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Girl on OkCupid subreddit feels guilty because Nerdy Ned constantly showers her with affection/gifts while Cocky Chad barely responds to her texts - and guess who her vagina is tingling for.

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by needsomehelp3211 on /r/TheRedPill
05 January 2017 11:56 PM UTC
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Summary: Douchebags get to fuck the girl. Nice guys get to pay for her dinner.

Full thread here.

We've all heard the conventional wisdom from our bluepilled brethren. Don't play games, that's childish. Always mean what you say to women. Don't lie to women. Just be yourself.

Well, let's take a stroll over to the OKCuckolds subreddit to see what women actually respond to. Hint: it's not the enthusiastic nice guy who's always punctual and eager. It's the asshole.

I've hit it off with a great guy (let's call him "A") recently. I find him attractive, he seems to find me attractive, he asks me out and always follows through with the date, he eagerly agrees to dates that I suggest, he initiates text conversations with me, and we get along really well.

Then there's this other guy (let's call him "B"). I wouldn't say I have better physical or conversational chemistry with him than with A. The main difference is that whereas A is clearly interested in me, B is not so much.

To give you some examples: B rarely initiates plans with me. When I ask him out on dates, he usually says something like "maybe" and then leaves me hanging until the day before. Even when he's said yes to dates, he has a tendency to cancel without offering to reschedule. He's openly told me about other girls he's seeing.

Despite all this, I find myself pursuing B more than A. I'll drop plans I've already made for B, which I wouldn't do for A. When B cancels on me, it's so much more deflating than if A were to do that (because I know A would reschedule promptly).

Has anyone else struggled with this unhealthy dating mentality? How have you overcome it? Logically, I know that I want a relationship with someone who pursues me as much as I pursue him.

Poor OP. I have to say, it must be hard for a woman to be self-aware about her nature and yet a slave to it. Society tells her that women are empowered and independent now, that nice guys are the real winners. And certainly Nerdy Ned up there is the nicest of nice guys. Always excitedly says yes to every date. Replies to her calls within minutes. Probably pays for dinner.

But... her heart yearns for Chad, who won't even so much as acknowledge her text message. Guess who's getting anal later tonight and who's not.

TL;DR: Women respond to stoic men who are distant and aloof. It intrigues women, makes them feel like the man has better social status. The nice guy, on the other hand, constantly orbits a girl with love and kindness and will never - ever - get nearly the same desire and affection from her.



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Title Girl on OkCupid subreddit feels guilty because Nerdy Ned constantly showers her with affection/gifts while Cocky Chad barely responds to her texts - and guess who her vagina is tingling for.
Author needsomehelp3211
Upvotes 676
Date 05 January 2017 11:56 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/39710
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5ma3pj/girl_on_okcupid_subreddit_feels_guilty_because/
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383 upvotespehsxten3 years ago

I love reading this stuff. Just because I used to be that guy and knowing that I'm not anymore.

148 upvotesandroidrhyme3 years ago

Seriously dude, reading stuff about about betas that sound just like how I used to be is empowering

65 upvotespm_me_the_best_tits3 years ago

it just reaffirms how far we've come

20 upvotesAncientScrolls3 years ago

Dating works the same way as Economics work. When you have an item which is easy to find everywhere its price falls quickly, while another item, which is extremely hard to find and a lot of people are looking for, has a tendency to have an increase on its price.(Rule of Supply and Demand).

Same thing in the dating market. The more you make yourself available to any chick the less she will value and respect you, since she will think you will always be available and easy to get, just like a product that is cheap and everywhere. While the guy who is hard to find and talk with is going to be way more pursued by her, since she will think she might lose him for another chick, just like a rare Gem that is hard to find on the market.

36 upvotesjonivaio3 years ago

For me it also enlivens the great sense of gratitude for this enlightenment. I am very thankful for fateful chance of discovering The Red Pill. It makes such a difference in my life.

36 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Its also reinforcement.

Backslides do happen and one needs to be on guard to prevent his natural instincts from sabotaging self

12 upvotesNaughtyFred3 years ago

I'm at the point where I don't even get mad anymore reading these.

