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2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I said

by Oftowerbroleaning on /r/TheRedPill
19 March 2016 03:39 AM UTC

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Well, I just kind of try to do my own thing, I go to work every day, workout every day and that because I'm only 24 I won't even hit my prime for 10 years, why dedicate the best years of my life to someone? I explained that I have friends with benefits when they started criticizing me for being at a bar alone, (I just stopped for a couple drinks on my way home after work) They started preaching at me how I am on the wrong path. I mega-triggered them when I said, "what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" (which is what they were doing) they left within minutes. I just thought this was a funny experience that you guys would appreciate.

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Title 2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I said
Author Oftowerbroleaning
Upvotes 981
Comments 169
Date 19 March 2016 03:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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296 upvotesDanG34 years ago

They left when they realized you would not be buying them drinks.

66 upvotesHeinousFu_kery4 years ago

The perfect-hindsight comeback:

"What's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age and be too cheap with their husbands' money (and so desperate for a faint whiff of validation) to even buy their own drinks?"

60 upvotesDanG34 years ago

They want to see if they "still have it" - seeking validation.

14 upvotesDuke_LFG4 years ago

Lol this is the best response

26 upvotesIl1284 years ago

But... But. But... Ladies drink for free. Don't be that guy.

43 upvotesGC0W304 years ago

I thought that until the first time I went Dutch on first date drinks, took a chick to my apartment, blew in her mouth and then had her offer to pay for my dinner....

I have wasted thousands on women who didn't put out... Never again.

23 upvotesPrinceofSpades4 years ago

Had a chick recently buy her own burrito, and pay for her own Uber to my place and back. Whole ordeal cost her ~70$. Didn't spend a dime, got blown and fucked three times. Laughs.

8 upvotesGC0W304 years ago

I know of one broad who used her husband's money for a $250/night fancy downtown hotel.... and her boyfriend's breakfast the next morning at the hotel restaurant.

I wasn't the husband, but nonetheless I think that may have put me off of marriage somewhat.

4 upvotesRedPill_FightClub4 years ago

I feel ya there! I was the same way before TRP. Now, I will not pay. We split the bill, or have separate tabs altogether.

314 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Any woman trying to lecture someone on the right path when they're married and at a bar with their friend talking to young men is an idiot.

138 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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67 upvotesIllimitableMan4 years ago

Your aunt is a fucking idiot, bitch got served. She walked out because she knew there was no coming back from that. Well done.

46 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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10 upvotesIllimitableMan4 years ago

Must've read that wrong. It's good this butt fuck retarded person you had to deal with doesn't share your blood.

and flush 20 grand in rings and ceremonies down the drain

That's a lot of xbox games and protein shake brah! I joke, but seriously, yes, the pussy ain't worth the dime. You could get a lot of hookers for 20k. I'm convinced hookers are cheaper than wives (and obviously, they fuck you more)

4 upvotesdarkrood4 years ago

20 grand in Rings and ceremonies?!! That's such a steal.

My friend tells me casually that he emptied his saving for Wedding on a boat. That didn't even count the ring yet.

It was a nice boat though.

13 upvotesTimmytanks404 years ago

It was his girls aunt but the point stands.

4 upvotes5t3fan04 years ago

isn't it interesting how the people who are the worst example for anything are always the ones who tell everyone else how to do everything?

awesome, cant be written any better than this!

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

isn't it interesting how the people who are the worst example for anything are always the ones who tell everyone else how to do everything?"

Lol solid truth right here.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Exactly, a committed relationship between two people has nothing to do with anyone but the people in the relationship.

To introduce laws to purposefully impair one side of the relationship is completely ridiculous.

Marriage has become a liability to men rather than an asset and this has become tangible in the reduction of the birth rate in countries where these broken laws are in effect.

Something needs to change.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

why'd you let her walk out?

13 upvotesvengefully_yours4 years ago

You're a twist the knife type?

8 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Gives me pleasure to see stupid people suffer

9 upvotesvengefully_yours4 years ago

As do I. The Germans have a word for it.


It's different than sadism, because it's suffering on their part due to their own actions, rather than it being inflicted upon them. I like sadism too. Oh yes, very much so.

-60 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

man its okay to think this shit and talk about it on reddit, but please dont fucking drop red pill in real life conversations dude; it's straight up autistic.

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3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Used to mean "true but social faux pax" but now its "anything that triggers me" shaming tactic

7 upvotesadunk94 years ago

What part about what he said was autistic? I know plenty of people who publicly don't believe in organized marriage.

