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Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...

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Never posted here before but just stumbled on FB over this. Try to imagine any post like this about teaching a 6yr old girl how to "properly" show respect to men...

Once a month my 6 year old son takes me out on a dinner date. He opens doors for me, pulls out my chair, talks about his day & asks me how mine was, pays the bill with money he earned by doing chores, and even tips the waiter/waitress. By doing this I am teaching him how to treat a lady & how to take her on a proper date. How to show that he respects the woman he loves (right now that would be mommy). We put our phone and iPad away (except to take this photo) and sit and talk to each other about our days, things we want to do, etc. I'm teaching him proper table manners and that it's rude to sit on your phone on a date with your mom or with anyone else. He learns the value of money and how to manage it. He learns how to do math as we add up what we want and make sure we have 15% of it to leave for a tip. Yes he is young but I believe this is something he should learn now. It's never too early to teach your child how to properly respect others, especially women. As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past, it's extremely important to me that I teach my son how to show respect. Too many men these days have no idea how to treat women or how to take them on a nice date. It's nice to know my son won't be one of them.

TLDR: 6yr old is once a month moms date-servant to learn how to respect "especially women".

Edit: Link from the site dangerandplay.com http://www.dangerandplay.com/2016/01/06/nikkole-paulun-son-takes-mom-out-to-dinner/


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Title Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...
Author learnux
Upvotes 728
Comments 427
Date 02 January 2016 03:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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Link https://theredarchive.com/post/39333
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[–]1DRMMR76657 points658 points  (111 children) | Copy

Sounds like that kid is going to end up being the "sweetest guy ever who is going to make some girl soooooo happy someday". Of course, he will be told this for his entire life and yet never actually find this mythical girl.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet475 points476 points  (51 children) | Copy

This woman is unknowingly withdrawing her own genes from the race. It's evolution in action.

[–]OwlsExterminator117 points118 points  (10 children) | Copy

She's using the child as a surrogate man boy to fill the void in life. It's a huge burden on the child. I wouldn't be surprised if the boy starts drugs and drops out of school eventually .

[–]diediemydorkling52 points53 points  (3 children) | Copy

Pretty much experienced this. High school dropout, and a recovering heroin addict - you nailed it very accurately.

[–]minkjen1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Had the same experience to. Same result if you remove the heroin and replace it with weed and food

[–]diediemydorkling1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, anything to numb and distract yourself really. I was anorexic and bulimic before being introduced to heroin, and then I just traded one form of self destruction for another.

[–][deleted] 27 points27 points | Copy

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[–]OneTouchHowMuch2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I really hope someone puts this on the actual facebook post

[–]chill_geddy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea emotional incest is some dark shit

[–]Viking_Psychopath72 points73 points  (6 children) | Copy

For some reason I found this hilarious. How retarded is that?

[–]MrChillBroBaggins48 points49 points  (4 children) | Copy

[–]Frigzy17 points18 points  (3 children) | Copy

I want to create vids like that. Beautiful stuff.

[–]Skater_Goy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Automatic eugenics? It's accidental brilliance.

[–]LoL-Guru 26 points26 points [recovered] | Copy

I upvoted you for thinking about evolution but....unfortunately thanks to female controlled birth control, abortion and paternity tests, beta male mating strategy out competes alpha mating strategy in terms of progeny produced. Spin all the plates you want; no babies. Guy who gets settled down and marries; babies.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet72 points73 points  (23 children) | Copy

Guy who gets settled down and marries; babies.

You're assuming the babies are his.

[–]LoL-Guru 10 points10 points [recovered] | Copy

That's why paternity tests are in the explanation. As more horror stories and statistics emerge, beta males are wising up and getting their children paternity tested at birth so they aren't on the hook for child support in the case of illegitimacy. This discourages women from cheating and actually helps to limit hypergamy.

[–]nonconformer34 points35 points  (5 children) | Copy

Oh please. Of all the beta males I know, not one of them would have the spine to say to their dearest "Darling, I want our child DNA tested." Maybe in 0.1% of cases this would happen, but certainly not with the standard beta male.

[–]ManowarVin7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

you get the DNA sample without her even knowing and send it to a lab

[–]whyalwaysm30 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How would you do that? I'm not in that kinda situation but little info like this is always good to know lol

[–]Viking_Psychopath3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plenty of cheap services on the internet. Google it.

[–]rombios0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thats what i did, and i wasnt necessarily suspecting infedility, but i like to remove/minimize doubt

[–]chetmanly25 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Speaking as a 100% pure-bred beta.

I want paternity testing to be law.

[–]cuban6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

Well if Europe is the liberal 'paradise' and the expected outcome of the progressive march everywhere, from Wikipedia:

France

Paternity testing is regulated by the state and only allowed in certain cases:

Without a court order the express consent of the person must be obtained in writing before the carrying out of the examination, after the person has been duly informed of its nature and its purpose.[18] With a court order (if consent could not be obtained) This is partially due to the official desire to "preserve the peace" within French families, with the French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society, rather than biology. French men often circumvent these laws by sending samples of DNA to foreign laboratories, but risk prosecution if caught. The maximum penalty for carrying out secret paternity testing is one year in prison and a €15,000 fine.[19]

Germany

Under the Gene Diagnostics Act of 2009, secret paternity testing is illegal. Any paternity testing must be conducted by a licensed physician or by an expert with a university degree in science and special education in parentage testing, and the laboratory carrying out genetic testing must be accredited according to ISO/IEC 17025. Full informed consent of both parents is required, and prenatal paternity testing is prohibited, with the exception of sexual abuse and rape cases. Any genetic testing done without the other parent's consent is punishable with a €5,000 fine.[20] Due to an amendment of the civil law section 1598a in 2005, any man who contests paternity no longer automatically severs legal rights and obligations to the child.[21][22]

[–]absoluteskeptic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

just send it to a lab in a different country from a different country

[–]CornyHoosier0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Even if it's found that the child isn't his, he is still on the hook for 18 years of child support and will lose half his stuff. He's royally fucked if he makes more than his wife.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Misattributed paternity occurs at between 0.5-18% of cases. In almost all studies of any significance (test sample above 1000 participants) the figure is lower than 5%. So whilst your comment attracts a round of applause from the red pill audience it is statistically incorrect and LoL-Guru's comment is totally correct. Never let reality stop the masses from cheering for the populist view.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

With that range of error the numbers are completely useless. "It might be anywhere between one out of a couple hundred or one out of five..."

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

When you average the studies it is less than 2%.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Averaging won't help. Some of the studies are wrong when the results are so vastly different. If I say the sky is blue and 3 other people say the sky is red, the average would be far fromt he truth.

[–]Eugenics20151 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think beta genetics may be better suited to to the modern age though.

The world needs mathematicians, computer engineers and people with high IQs. High IQ alphas are almost always verbal

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't think there is any correlation between alpha/betas, marriage, and babies.

[–]Endorsed ContributorThotwrecker0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she couldn't get a guy to treat her like a queen, I guess this is the next best alternative.

[–]lanternoflight130 points131 points  (8 children) | Copy

That kid is gonna get friendzoned so hard.

[–]BrunoOh108 points109 points  (5 children) | Copy

He's practically friendzoned by his mother already.

[–][deleted] 103 points104 points  (2 children) | Copy

that's the most important thing in this thread. I googled the quote and found a Mirror article. Single teen-mom (now 22) with two kids? She doesn't get Beta energy from a guy so she forces her son into that role.

[–][deleted] 50 points51 points  (1 child) | Copy

Solipsism at its worst. Not even realizing life-lasting damage being done to own child.

[–]babybopp37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

That mom has realized that she has a low and rapidly diminishing SMV and will probably die alone. She is investing and practically instilling an Oedipus complex into her son so that he is always going to be by her side and any attempt to leave will be met by "you are leaving me just like your father-& all the men in her life-guilt-trip of 20,000 leagues." I have a cousin like this who is now 43, a virgin who spends waaay too much time in the shower and even bought the house next door to his mother.

[–]Redsqa3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

[–]RedPillProphet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The one time being friendzoned is preferable to being her fuck toy.

[–]JefemanG2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Until he becomes the beta bucks, anyway.

[–]Newdist2151 points152 points  (23 children) | Copy

He could still end up with some post-wall whore.

[–]1htbf554 points555 points  (21 children) | Copy

He is already stuck with one : his mom.

[–]Endorsed ContributorObio1391 points392 points  (16 children) | Copy

It's never too early to learn RP wisdom:

"Sorry mom, I can't make it tonight."

"But I paid you $50 for your chores"

"Yeah, I spent it on some weights. I gotta work out. Maybe we can do dinner next month sometime, cupcake".

"But, you're only six! Wait... What did you call me???"

[looks mom dead in the eye while doing curls]

"Cupcake."

[–][deleted] 184 points185 points  (10 children) | Copy

I would watch a show where a feminist mother raises a kid, and that kid, at age 6, realizes it's bullshit and does the red pill thing.

[–]square-one96 points97 points  (6 children) | Copy

That's a great idea and could be marketable to the masses. It's shielded by "haha it"s funnny because he's a kid" so people will see past the "shitting on feminism" part.

[–]Nespos35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

The same way that people readily accept RP when a comedian says it on stage.

[–]Dakukori8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the King's court, only the jester may speak the truth.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Pitch it to Trey Parker and Matt Stone as a South Park season-plotline.

[–]SatanAscending5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You think Cartman will get into shape perhaps? Who else? Butters?

[–]3savoryprunes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You know it's Butters.

[–]billcosbyeatsbabies1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

a lot of current modern shows do something like that by having most of the characters very beta and one alpha male in the whole show. like barney stinson in how i met your mother, archer in archer, and whatever other show you can think of. it balances itself out, but yeah it'd be hilarious to fuck with feminism by putting a kid in the alpha male position and spewing RP material everywhere

[–]penguin_says_slide35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think getting the mother wet is what his little badass intended

[–]PedroIsWatching4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I read all the boy's lines in Robert Loggia's voice.

[–]Lenoh17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

C as in "Come on, I'm lifting weights here!"

U as in "Ungodly amounts of reps."

P as in "Pack on the weight."

C as in "Come on, seriously! I'm lifting weights here!"

A as in "Always have your protein shake before lifting!"

K as in "Kale is for animals, I don't put that shit in my shake!"

E as in "Everyone loves Robert Loggia Jr."

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I could imagine that she watches him workout for 20-30 seconds and then thinks to herself "All that weight lifting must work up an appetite. I better go cook him some dinner".

[–]Philhelm17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

And he's not even getting laid (or is he?).

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[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

make some girl soooo happy...

Although I'm sure you've heard this phrase many times before, think about it for a minute. The very notion of it implies a purely utilitarian view ew of men.

Think about how non-PC the male equivalent would be:

"You're very sexy dear. You're going to make some boy sooo sexually satisfied one day."

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're going to make some boy sooo sexually satisfied one day

That's unfair because sex is evil. So very evil.

[–]Orig_analUse_rname37 points38 points  (2 children) | Copy

No, I think he will find TRP. I did, you did. Most guys here don't want to admit it, but more or less we were the same way.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

This was me to a T before I found the Red Pill.