8 upvotesRedAntidote3 years ago

That and realizing that you've transformed into the B guy in the story. It's a reminder of progress.

63 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Stories like this give me knowledge boners

22 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

"knowledge boners"

Dude, sweet!

74 upvotesA_yoshi_Egg3 years ago

exactly. chilled with this girl on new years. theres a guy thats constantly hitting her up 24/7, always trying to initiate contact, going for deep emotional conversations constantly, paid for her 120 dollar NYE party ticket, etc... He has been going at this for months now and still has yet to score

on the flip side this girl messages me semi-frequently and i usually just send her one word replies and am generally disinterested (im honestly more interested in hitting the gym and getting in better shape). ive also openly talked to this girl about the other girls that want my cock.

guess who fucked her brains out the same week that he payed for all her shit? yours truly. i ddint even have to try. she rode two busses which took over 2 hours and walked to my place. within 15 minutes we were fucking. i want to say something to the other guy but i dont think he will get it. he constantly showers her in affection but alas, no tingles. TRP is truth boys.

side note: this is the same girl that says she "doesnt like guys with muscles". bullshit. she couldnt keep her hands off my pecs, abs and shoulders the entire time. and shes coming back on saturday for round 2. TRP is truth boys. amen to that

37 upvotesvandaalen3 years ago

i usually just send her one word replies

Time to go to the next level and take the "one emoji only" challenge. Try to answer all her texts with just one emoji.

13 upvotesdrty_pr3 years ago

Thats hilarious. Think it will work on my wife?

11 upvotesvandaalen3 years ago

Well. Why not give it a try?

17 upvotesdrty_pr3 years ago

72 hr challenge inacted as if now.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

That actually sounds like fun

13 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Any guy who pays for another chick's ticket when he hasn't even banged her yet is an idiot. Heck, I'm pretty sure even guys in relationships wouldn't buy a $120 ticket for New Year's Eve for their girlfriend.

8 upvotesA_yoshi_Egg3 years ago

Fuck man id never take a girl to a rave anyways. Been there done that when i was BP and im sure you can guess what happened.

upvotesSunshine12e3 years ago

Eh, You would be surprised how much some guys spend.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I heard a story on Tom Leykis radio show about some dude living in Hong Kong, who flew to New York City to visit ONE chick and she blew him off. Not just that, but she didn't even ask him to come. Imagine spending all that money for nothing. Especially when there are probably tons of great women in Hong Kong.

The dude was such an unbearable pussy to listen to. Even in mydays when I was terrible with women, I would never go this far for some pussy.

25 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Just like you shouldn't be captain save a hoe, don't try to enlighten the masses to TRP, it's not like he's your friend and you can drop the more mainstream red pill truths on him over time to see how he responds.

You would literally be be messaging him hey I'm fucking the girl you like but here is TRP that will tell you how to change your life for the better but you will never have a shot with this girl ever because you fucked it up. Well tootles have a good day.

Some people don't want to leave the matrix, some people arnt ready, some people will fight to protect it

I know TRP says to not inject your morals at other people that bang someone else's wife / GF , but the only time I was tempted to message a dude about me banging his girl is when I found out they had been dating for 5 years.

I felt like shit but as I've moved on and experience more of life I saw the female truth play out harder then I'd ever seen before with her, she wasnt just cheating on him physically(which she was with multiple people) she was talking to another guy and branch swinging to a older, more wealthy, taller, and in a higher job position then her current BF.

They will keep you around so long as they can't find anyone better emotionally and of there is a social ramifications for breaking up with you (marriage, financial, or her friends/family being pissed at her enough were she would feel "regret") then they will cheat physically using tinder or bumble or coffee meets bagel , if they can do both then they will.

They seriously look at you like a job and are constantly asking themselves if they can do better..

10 upvotespeterson20043 years ago

I always say, people have the right to know - but they also have the right to remain ignorant. Don't ever force knowledge.

2 upvotesDocbear643 years ago

This is good , I'm going to steal this .