-18 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

The part at the end where he insulted his aunt for no reason; questioning your personal choices does not validate insulting someone on that personal of a level. I feel like anyone without autism would understand that; and they would definitely understand that saying anything red pill related does not compute to women or bluepill dudes. The whole thing is about a dude proud of fending off his aunt questioning his life choices so its already betabitch to begin with.

11 upvotesredpillliger4 years ago

No reason? Shit, you must let people walk all over you if you don't see a reason there.

3 upvotesp3n1x4 years ago

Her Aunt, not his. (Careful slinging "autism" around when your own reading and comprehension are low)

He was being emasculated in a crowd of people for no reason other than the Aunt feeling entitled and justified in doing so. He put his foot down.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I was super stoned at the time.

2 upvotesdarkrood4 years ago

Uh no...In this case, the gf's aunt is the autistic one.

You just don't butt into people's business at public gathering. For a woman who's at least twice married, I expect better social awareness.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

What is your deal? Explain your comment.

141 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Bitches are amusing:

1) When a rapper calls women "bitches", it doesn't offend them because "they aren't talking about me" (has nothing to do with me).

2) But when a man doesn't want to date for LTR or has decided to not marry (other women), it's offensive to them even though it has nothing to do with them.

44 upvotesIllimitableMan4 years ago

1) When a rapper calls women "bitches", it doesn't offend them because "they aren't talking about me" (has nothing to do with me).

Because it's not being said specifically to them, but being said via media and so it's not personal/directed at them and they can realise this.

2) But when a man doesn't want to date for LTR or has decided to not marry (other women), it's offensive to them even though it has nothing to do with them.

Because it's being said TO HER even though it's not referring TO HER, her herd mentality empathy combined with her solipsism kicks in and she gets offended as if it's being suggested "she's not good enough for a relationship"

Tell a woman "I don't believe in marriage" and she hears "I'm not worthy of marriage, because if I was, you'd believe in marriage" - it's always about them.

These are the insecure petty creatures we're dealing with.

18 upvotesrenzy774 years ago

Tell a woman "I don't believe in marriage" and she hears "I'm not worthy of marriage, because if I was, you'd believe in marriage" - it's always about them.

Thanks to female solipsism, women take everything personally.

2 upvotesicecow4 years ago

To be fair if the tables were turned the male would vibe that the comment was covertly directed at him, as is common when one doesn't want to be direct to avoid insult (Ironicially, covert comments feel very direct and insulting).

2 upvotesexit_sandman4 years ago

Because it's being said TO HER even though it's not referring TO HER, her herd mentality empathy combined with her solipsism kicks in and she gets offended as if it's being suggested "she's not good enough for a relationship"

Yup. They hate the idea that someone else - even if it's just someone they never meet, heck, even if it's someone they would never date in a million years themselves - for some reason excludes them from commitment (whether it's because he's generally against it, or whether it's for some specific reason that affects her, like, say, n-count or whatever). Because if someone does that there's always the risk that others do it as well, and among these others those guys they actually want. So they rather shame the guys who feel like that to hell and back in order to frighten men away from that sort of behavior.

2 upvotesrobertpaulsontitties4 years ago

Rappers are presumed to be from speaking from a position of strength, rap culture is primarily concerned with cultivating a strong image. I think that plays a part as well, that if you are speaking from a position of strength you can say as you please. As a young man I thought rap was dumb but it is actually brilliant.

239 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Nicely done. And it's so true, why waste these years? Your twenties should be a time where you are gaining the knowledge, skills, and experience necessary to build your empire.

Of course, there's room for enjoyment along the way, but you should do so knowing that pointless fun things (namely, women) do not have a solid return on investment.

141 upvoteslarrythetomato4 years ago

Of course, there's room for enjoyment along the way, but you should do so knowing that pointless fun things (namely, women) do not have a solid return on investment.

I really like this caveat. To explain why I'm taking a phrase out of Rich Dad Poor Dad.

Rich people buy luxuries with the returns from their investments.

Middle class people buy luxuries with their savings.

Poor people buy luxuries with debt.

Same goes with women. You want to get women as the returns of your investments (in yourself). Beta bux buy women with their savings. Omegas get nothing and have nothing to give.

21 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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3 upvotesdarkrood4 years ago

A lot more men are in "polyamory" relationship.

His girl just decides not to give him that relationship update.

2 upvotesspacecowboyreturns4 years ago

deleted What is this?

-6 upvotesTopKekSkye4 years ago

your username certainly checks out! great book!

98 upvotesF_Dingo4 years ago

Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" (which is what they were doing) they left within minutes.

This is gold, you basically outed them on what they were doing.

61 upvotesTheEnglishman284 years ago

Damn son, they got fuckin rekt, m8.

13 upvotesdonniessparklemotion4 years ago

Women hate it when they are sellers in a buyers market.