[–]calvinshobbs1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same her, in fact I'm still learning how NOT to be this way.

[–]scamper_22 22 points22 points [recovered] | Copy

I grew up without much of a father, so I got this too. Not to the same extent, but the degree to which I was taught to treat a woman well is just sickening now in retrospect.

The main problem is never did my parents teach me what to expect from a woman. Seriously... nothing. That is the sick part. Even a son is just expected to serve woman. He has no value except in that regard.

Once you understand what they think of you, you whole mindset and relationship changes. In a way, she could end up raising an even more RP son than if she just let him go his own way.

I'd say that happened with me. Because I saw the game and faced some trials and tribulations in the process, I have a much harsher view of things than my brothers.

[–]yarow1210 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

The main problem is never did my parents teach me what to expect from a woman. Seriously... nothing.

The most I was taught is that she'll cook, clean, and raise the kids. I later learned that any USA female can call that sexist. In the past, it would have shamed me out of it and left me with no expectations on their part. Today, I say "You will carry your weight or I won't be bothered with you."

[–]hero7071 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

How do u determine that though?

[–]yarow121 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do u determine that though?

Her weight? Put her ass on a scale.

[–]tompanz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think that's the worst part about women these days. Every single responsibility they ever had has been erased because it's "oppressive", while leaving all the male ones intact.

[–]redkick0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I grew up without a father figure as well, but my mother taught me some important lessons about how emotional and moody women are. She also regularly shouted at me and her beta boyfriend when we failed to read her mind about what she wanted us to do without giving us any hints beforehand.

I moved out of the house at the first chance I got, which improved our relationship tremendously (at a distance). I think the takeaway is that you have to learn from their behavior, not from what they say. I never had any problem with the way women behave, because I always expected them to be emotional lunatics. That's definitely not the image she has of herself, though.

[–]CornyHoosier0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Once you understand what they think of you, you whole mindset and relationship changes. In a way, she could end up raising an even more RP son than if she just let him go his own way.

Hence the anger phase that many men here feel.

[–]slay_it_forward4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, he'll think he did but his beta behavior will push her onto some convicts dick and then he'll be left scratching his head thinking, what the fuck happened?

[–]imthemanyesiam10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell get the nice cumdumpster leftovers that hell be so grateful for

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is how serial killers are made. It wouldn't suprise me if this kid went out on a women killing spree, when he gets older. Poor kid!

[–]Redasshole1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I've been treated so bad that now I'm treating my own son badly"

he is like a fucking emotional sex toy to her

Fuck this cunt.

[–]Drmadanthonywayne3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Suckerpunch"

Here she comes again with another boyfriend, introduces me and says, “this is the sweetest guy I’ve ever known.” Couldn’t say a word. I never say a word. She wraps her arms around my neck. “You are the sweetest guy I’ve ever known.”

And I say again “THIS IS THE LAST TIME”

[chorus] When you left before I didn’t care too much Cause I just wished you’d go away And I see you now and it’s just too much Takes my breath away ... Just like a suckerpunch

There she goes again she says I’m her best friend and “were better off this way” she says cause your still the sweetest guy I’ve ever known. Her smell stays on my shirt, I can’t say a word can’t swallow this lump inside my neck cause you’re still the sweetest girl I’ve ever known.

And I say again ...... And I said before..... And I say once more “THIS IS THE LAST TIME”

-Bowling for Soup

[–]Thizzlebot2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He'll be posting here in 20 years.

[–]socialinjusticewar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well you know, "nice guys are the real jerks".

[–]niceguy_gone_cad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

He might be the next Supreme Gentleman.

[–]antariusz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't worry, I found PUA at 25, and redpill at 32.

He has a chance. It will just come later in life than it would "naturally".

[–]MegaTheThing0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why are you so negative? Girls are actually attracted to guys who show them respect. They're not some mythical creature, and this kid will probably do just fine in finding the right girl for him.

[–][deleted] 330 points331 points  (16 children) | Copy

Crazy single mother, whos been mistreated by all the bad boys she pursues... takes it out on her son. News at 1

[–]learnux[S] 111 points112 points  (13 children) | Copy

Don't care about her. Don't care who she is. This shit is going viral, shared and liked by people who also don't.

Million people who see this as the little cute story are what makes me sick. The SAME FUCKING people who would create a Shitstorm over a "I showed my 6yo daughter how to cook XYZ bcs girls like that stuff"-story just for the reason of Roles-of-Gender-whatever.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

To be fair, we're assuming that all those who liked the Facebook post and made it go viral are sane, rational human beings. They're just as fucked up as the mother (in liking and sharing the post).

The bar isn't exactly set very high, and we shouldn't grant deference to those masses.

I feel bad for the kid though. He's really getting a raw deal.

[–]Darkone066 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

I saw it on Facebook and like it not because I agree but because I was hoping it would go viral so we could have an open discussion on the matter.

I. Think it worked since we are discussing this issue here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I was referring to the people that actually like-like it and believe in the mothers' message, not people like you (or us).

[–]Darkone061 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm just trying to illustrate that you can't take those numbers at face value just like that.

There several reasons puerile click like besides agreeing with the message.

Maybe they were just a beta liking it to impress some girl who shared it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just saw the comment thread in the Facebook Post, it's full of betas.

Even funnier is that she's a teenage pregnancy, you think she would have learned in the 6 years later, but apparently not.

I actually thought it was a meme at first...

[–]LessASnowmanThanAGod1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya, it's being liked by either broken women or clowns who are trying to bang her.

[–]workreddit2120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I saw it on my facebook today and most of the people sharing it were either single mothers or fat feminists.

Basically she wants other woman to be able to "tame" her son, unlike she was able to do to the son's father.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Re-format the post, the rules are on the side bar, hurry before it gets deleted.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

well.. without TGBRP - THE GOD BLESS RED PILL - I would consider this video as cute and right.. oh boy, there are a very few things what can men watch on line now...

[–]Casanova-Quinn24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy

The cruel irony of teaching her son "proper date manners" when she only dated men who had none.

[–]Rob_Dead0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They did, however, have the common sense to see what a fuck-up this old bird is do-one before she could pin them down in any way.

Maybe some of that nature will overcome the nurture (if you can call it that) and the kid will see through smoke and mirrors.

[–][deleted] 313 points314 points  (32 children) | Copy

This is called emotional incest and sabotaging your son.

We came to live in a time where it is not forbidden but she openly admits to it and over 1 million people approve of this.

This is extremely disgusting and frightening.

[–]learnux[S] 113 points114 points  (4 children) | Copy

And the reactions: "What an excellent job by the mother." Even in this story it's not really about the "cute boy" but how honorable HER motives and great HER ideas are.

[–]Nespos35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

Parents on FB use their kids for attention and shares/likes/validation with absolutely no shame. You'll find that the majority of posts like these are really about the parent.

[–]MonkeyDFreecs2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Parents on FB use their kids for attention and shares/likes/validation with absolutely no shame.

Especially kids with disabilities it makes me sick to my stomach when some parent is showing off their down syndrome kid expecting praise from everyone just for having em and acting like superior being just because their kid isn't normal.

[–]whyalwaysm310 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

It really is about her. Notice towards the end how she casually brings up she's been "abused and treated like crap"? That's not a coincidence, this whole post is a pity and attention post. No wonder she's a single mom.

[–]rosarywan43 points44 points  (4 children) | Copy

This is called emotional incest and sabotaging your son.

The manginas and feminists will claim that it's "parenting," lol.

Should be considered a form of abuse, given how badly this kid's life is going to be fucked up because of this type of parenting.

[–][deleted] 59 points60 points  (4 children) | Copy

emotional incest

That's a good way to put it. I couldn't figure out how to describe how wrong it is.

[–]bigrock4516 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

Had a narc mom that would make me massage her and other fucked up things such as bathing with her. It's no wonder I was scared of my sexuality for so long. Shit like this is so wrong and grows up a man who is scared of his sexuality

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know all the details dude, but I bet if a father did that kind of thing with a daughter people would consider it sexual abuse

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[–]KurrKurr1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Perfect description of the situation, I think. I'll surely use this term!

[–]RedSyringe18 points19 points  (11 children) | Copy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incest

Holy shit. I never knew this was a documented thing.

[–]bigrock4520 points21 points  (10 children) | Copy

My childhood 100% my moms needs were above me almost always. I was expected to massage her or get punished. She would always make me bathe with her at the same time. She tore off my door at 12 and forbid masturbation. It's really no wonder I grew up angry, sexually frustrated and a door mat until I found this place

[–]RedSyringe3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

Fuck man. I can't imagine that shit. How did she think she was helping?

This is an interesting concept too: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parentification

[–]bigrock459 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy

I've done tons of research on how my mom affected my mental psych but honestly the damage is done. I'm just glad I discovered this place before I killed myself. Honestly I plan on writing a post about her because she's a walking red pill story. Left my dad and extorted 70grand out of him for 12 years. She's Pretty much the reason I hate most women nor trust them. I read the side bar on this sub when I was 17 and I'm just glad that happened.

[–]MaxManus1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Glad you can feel at home here. I am really looking forward to your post.

[–]bigrock454 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

It'll be soon. I've lost tons of weight/monk mode and it'll be a good closing peice for me to explain my journey. I'll do it on my 19th birthday which is in about 3 months. Will be a long ass read

[–]JD423050 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You're so young dude. So young that whatever happened until this point doesn't matter. Hit the weights, and go hard after goals. You are not behind and yet you still have so much time. I'm 25 and by the time you're my age you're going to have me beat. Keep on keeping on.

[–]workreddit2121 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

this is some of the best advice for you /u/bigrock45

Whats your relationship with your dad like? I come from a pretty similar situation. My parents split when I was 7. 23 now. Lived with mom, saw dad every other weekend until I was about 16.

Saw my mom go through COUNTLESS boyfriends, all the exact same type of guy (Dumb, rode a Harley, and had connections). Once the excitement finished she moved onto the next one. HOWEVER my mom did not take anything from my dad. Left him the house, did not take any support, nothing. My old man was a drug addict. My mom did not want to try and take anything from him because she knew it would end badly for one of them. I resented my dad more than anything from the time I was 16 until he died when I was 21. In those 5 years I only saw him once.

Now, from your point of view I should probably hate my mom as well, but I don't. I love my mom more than anything and would give the world for her. She taught me so many valuable life lessons, be it her purposly teaching me or me learning from her mistakes. I wish I could have not resented my dad for those years because he had a wealth of knowledge that I wish I had learned.

Now I wasn't in as crazy of a situation as yourself, but I like you are already mentally strong enough to live a fulfilling, successful life.

Focus on self improvement and you will be good.

[–]bigrock450 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hell yea, I train like a mofo. I've lost about 135 pounds but I still have about 50 to go until I'm shredded.

[–]xfLyFPS1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Write it, I'm interested in your story.

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[–]MegaTheThing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude. She's just teaching her son to be a respectful young man. Nothing wrong with that.

[–]2comment71 points72 points  (5 children) | Copy

Looked this up. Found this priceless detail.

The personal story was shared by Nikkole Paulun, who appeared in a season of MTV's popular show "16 and Pregnant".

