The Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks dichotomy represents the far-left endgame of women's sexual liberation; women decide, in no uncertain terms, what to do with their own bodies in any given situation. In a perfect world, this would be fine- the joke is that men didn't oppress women out of cruelty or insecurity, they oppressed women because women can't handle freedom; women need their choices made for them, especially when it comes to their bodies.

When women make their own choices, they follow their sexual instinct- as men do with young, fertile women- and give their sexuality up to the most Alpha of males. The problem has always been that these top-20% Alpha males know their value and while they may eventually settle down with a HB8-9, they are first are going to leave a trail of Alpha Widows in their wake as they progress to the eventual relinquishment of bachelorhood.

The problem with the Alpha widow is that she's metaphorically dead-inside following her interaction with the Alpha male. While I think it's possible that men may experience the same problem- I know I'm haunted by the girls that I could have fucked if I had better game at the time... the thing is, men jerk off and are usually over it... it's not so simple for an Alpha Widow...

And why? This is the most important question in relevance to The Red Pill; this issue separates The Red Pill from a bunch of angry, unsuccessful, little men (holds index finger to thumb) to a message of extreme necessity and urgency.

Before the world of open hypergamy- permissible promiscuity ("exploration!"), motherhood as a distant priority ("education! career! travel! wine!"), no-fault divorce ("freedom!"), and legalized abortion ("oops!").... a good Father was instrumental in helping a woman decide what kind of man she was allowed to date. In a perfect world, I think there could be a balance struck here between whom she was attracted to and who would be good for her, theoretically leaving her satisfied and cared for.

The good Father could weed out men who didn't fit this description and had poor intentions for the daughter (ie: the pump and dump... or, you know, dating in 2015). The Father-approved man and the girl would marry early, have kids together, and be stuck with one-another for better or worse....

...and that last part, you know, from the wedding vows.... that's the challenge to it; you're stuck together and you're not always going to be happy, guaranteed, but the lesson you're supposed to learn is to make the most of it and settle into a place of calm content.

She's going to get old and you're forever going to lust after 21 year olds; your challenge is having to deal with that. As an aside, take a look at all the mainstream encouragement and media hypnosis to manipulate men into thinking a "strong" 45 year old woman is more attractive than a fertile 21 year old. Cuck Adam Sandler movies where his lesson is that the 45 year old is hotter than the 21 year old, the Maxim SEXIEST WOMAN OF THE YEAR who is closing in on 50... While this would always be bullshit, I could swallow it had the equivalent kind of manipulative tactics been in place for women, like

STAND BY YOUR MAN. A message that is entirely neglected in the mainstream narrative. RESPECT YOUR MAN; respect what he does for you, respect his effort; MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A MAN; be a good wife (and, for God's sake, be a good mother!)... this is what women need to hear... and why?

Because women fall in love with the idealized version of a man; his flaws will be invisible to her initially:

She doesn’t love you. She loves her idea of you. This may be a close approximation of you, but it isn’t you and it never will be. She doesn’t want to see your humanity; it’s unsightly and weak. It will never match her idea of you. She loves the value you provide. She loves to believe in your leadership, and to rely on your conviction. This isn’t you, even if it’s a close approximation. You will never match the idea she has of you, and when this idea becomes damaged beyond repair, she will leave you if she has other options or resent you if she doesn’t.

Women don't love sympathetically; men love sympathetically. If your take away here is that only male love is genuine, I wouldn't disagree; if your take away is that women aren't good people when compared to men, I wouldn't disagree with that either.

A man in a relationship will invariably show weakness; he will, at least, eventually make a poor decision which will cause some degree of hardship to his family. A good woman, taught to STAND BY HER MAN, will forgive this indiscretion; she will understand that her man is human, capable of making mistakes, and that he's more right/valuable than he is wrong/useless, so she shouldn't make him feel like a loser for fucking up. A not so good woman in a world that has rules in place through law/social stigma will have to suck it up and stay with him anyway.

But this is where the problem of the Alpha Widow rears its ugly head... if a woman doesn't have the real life reference point of having sexual experience of an Alpha male, maybe she could use her adorable imagination or read romance novels or something, and secretly resent her loser-seeming husband...