It is always about who has the power. Them or men.

They were trying to shame you by painting you as a loser sitting in a bar alone.

Shaming and guilt are tactics almost all women employ because these are the tactics they use on each other.

When a man does not give a shit about whether people see him as a loser or not, he cannot be manipulated.

25 upvotesDforDeadpool4 years ago

That's some good ol' MGTOW blackknighting.

134 upvotesMattyAnon4 years ago

Nice work... here's some pro tips for your inadvertent trolling:

  • Don't ask questions, even rhetorical ones. Don't say "why should I work for some ungrateful woman? or what's the right path?"... instead say "I ain't working for some ungrateful woman" or whatever.
  • When they say "you're on the wrong road / you just hit it and quit it", you own right up to it and say "hell yeah, and thanks to 2016's type of modern woman this works perfectly!" and smile happily. Or play devil's advocate.. "yeah I totally do... women want to have their independence and their freedom and I help them with that!"
  • Don't say "I just do my own thing and blah blah blah", that's kinda justifying your position which you absolutely don't need to do and it looks weak.

Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?

haha this was gold :)

29 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I would've paid to see their facial reaction.

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I agree. Statements are more powerful than questions, but hard to pull off without being confrontational.

15 upvotesMattyAnon4 years ago

but hard to pull off without being confrontational

Being afraid of being confrontational is a beta attitude. Asking questions sounds submissive, due to the tonality and that you need the question answered.

Sounding confrontational is dominant and rapport-breaking, the opposite of approval seeking.

11 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I'm not saying being confrontational is wrong at all times. Sometimes a war is a just war. But walking that line is a balancing act. Both extremes, absolute supplication and absolute non-compromise, make lonely losers.

5 upvotesNO_LAH_WHERE_GOT4 years ago

Ya'll are reading a little too much into it. It's possible for a statement to sound like a question or for a question to sound like a statement, depending on how you handle the inflections and the body language. The latter matters more than the former.

3 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

Statements are more powerful than questions, but hard to pull off without being confrontational.

tone of voice is everything is such situations i.e. framing your disagreements as ideas e.g "you know, I;ve noticed the new accounting system does x,y and z which might/could cause problems with the less experienced staff"'

Instead of something like "the new accounting system is useless for most of the staff ... etc"

I've had teachers who could tell me 'black is white' in such a way that's so convincing, I give it serious thought!

There's another great way and that's to speak your concerns in such a way, the person you're telling thinks it's their idea! --- win win! You get what you want without coming across as confrontational.

1 upvotessetsar4 years ago

I halfway agree. The op was asking a rhetorical question. He was playing mind chess when he already knew the game was mated. When you ask these types of questions, you don't sound submissive. You actually treat the other party like a child.

9 upvotesCopyAndPaste20154 years ago

Next time you thank them for their advice and then ask them if their daughters are hot.

14 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Women get pretty upset when men say they are not interested.. I think they are starting to realize that the successful men don't want them

52 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

I'm only 24 I won't even hit my prime for 10 years

Bro, you don't know that, you're hoping that will be the case.

when people say this I think --'tomorrow' never comes'

While there's nothing wrong with planning for the future, never assume you will achieve your 'hopes and plans'; "make hay when the sun shines" as nobody knows what tomorrow will hold.

In my case I was doing things at 24 that many guys will never do! Shit I didn't even think I'd live to 40yo, let alone the 50years I have! IMO those of you who assume things will be 'better' later are making a Big mistake!

I think the people who have The "it will never happen to me" mentality and have never suffered from life's abilty to fuck up ALL your plans, are quite naive. IME people will fail more than they succeed -- how did Yoda put it, something like "Im a master becoz I've failed at more things than you have even tried"

I've noticed a trend with the younger people who have had comfortable lives to assume things will continue that way, until the day they don't.

When that day comes and the shit hits, if they don't have a realistic POV and have developed their 'inner strength' to cope with the unexpected problems coming their way, they will crumble.

There is ONLY "now" ... to assume you will be around and/or the years (shit days) to come will be the same as the one's that have passed is IMO a mistake; "expectations are the basis for disappointment' so the only thing you can reasonably 'expect' is the unexpected.

And this applies even more in 2016 than it ever has, for the world is changing at a rapid pace and the things many take for granted now are not guaranteed to stay the same. Life Is Change, and those who don't change with it will find this out the hard way.

How many of you are involved with things that didn't even exist 15yrs ago? Of the top of my head I can think of several things, from 'social media' and hooking up online, to 3-D printing and driverless cars. Not to mention, wars, climate changes, swathes of refugees and a widening gap between the rich and the poor, unemployment due to technology creating jobsolescence, etc etc.