The popular figure, who is now 22, told her legions of Facebook followers that once a month her six-year-old son Lyle takes her out for a "dinner date".

Yeah, something tells me she'll do absolutely nothing to teach her daughter (she has one) how not to be a fucking whore.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

2 million people approve of parenting advice coming from a trash tv endorsed selfish whore, you just can't make this shit up anymore, at first i laughed but i can't help but think how fucked this generation of kids will be

[–]whyalwaysm30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fucked up world we live in man.

[–]steelerfaninperu0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly we've gotten a lot dumber. I blame the TV.

[–]seriouswalnut4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the same girl from 16 and Pregnant who faked a pregnancy for 9 months and had a "still birth" for money from tabloids. This girl is batshit crazy. Link I saw on a comment below regarding the faked stillbirth : https://archive.is/lOtVG

[–]zardfizzlebeef1260 points1261 points  (64 children) | Copy

My son's gonna fuck this kid's girlfriends

[–][deleted] 141 points142 points  (6 children) | Copy

This kid ain't getting a girlfriend.That said, ill gladly plow his one-itis.

[–]Borsao6627 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

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[–]rosarywan6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

The only girlfriends he'll get are HB4's or landwhales who he dates because there's no one else who wants him.

[–]FRedington 12 points12 points [recovered] | Copy

Dependapotamus comes to mind.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If he turns out good looking enough he will. I had no problem getting laid as a beta because of my looks. The problem was keeping these women from cheating with alphas even though they slept at my place and had sex with me daily. They always try and come back though and I have never once let them. Only, thing that has kept me from paying for more child support.

[–]foldpak11134 points35 points  (3 children) | Copy

"It is a pity that your child has to learn from your mistakes and acceptance of mistreatment. My mother has never done this to our brother, and he is the perfect gentleman. Why is it the man's place to pay for the meal? What will you do with his chore money next? Start paying bills with it? Buy yourself gifts? Because you esteem a man should do such things? Why don't you teach the kid about managing his aforementioned chore money, and having a savings? You're consumed with how he will treat a woman on a date, more than the truly important things in his life. That is selfish. You know what you're setting this kid up for, especially by [your &] today's standards? Getting used for cash. My best suggestion would be to make your child your number one priority, and maybe seek counseling - because now he's bearing the burden of your mistakes. I bet if you gave him the option of taking you on a date or not, he'd opt for the latter."

This was written by a woman and plenty of other women are stepping in, getting to the root cause of why she is doing this to her son. There is still hope for this young man as plenty of people are going to set him straight when he goes his way.

Here's the truth: The mother in question is projecting her hatred of the father onto her son. It's a subtle yet vicious form of child abuse and everyone praising her is doing so due to the evolutionary urge to protect the eggs. Sperm is plentiful. Everyone commenting in is basically saying "fuck that little kid. You go, girl!!" But it isn't all evolutionary, some of it is environmental. The last couple of generations were raised by single mothers.

This is my message to the young boy: Godspeed, little man. I will not pray for you. The odds are severely stacked against you, but you are a man. Overcoming hardship is what men do. You're programmed for this shit. Godspeed.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Where is it? I wanna see people's comments.

[–]Orig_analUse_rname192 points193 points  (33 children) | Copy

Shit, I'm probably gonna fuck this kids gf. In 12 years I'll still be like 29. This woman is seriously fucking over her kid.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kid will never have a girlfriend, but he will orbit lots of girls.

[–]RemyPrice81 points82 points  (29 children) | Copy

In 12 years I'll be close to 50.

I'll still look 35 and ripped, with 10x more money than I make now.

I'll be fucking this kid's girlfriends and all of their friends.

[–]dragonfangxl47 points48 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'll be 34, will finally realize I dont love woman, my true love is the tinder application on my phone, and we'll settle down in a nice remote villa in western italy. I'll come home one day and tinder will surprise me with a three way with this kids gf

[–]mugatucrazypills61 points62 points  (6 children) | Copy

mommy, why does my girlfriend smell like other mens' cocks ?

[–][deleted] 99 points100 points  (3 children) | Copy

You aren't being nice enough to her, dear. Pull her chair out more slowly, really emphasize just how smart and beautiful she is when you give her her goodnight handshake. She'll adore it.

[–]1Paid_Internet_Troll16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Goodnight handshake."

Hehehehe.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you are killing with the comments :D

[–]netherlanddwarf5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Honey it's time you learn about the cock carousel".

[–]YoungRedPiller0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hahahahahahahhahahaha holy fuck buddy you made my day

[–]dyllos5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I like this subreddit a lot but this comment is ridiculous.

[–]RemyPrice0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You might try replacing the "but" in your speaking with "and". It changes the whole context of the sentence and doesn't invalidate what you said before the but.

I like this subreddit, and this comment is ridiculous.

Also, We already know you like this subreddit, or you wouldn't be here. You could remove the qualifier altogether, and have the most power:

This comment is ridiculous.

[–]lanternoflight46 points47 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hopefully, once your son fucks this kid's girlfriend, the kid will see the light and swallow the red pill.

[–]UniversalFapture56 points57 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably not. He'd go around and around trying to rationalize it, wasting his youth. So either he goes all lunatic and hurts people, or he finds us.

We'll see.

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kid's not gonna have a girlfriend to fuck.

You'll fuck the girl he orbits.

[–]Josewasframed8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I like your attitude u/zardfizzlebeef , I like your attitude...

[–]Stythe3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your comment just made my day.

[–]Listen_up_buddy3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oman, this made me laugh way too much!

[–]SanchitoQ3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I feel like this needs to be a bumper sticker.

[–]zardfizzlebeef17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

Plot twist: put it on the wife's car. "My Son fucks your son's girlfriend" wouldn't look too bad on the back of the mini van.

[–]The_Red_Paw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm so stealing this. Upvote for you.

[–]AngraMainyuu55 points56 points  (10 children) | Copy

This poor kid is going to have his world shattered before he hits 20 when he can't find a girl to respect him in return. Sadly this kid is more likely to descend into bitter anger and resentment rather than learn and grow from it like he should. Its like the world only offers men those two options: either be a slave, or be resentful.

Aren't you glad TRP presents men with a third option?

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (6 children) | Copy

Yes, I feel terrible for him. That mom could end up with a dead son from suicide.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

And then she'll post about that on FaceBook too and talk about how she is soooo grief stricken and will get sympathy from another million suckers.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

If a father taught his daughter to cook everyone would be screaming at him. Even though she'd get married and live a happier life most likely.

But a mom teaches a son to be a fucking doormat and be used his whole life? YOU GO GURL. This society is sick. Let the arabs take over.

[–]Redasshole2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She will use it to get attention and sympathy.

[–]real-boethius0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Another "perfect gentleman" is born.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4-F3ypkqe8

[–]KorianHUN4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I was told to do this shit all my life. I'm glad i've found trp. I'm still trying to understand how trp works to improve myself.
So far i can nearly understand all my past problems with my past rejections.
I feel bad i wasted my life being a fucking white knight.

[–]3savoryprunes1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't waste your time feeling bad. Move on and improve. That's why we're here.

[–]MegaTheThing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You know women aren't all monsters who destroy men's lives. He'll probably go on to live a normal life and find a girl that loves him. It's not the end of the world.

[–]learnux[S] 77 points78 points  (18 children) | Copy

What really makes me sick about this: Of course she is not doing this for the benefit of this obscure dinner. And she has absolut no feeling of injustice on it. Why is it that when it comes to Fathers Educating their Daughters any life-experience is used to get her the best - While Mothers seem to glorify women in general in front of her sons and almost set them up...

[–]learnux[S] 24 points25 points  (16 children) | Copy

OMG Just recognised: Do 6yr olds in America these days have phone+Ipad? Or does she really want to say: "Mommy even puts her phone and iPad away" !?

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (11 children) | Copy

Plenty have tablets. I doubt there are very many at all that would have phones at that age; you would have to be incredibly idiotic (and have plenty of disposable money) to get a cellphone for a 6 year old.

[–]RealRational8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy

I've seen 5 year olds with the latest iphones, there is no longer a lower age limit to cell phone ownership.

[–]destraht10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

My brother had to go out and play with a walkie talkie so that my mom could summon him with a screeching yell. They got along well enough but he resented her a lot and so decided to pick up riding a motorcycle because it was my mom's greatest fear. Then he splattered against a van in an unusual traffic situation while going to a forgettable 9am liberal class. Sometimes mothers can push their sons to do things that are insanely dangerous just so that they can feel masculine like it was anti-feminine lotion.

[–]MonkeyDFreecs0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

ometimes mothers can push their sons to do things that are insanely dangerous just so that they can feel masculine like it was anti-feminine lotion.

Black and even part of the Latino community is pretty much this. So many Black and Latino males are incredibly hypermasculine they will be very aggressive and try to fight you just because they don't like the way you look. I've seen some dudes try to get violent with women that ignore their catcalls.

[–]mugatucrazypills0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm sorry about your brother.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm 16 and my step mother does not let me own a phone. The world is a fascinating place.

[–]RealRational0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's your crazy mom,

not a stable metric which can be applied to the majority of kids today.

Sorry buddy, you're in an unlucky minority.

[–]rosarywan2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

to get a cellphone for a 6 year old.

I'd probably get one of those simple, cheap ass cellphones for a 6 year old that only have calling enabled on them, and teach the kid to press two buttons to talk with mommy or daddy. To that effect it might be situationally useful, though any responsible parent should know their kid's schedule inside-out.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

doesn't that just become an electronic leash + helicopter parenting? how does that teach a boy to be independent?

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[–]rosarywan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How is this helicopter parenting? Not to mention, the kid is 6-- he requires a tightly maintained schedule to build good habits.

[–]ArchangelleFuckOff4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

At 6, a phone would be a bit much, but iPod touches were common a couple of years back in that age bracket.

[–]Darkone062 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I just gave all the kids in my extended family tablets for Christmas and that included a 3 month old.

cheap $50 quad core tablets.

So yeah there really isn't an age group for tablets anymore.

[–]Gadnuk_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

A lower end tablet is todays gameboy. A 6y/o definitely wouldn't have a phone

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[–]zxsteven133 points134 points  (9 children) | Copy

She's just hustling her kid out of money.

[–]sweetleef275 points276 points  (2 children) | Copy

Like she said, she's teaching him about women.

[–]25russianbear251 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

its better that he learn this lesson sooner than later

[–]ogrejr66 points67 points  (1 child) | Copy

"I decide what he spends the money I give him on"

Gee thanks Ma, really feels like I earned this money.

[–]Scroph1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't get this either. If he spends that money on her, then it wasn't his in the first place wasn't it ? But it's supposed to be his prize after he did all those chores ! No matter how I look at it, it reads like she's exploiting this kid in all kinds of manners, some more disturbing than others. The only parts I thought were legitimately interesting are the "don't use your phone when speaking with someone" advice and the "tipping" arithmetic lesson. But that's just me trying really hard to find something positive about this whole mess, I'm sure there better and healthier ways to teach this to a child.