4 upvotesKoryphae_3 years ago

I don't know about you but I haven't considered TRP just being for picking up nice girls.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

In truth yes, but generally people have success to some degree in the professional world even if they are a Bata,

Girls on the other hand,

18 upvotesIdkWhatchanged3 years ago

Wow hahaha...this shit hit home, I wouldnt recommend talking to him, never know how a desperate dude is going to react

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

That and I don't mind keeping the competition generally scarce. That is to say... Lets keep our top 1% that we generate here the top 1%.

10 upvotesmetalhead43 years ago

I had this HB9 give me LMR a couple weeks ago. She didn't have sex with me so whatever. I openly told her I was seeing other women but I wanted her the most. Queue next week I'm fucking her brains out for 2 hours.

This is a chick who said she doesn't do hookups and only has sex in relationships. Well now look at you....

5 upvotescheezyk3 years ago

I wouldn't say a word, too much risk not enough reward.

Its tacit knowledge, you buy into TRP cause you seek the knowledge of your own accord. You earn it.

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Some treat it as depressing but it's actually quite liberating to know I can still do whatever the fuck I want to do and it only makes the game easier. For a long time I thought I had to be available and constantly doing what she wants but the opposite is true.

3 upvotesflacidd3 years ago

At least you've learned. Some people are just meant to be doormats. And they live life wondering what they did to deserve it. Sadly, assholes finish first.

158 upvotesvagbutters3 years ago

This just reiterates the core tenets of the RP. Be physically fit, well groomed and have abundance mentality. The second that you show your ability to drop everything going on in your life for the whims of her hamster, she loses all respect for you. Live the life of a busy, smart and attractive man, not the beta faggot who listens to her woes and gives her easy validation.

upvotesLittleWindowpane3 years ago

Neediness = unattractive, shows you can't get any.

5 upvotesGnarlyBellyButton873 years ago

Neediness shows desperateness.

2 upvotestuffbot3243 years ago

Pretty much. Surprising how that comment, which isn't quite accurate, is getting so many upvotes on here.

2 upvotescirclhat3 years ago

with a influx of new members this sub becomes seduction + twoX , no were did she mention she was dating a body building, but he makes that assumption to shame any male not getting any sex it must be because of your muscle and not your neediness.

28 upvotesethan863 years ago

Exactly. That which is easily acquired is not highly valued.

-4 upvotescirclhat3 years ago

This isn't a core tenets , abundance mentality is though and your ability to drop everything.

If a physical fit guy is beta you will sure bet his ass will be drop for a skinny nerd video game player

115 upvotesthrow174533 years ago

She's refreshingly self aware until the end.

Logically, I know that I want a relationship with someone who pursues me as much as I pursue him.

Logic doesn't stand a chance vs what she will actually be attracted and responsive to.

38 upvotesReturnofthemack33 years ago

yeah, and their 'logic' is predicated on misguided beliefs and ideologies about how things 'should be' '. If their logic was based in reality, they'd likely see how logical their feelings are in that context. Whether or not you want to fight your biology is another thing entirely

34 upvotessegagaga3 years ago

To be fair, there is actually generally good reason for BP logic, and that is its how society should be. But it isn't working without the law and religion and marriage-as-an-oath to enforce pairing, and thus RP reveals when and why women break the BP ideal for their chance at chad.

upvotessoupit3 years ago

This is a very astute observation here and deep comment for such few words especially. There can be entire new posts/discussions on what idea you're saying here; well there very much most likely has been and will be more. It also plays into the greater "Redpill" philosophy like in the political sense that is beyond the scope of this sub.

It's incredibly interesting and it says a lot how the ideas/movement of the 'greater' Red Pill philosophies all stemmed from and took the name of the truths that are revealed here. TheRedPill also answers the WHY's behind the HOW's of gender relation psychology of the Pick-Up-Artist/Seduction knowledge.