And many of those things are 'good' things, But, how will you consider an AI that makes all the knowledge you worked hard for in college obsolete ergo useless? What use is there in having a degree in something that's no longer viable? Many of you have them, you just don't know it yet!

i.e. many of you guys are doing jobs you assume you can keep as long as you do 'good work'. This is naive thinking. Time and time again game changing events have occurred and very few people gave them any mind, only to find out the hard way their 'expectations' were unfounded.

Anyone who thinks AI's and autonomous machinery isn't going to make significant changes to the way we currently live and work, is naive. If you think the world we live in is going to be the 'same' in 10yrs, think again!

AI's and new technology aside, People don't expect to have a car crash, but they happen all the time. People don't plan on getting sick with cancer/heart disease, but they do, all the time! You'd be surprised at the amount of very fit athletes who die from things like heart attacks/strokes or other serious illness'

Do you think the guy who was fucking that chicken behind a rock even considered the possibility the rock would crush him? (and someone would take a photo that would embarrass his family for years to come?!)

Not to mention the myriad of health issues which will fuck up your day quick smart. Nobody "plans" on getting cancer or breaking their leg and the consequences of the same. Or closer to home. some crazy bitch making false rape allegations at you! If you think that's not going to fuck up most of your "plans", think again.

How often do we hear of some girl lying to get her way? I'd bet good money the guys who're posting in "relationship advice" or "deadbedrooms" never thought they would be!

There's no shortage of guys here with stories of unexpected events causing them major problems. How many guys who get 'divorce raped' see it coming? And even IF they do/did, that doesn't mean they will escape the repercussions. No.

I have known a lot (>20) people who's "plans" literally disappeared after an event which took seconds to happen; accidents, disease, job losses, there are many things which can/will either delay or completely destroy one's plans. Including a guy who was crushed by a boulder while searching for 'thunder eggs' -- I shit you not!

And the craziest part of that was some people had warned him about exactly that happening But he told them they were stupid to think it would happen to him, "I'm really experienced and careful so that will never happen to me" -- yet it did.

I'm not trying to diss your post OP, I'm just trying to get you guys to open your minds to the possibility that things won't go according to your plans. IME the more people in your life who have the ability to affect yours, i.e. teachers, bosses, close friends, lovers, clients etc, the less 'control' you have over what will happen.

TL:DR: Live for today, for tommorow never comes and the only time you can DO something, is Now' -- do not assume and especially do not assume you know what will be in the future, you don't and to think so is only setting yourself up to fail/suffer the consequences of such arrogance.

Source: Me. I can look back on my life and see that I had NO idea that many of the things which have happened, would. Even in the past 5yrs I have been surprised several times with things that 5yrs ago had you told me were going to happen to me, I would have said 'you're crazy'

22 upvotesTheophagist4 years ago

One old guy to another, you preach too much.

15 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

Look at my 3rd top post all time if you don't think I know what you're talking about bro. I already know. I'm still doing okay given the circumstances and things literally can only get better from here providing I lift and don't experience some tragic accident.

5 upvotesRedSugarPill4 years ago

3rd top post

Holy shit, I vividly remember reading that post. Glad to see you're doing alright out there, brother (or, at least I hope things are going well for you).

The current post is fucking hilarious--definitely my style of black knighting. Thanks for sharing..

2 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

I had a look, Wow! bro! Howz that turning out now?

Have you been able to mitigate any of the crap that's come of it? Is it still causing problems?

the fact you've written this OP suggests you're moving on ok, i wish you all the best mate.

3 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

None of its been mitigated. In fact its gotten worse, but I'm living as well as I can with it.

2 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

man, that's one fucked up story ... I wish I could do more than just wish you ALL the best

at least you're free, hey if you're up to it an update would be interesting

TF I've never had anything like that happen to me, I've only had a chick say she lost her virginity to me, I never even kissed her let alone fucked her!

1 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

I might do that in the coming days. It's definitely worthy of an update. Thanks for the idea broski.

3 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

I'll look forward to it mate

3 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

"I already know"

maybe you do, IDK. But as you mentioned it, I was simply taking the opportunity to speak to the other guys who read this post.

providing I lift and don't experience some tragic accident.

it doesn't have to be tragic. i.e. You could come down with the worst case of flu you've ever had on the day of your new job, which stops you from going there for a few weeks. Sure, some employers might be fine with that, but in my industry, you'd be immediately replaced ... with "no hard feelings" of course!