[–]mugatucrazypills12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

i guess you could argue she's teaching him street smarts. Damn, even mama was hustling me ? hopefully he transitions through RP rather than shooting up Santa Barbara in his leased BMW

[–]Troll_Name16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, because the guy(s) who widowed her won't spend any on her.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing says, "equality" like "especially women".

So she financially exploits her young son by forcing him to spend the piddly income he gets from doing chores on her fat ass.

At least we all know that "how to treat a woman" and "respect" are code words for buy us stuff and treat us like royalty while you pay for everything.

The good news is that someone will recognize him in a few years when he can't get laid and is a total beta loser momma's boy and maybe they'll send him our way.

Then we'll teach him how to respect women the right way.

[–]LegendaryContent30 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

I saw this on Facebook today. Here is one of her pics no fucking joke. It's public so should be OK to show.

[–]chances_are_ur_a_fag14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

legendary content right there

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do you know!

A tatto on her back...

is showing...

A

Red

flag.

[–]The_TRP_Account1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Duckface with the 6-year old and baby? I'm starting to hate this twat.

[–]bittr_n_swt61 points62 points  (7 children) | Copy

poor kid, hope he finds TRP

[–]Troll_Name35 points36 points  (1 child) | Copy

If anything, this kid is probably fast-tracked into finding accepting and internalizing the pill. The question is whether he'll be paying his ex-girlfriend child support for a chadlet before this happens.

[–]The_TRP_Account20 points21 points  (4 children) | Copy

I searched some of the text and found a 2hr old article about it. It's more upsetting seeing the kid reaching into his Spiderman wallet to pull out the cash (the only photo in the FB post, by the way.) Turns out the mom was on 16 & Pregnant (big surprise...and has a baby daughter, in addition.) The Facebook post is embedded into the article and it is just about at 1,600,000 likes after 16 hours...100,000/hour. Fortunately, there's some solid backlash in the top/most-liked comments. But it's still a steaming pile of shit spreading around to entitled female and beta male applause.

[–]bittr_n_swt9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

jesus christ over a million likes in 24 hour...can't people see she's ruining her kid ffs. This is like child abuse

[–]The_TRP_Account1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Actually, it hit 1,000,000 in under 12hrs.

Here we are at about 25hrs

[–]steelerfaninperu58 points59 points  (7 children) | Copy

Once a month my 6 year old daughter cooks dinner for me and her. She picks a recipe, finds the ingredients online, and I drive her to the store (of course because she's only 6 :D) to buy the groceries. She puts everything in the cart (except for the high shelf stuff) and brings it home.

I know she's a little young, but I put on Youtube videos for her to follow along with, and she can really cook quite well now. After she's done she has to do the dishes as well, because it's her mess and she made it. She's gotten really good with a scrubbing sponge. After that she fixes me a whiskey and massages my neck because she knows that daddy works extra hard to give her the money she needed for buying those groceries. Then I tell her that some day she'll have a daddy too and she'll need to keep him happy, and that this is the best way to do it. She'll never need anything else.

It's never too early to learn respect, especially for men/future-husbands. Too many girls today are focused on themselves and have no idea how to treat the person who provides for literally all of their things. It's nice to know my daughter won't be one of them.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

And the pedo accusations would roll in like tidal waves.

[–]steelerfaninperu13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can already feel the handcuffs tightening.

[–]The_TRP_Account1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do it! This will get 4 million likes in 24hrs vs the above 2 million, I guarantee it! /s

[–]Rob_Dead1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking priceless. I can almost smell the whisky breath on that leer through my monitor.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you're definitely going to jail :/

[–]JJRichard27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

I wonder what her definition of "abused" is? It's hilarious that people buy in to this crap...that there should be some kind of standard "men" must have when taking a woman out on a date. Of course the man has to pay for everything, or its not an up to standard date for the woman. The fact that she not only has a biased parenting system, but she has the audacity to flaunt how great of a job she is doing turning her kid into a beta. I feel bad for kids who have parents like this...that is to say there is definitely a progression in the amount of kids being raised by beta fathers and the mothers who completely own the relationship. When society is getting fucked because of shit like this, it becomes a problem.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon46 points47 points  (1 child) | Copy

I wonder what her definition of "abused" is?

Willingly submitted to hot rough sex, then dumped.

[–]Planner_Hammish116 points117 points  (46 children) | Copy

There's nothing wrong with teaching your son how to be a gentleman. TRP generally supports a traditional relationship dynamic, and as a result, the traditional gender roles need to be nurtured.

With that said however, there is more to being a gentleman than opening doors and paying for women. Much more: honour, integrity, strength, power, skill, courage... etc., which is not apparent as part of this mother's teaching.

Paying for things is a good part of a whole, but an insufficient part of becoming a man. It's part of abundance mentality. But this mother has framed her teaching as "respecting women" instead of "becoming a man", which I think is the core of what is wrong here.

The lack of the whole spectrum of teaching makes this sound like she is using her son as an emotional crutch; teaching him to fill a role that "a real man" refuses to because of whatever emotional issues or life choices she has made. It's emotional incest.

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (40 children) | Copy

Woman here -- question: how do you walk the line between teaching your son (hypothetical, I have no children) how to be an exemplary gentleman. I agree with the traditional gender roles bit; but if there is a disconnect between the action and the attitude it turns BB pretty quick.

Ie, my SO was taught by his mother to open doors for women, alongside all those other more important traits you listed (she's not American so it all came naturally). Without those, it turns into some sniveling BB showcasing their whippedness. Attitude/perspective makes the difference.

The best suggestion I've heard to promote masculinity as a female is to praise their father to your sons regularly. Speak of him as a hero and provider and essentially all the things you should say about a true head-of-the-house.

It would be important to me to teach them about being a strong traditional male, down to the etiquettes. But none of the other woo woo waa waa crap that turns them BP.

[–]Yoblad41 points42 points  (15 children) | Copy

I'm honestly not sure a boy can learn to become a well-rounded man from a woman. In this day and age it's a huge uphill battle because nobody is showing the girls how to be ladies. You really need to have both sides of the coin.

These "gentleman" actions of opening doors and paying for dinner are just superficial nothings. I think that's what you mean bout attitude vs action. There's a whole lot more to being a man than that shit.

Talking up the father figure may help but you're playing with fire because then it might seem that true strength and authority of a man is derived from the woman. The father figure's own actions and behavior should be all the validation needed. However, I do think that one should never belittle or speak negatively about the other parent in front of a child.

I think growing into a strong traditional male starts with having self respect first. Not being painted as some kind of ultimate provider.

[–]DewArmy 22 points22 points [recovered] | Copy

You're correct. Man learns to be a well rounded man by his father and other men.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

I agree but I would like to think there is a role the mother can play to help, or at least not harm the process.

edit: consider perhaps the example of a widowed woman, even that of a decently alpha military man. Or perhaps not even widowed, but her husband is actively serving overseas. What can she do to raise the best man possible? Go out and get some male role models to be sure (grandfathers, sports coaches, etc) -- but ultimately she is still the one raising him and living with him. How can she help ensure a quality upbringing?

[–]insoucianc12 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy

Make sure he's surrounded by strong men and involved in activities conducive to masculinity. He needs to see and experience how a man acts and talks, something a mother can never provide on her own.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Sounds about right -- well thank you for your input, I appreciate it

[–]insoucianc3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ideally you want a mix of what TRP calls alpha and beta traits so that your son can ultimately choose the relationship dynamic he likes best and so he's better able to adapt and understand male and female sexuality. Sports and School is good start to mixing the two, a powerlifting nerd has the world at his fingertips.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

a powerlifting nerd had the world at his fingertips.

Ain't that the truth. That's a really good point about offering him the resources to choose his own dynamic when the time comes. I don't have children currently, I just saw the topic being discussed and got a bit curious as a woman what constructive role can be played in the childrearing of males.

[–]insoucianc0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well you can certainly instill him with the qualities necessary to be a great human being, such as: strength, wit, class, integrity, curiosity, and love. The point of masculinity is to integrate all of these qualities to their theoretical maximum. Your main inhibitor as a mother is setting an example in the aspects that require more physical prowess, such as strength, and providing an example of how a man carries himself, for you do not share his male physiology or need to be physically stoic in order to attract women, so it would be hard for him to use you as an example when watching how a man courts women.

[–]iliketreeslikereally0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with the commenters below--talking to him is one thing, but he can only learn by watching and copying real men's behavior; it's one thing to hear "have self respect, don't do this, do that" and another to see a real person and discover the style, the expressions, the attitudes, the words that constitute whatever he's being taught to be, to see how you can ge away with things and how you can solve problems.

I say this from personal experience. I had no dad or granddad and on the rare occasions when I hung out with strong males it was a goldmine of learning--as a kid, you just copy adult men, try out their behaviors, see where it gets them and where it gets you, eventually you form a style of your own. No theoretic knowledge can ever substitute that.

[–]Gadnuk_5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

It must be mentioned that just because someone is male doesn't mean they are a strong masculine role model. Sometimes it's better to find your own role models in sports coaches etc. We all know that the world is full of toxic bluepill men, and these days not every father even has alpha status in their own homes, let alone society as a whole.

A dad is a necessary part of development because he teaches his son how to be a man, but if he only teaches his sons to be bluepill weiners it doesn't really help.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yes, the superficiality of it is precisely what I meant. Same as in RPW how we preach putting on a dress does not a feminine woman make. Self-respect and conduct matters beyond compare, but if you couple a self-respecting and confident man with the etiquettes of opening doors, etc (I wouldn't even put paying for meals on the list), then that's just going to be a quality person.

Spot on with never speaking negatively of parents though.

Thanks for your answer. I was actually just pondering all this the other day when I saw a television ad for the army. Obviously the ad showed the best of the best, but it did get me to thinking about the general decline in self-respect and respect for the service of others -- imagine comparing WW2 infantrymen vs that of today; there is such a disconnect. It's frustrating thinking about the uphill battle of both being and raising quality people. And I know every generation since the dawn of time laments that their era is the decline of society and the extinction of morals, blah blah blah -- and I do try not to be an alarmist in that camp....but the thought of childrearing amidst all the general fuckwittery of people and parents today...it makes me not want to bother.

[–]DarkuSchneider3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Raised sans father and detached beta-ish step dad. My mom later lamented when I was an adult how she wished I had more positive male role models in my life growing up since I didn't make her grand kids to spoil by 30. Even though my dad left when I was 5 for knocking up another woman she never spoke badly of him growing up, in fact she talked about all the good things about him and good times they had together but she also raised me in a way to make sure I would never be like him to the point of making me a paraplegic in the SMP. She did not do this by design, merely what she felt was the right thing to do at the time. She raised a good citizen who was emotionally empathetic and well adjusted enough to participate in society, but not be very competitive in it. It took years to deprogram the shame of conservative religion, feminist ideology, and dependency on female approval. I feel bad for the kid in this FB story he is gonna be screwed later as I had it good compared to him, holy cow.

