Summary
Round and round the carousel goes. Who's in line next? No one knows. But know this. There is a line, and it will shuffle forward. The music will commence and the carousel will spin once again, continuing in your absence.
Place your quarters inside. Hop on the ride. Enjoy it while it lasts.
Blog Article: http://www.redpilldoctor.com/shes-not-yours-its-just-your-turn-the-glass-is-already-broken/
Body
I see guys consumed by the thoughts of another man caressing her, kissing her lips, receiving her touch -- her love. The mere thought of 'their' girl giving herself to another man to enjoy drives them mad with jealousy, even anger.
I see guys confront any man suspected of making the moves on 'their' girl, demanding to know who he his, how she knows him, and what she's doing with him. They make cringe-worthy attempts to AMOG or mate guard. They even get into fist fights, especially after they found out about her 'indiscretions'.
I even see guys talk about planting spyware on 'their' girl's phone or computer, gaining access to her social media, and a plethora of other methodologies to keep tabs on 'their' woman, on this very sub.
This is nonsense, a complete waste of time and energy, a demonstration of scarcity mentality, and based on the faulty premise that she was his. Understand this, she's not yours, it's just your turn.
If a girl wants to cheat, she will. Without remorse. Any decent looking woman will be bombarded by a horde of male suitors attempting to win her vaginal affections. They're messaging her on social media, texting her, flirting with her on the street, talking to her at the bar, being extra nice to her at work. She even has a few backups on her phone. She is just one phone call, one text, one IM, one approach away from getting a dicking from somebody else. It's an ever-present phenomenon. It always has been. It is.
Women are fickle. Their feelings change in a sporadic manner. Women find other men attractive (shocker, I know).
You do not own her. You do not have control over her feelings. Her feelings will change over time and she has every right to change her mind as she sees fit, just like you.
So stop worrying about it. All you can do is be the best version of yourself, utilize your TRP toolbox, then set your boundaries early and draw the line. Enjoy it while it lasts. Should she cross the line, whatever it may be, end it. No discussion. No argument. No hesitation. Do it with conviction. Do it knowing that you were fine before her, and you'll be fine after. Think of it this way...
The glass is already broken
"You see this goblet?" asks Achaan Cha, the Thai meditation master.
"For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But when I put this glass on the shelf and the wind knocks it over or my elbow brushes it off the table and it falls to the ground and shatters, I say, 'of course.'
When I understand the glass is already broken, every moment with it is precious."
This is not to be mistaken for a passive pushover approach. This does not mean turn the other way when presented with red flags. This does not mean you have to be a stoic robot with no feelings. It does mean all good things come to an end and you need to be ready to make the right decision when the time comes. It was fun, but now it's done.
Conclusion
She made out with some guy at a party. Another guy fondled her tits and fingered her pussy. Chad shot a load in her mouth that one time. She had a couple of boyfriends in the past, each of them cumming inside her and each of them received her declaration of eternal exclusive love: "I love you baby. There's nobody else I'd rather be with."
Now she's with you.
Now it's your turn.
LTR? Plate? One night stand? Doesn't matter. Live, love, laugh. Enjoy her feminine energy, her touch, her soft skin, her aroma, her ass, her tits, and her warm wet hole or whatever else you like about her. Just remember to hold on loosely. Don't waste emotional energy worrying about something you have no control over. Don't take extreme measures to ensure her fidelity or continuing plate status. Don't attempt to prevent the inevitable when presented with it.
Place your quarters inside. Hop on the ride. Enjoy it while it lasts.
The End
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