The reason I made this post was I regularly see guys here assuming "it gets better" and that they'll hit some magical 'prime' in their 30's

IMO that's a naive position to take, as I explained in some detail. You know the saying about "counting your chickens before they hatched"

1 upvotesmalariasucks4 years ago

ya I agree. I've had things going fine, saving thousands per month when suddenly my job ends in a single day and no job to replace it and it ook months to find something that paid half...

that's just the tip and I'm only in my early 30s. life has already thrown me so many curveballs. The people I thought were making bad decisions have ended up in a better situation than me

things change so quick

2 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

The people I thought were making bad decisions have ended up in a better situation than me

at least this is the stuff, which if it doesn't kill you tends to make you stronger in many ways. Strength of spirit mainly, which is transferable to other areas once you learn how.

There's a saying; "be careful what you pray for coz you just might get it"

IME things we think will be our greatest achievents are sometimes our biggest mistakes and failures, whereas the things we thought were our 'biggest failures' we thought would amount to nothing have become the #1 successes in our lives!

The ultimate of these 'wtf happened' moments for me, is when I achieve my desired result and find myself thinking "now what?" It can be the most empty feeling when you finish a great job with major obstacles you found wayys to mitigate or deal with, and that's finished ... :(

"now what's?" are challenging bitches both metaphorically speaking (business/school) and literally (bitches/plates!) as they are often filled with sadness,kinda like ending an LTR that was once The best you'd ever had! even when you know it's 'for the best', it still hurts.

A 'now what' caused Alexander the Great to have a breakdown!

1 upvotesmalariasucks4 years ago

thanks all around man, that post was the most realistic post I've seen online in a while and made me feel a lot better.

Some things in my life have gone way better than expected, then of course some disappointments as well, expounded by the frustration of moving back to the US to start again (and it not going smoothly AT ALL!)

1 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

thanks for letting me know bro, I appreciate the feedback as it helps me know what you guys would like to hear about ... and as the two things you can give away and never lose, are 'what you know' and 'how you feel', I had nothing to lose by sharing it

I almost didn't post it as it was long and was written off the top of my head, and I thought it might sound too preachy but IMHO it's the truth, so I thought fuck it, IF it helps one guy it's worth it, so thanks to all of you who've let me know it was appreciated.

I've lived an extraordinary life, great highs and bottomless lows, Which have happened a few times but I still refuse to 'give in'! I refuse to give up until i'm thoroughy beaten! And even then, I see my defeat as a learning experience that might help me deal with similar shit if it ever occurs again. And a few of what i thought were 'failures' became crazy successes for reasons I'd never have guessed or even imagined!

That's why I truly believe, "The only failure is the failure to Try"

And in a way, it was lucky for me that I 'accidentally' was a DT with a basic RP mindset. But being DT is a solitary existence amongst other 'normal guys' ... but it worked great for girls, although i didn't consciously knew what i was doing, I just liked riding motor bikes and selling large quantities of weed (and the odd other things) while running a clothing business, which gave me a massive income that I spent like water -- the down side was I had many "fair weather friends" who were really only 'acquaintences' who bailed when the fun(ds) ran out. The gold diggers were rare and I avoided them like the Plague! I don't regret that period of my life but I wouldn't recommend it to others.

When I read The Game 10yrs ago I thought "how the fuck does this guy know >50% of my PU techniques? I was like 'wtf?' lol -- 'techniques' which sadly I'd never been able to 'explain' to other guys, until the Game and later TRP's gave me the terminology to do so, which has helped change that a lot!

if there's anything else you think i might help if i share my pov, please let me know, I'd be happy to try and i'll see what i can do.

cheers bro

1 upvotesrockinhard1304 years ago

Sure shit can happen. But you can't sit around worrying about everything that could go wrong.

3 upvotesddiogenesofsinope4 years ago

Life throws curveball all the time. If OP stays on track and keeps lifting, getting paid, doing his thing and never gives up when life gets tough, he will be in his prime.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I will never forget that day when I was supposed to travel to my first day of my dream job that I was trying to land so long and worked so hard for it. I should start working as a personal coach in a very exotic location during summer.. U know what everyone dreams about.

I applied two years ago, and they told me you need to learn German language. So I went and learned German in next two years. That's how much I wanted it.

Two hours prior to flight, bags packed, saying goodbye to family.. KIDNEY STONE. I've spent three weeks in hospital, and four weeks at home afterwards and undergone two operations. I wasn't far from loosing my kidney.

That's when I learned NOTHING in this life is granted and we shell live every moment of it.

1 upvotesPrinceofSpades4 years ago

Beware of Destination Addiction motivational poster goes here.