Women can not raise a good man totally on her own like a man can not raise a good woman on his own, this is why both parents of solid frame is essential. At best they make good citizens on their own as women soften men and men harden women. Other positive role models or clubs can help fill the gaps with or without a good dad. Men and women often work under a fallacy that they experience and perceive/value life the exact same way as the other gender; it is simply not true and can never be due to biology. You can not pass on to your offspring what you do not have. The child must see and experience an environment that shows a working example of proper expected behavior and properly incentivized to follow those behaviors too. I know sounds easier said than done but that is the responsibility and challenge when someone decides to become a parent. A boy's mother is important as that is where he learns some of his domestic survival and relational social skills, empathy, and emotional competence as women are typically more experienced in these things but can soften the boy if coddled too much. A father teaches kids about discipline, responsibility, integrity, durable character, and how to deal with other men and be strong including against women that naturally will try to soften them. This is largely done via the child emulating the parents day to day behaviors.

If you plan on raising healthy children, then be a good woman find and find a good man who had a good family life growing up and keep well rounded role models around your family that are congruent to your values. For women who don't have this option but have a son they don't want to watch get rolled by the world later, find the strength and love you have for your child and don't coddle him or how to think like a woman and expose him to male spaces without your direct presence beyond familial support; boy scouts, JROTC, martial arts, good male family members, etc...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

That was a really comprehensive answer, I appreciate it a lot.

I'm not in too different position than you are (and my brother even more identical). Our dad was pretty much not around but our mom did a pretty good job all things considered, at least in terms of not trash talking him and trying to keep us involved in constructive extracurriculars.

Fortunately for your last point my SO comes from an amazing family background. His mom isn't American so they have very traditional values, but his father is so their isn't a huge cultural disconnect. I don't really have to worry about being a single mom (if we marry, have kids in a few years which I'm not currently thinking about). His upbringing means a lot to me because it makes up for a lot of what I missed out on in terms of male/female parenting dynamics.

I digress, but again, thank you again for your response and it's good to hear that despite the lack of father-figure your mom was able to do well enough that you didn't have a hell of an adjustment period (cough unlike the poor SOB 6 year old this post is about...)

[–]DarkuSchneider1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for that. Oh it was hard and it indeed nearly killed me and I wasted a lot of time but I survived it. I was always a late bloomer compared to my peers but I have made peace with it as I matured. We can not always control the cards we are dealt in life but we can cease the authority and wisdom to play them the best we can and find a way to come out for the better. Good luck.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She can definitely help raise her son properly by providing an example of how woman should act in a relationship. I agree that being a good role model is the best way to educate. If the father is the role model on how to be a man, the mother is the role model for how a woman should act. That way when the son's girl doesn't behave as she should (the way mother always behaved) he immediately knows and can react properly to bad behavior.

That would include sticking to the traditional gender roles like, always publicly deferring to the father, always looking to the father for a final decision after making her own suggestions, always deferring punishment to the father (wait until your father gets home), managing the kitchen, etc.

Tl;dr the woman has a separate but also important role in reinforcing how a proper woman should act.

[–]newsarticle210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I have beta-ish father and mother that had ulterior motives that definitely softened me. I was very shy and anti-social but I was a good people watcher and that's where I learned. I learned in school, I learned from movies and watching how 'alpha' characters operated, etc..

So it's possible for a kid to learn without a father figure and a mother trying to make him 'beta'.

I'm 26 now, and no kids, but I do entertain the thought of raising kinds one day. My belief, I'm sure everyone believes differently, is that the best way to raise a kid is by setting the right example. So instead of telling your kid to do nice things for girls, you need a father figure that treats his wife in the right way.

If you want a masculine kid, you need a masculine figure that can be a role model. You can't make your child something he is not (perhaps your child turns out to have low testosterone or something) and is unable to be masculine. But if there is a masculine figure around the household, and your child identifies himself as similar to that guy, he will naturally learn from him.

At the end of day, you can't make your kid masculine. You can only hope he has what it takes to be masculine and hopes he identifies with masculinity. If that's the case, he will naturally seek models for him to become more masculine, and of course you can help him find those role models (such as a good football coach or something), especially if there isn't such a role model at home. If you force him to be masculine when he turns out to be gay, you are going to get resentment but the other way.

I didn't have a masculine figure around, but I identified myself as masculine or wanted to be masculine. Naturally, I gravitated towards people that are masculine and started to mold myself in ways that masculine people do. People see what they want to see and what they see themselves as.

An easy way I think to see what type of personality your kid has, is to take him to the movies often. Movies have all sorts of personalities, and just ask him who he likes best and why. The person he likes best is probably the person he identifies himself as, and thus you can slowly figure out if your son sees himself as masculine, feminine, etc... Once you've figured that out, give him the right role models. The end goal is to make your son feel high self worth, valued, and have high esteem. Being a man has little to do with it. A non masculine male can still be very respected by both males and females if he is confident, believes in himself, knows who he is, knows how he feels about stuff, and knows what he wants. You don't want to confuse your kid by forcing him to be masculine when he is not or in this 6 year old's case, forcing him to be submissive when he may or may not be.

[–]CptSweetCheeksjr9 points10 points  (16 children) | Copy

Honestly most of the actual gentleman protocols are dead and more die every day. Just teach them to be polite and not betas.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (15 children) | Copy

and not betas

Therein lies the crux of my question; how does a female ensure she's not doing exactly that?

[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer12 points13 points  (14 children) | Copy

To be honest, you can't teach your son how to be a man, more than your dad could have taught you about being a woman.

 

Tell you what. You can send him to do martial arts. He'll learn discipline, grow physically healthy, and will be surrounded by men he can learn about being a man from.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

That's a good suggestion. I don't currently have kids or anything, I just saw the topic being discussed and it sparked my curiosity. Excellent points, thank you for taking the time to write it.

[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer1 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy

Why aren't you offended and outraged by trp like most other women?

[–]cnile_ 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy

Cause she prefers alphas to BP pussies probably.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Haha essentially I suppose. I'm a frequent poster at RPW and I found it right when my LTR with a decent alpha (never heard of Reddit or TRP though) was circling the toilet. I wanted to fix it and with the help of the red pill we are doing great.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Many people don't get reddit, yet if you bring up the concepts of TRP they shudder and repulse in terror. It feels good to know that more and more people are starting to use this to help improve their lives.

[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

circling the toilet. I wanted to fix it and with the help of the red pill we are doing great.

Why was it, how did you fix that?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because I'm a frequent poster in RPW and get that a lot of TRP is "locker room talk" the women shouldn't listen to. The fundamentals of it are still solid though. I don't come over here much for the above reasons but this post inspired a few questions that I'm lucky some commenters gave thoughtful responses on.

[–]Planner_Hammish0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think that's a great question and insight. I'm not a parent myself either, so take it with a grain of salt.

Men need a code of honour to live by. Boys learn this code as they grow up, and internalize the teachings that become their own moral compass. In order to get there, I think boys need to complete activities with other boys and men exclusively (i.e. no girls).

Boys need to learn to use their words, but also have the strength and skill to back up their words with physical force if necessary.

Boys need to be able to fail in a safe environment. They need to make mistakes and learn from them. Boys need to learn how to learn. To listen, follow directions, ask questions, and develop their skills. They need a mentor. And the mentor needs to continually challenge them, giving them tasks just outside of their comfort/skill level.

Boys need to be challenged to develop mental and physical toughness. Depussification (start at 11:50 for the point I'm trying to make here).

[–]epitalon 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

And yet another woman in the manosphere.

[–]Nicholas_0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

As someone who has a father luckily but was never really there for me and never taught me how to be a man (self-taught).

What are things that every man should be able to do / know?

[–]Planner_Hammish2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well, there is a lot. Way more than a reddit post can cover. I'd start here:

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2012/10/01/manly-honor-part-i-what-is-honor/

And once you've read about honour, I'd suggest immersing yourself in some classic literature; they are our stories, our collective history about how to live a virtuous life. How to deal with conflict, or how to live in civilization. Here are some examples of the things you could learn.

After that, I think I'd recommend that you learn how to be selfish. No More Mr. Nice Guy

And then I'd recommend the philosophy videos "Lessons of my Father" by Nutinfancy, starting with Depussification.

[–]Nicholas_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks very much, I really appreciate it.

Will start reading these right away.

[–]FeeFeeFeaster18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's never too early to teach your child how to properly respect others, especially women.

Did she go on to describe how she's teaching her son to respect men that deserve it? Nah, probably just about how to respect all women, whether they deserve it or not.

[–]DatAEK97121 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy

My mom told me women were like monkeys and most have an agenda and 90 percent of married women settle. Mom encouraged me to be a jock and musician. Mom always has my back with how I treat chicks. But.... Mom is top tier female that doesn't rely on man, but she also hates feminism, dad is a sigma male. Dad and mom crack me up. They're both very similar yet couldn't do the marriage thing. It's an enigma.

[–]newsarticle210 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Nice mom. So rare for women to be 'real' these days.

[–]DatAEK9710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's no BS with me. Always has been. I just thought that was normal for moms when I was a kid, but as I got into my teens and young adulthood I realised it wasn't. Most moms treat their sons like they do with their father's (the mother's husband/mate) they true to make them good guys and nice little earners for women.

Not my mom, lol.

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[–]hugeveinycock7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is exactly what I took out of it. She's a fucking dumb cunt and her son is going to end up an emotional disaster.

[–]Mitchell7817 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

The woman is a single mom right? So the little kid has to fill in, sounds real healthy for the kid.

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[–]learnux[S] 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's my point: No one would. You don't raise your children to be the Clown you would like to have and take advantage of.

[–]NAmember8115 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why is it everybody's fault but the woman's when she claims she was abused by men in situations where they can leave or avoid the incidents.

I remember getting bitched out when I was bartending when I just turned 21 and this girl came in for the 3nd time crying about how she was partying in a hotel room with a huge group of black guys with only her and and one of her friends and claiming how they sexually assaulted her and her friend that always dragged her to those places.

I just said "after the first couple times of getting raped in a hotel room full of black guys shouldn't you maybe be avoiding situations like that like the plague??"

And I got bitched at and shamed by both men and women for suggesting that maybe women should think before going to cheap and shady hotels in the ghetto to do drugs with groups of black men they just met.

[–]notrustled10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because women are not asking/venting to get answers, they only want to get validated emotionally. Feelz before realz. Also, guys whiteknight in hopes of getting pussy (spoiler: they won't get it).

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

And they are disgusted by the agency and responsibility and accountability you just insinuated they should use.

[–]rockinhard13012 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is some "Teen mom blogger" who apparently faked a second pregnancy. https://archive.is/lOtVG

[–]seriouswalnut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No this girl was on 16 and Pregnant but yes she faked a still birth

[–]Emporian 12 points12 points [recovered] | Copy

This screams like "mee look at mee, I'm a such a good person!! Give me attention, I teach my son to be a gentlemen. Look at mee! I'm a great mother!!!"

Bet she gets off on all those Facebook likes.

I'm not a native speaker but even I recognize a pattern in her writing. Either referring to herself directly or indirectly, hell, even through sentences like "It's never too early to teach your child how to properly respect other", she tries to imply "Look how good I teach my son!", everything is about her.

