then this is a viable option. Asian and Indian men generally have a better shot of getting these women in areas where there aren't that many Asian and Indian men around to spoil the reputation of your race.

  1. Prepare yourself and get ready to hear it from everyone! You're going to get shit-tested by American society like there is no tomorrow.

I don't really care if a hot blonde fucks an Asian dude but that is because I am over getting with these girls now, can't say the same for most people though. Fact is, as an Asian or Indian guy in the USA, you're an easy target unless you prove yourself and put people in their place. Believe me when I say this, you will be forced to put people in their place and you'll likely be provoked into a few fights.

Most guys of other races are going to go hard at you for being with these girls, especially some of the angrier white guys. I would recommend learning how to fight by taking up MMA, you're going to need it. American society does not like it when minorities start going for its precious blondes, it is a fucked up notion that still exists. Women of your own race are going to fucking hate it that you're with a hot blonde, they're going to shit test the hell out of both of you. I have an Indian friend/former classmate who is dating this blonde 8, he is handsome but he gets stared down by women of minority groups all the time when I have been out with him and his girl. There have been two instances where older and angry white guys have tried to fight him and called him racial slurs, insulting the girl in the process as well. To put that in perspective, we live in a fucking blue state that is known for being "diverse and tolerant".

One of my Japanese friends who was dating this Swedish 8 was called countless racial slurs at a restaurant for being out with his girlfriend. The guys mercilessly hit him with small penis jokes and hit on his girl right in front of him. I was there with a few of my friends so we managed to get them to go away but I promise you, you will see American society's true racist views once you get with these women.

That about does it

It's an uphill battle but sorry, life isn't fair. You can easily go for 9s and 10s of your own race and get them without having to work even half as hard but I understand that you want Ms. All-American Pie. I wish I could tell you the basic stuff like lift, learn game, and be alpha but it is way harder than that. So if you want to know what it takes and what kind of a guy you would have to be to get these kinds of women in the United States, well, there is the truth right there.

Lessons learned:

You better man the fuck up, there is no other choice!