1 upvotesdoritoesNcoffee4 years ago

This is worthy of a new thread. People need to realize how dynamic lives are. Everything changes quick, and those who do not adapt, crumble. This is why it's important to always have money saved up for a rainy day. It's better to live in a rented apartment while having a 100k cash in the bank, rather than paid 100k out of your 200k loan on your dream house.

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1 upvotes1-user-acct4 years ago

the post was actually pretty awesome IMO. it's a nice reminder. awesome to hear from some dudes who have been around a bit longer than I have. I'm guilty of procrastination.

how about you though?

Did you "plan" to not actually say anything in that pretentious post

0 upvotesNidhogguryo4 years ago

Long-winded perhaps, but devoid of useful information it certainly was not. Many people need their perspective reset in this regard.

4 upvotesPhilhelm4 years ago

That's the road I'll be taking. In fact, I'm in the process of moving my stuff out while my wife is at work. Cruel, cruel freedom!

16 upvotesThe__Tren__Train4 years ago

did these women have wedding bands on?

that would be hilarious

62 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

Lol no but one mentioned she was married. Which the fact that she had no wedding band makes it even better. The other one was presumably divorced. She had that tired divorced look about her. Also, making my whole premise even better.

23 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I've seen this trend, even with my ex.

One goes through a divorce and talks one of her non single friends into spending time with her..

In the end, they both end up single.. Should've seen the look on my ex's face when I told her it was time for her to move out, priceless

17 upvotesthewrightstuff884 years ago

the same is true for marriage. Women have a herd mentality, if a group of women have SOs, once one gets proposed to/married, they all start falling in line and put pressure on their SOs or at least desire to because if they don't, they FEEL excluded from the circle. If one gets a BF, theres a good chance the others will as well.

12 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

That's one reason why I think women in the church seem to fair slightly better in marriage.. Herd mentality and divorce shaming.

In our quest to disprove god, I think we forgot the real reason for religion.. To convince women to stay with their husbands

11 upvotesRedBigMan4 years ago

Women in the church arent any better they just hide it better. Even the Catholic church is bowing to pressure from the feminine imperative and softening their stance on Divorce.

7 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Because they don't have a choice. People are leaving the church because they want to live like animals. As many women want to divorce, they have to bow or lose the entire congregation.

The feminist hive mind is stronger

7 upvotesKyfhoMyoba4 years ago

Women in the church arent any better

Actually, they are about 1/4 to 1/3 better, in terms of divorce.

1 upvotesScreenp24 years ago

Not just to keep women with husbands, but to give men a purpose to go do something and support that women.

6 upvotesrockinhard1304 years ago

Yessss!!! Three is always some bitch trying to talk another into leaving their husband. It's sick.

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Oh well, joke was on her. After I kicked her out her friend took a job 500 miles away.. Leaving her alone

4 upvotesyumyumgivemesome4 years ago

Your final comment was absolutely perfect. If both were married, you hit the nail on the head. If anything "less" than married from their perspective (i.e., divorced or never married), then your comment hits even harder.

27 upvoteschocobaby4 years ago

Bam! Hit them right in the feelz...lol. Good for u. Women are trained from birth that their vagina, and related female-ness, is their only value. If you're not buyin'... They're up shit creek.

13 upvotesNumber1ricky4 years ago


9 upvotesS-Blaze4 years ago

''right path'' lol, well said.

4 upvotesRPRedhead4 years ago

Astounding. This strikes me as a great example of solipsism. They cannot even begin to understand what hypocrites they are.

2 upvotesFourNominalCents4 years ago

Normally I'd call nuking a hamster overkill, but well done.

6 upvotescombatmechanic4 years ago

In my 20's and 30's I worked on my career, now it's paying me back.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Nice, but remember this: if you smash a woman's pride, she will not respond the way a man does. A man might ruminate on it and turn it over, searching for truth and perhaps a way to better himself. Sure, he might try to pay you back, but usually in a tit-for-tat kind of way. Men like justice.

A woman will take a shit on your soul. You can get away with what you just did here because you may never see these bints again, but to any woman you see on a regular basis and have to interact with, never nuke the hamster. Women (and BP men) have the hamster for a reason. If they could deal with themselves honestly, they wouldn't need it.

edit: this is easy if you understand why this is. In the SMP, the only currency a woman has is herself. That's usually enough because vaginas are valuable. But she has to give bits of herself away during every transaction. A man has way more diversity: himself, his wealth, status, intelligence, usefulness. All these he can trade on. Exposure is far worse for women because it devalues the only thing they can trade with.

5 upvotesGrandpaLeiho4 years ago

"my future wife hasn't been born yet"

4 upvotes1991Kira4 years ago

"What's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?"

Hope you finished your drink and passed them the ice to help soothe that massive burn.