"Once a month my 6 year old son takes me out on a dinner date. He opens doors for me, pulls out my chair, talks about his day & asks me how mine was, pays the bill with money he earned by doing chores, and even tips the waiter/waitress. By doing this I am teaching him how to treat a lady & how to take her on a proper date. How to show (I show him!!!!) that he respects the woman he loves. We put our phone and iPad away and sit and talk to each other about our days, things we want to do, etc. I'm teaching him proper table manners and that it's rude to sit on your phone on a date with your mom (substitute for "me") or with anyone else. He learns the value of money and how to manage it. He learns how to do math as we add up what we want and make sure we have 15% of it to leave for a tip. Yes he is young but I believe this is something he should learn now. It's never too early to teach your child how to properly respect others, especially women. As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past, it's extremely important to me that I teach my son how to show respect. Too many men these days have no idea how to treat women or how to take them on a nice date. It's nice to know my son won't be one of them."

[–]fillymandee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bet she gets off on all those Facebook likes.

Everybody on Facebook does this.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past, it's extremely important to me that I teach my son how to show respect.

The mother is projecting...hard.

The son is suffering to accommodate for his mother's mental health (or lack thereof).

[–][deleted] 71 points72 points  (32 children) | Copy

This is why the Redpill philosophy will never go mainstream.

Sure ,I'd love it if men all rose up and said "NO" to the Female Imperative and its BS. It'll never happen for the reason above. Don't think for a moment that is the only household doing this. By the time he grows up, not only will this kid have a profoundly warped viewpoint of women -so will his male peers! An entire generation of doormat manginae unfit for anything except being a Butler for women.

This is how Masculinity dies, to the thunderous applause of betaized drones raised to be BetaBucks.

[–]mugatucrazypills11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

can you even imagine the gender reversal on this ?

"I've been treated really badly by bitches, one a month I make my infant daughter cook me a dinner with money she makes scrubbing floors with chemicals over a gas stove and serve me beer, I'm teaching her to dress properly for these dates in a way that the men she will meet later in life deserve"

cue handcuffs, squadcar, etc

[–]TheRedChemist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't even think of it that way. Incredible.

[–]spurdosparade21 points22 points  (23 children) | Copy

The thing is that are Alphas who made our race survive until now. Are we witnessing the end of the Humanity?

[–]ColdEiric23 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

First they will have to kill TRP.

And that is not happening while I'm breathing.

Eventually we will become mainstream. When enough of these children of raised on BP either joins us or lose against us.

[–]BoTuLoX15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's always been mainstream, since the dawn of mankind. With the extremely recent promotion of individualism, betas just got less and less of a chance to hear the truths they'd normally hear from family or friends. TRP is just Internet presence for the laws that govern gender relations, so it's exposing more people to them in a different way.

However they will never be universal, it is human nature for different roles to exist.

[–]AlphaJesus10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

The 5 wisdom books of the bible are ancient Red Pill texts. The curse of Solomon is a red pill lens.

Honestly in light of the Truth of evolution I think the only reason the bible and christianity has survived so long is because of the ancient red pill wisdom contained within.

All red pill means is understanding human nature for what it is and as a man its specifics are in regard to the nature of women.

He who increases knowledge increases sorrow and with much wisdom is much vexation.

Wake up neo.

[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

First they will have to kill TRP. And that is not happening while I'm breathing.

Have you seen the "Harvard Social Justice Tablemats"? THAT is mainstream.

As a BP Child raised on BP you were taught "If buying her stuff doesn't work, you're not buying enough". Face it man, there's a growing BP army. Enjoy the decline, don't hold your breath.

[–]ColdEiric1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

And?

That's just a proof that Harvard is dying.

[–]TheRedChemist15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

No. I think all of us, even in our deepest blue pill days, felt that something was wrong with the status quo. We can feel it. In our blood, in our bones. And it literally is - because our masculinity, that special Y chromosome, pervades every cell in our entire bodies.

We try to play along, play by the rules and guidelines that society sets out telling us how to court women. But it doesn't work. And, because we are creatures of logic and action, we strive to understand why, and to implement a solution. Some men may never be pushed far enough, may never fall hard enough, to allow themselves to really question the blue pill conditioning they've been indoctrinated with since birth.

But many will. Some in their twilight years. Some are lucky and arrive at that point early, at the very dawn of their adult lives. And as the feminine imperative continues to push harder and further, more and more men will be pushed over the edge, encouraged by that feeling of wrongness in their very cells. They'll experiment with listening to their own biology instead of their society, and they'll reap that first joyful moment when they discover that this is how it was supposed to be all along. Men AND women both prefer it that way, we're just out of touch with it and not allowed to publicly express it. Yet.

The species is safe.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. I was depressed for 8 years or so until last March when I was 21. I was raised the be a "good" guy. Polite, respectful, do no harm. I was never so stupid that I couldn't see the world for what it was, but I could never let go of the fantasy of it being perfect. All it took was a girl to completely rip my heart out and a stumble to find this place. Never have I been happier, than when I started to play on everyone else's level and stopped apologizing and ethically rationalizing away my needs and wants.

[–]SyllableLogic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel that it's like approaching the speed of light in concept. The closer they get towards the heart of masculinity, the less and less it can be influenced sociologically. You can't argue oppression with a y-chromosome, it isn't listening. So they will experience diminishing returns for increased effort the farther along they go down this rabbit hole IMO.

It should also be noted that repression generally leads to rebellion and i feel that all this push to end masculinity will end in a push in the opposite direction. I don't think the anti-masculinity crowd has any control beyond social shame and if you push men out of society then you lose that control. Basically i'm not worried because in my eye's they are digging their own grave as we speak.

[–]LazyMagus2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Whatever trait helps humanity, will survive. Sooner or later.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are we witnessing the end of the Humanity?

No, there have always been Alphas and there will always be Betas.

Guess whose leaving their genes behind?

[–]Oneshotduckhunter0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

But if the world's population is growing and it's assumed that betas are outnumbering alphas (none of which I care about as it doesn't effect my life) then are you getting outnumbered? Sorry but your logic just doesn't make sense.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

An Alpha isn't something you're born as, it's something you become.

Alphas will have a better chance in leaving behind their genes and raising their children properly, and even if Betas do have children (because it's not a zero sum game), there's still the chance that their children will become Alphas anyway.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, the sex bots will satiate most the of the male sexual hunger, and we'll have a golden age of masculinity when the betas don't give a fuck about women anymore.

[–]foldpak1111 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Humanity needs us now more than ever. We're like supermen. The bar is set pretty low. All you really have to do eat right, lift, sleep, meditate, make money, and when little boys see you, biology will kick in. They will want in. They will want to be you when they grow up. Well, most. I've met some beta's who were severely indoctrinated.

[–]RedMoonAscendant0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

How do you get that? Betas made our race survive until now. Alphas are only the cohesive societal unit in small packs.

EDIT: Go look at all the bankers, lawyers, judges, politicians of the United States (if I have to argue the USA is the top of the heap in the world, then we have a very fundamental disagreement).

They are nearly 100% betas. Look at how much Trump stands out among them.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

My father is engaged to a woman who has also has a single child, but a girl who's approximately 28 with a child (8 or 9 I think), who lives two doors down.

I started spending a lot of time with my dad, going over and having dinner. I've noticed her kid will hang out after dinner for an hour or two, watch football or whatever else we're watching on TV, or discussing. This kid seems like he's actually in a good position to throw out the blue pill early, he plays contact football and already has quality masculine traits developing. I plan to take him out shooting to the desert some time and plink with my .22. I don't see it as "raising another person's spawn" but rather see it more like a coach sees his team.

I think a lot of men on this sub should realize we can do a lot to reverse the downward spiral.

I've started using this time to discuss masculine topics, like Jack Donovan Way of Men stuff, I honestly think the "find a tribe" mentality is going to be the way to save Masculinity.

[–]Marcus_Fartrelius0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like the competition is gettting worse, dont see how this is bad. As long as the option to choose the red pill is available, I dont see a problem with people withdrawing from the game.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No one has time for that. Too big of pussy addicts.

[–]rosarywan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is one theory about it, but hear the devil's advocate of this point-- one or two generations of tired betas/bloopers who haven't gotten pussy, seen RP truths after being divorce raped, etc. and suddenly feminism loses a lot of steam with the general public. This may be entirely wrong, though, since a lot of bloopers believe in this feminist horseshit in a diehard way, but it's plausible that things will go this way with an increasing number of angry, blue-balled betas tired of whacking it all day.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So true! When I was in middle school, we had to take a girl to a dance and they made us pull the chair for her and bring them food. This shit was in a "public" school! I can't believe they made us do it, fuck those teachers, I wish I was making this up!

[–]Mr_Donnerhuhn22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good to know this mother knows how to take care of everyone, except her son.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is an extreme example of what 99% of mothers do to their sons.

Everything is about how to support the woman, nothing is about how to be attractive.

I suspect but can't prove that this woman is doing all this entirely for herself, and not even for the benefit of the women this kid will never have the opportunity to date.

[–]foldpak1112 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

That is exactly what is going on. Single mothers will end the fuckin' human race.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

In my lifetime, single motherhood has gone from a point of shame to a point of pride... and in that time fathers have gone from the leaders of the family to a figure of ridicule at best, alienation and vilification at worst.

It's disgusting how badly fathers are treated. On the word of a single woman, a loyal and trustworthy man is labelled a deadbeat dad and his life is irrevocably changed from father to wageslave, nothing more than someone who earns money on threat of jail to support an ex wife who poisons the children he supports against him.

And is this changing? Is it fuck... instead we're told to "man up" and to "grow up" and to "date single mothers". As their value goes down, their entitlement goes up.

I for one shall not be participating in this laughably unfair system. Society has set the rules against me, so I choose to play by my own. And they don't involve signing an unfair contract that gets more unfair by the decade.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Truer words have not been spoken.

[–]Equilibriun10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Chickfila does mother son date "knight" all the time. Literally training white knights of the future

[–]1kick610 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

What a selfish cunt. "I give me kid an allowance that he has to turn around and spend on me."

[–]1Paid_Internet_Troll5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not even an allowance; it's money earned by doing chores.

[–]J_AsapGem17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

" how to be a doormat for a post-wall slut 101 " if it's one thing i've learned is this.. it's not about what you do for these bitches, it's about what fucking turns them on, that's all that matters nothing else. All about vagina tingles.

[–]EnlightenedViking8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

15% tip.

Explained to co-worker women are notoriously bad at tipping. She disagreed. Next time it was her turn to buy(company expensed)...she blanked them for a tip

[–]JimiJons8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kid is gonna grow up resenting his mother and hating women.

[–]DonaldJTrump2k167 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

In a just society, there would be nothing wrong with this. In a just society where women chose men based on their character, sure, this would be a good idea.

But we do not live in such a society. We live in a society where feminism is replacing religion as the dominant ideology, we live in a society of hypergamy and women who act on their natural instincts of craving alpha cock. AWALT.

The mother is setting her son up for failure. Where are the stories of women raising their daughters to not ride the cock carousel? There are none because that goes against feminism. This article is a feminist's dream.

[–]EveningMind0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Plenty of girls are taught not to do that. You just don't see them because they socialize in different places and fashions than girls who are going out to party hard. Or alternately, they're the wingmen (wing women?) of their friends who are out to party hard. They're going home alone or going home with friends, so they don't register on the radar of guys because they're not out to reel a dude in.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hopefully he noticed the men who abused and treated his mom like crap.