But when there is a reality to the Alpha male; when she can look back to that night(s) where a handsome, muscular, cool and calm guy seemed very interested in her and fucked her better than loser-hubby ever could, she's never going to respect her husband... especially when he shows weakness, failure, or need.

The first bit of advice you pick up from this board is to never listen to what a girl says, and, if you're new, this is necessary... but the truth is, if you learn how to listen to what a girl says, you'll learn a lot too.

For example, a plate I had that I'm kind of letting fade-out, disqualified herself from ever being anything more than a plate when she told me how she had a boyfriend for years whom she was with "only for the sex" and that she "never loved him," although after the relationship she had to "get a therapist" who told her a bunch of puffed up bullshit.

In her adorable girl world, her telling me that she "never loved him" was diminishing the importance of her relationship and his place in her life. She is using the equality playbook, that men and women are the same, and since men can have great sex with a girl without any kind of emotional entanglement, so can women...

Only they can't, is the thing. His giving her great sex, sex so great that she believed she's with him "just for the sex," makes him an Alpha male to her... and since women love value, they love Alpha males. Therefore, of course she was "in love with him."

I asked her what she thought was love to her and she told me that she wants a guy to act silly with! Pizza in bed! Dancing and singing to 80s songs in the car! This guy didn't do any of that, her just made her drip with lust and fucked her silly, so she "didn't love him"!

And guess what, I didn't do any of that bullshit either and she chased me down for my commitment all the same. I didn't give any indication that I'd want to be cute or silly with her, but I fucked her hard and that's what she responded to.

I actually wrote another post on this, where the second I loosened my very-tight frame with her she took it as an opportunity to respect me less and pounce.

As an aside, this girl had also told me that she had fucked two strangers she met at a bar in one night.

Point being, this girl has no idea how unbelievably damaged she is... She played by the rules of open-hypergamy and allowed herself to have (God knows how many) one-night stands with Alpha-males, and a go-nowhere relationship/plate-status with an Alpha Fucks, she's now past-thirty and she's salty at how she's wasted her time..

I'm not going to say I'm king Alpha-male but I do okay... am I in the top 20%? Who the fuck knows, but I'm in enough abundance to not need a relationship. I certainly can charm and fuck like an Alpha, and I was too sharp to avoid her manipulative tactics to hammer down my commitment... but lets say I was still an unconscious blue pill beta-male; lets say I listened to exactly what she said, bought her line about pizza and dancing, thought that the big dicked Alpha-male jerkface didn't appreciate the snowflake enough, or those guys in the bar who LOLZED at the dumb whore were total ASSHOLES and didn't treat her with enough RESPECT, and I manned up with my commitment... would she ever respect me?

Probably not, no. She will forever resent that the men who made her drip the most didn't want to stick around, and she'll take it out on the man who doesn't provide enough tingles and was dumb enough to buy the cow.

Only in the modern world is there such a tremendous gap between men with sexy Alpha qualities, and men with gross beta qualities. The modern beta-male could never relate to the song "Sweet Dreams"; women only want to use them, women never want to be used by them.

(Speaking of secret traditionalist Marilyn Manson, he has two songs that speak directly to the harmful Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks dynamic ("The Dope Show"), and the aftermath of female dissatisfaction/anti-depressant culture ("Coma White") on his criminally underrated critique of gender fluidity, Mechanical Animals)

Women without the restraints and expectations of the responsible use of sexuality and youth have made it so incredibly easy for Alpha males to obtain sex with young, fertile women that nearly every girl will end up an Alpha Widow; this creates a dynamic where even men outside of the top 20% will end up being smart enough to avoid commitment, because commitment is for suckers, so only the most beta bottom 20% men will be interested in commitment, and how can a girl be expected to go from being a wet-hole for Chad Thundercock to respecting Barry Boyfriend; it's not going to happen, and this gap is only growing...

Want proof? The Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks/Alpha Widow dynamic is practically part of the mainstream narrative, even if not in those terms... the new Hollywood movie Daddy's Home is "Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks: The Movie" (the actual movie website is too awesome to not include a link); ugly cuck Will Ferrell is a loser step father being shamed by the Alpha Mark Wahlberg... and yes, even if Ferrell has some petty wins in the movie, and Wahlberg is shamed a bit, everybody still knows who everybody is...

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