Man Fights Child Support Order For Infant Born To Wife He Hasn't Seen in 15 Years. After Thousands in Legal Fees, He Wins.

Serrano- · 2016-09-29T00:31:42+00:00

And she still doesn't have to pay for shit.

VTMSCHVSVCTRY · 2016-09-29T12:41:36+00:00

My ex-wife has taken my daughter (whom I have legal rights to see 48 percent of the year) and I have not seen her in over 2 years. I have never missed a child support payment, and get vague or no responses from the mother's email account, while I have not even as much as gotten an address. I called the cops, they say I have to take her to court.

Lawyer says I have to hire a private investigator to track her down and pay him 8k in fees, which she will pretty much never have to pay back and I will likely never get custody of my daughter anyway, but the best possible outcome would be me paying for legal cost and then only getting my original custody order enforced.

If I did the same thing she is doing, amber alerts would be posted across the country and FBI agents would immediately track me down and throw me in jail for the rest of my life if they didn't kill me.

maleprivilege

103342 · 2016-09-28T23:59:19+00:00

From the article:

"In my opinion, that can all be fixed with a simple DNA test, but the law doesn't recognize that. That's the problem. There are probably well over 100,000 men just like me going through the same thing," he said.

Honestly mate, the goverment forcing you to pay stuff for a kid that isn't yours directly like that is too fucked up. These guys should revolt or some shit or collectively do something. Anything, just don't comply with something this absurd.

This type of stuff just triggers me to the core.

MEANMUTHAFUKA · 2016-09-29T00:19:31+00:00

So after all that he didn't really win in the courts, they still don't give a shit.

He managed to get the original department to reverse their decision.

MattyAnon · 2016-09-29T00:26:53+00:00

Do Not Marry

Come on people, it isn't complicated.

Entropy-7 · 2016-09-29T05:51:27+00:00

One lesson is that if you split, get the fucking divorce.

And why don't they hunt down the biological father? Unless he is some black ops James Bond type, it can't be that difficult given the resources of the state.

jav253 · 2016-09-29T01:08:26+00:00

How many dollars, morally bereft lawmakers, and flagrant civil rights violations does it take to get to the center of feminism's blatant manipulation of our government?

The world may never know.

omega_dawg93 · 2016-09-29T12:43:21+00:00

i know someone who went thru this. the court threw out the DNA test & said, "if you're married to her, any child that is born by her is yours. period."

when asked why they don't go after the bio father, the reply was, "that takes resources where you are obligated thru marriage."

i almost passed out.

andhakanoon · 2016-09-29T09:07:47+00:00

I think here in the Netherlands it's kind of the opposite. Even if the child is yours, if you're not married, and you don't legally claim the child, you're completely free of any responsibility.

WHERE_MY_COUNTRY_GO · 2016-09-29T08:30:55+00:00

My baby mama got prego and popped out a kid. I wasnt sure if he was mine, but my dad being beta bux was pushing to support that kid regardless. I did a dna test and he is my son, so i pay with confidence, otherwise the bitch should've kept her cat at home.

techiejames · 2016-09-29T02:19:35+00:00

I hope he is able to sue the state into overturning that law. It isn't fair to a guy that his wife cheats on him, and then he has to pay child support for a kid that isn't even his. That is unconstitutional.

vaguelydisturbing · 2016-09-29T04:11:02+00:00

There should be some kind of punitive damages awarded in cases like these, both to disincentivize the state from pursuing BS like this, and to compensate the victim for all the time and energy he had to spend fighting it.

[deleted] · 2016-09-29T02:14:09+00:00

Damn. Wish it was in court. Precedence is needed here.

But dude needs to divorce already.

SnickeringBear · 2016-09-29T05:57:09+00:00

A man should not have to pay child support for a child that is not his and a man who fathers a child should show responsibility for that child. If you are not prepared to pay for your child, get a vasectomy.

Brassballsbenlondon · 2016-09-29T19:31:39+00:00

That's what he gets for not letting go. Come on men, when you leave your bitch get the divorce. Why anyone would get involved with any state in the form of a committed relationship with a woman is beyond me. It's a big trap. It's slavery.

LE117 · 2016-09-29T22:29:11+00:00

I'm from the UK so I might come across a bit ignorant,m. Nonetheless, how does the law enforce a bloke to pay for kids who he jas no biological relation to? I don't quite get that bit.

Lsegundo · 2016-09-30T17:47:58+00:00

A simple DNA test is not enough to exonerate a man if he is the husband

Fucking Patriarchy my ass. A quick search says pro DNA tests are something like 97%-99% accurate.

Charlottehurricanes · 2016-10-09T03:01:11+00:00

Noone wins but the courts and lawyers as they laugh their way to the bank

Supreme_Gentledude · 2016-09-29T14:28:25+00:00

Man splits up with wife but never files for divorce. 15 years after he last saw her, she has a child, and the state tracks him down and demands child support. He argues it isn't his. The state says it doesn't care, pay up and keep paying for the next 18 years.

I think the state is almost right to do this, but they are still married, so they must either give the child to it's father, without support, or become it's parents. If they were divorced, the child is either the divorced woman's, or the other man's responsibility, and neither should be forced to support the child and the chosen parent.

Temperfuelmma · 2016-09-29T07:42:08+00:00

Honestly if someone pulls some bullshit like that on me I'll capture myself on camera saying "fuck you" ,then shoot myself on the head and have someone post it on Twitter.

Honestly the humiliation and mental torture just isn't worth it. Don't get married. NEVER get married.

Title	Man Fights Child Support Order For Infant Born To Wife He Hasn't Seen in 15 Years. After Thousands in Legal Fees, He Wins.
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Date	September 28, 2016 11:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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