Just a small seed to germinate when his primary strategy fails

[–]DanG30 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Edit: > Hopefully he noticed the men who abused and treated his mom like crap [and spawned him].

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Giving you a point.

Of course, the kids dad is probably the most abusive bastard of all the thugs who chucked and fucked her.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

This just means less competition for my son.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the problem with mothers teaching daughters how to treat women and not fathers. It's estrogen filled and sad tbh.

[–]w86753095 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Saw that, and she posted an accompanying picture of him rummaging through his little wallet

[–]ShitlordRick5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great! In 12 years he can LTR some single mother and take care of her bastard child. The cycle never ends.

[–]An_All-Beef_Engineer5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past,

Had a hard fall off the carousel. Her son shall pay dearly for it.

[–]cashmoney_x5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

"especially women"

That should be feminism's tagline because whenever they talk about equality this is the part they leave out.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

So does she then give her Son a blowjob as soon as they get home to show him how a Lady should act? Is that not implied?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She probably barks at him, ensuring he will go for women who do the same later in life. From this early an age being taught to expect women to nag you for being a 'gentleman' is setting him up for failure.

[–]Redsqa6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This makes me sick. What the fuck is this bullcrap ? Not only is this disgusting from a feminine entitlement point of view, this is crypto-incest. Single mother is literally using her son to fulfill a beta boyfriend role, and at the same time she's getting revenge against his chad of a father who pumped and dumped her. She couldn't tame him so she's taming his seed.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next thing you know she'll teach him how to cut off his balls so he doesn't turn into a man.

Sickening.

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[–]ljgibbs5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This 'mom' has her son who earns money via allowance use his allowance on taking her on a date? Well that's Finance 101, you as a man earn money and have it forcibly spent lavishly on the woman you love.

[–]blackhawks934 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why is it that when you give a woman everything she wants, and your heart, she will mistreat you? All women claim that they want everything listed above, but if you are actually stupid enough to do it, you will always get friend zoned. Is it a "you want what you can't have" thing?

[–]TheRedChemist5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

These behaviours are beta male and just fundamentally unsexy.

When you initially start behaving this way, it's a thrill for her - she's tamed you. Women (think they) want the bad boy that's nice only to them - just like men want a girl who's a lady to everyone else and a freaky slut just for them.

Over time as your alpha qualities slowly get replaced by the beta ones, she's not having to win you over anymore. Now you're just a beta. What are betas? Unsexy.

If you can play it right and remain alpha in most of your behaviour but sprinkle in a few beta tidbits, she'll theoretically keep enjoying that taming phase for as long as possible.

[–]1InscrutablePUA4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why single motherhood is such a destructive force

[–]Isaiah4verse13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male children are surrogate husbands to most women.

[–]shelcod4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

If a man made his 6 year old daughter take him out for supper with her allowance it would be seen as abuse. Stuff like this shouldn't be considered acceptable no matter what the gender is.

[–]ghostbrainalpha2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

20 years later this kid stars in a new Netflix documentary.

"The Making Of A Serial Killer Rapist"

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Some are saying he will be the classic nice friend zoned guy forever.

What I think will happen though is that he will spend the rest of is life dating his mother.

[–]foldpak1110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is no father in the picture (as usual) so I wouldn't doubt it.

[–]Stythe4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

The problem is that she's essentially indoctrinating the child in the same way religious zealots or racists indoctrinate their kids. That child will always assume this is how women are to be treated (and have some serious mommy issues to maintain that due to him getting love and respect when he treats his mom this way and punishment when he doesn't) and hate himself when he gets treated like dirt by girls while trying to do what he was trained to believe is the right thing.

Just another case of a mother who was, according to her, abused by a bunch of guys that SHE chose to interact with due to her own lack of self-awareness and biological attraction ques. In the meantime however, she gets all the romance and attention she wanted (and could have had if she chose to work hard to maintain a relationship with a worthwhile man in the first place) from her son, which isn't creepy at all or anything... But hey, at least she can be in CONTROL of everything here, since her son is her property until he's 18, his money is what she CHOOSES to give him for the chores she CHOOSES for him, she gets to eat at the places she CHOOSES to be taken out to dinner for and he's the learning the behaviours he CHOOSES for him. Then when he's older and a sad lonely virgin, hates his life and can't understand why, he can continue to provide for the only woman that will want him. His dear sweet mommy, who raised him so well and will reassure him that's he's fine just the way he is and someone will come along that's just right for him. And she's probably right. Someone will eventually decide his money is enough for them and keep him around.

[–]rigit234 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kid will a new member here in 15 years after he gets tired of spending money on women only to have them fuck his best friend.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be raised by a narcissistic single mom - check

Kill people out after suffering long years of resentment and then kill self before the police gets to you - in progress.

[–]billcosbyeatsbabies3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

can't wait until life bitch slaps this poor fuckin kid square in the jaw

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's overcompensating for being railroaded by a 1,000 men by raising her son to be a spineless faggot. The type of man she was never herself attracted to, otherwise she wouldn't be a single mother with two kids. Procreated with a wolf but, raising her son to be a lamb. God help him. Hopefully he'll find TRP in 15 years.

[–]Mudane3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

A mother can not raise a man.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

And imagine what would happen if I adopt a black kid and teach it to respect the White Man in every way possible.

[–]1favours_of_the_moon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never posted here before but just stumbled on FB over this. Try to imagine any post like this about teaching a 6yr old girl how to "properly" show respect to men...

Sick indeed. I was gonna offer a psychoanalysis of this mom, but really, why bother? LOL

[–]scarletspider32 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

She says she teaching him to respect others, especially women of course. Yet she doesn't realize that it was the abusive asshole that she was attracted to enough to have a child with. Sad part is that in about ten years it's gonna be us to help him unlearn all that beta pussy drying shit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is if he doesen't kill any one and then commit suicide out of frustration.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

been abused & treated like crap in the past,

By the football team as you begged for more?

[–]notrustled2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay, this is truly something special. I already knew single moms are crazy, but this...I'm completely stunned.

By doing this I am teaching him how to treat a lady & how to take her on a proper date. How to show that he respects the woman he loves (right now that would be mommy).

"Aww, look at me how I abuse my 6 year old son from fuck knows which Chad of the past, am I doing it right? Please validate me and say that I'm right! I feel so lonely and miserable:((("

As a woman who has been blah blah blah

"Hey, even though this post was originally about my son, did you know that I was a cumdumpster for the Chads of Skankville? Now feel bad for me!"

Too many men these days have no idea how to treat women

And your son's gonna be one of them thanks to your immaculate parenting. Way to induce some heavyweight mommy issues and set him up for failure.

Fuck single moms. No, not in the way normal people like being fucked.

[–]illmatic7082 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

How about sparing a 20% tip instead of 15, for the server that has to put up with your stupid ass for an hour

[–]milugan2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Someone is going to hate her mother once he finds out everything was a lie

[–]mechanical_Fred2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

her six year old son has a phone?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

http://imgur.com/DAdGUFv

Couldn`t help myself, let the shitstorm begin.

[–]praiseth3sun2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a former server, some of this isn't terrible. Teaching them the value of tipping, table manners, and social skills. I've seen too many grown people lacking any of those skills.

However, what is wrong is (presumably) forcing your child to do this before he can understand the meaning of it. It's emotionally crippling, and something that can only negatively affect him

[–]Musicgoon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Robert Glover wrote about young men growing up monogamous to their mothers. This poor kid will grow up to be a supplicating unhappy Nice Guy. This is sad; Young boys growing up without a positive male influence. And the feminist herd will give this mother praise and a spotlight for inevitably damaging her son.

The worst part of this, the facebook post is for the mothers own narcissistic attention. It's not about her son at all.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I was in an abusive relationship once. It took a while afterwards for me to realize that, while it was indeed something that happened to me, I ultimately allowed it to happen by choosing the girl. I said yes, and the only way to prevent it from happening again was to work out why I said yes; why I chose someone like that. Admitting that I was responsible was a liberating experience, because it meant that I was in control and that I could prevent it. This subreddit helped me reach that realization.

What this woman is doing is the total fuck-opposite. She is pinning her abuse, not on her misguided choices, but on "teehee, men are all jerks!" Her means of dealing with her past trauma at some point became a masturbatory quest of self validation and will not only guarantee that she will choose to be abused again (and we here all know that she will), but it will be at the expense of her poor six year old boy.

Kid doesn't stand a fucking chance. If this were a father doing the exact same thing to his daughter, society would consider it child abuse.

[–]evilkenevil3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck that noise. This is the new millenium! Women are equals! Teach him to split the fucking bill in half and tip 20%+ depending on service. Cheapskate ladies never tip right.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This would be fine if she also pledged to teach her little girls how to be ladylike, to not be whores, and that it's not rape just because she realized he was ugly / not a feminist in the morning.

But of course, we know that won't happen.

There's nothing wrong with what she's doing, but there's everything wrong with her reasoning and the mindset behind it.

[–]foldpak1111 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kid's going to get friendzoned left and right.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Wouldn't it be hilarious if she told him that she's just not ready for a relationship right now and needs a break to figure herself out? After a few dates where he caters to everything.

Or he'll see her on a date with his ripped friend from elementary school.

[–]TheRedChemist2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

After 6 months of this where he's actually grown to quite like it, all of a sudden mommy starts spending more time trying to help his classmate Brett who punched her for telling him not to cuss when she was picking them up after soccer practice.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're just too nice for me honey.

But I'm sure that someday you will make some girl happy. I just know it. Just don't change, be yourself.

Goodbye.

And so begins his 20 year long jurney through hell.

[–]eccentricrealist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with the mom that respect is important. I agree that money management is important. I agree being interesting and not being a dick all around (if that's the lifestyle you want to lead) is important. What I don't agree with is conditioning your son to blow all his money on a woman as soon as he earns it, show him there's other methods. Also, don't spend your son's chore money on fucking dinner dates with his mom, fucking hell.

[–]GrandmasterHurricane1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The problem with this isn't that he's learning how to be a "gentleman". The problem is that he's being led to believe that all women are "ladies" and deserve that type of treatment when in reality most wouldn't know how to appreciate it.

Let's be honest, there are a handful of sweethearts out there that deserve to be treated like princesses once in a while. But most women don't deserve anything close to that, and the distinction has to be pointed out. Treat a whore like a lady and she will laugh at you behind your back with her gfs and bfs. Treat an actual lady like a lady every now and then and you reinforce your value in her eyes. I say every now and then because there needs to be a balance between AF and BB.

[–]Ratcliff011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm not worried. That kid will find this place eventually.

[–]bearmanpig41 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why doesn't anyone wait a bit and make a post with comparable lessons and genders reversed, then when people lose their shit link this asking "what's the difference"?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Imagine how glorious their reactions would be if a father wrote this:

"I teach my 6 year old girl to go out only with short guys under 5ft 9in, because taller men are often jerks"

"I forbid her to wear any makeup or high heels in the future because that is deceiving the man"

"I teach her to follow her carrer and be independent and to be as masculine as she can preferably not to shave her armpits"

It's about the equivalent. But I bet that she'd still get laid.

