I have been having sex with women since I was 14. I have been understanding and being cognizant of what I was doing since I was 22. In My now 14 years of fucking there is one thing and one thing only I am certain of, one thing no one could turn against me or tell me I'm wrong about:
Women love rough sex.
Some love it a little bit and some love it a whole lot, but they all fucking love it: From that sweet girl next door who loves being bitten and scratched down her back to the nasty little freak who loves whips and chains and clamps, rough sex is always on the menu.
This makes sense does it not? Women are naturally submissive and men are naturally dominant, and yet for the past few decades they've drilled it into little boy's head to ask for permission, to not be rough and physical, all the while 50 Shades of Grey turns shitty Mormon authors into overnight gazillionaires. All the while Twilight and the "I leave bruises on your body after I'm done fucking you" vampires turn shitty authors into gazillionaires.
Here's the truth: The line between violence, sex, rape, love, and dominance are often separated by a very thin, very confusing line for those not intimate with them.
Want to know the most common fantasy I've had with women under 30? Rape fantasies. They want me to sneak into their room while they sleep and have my way with them. I've had women ask me to put a knife to their throat while I do it.
(And before the pussy parade comes in here and says "oh you're fucking trashy nasty sluts---ironically being misogynistic themselves---the girls who want rape fantasies the most are the ones Feminists hold up as icons: the lawyers, and doctors, and Cal Tech Engineers, the military girls...especially the military girls)
Our society has turned women into men and for many of them, the only way for them to feel feminine, to garner even a jolt of their feminine energy, is through unbridled, no holds barred rough fucking. This is the brave new world we live in and men need to be prepared.
---Know YOUR limits. This is the most important and we can't go any further until this is established. Know YOUR limits because women often don't have any. I've sunk into the depraved world of the female psyche and it fucked me over for quie some time.
Know your limits, establish your limits with your partner, and then stick to them. Women will often try to push you past these limits and you can never get in. If she wants to be punched in the fucking face let some other man deal with her damaged ass.
---pull her hair at the root. This is basic shit but a lot of guys fuck this up. Don't just haphazardly pull on her hair, you'll rip it out and that's not what feels good. If you're fucking her from behind reach over, get your hand firmly beneath her thicket and grab at the base, then pull back.
---If you want to know a woman's pain level dig your nails into her lower back and escalate upwards, increasing the pressure each time until she clutches onto you in with insatiable tension. p.s: this is also a very good way to escalate into sex for men with no moves.
---Choking is to be done with ONE HAND and is to be done at the top of the throat. When done at the bottom it creates a sensation of panic that overrides the sensation of dominance and fear that turn a woman on. You can--and I wholly advise---using two hands when she is about to climax, but release right after she orgasms.
I've had women ask me to choke them with my belt while I'm fucking them from behind. Do. Not. Fucking. Do. This. Shit. Yes, it's hot as fuck, but the mark and bruises it can leave behind just aren't worth it.
---Lift your girl and throw her against things. If you can't lift your girl and carry and throw her on the bed or against a wall you need to date smaller women or hit the gym more. Both probably. There is no better feeling than turning a simple makeout into passionate fucking by picking your girl up and slamming her back against whatever wall is nearest in a fit of raw passion.
Women love a man who wants her so badly he just can't control himself. This plays a large part into why women love rape fantasies.
---Rape Fantasies are at YOUR discretion, not hers. You're the one going to jail if she regrets it or gets mad at you, so it's YOUR job to decide whether you can trust her and if you're ok with it. If you're ok with it then COMMIT TO THE BIT. Don't fucking half ass it. Go in there guns ablazing. Also, understand you're fucking a very unstable woman so you probably shouldn't commit to her long term.
---Lastly, learn how to combine all of this into one sexual experience. Most men think rough sex is just smashing your dick into her as hard as possible, losing all rhythm and leaving her out of the process.
If you're fucking a woman on her back grab her hands, pull them beneath her legs, and slide her into you as you thrust into her. You create a see saw effect and you include her and her momentum into it. If her legs are over your shoulder slap her tits, smack her face, bend over and bite her nipples, constantly be inflicting little bits of pain all over her body.
If she's bent over then smack her ass, reach over and pull her hair, slide a finger in her ass, reach under and squeeze her tits, do SOMETHING. Rough sex is about constant action and interaction. It's about wanting someone so badly that your savage animalistic side is unleashed and the caveman takes over.
Women are not some easily broken porcelain doll, they can take quite a bit and love showing it off.