^ (To be clear I mean to say that whereas PUA/Seduction knowledge will teach and expose one to the HOW's of navigating gender relations, TheRedPill will answer WHY that stuff works; The Seduction community will often cite 'instincts/biology/psychology' of women, and even men, to explain why their stuff works, but they rarely delve into this stuff in the way that TheRedPill does. Seduction is way more about practicality while RedPill is more about philsophy imo. Unfortunately [?] this is also the reason that if one takes a look around Seddit they'll find many confused bluepilled beta's, and that includes both newbies/unsuccessful PUA's and even experienfed veterans/successful PUA's. It's like teaching a kid how to solve a math problem to the point where they can get the right answers, but not teaching them why the methods they use to solve the problems work; often-times the kid may not even know what they are solving even as they get the right answer. In this comparative example Seduction is like teaching the How, and Red Pill is teaching the What and Why.)

5 upvotessegagaga3 years ago

Thank you thats very kind of you to say sir.

I don't make a habit of dismissing Blue Purple or Red ideals, rather the evidence itself. BP can work when nothing goes wrong, but when it goes wrong all hell breaks loose (western decline) and RP is proven right. So the evidence lies with RP, no matter how much we may wish BP to be the way of it all the time.

RP is indeed very much the what and the why of it.

upvotesverify_account3 years ago

and that is its how society should be

Says who? Why should some jewish based god morals override millions of years of evolution?

6 upvotessegagaga3 years ago

Because humans are social not solitary animals, an alpha needs the help of all men in the village/town to fend off attacks from other humans. An alpha no matter how good his frame is, is not going to defeat 1000 men by himself.

It also aids human society and progress if mating with females is shared or couples are paired up, because not only are more children born and can be supported, but also more genes stay in the gene pool which helps with survival.

And lastly and by no means the least, if a bunch of men are denied mates then they are going to get angry and hostile and may attack the alpha (which occurs in nature), revolt against civilization, or even start wars to capture enemy women.

The BP ideology isn't because of Jewish or Christian religion (polytheistic societies paired also) the issue is that at the same time that women have been given greater freedoms, employment and voting rights, they have also lost social pressure on them to marry and lost the religious pressure on them to be faithful. In addition to which adultery was decriminalized and woman gained property rights. The combination of all these things has resulted in society going off the rails with 90% of women competing for the top 10% of men, with divorce rates souring from financial and exploitative reasons, huge jump in suicide rates among single men and large numbers of fatherless children. Not to mention wider sexual degeneracy and the spread of STDs. While the mythological reasons for most of the religious conformity were ridiculous they nevertheless along with the permanence of marriage helped ensure Western society was stable, fruitful and progressive.

The decline is a symptom of many ailments and to fix it needs many solutions.

1 upvotesvengefully_yours3 years ago

Should be is relative. What some want others don't. Eg. Equality forced upon everyone is mediocrity forced on all. Those who would be lifted to the mean want it, those who would be dragged back to inconsequential don't.

Religion is all about what some want to the world to be, feminism, sjw victim Olympics, and the idea that everyone is equal are nothing more than another religion based in fantasy. Don't need talking animals and fabricated stories that are physically impossible to be a religion, but having a belief that you use all the same tactics to force your belief on others is quintessential to religion.

1 upvotessegagaga3 years ago

Yes I'm really refering to religion as a social structure placing ideological pressure on young women to behave in a generally beneficial way. Coupled with religious piety (faith in the value of it) it held women to a certain standard. Not all of it was good, nor was all of it was bad.

7 upvotesslay_it_forward3 years ago

Just as we can't change what fires up our hormones and dopamine. If you're a guy that responds to big tits don't go to Asia.

Also, don't try to date women that match others ideals. Need one that fires up your own dopamine, not your buddies Steve's.

17 upvotesthrow174533 years ago

Just as we can't change what fires up our hormones and dopamine.

On this point I happen to disagree with you. Many aspects of society now are geared specifically toward manipulating dopamine.

Your comment leans more toward desire though - and I am aware this opinion will not be popular - but my view is that sexuality is not necessarily fixed.

It's been a trend in recent times to hammer home the idea that sexuality is something you are born with - in order to remove responsibility or negative sentiment to people who are gay.