[–]1Paid_Internet_Troll0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why doesn't anyone wait a bit and make a post with comparable lessons and genders reversed

Because posting something like that would get you investigated by Child Protective Services the next morning.

[–]The_Junto1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Poor kid never had a chance smh.

[–]Adolf_ghandi1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is nothing wrong with that as long as she also teaches him how to identify a "lady" and how to treat the other bitches that are not worth this treatment.

Which will of course be omitted.

[–]darbymowell1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I posted this to cringepics and was shouted down. I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one who thought it was extremely weird.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't really feel any funny reading this.

One more slave rat is created that will eventually need multiple personal tragedies and failures to understand what this is all about.

Perhaps i'm empathizing with him because altough not so extreme i had my 2cents of that by my mother, lol. And it stunted me. This guy gonna have some major troubles if he doesn't get some revelations early on.

[–]beepboopthrowaway111 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

For what its worth, the girl who posted this is Nikkole Paulun from the 16 and pregnant franchise, who is infamous for faking an entire pregnancy and stillbirth for publicity and money to get back at her fuck buddy after he had moved on to another girl. She has never had to answer for it despite overwhelming evidence against her.

What Im saying is, this bitch is batshit crazy and this is the least of her craziness. She's a red pill nightmare.

[–]neptunesunrise1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

People wonder why I don't feel enthusiasm about raising another generation.

[–]_TheEndGame1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Brb kid chooses to be gay instead

[–]Overzealous_BlackGuy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How is he supposed to understand that things like chivalry is conditional, how is he supposed to understand that you dont treat a woman like this because of some genetic differences. How is he supposed to understand that his place in a relationship is just as important. He works all month (probably doing chores and handlingbher shit) to take out his own mother and hes being told this is normal because shes a woman.

[–]BlueFreedom4201 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Single Mothers! coming to a liberal western democracy near you!

[–]Skater_Goy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"how to properly respect others, especially women."

A woman cares more about women than about men, in spite of being a mother to a future man. In precisely the opposite of good parenting she demonstrates that it's not about the child, but about herself. Which leads me to:

"As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past, it's extremely important to me that I teach my son how to show respect."

In other words, "ME ME ME ME ME!!1!"

"Too many men these days have no idea how to treat women"

A solipsist expects the entire world to conform to her standards. Who woulda thunk.

[–]xfLyFPS1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great going there fucktard, the kid will do an Elliot Rodgers before college.

[–]herewegoaga1n1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That kid is gonna have so many motherfucking problems growing up.

[–]CornyHoosier1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As an only-male-child to a single mother ... I exactly know how this story plays out. I love my mother to death, but no woman alive wants her man to treat her like she is his mother.

[–]Fuggernugger1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's taking out her own insecurities on him. I feel bad for the kid.

[–]sirencow1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And then he discovered TRP 15 years later and hates her for life .

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What kind of parent makes their 6 year old child pay for their dinner?

[–]ThrashingBlumpkins1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna venture off into TRP here. RIP me.

Seriously, I wouldn't have minded if my parents did this to me. That being said, I see no problems with both roles being reversed here, either. The child learns how to take a significant other out for dinner, learns the monetary value of a lot of things, assumably gas, appetizer, drinks, the meal, dessert, and the tip. I do wish this wasn't "how to treat a lady", but rather "how to treat a significant other", "how to treat family", or "how to use basic human decency". Honestly, I could see myself doing this with both my sons and daughters when I become a father.

I'm going to add a disclaimer that while I know this goes against TRP views and can expect to be downvoted massively, that's fine, because this is Reddit and the points don't matter, so I won't be commenting further.

[–]Eugenics20151 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do women like this even love their sons? I'm starting to feel like the female own group bias supercedes even the familial bias sometimes.

this kid is gunna get emotionally raped the second he hits the dating scene.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hopefully this kid ends up with a 9+ SMV and he can get away with nonsense like this. If he's anything below that, he's headed for chumpsville.

[–]FlutiePibbles1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

Teaching my kid how to be a shitty tipper. 15% to watch a creepy incest date? Fuck you

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[–]FlutiePibbles0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

You must not live in the US. Servers are paid $5.03 an hour here. That being said I make double what an elementary school teacher does, usually around $40/hour when you do the math after tips.

Yea I'll keep my fake job...

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[–]FlutiePibbles0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I make 90% of my money from tips, and I have a day job that is supplemented by serving at night. In America, tipping 20% is the standard, then if you receive exceptional service you give more.

You seem like you're real fun to go out to dinner with, if you think that all servers are below you.

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[–]FlutiePibbles0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No arguing with bitter, angry people.

That's all for me.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My single mother taught me all of this already, my 4 older sisters taught me all of this already. I'm still trying to reprogram myself to not hold doors for women or help them up. Just yesterday I did it when 2 women dumped thier cart in the parking lot 5 feet away from me. My programming instantly sent me to the rescue and I caught the cart. Then reality set in at the sound of "You're so sweet" and every cheating whore who told me they loved me because I'm so sensual and sweet flashed through my head slapping me across the face and gave me just enough time to remember not to hold the door for them.

We will hear his story in 20-30 years if he doesn't kill himself. She is setting him up to be used and destroyed. This should be considered child abuse in the modern age.

[–]Kingoffistycuffs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is one and only one good thing she's teaching him. It's shitty to be face deep in your phone on a "date" that one little piece of spine might one day save this poor kid.

[–]benczi0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is a typical made up story. Complete fiction.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe but...1 million shares

[–]shadowz1510 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is how ed gein started.

Mudvayne nothing to gein: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=19FOGcY2zFU

[–]DarkuSchneider0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Man this poor kid is gonna be so screwed later barring a miracle. Teaching manners and etiquette or even economics is one thing but this is emotional incest/abuse. She is projecting her experiences and expectations on to the kid and he is serving the sentence for those 'bad men'. I know how this story can go watching it play out many times growing up and experiencing this some personally. The tragedy is she is convinced she is doing the right thing and will only regret it later when it produces the opposite outcome.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a future cuckboy.

[–]RustScientist0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So this kids going to have a great time dating men who don't expect all the bullshit women do? Just my guess.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let's shoot him a link on his read rainbow.com profile

[–]Rusty_Sparx0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is weird but it made me consider how the inverse would apply. A girl with no mother-figure in her life being taught how to handle a man. Question for TRP dads with daughters. Are you teaching them RP? Again weird, but interesting.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is an RP parenting sub

[–]EveningMind0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think the girl version of learning to socialize with men as potential partners (which is what I think mom is attempting to teach) is actually less controversial than people are making it out to be.

Maintain interesting and compelling conversation: no one likes talking to a wall. Dress in a manner that reflects well on you and your date: if you expect to be treated like you have class, dress like it. Let the man direct the night's activities, assuming he's the one that requested to spend the evening together: it's respectful and validating. etc.

It's a shame more people don't teach these things. This is basic respectful behavior, both of oneself and your date.

[–]KurrKurr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This scars a child. How can he have a normal date in the future? He'll always think of mommy during a date.
If he can't shut up about it, the girl will be turned off (he probably too). If he can, only he will be turned off. (Or does anybody think about their mother during sex??).

That's child abuse in my book.

[–]plein_old0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm on board for some of this - like putting away the phone during dinner - but isn't this dad's job?

Where's dad?

[–]Brap1800 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One of the very few times that I've actually cringed hard in real life.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I read this and was disgusted

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bet the mom's new husband (the kid's step dad) fucks her anyway while the kid sleeps alone

[–]beeker6290 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Billys been a bad boy! He's been playing with his evil peepee again?!?!" I don't remember what movie this was from. But Baretta was in it. About him bring a crazy killer.

Why does this come to mind when I read this?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Case study in female power grasping. Control children, turn anyone else into an emotional child.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

On the positive side though there are some good lessons being learned there. He is apparently learning that you need to work for your money, and being taught the value of it through work. And it is rude to be on your phone/whatever device when you're supposed to be spending time with someone else. That said there's a difference between respecting someone you care for, which anyone in a committed relationship should, and allowing someone to control you which she is conditioning him to do.

[–]Mudane0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think that what she's teaching is fine. However teach the boy that just like you are treating the woman with respect. Expect absolutely nothing less. And to not settle for less. Teach the boy when he is older that women is not everything and thiers manu fish in the sea. And to also teach him to carry and develop him self into someone of value. Haveing traits like smart,healthy ,strong,. Also to teach him how not to be tooken advatage if just for his money. With all that stuff the mom ia doing just throw the red pill book of life in his mind too lol.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hope there is a lady in training, otherwise, he will be paying for the rest of his life!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I saw that too. Honestly her entire profile is a TRP goldmine.

[–]CastratedBetaOrbiter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is how single moms who got pumped repeatedly by Chads and then dumped want to raise their kids...to be Beta Bobs?

LOL.

40.6% of USA births are to unmarried women in 2013. That's a lot of new Beta Bobs.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wtf!!!!! So she gives him money, then tells him what to do with it??

If it was a girl would she teach her to leach off men for free lunches and then never talk to the guy again, just for free food??

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

To said mother I say, let society teach him that, it's your responsibility to teach your children how to discern poppycock from what works. Don't be remiss in your responsibility.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can relate to this. My mother sounds exactly like this women and I can say she's a product of getting used by Alpha men so in return she's trying to turn her son into the antithesis of all the men who she feels wronged her but who she nevertheless craved the cock of

[–]exilesoul0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i can this kid in thirty years time, mouth wrapped around the barrel of a shot gun

[–]AnonymousAndLovinIt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She got one thing right

" Too many men these days have no idea how to treat women"

[–]The_Red_Paw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What he is learning is that if a woman doesn't put out by date 3 you dump her. He's only 6, but he'll figure it out before he's 10 and be banging sloots in 6th grade.

Then she can be a gramma at 30.

[–]Mr_Fun_Phd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Will be interesting to see what wins out: the genetic seed of the alpha who pumped and dumped her:

As a woman who has been abused & treated like crap in the past

or the single mom conditioning that even the great soviet union couldn't do any better

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I don't know which is worse, reading this post which fit me to a T growing up, or reading all of the comments below, knowing how other guys were undoubtedly fucking the girls I liked. Because I was that boy, who grew into a man still believing that women actually wanted to be treated with respect and kindness. That boy has no idea of the amount of pain and heartache he will have to go through in his future years, and my heart reaches out to him. I hope he stumbles across red pill someday, and I hope it's before he gets older like I did.

[–]Grompher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She is training him to stay off his phone when in a date. Girls need to learn this. They are on their phone at all times.

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One thing OP forgot to mention, which I think was important, is that apparently she's a "16 and Pregnant" Mom.

This add more context to the situation, and frankly only makes it worse, because she hasn't learned anything since having a child - in the six years it's been since.

I read the post - Twilight had better prose. Upon glancing at the picture, I thought it was a Vargas-like spiel (the picture looked like a meme), but apparently it was very, very real...

[–]slcjosh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This chick was on MTV for 16 and pregnant. That's all you really need to know.



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