8 upvoteslumberjackinla4 years ago

Pump and Dump man. Dont explain anything to them. Women have an understanding level of a 5 year old.

9 upvotesfavours_of_the_moon4 years ago

Should've gone for the menage.

3 upvotesmyschadenfreude4 years ago

"what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?"

slow clap Also very true. They think what that are doing is harmless. If you are in a relationship and do that it's disrespect; I do not accept disrespect.

5 upvotesMakeEmSayAyy4 years ago

You gave them so much cognitive dissonance lmao.

She's like Sarah let's go, I don't like this realization.

3 upvotesBluepillProfessor4 years ago

No threesome? A damn shame.

6 upvotesStythe4 years ago

If I could go back 10 years and learn all this then I'd do it in a heartbeat. I would have rather spent 5 years focused for the payoff then party and make no progress. I'm still lucky that I learned it when I did, but no one is going to take that away. I don't care if idiots like those or my own family. No one worthwhile tells you how to be.

Also good job mocking them. That'll grind their gears for a bit, hahaha.

10 upvotesgonorealover4 years ago

"what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?"

You raped the women's rights outta those 2 whores lol . Fuck them .

2 upvotesbipbophil4 years ago

Lol when ever I tell women like this I'm single they imedeitly ask if I'm gay

2 upvotesHydRO-74 years ago

Great comeback OP. Have an upvote.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

This was a good laugh lol thank you

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

"what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?"

Good for you man! That probably left them speechless because of the truth that statement holds.

2 upvotesstro854 years ago

Wow! This post is fire! Way to tell those hags off! I literally laughed at the part where you called then out on hitting on guys half their age!

2 upvotesTuckerP4 years ago

Thanks for the laugh. I'm glad you set them straight haha

2 upvotesoldrunnerguy4 years ago

I wish I had the presence of mind to come up with such a spot-on reply. Great post.

2 upvotesdandar46004 years ago

I said, "what's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?"

Lol, your wit is off the charts. Well played sir.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

It's like with the medusa robots in The Matrix, when they noticed that Neo got free and tried to put him back in "his place" on the plantation.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Is it wrong that I've fucked scandalous women that threw pussy at me like that in the past?

Probably on some level, but fuck it.

3 upvotescuntbh4 years ago

One of the 48 laws of power:

think what you want, but act as others do

You're probably doing the right thing by not dating, but if you say "I don't have one at the moment", you're not lying, and not making yourself a target. By saying that you're doing your own thing, you make yourself a target to them, so they criticise you for not dating.

Sure, it doesn't matter what they think of you, but it's nice to go to a bar and not have to put up with dramatic bitches.

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

They were confrontational from the start. They deserved it.

3 upvotesToTheSummit4 years ago

Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age?" (which is what they were doing)

DAmnnn dude should have not open TRP in a saturday morning....

4 upvoteskappy_the_kike4 years ago

I would of tried to do a car date with one of them. OR both.

30 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

I was actually mildly annoyed that they were even talking to me tbh.

17 upvotesTheEnglishman284 years ago

I understand why. Key word = old.

15 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

Lol I wasn't feeling it. I've been hung over at work from st pattys and just finished a shift. I just wanted to drink and go home

5 upvoteskappy_the_kike4 years ago

It's pretty degrading to make a girl suck your cock in the back seat or the front. heheheh

3 upvotesYankee_Fever4 years ago

Maybe if you hadn't been so stupid you could have fucked both of them behind the dumpster. I know people generally like to announce to the world that they are different, but the smartest person in the room is the one that plays stupid and quiet

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Most people are dumb shit. The smartest person in the room JUST HAPPENS to play stupid and quiet and isn't staying low-key to hide how stupid he really is. That's the difference.

2 upvotesScottysmoosh4 years ago

You probably don't need anyone telling you this, but I think the path you are on is a far more mature path (especially considering your age). Most men in their early to mid 20s would lie, cheat and break hearts to get into someones pants. Not saying that you don't, but from this story it sounds like you've got a solid head on your shoulders and know what you want. I wish I could send this post to my 24 year old self. I would have saved myself, and others, a lot of head/heart ache.

0 upvotesjamesc10714 years ago

I think you have misread the situation.
The women came over because they wanted some company or some drinks.
They attempted to mess with you a little bit.
Instead of treating them with amused mastery, you justified yourself.
They left because you were boring.

5 upvotesBaconEggsAndSleaze4 years ago

Found the guy who lets random unattractive women shit on his chest

2 upvotesniczar4 years ago

I don't disagree, but what do you get out of this exchange? You've made made them feel bad (not that I care about them), and ... what?