This answer is too simplistic though, I'm sure people can be born with very strong tenancies towards things, but these are not absolute.

We have natural desire - for men that is testosterone and the compelling need to want to fuck. How this is channelled however, what can cause this response, can be influenced strongly by experience. It can be influenced strongly by hormones. It can be influenced strongly by society.

If you take the specifics of your strongest fantasies, or most profound sexual experiences - it is unlikely you were born with that.

Delving further into this I think there are healthy and unhealthy outlets for sexuality, desire etc.

A girl may be quite capable of experiencing strong arousal in a situation that is physically and emotionally abusive, with someone who cares nothing for them - but that is not a healthy outlet.

Likewise a guy is quite capable of experiencing strong arousal in a situation that he might not be comfortable admitting, and afterwards would feel ashamed for even considering (think the NoFap crowd) - but that is not a healthy outlet.

We have more control over our minds and bodies than we think in my view, the choices you make, and thoughts you have, behaviours you do or do not engage in, shape who you are, and can be adjusted, altered, strengthened, weakened etc.

This has gotten longer than I initially intended so I'll stop typing now!

8 upvotesslay_it_forward3 years ago

You've definitely done gay shit and now want to justify it in your own mind.

upvotesredartist3 years ago

I've done no gay shit and I don't think I ever will, but I tend to agree with that guy.

Gay sex being "cool" is not a new thing. Gay sex was "cool" in Ancient Greece. Society certainly plays a big role here.

If some men want to fuck each other in the ass then I don't care much, if anything it's less competition for me.

upvotesNowEarDis3 years ago

Since it's a choice, you can get it up for another dude?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I have no problem with homosexuality in the slightest. But I think the moment society embraces it, that is when it becomes a negative. I think it should be "Yes people do it and they are normal, but it is not ideal".

It seems like there are so many guys doing the transgender shit, and I honestly wonder if it was like that in our history or if it's a totally new trend. I'm sure there were always "gender confused" people, but was it so prevalent, or was it just swept under the carpet.

7 upvotesthrow174533 years ago

Read my post history - I have been fairly open.

I'm not seeking to justify anything.

The strongest argument against my position would be that I am projecting my own - fairly unusual experience - onto people generally, and as such am biased.

However, lets say you're right, and my post is just one long justification for an insecurity over my sexuality. That's a possible interpretation so we'll run with it.

Your response doesn't actually counter anything I wrote - it only addresses my motivation for writing or thinking so.

1 upvotescirclhat3 years ago

If you have control than gay conversation therapy would work,

women have 0 control over feelings for a alpha male, even if he is bad

1 upvotesOu-tis3 years ago

We often tend to confound desire with the object of desire. And we can channel it, like porn addicted who watch gay porn even if they are not gay.

0 upvotesRPXclusive3 years ago

Wait, what if I'M Steve and my buddy is Arty? Do I go for Arty's type-o-girls?

1 upvotesslay_it_forward3 years ago

Arty is gay like cum on a mustache.

39 upvotesspike551513 years ago

"He's openly told me about other girls he's seeing."

Well, that's rich to complain about while you're seeing two guys yourself.

70 upvoteskevin323 years ago

Then there's this other guy (let's call him "B"). I wouldn't say I have better physical or conversational chemistry with him than with A.

So you're more attracted to the guy you don't have better physical or conversational chemistry with, which are essentials to attraction? Jerks can get away with jerkish behavior precisely because they've established solid physical and conversational chemistry.

While I'm totally aware of the "chicks dig jerks" dynamic, this particular story feels more like a guy wrote it than a girl. It's well-structured and doesn't have that "going all over the place" hamstering that's common in women.

2 upvotesconsolsnowdnir3 years ago

Putting aside whether a guy or girl wrote it, I think there is still some truth in the post. A large part of starting a new relationship is the thrill of the chase. The excitement of seeing a message pop up. The whole teen gushing/giggling as I think about what to respond. That's something that eventually fades (obviously it fades a lot sooner the more you message someone). Guy B is more intriguing only because she doesn't know anything about him.