18 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

I didn't expect anything from the exchange. I didn't even want the exchange. I didn't approach them. They approached me. I just wanted to drink a couple beers and go home, that's what I expected walking in and that's what I got.

5 upvotesSatanAscending4 years ago

Basically, you wanted them to go to hell. Mision Success I guess?

1 upvotesbbm724 years ago

Good report.

Btw, why waste any years?

1 upvotesFrameWalker4 years ago

When you agree and amplify instead of explain its more fun

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

"Agree and amplify" is one of those things that sound better in theory than they come out in practice. It's completely unnatural. Why use it?

1 upvotesn_dois4 years ago

Some of my friends use A&A very naturally, for almost everything. It fits them pretty well, but you have to be the playful kind of guy most of the time, otherwise will sound ironical.

1 upvotesThe__Tren__Train4 years ago

I wonder where things would have gone if you had played along..

who knows, you might have gotten a couple post-wall fwb's (:

-7 upvotesEntropy-74 years ago

If you can find a quality woman, a value-added woman, then it makes perfect sense to lock her down and build your life with her.

How old are these sluts?

When I was your age I had a unicorn put everything on the table and I did not bite. I can't be bothered with regrets but she went on to lock down a BB and now 20 years later she has two daughters and a great life in New England. (Plus, she basically looks the same as 20 years ago.)

Your path is your path, but don't limit your options because you feel footloose and fancy-free.

28 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

Unicorns don't exist. AWALT.

8 upvotesStoicCrane4 years ago

Your "unicorn" probably became an Alpha widow and sought a BB to sette down with. Chances are the CC was too much for her to deal with. Sound like you dodged a bullet and don't even know.

-7 upvotesfoldpak1114 years ago

After working my brutal, dangerous job followed by a 60 min swim/30 min sauna/20 min ice bath, if some used up whores gave me shit about the slightest anything at my local bar I'd just have the bartender throw them out. I am a high-quality individual. I don't have time for any of that.

1 upvotesTerryYockey4 years ago

I'd just have the bartender throw them out

Bahaha sure ya would, champ. This is akin to being 5 years old, running to mommy and telling her that your sister is making fun of you. Also, it's really hard to reconcile that statement with:

I am a high-quality individual.

If you really were, you wouldn't be so thin skinned - you wouldn't give two shits about them, much less tattle on them to the bartender.

1 upvotesfoldpak1114 years ago

If they kept pestering me after I asked them politely to leave me alone, yes, I would have my friend kick them out. No place for harassment of any kind.

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3 upvotesItsTheHomeWrecker4 years ago

deleted What is this?

-6 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Dude I would never tell someone to be a cuck, but you can still have a girlfriend and fuck hot girls without being a cuck. Don't miss out on that, its a great part of life.

27 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago

Or I could just fuck hot girls because I don't want a girlfriend. I honestly don't see the purpose in a girlfriend at this point in my life. I don't see how a girlfriend would serve to improve my quality of life. I'm not one of those guys who needs to fall asleep with someone every night. That's what my dog is for.

7 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

You need a gf because it's nice to have someone to cook, clean, and help with bills..

Oh wait. Well, at least my ex put out every night

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I've had gf's that cook clean and help with the bills. Are you saying the women who cook clean and help with the bills do not exist?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

It's rare.. I've usually gotten only one of the three

1 upvoteshectortamerofwhores4 years ago

Great, so not only did she not contribute around the house, she eventually made sex boring too? (haha, joking, but seriously, I don't care how hot they are the same face every night gets old.)

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

A quality girlfriend will improve the quality of your life. If you only attract dirtbag girls then thats a different story.

1 upvotes0kool744 years ago

A quality girlfriend will improve the quality of your life

Objection! Assumes facts not in evidence!!!

-14 upvotessaml014 years ago

Sounds like a couple of friends enjoying a girls night decided to have some fun with the loner at the bar and instead found a righteous asshole that assumes too much.

You can choose to live your life any way you like but there's no reason to don't be a dick about it.

8 upvotesTheophagist4 years ago

decided to have some fun with the loner at the bar

Just innocently having a laugh at the expense of a stranger. What's wrong with that?

1 upvotessaml014 years ago

According to his story, no one was laughing at him and he didn't even give them a chance to voice their side. He just judged them as hypocrites without knowing what they had to say.

1 upvotes0kool744 years ago

you really are a stupid dumb fuck aren't you!

3 upvotesOftowerbroleaning [OP]4 years ago


-1 upvotesBlue_Nightmare4 years ago

seems like you could've deflected and gotten in their pants or at least had some fun rather than driving them away.

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-5 upvotesswan11144 years ago

Why be bitter about it though? You missed a perfect opportunity to work on your flirting skills. You don't have to follow through.

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