That being said, I think there's also an element of being too clingy too fast with Guy A. Guy A's clingyness exceeded her attraction to him, which would explain the annoyance. Change the scenario to a married couple madly in love with each other and I'll bet the woman won't find the clingyness annoying but rather comforting (like basking in the sun).

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

so sure, let's say it's a dude who wrote it to troll these cucks... the cucks still responded as cucks and white knights do. they don't see reality for what it is.

and i say this literally as i have a plate who i nexted, muted her texts, and she's now texting me about "why do nice guys suck so much? they're so available. and why are women so attracted to guys who treat us like shit? you muted me didn't you." not even joking.

upvoteskjdflkas3 years ago

How did you see that text if you muted her texts?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

muted, not blocked. notifications don't show up for her texts, but her texts still show up in the app when i open it.

upvoteskjdflkas3 years ago

Huh, never heard of that. Makes sense haha I should look into doing that for some people

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

it's in the hangouts app on android. really good for plates to make sure they never interrupt things.

1 upvotesmehdreamer3 years ago

Yep...This A and B thingy....is typically male thinking. Mathematic and rational. Girls don't think like that.

32 upvotesWubbalubbadubdubit3 years ago

I've been ignoring women for years and it has never gotten me any pussy.

13 upvotesvirusofthemind3 years ago

Ignoring women completely takes you off the playing field. Men manipulate the environment and women manipulate men.

If you think of a woman's machinations as her play of a psychological chess board, then the Chad in the op's story is a chess piece she can't give a fixed value too as his intermittent reward/punishment behaviour is shifting his value constantly whilst nice guy's is fixed.

Women hate this as they can't play their psychological games properly.

2 upvotesJackGetsIt3 years ago

Well said. To extend the metaphor a bit further beta's would be like pawns (very predictable but less valuable). I'd think an alpha would be like a queen that a women can't place on her board and they are very excited at all the power you will bring them when you come into play and YOU WILL! Which is why women love relationships and especially marriage. You've trapped yourself on her board.

2 upvotesRedPillWintergreen3 years ago

Lol might I suggest teasing/insulting them every once in a while? It might put you on their radar. That and being good looking.

1 upvotesWubbalubbadubdubit3 years ago

I am convinced it is just the looks factor. "Good looking" guys are usually ectomorphs from what I can see. Women have this innate attraction to skinny beanpole dudes. Even when a man of another body type bulks up on muscle it is only a fraction of women who are attracted to those muscle heads. Mesomorphs and endomorphs are naturally disadvantaged in attracting females.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

not sure if you are ironic or not but it would seem that you need 2 main ingredients for successful pussyslaying:

1: Semi-Ignore them like Chad Thundercock does

2: (What you lack) give them tingles, something only Chad Thundercock does.

55 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

All that matters in life is HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF. The SELF IMAGE is the key to everything. If you perceive yourself as inferior, you will try to supplicate and please other people. If you perceive yourself as equal status or superior, you will be confident nonchalant and cool, and won't feel the need to supplicate. The self image IS THE OPERATING SYSTEM OF THE HUMAN MIND. However you see yourself, everything else (your fitness, grooming, style, your confidence and body language, etc etc) HAS TO FALL IN LINE with it. It has to be congruent. All women do is notice which vibe a man is putting off. The needy supplication vibe (beta) or the nonchalant abundancy vibe (alpha) They notice how a man sees himself. And then test for congruency. That's all they do. That's what millions of years of evolution have programmed them to do. And once they are sure that your alpha self image is solid, their legs open. Plain and simple. Self image is EVERYTHING.

16 upvotesempatheticapathetic3 years ago

How do you improve your self esteem? It's been my biggest issue my whole life and still is despite finding TRP.

19 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Fixing low self esteem is way beyond the scope of one Reddit comment, but I'll try to point you in the right direction. First you have to figure out the source of it. Some men are just shy and scared, others have deep seated insecurities about their looks. Some have personality disorders like social anxiety disorder and others. So there isn't just one cause for low SE. Once you know what your issues really are, you can start to tackle them head on. Starting a diet and workout regimen and getting in shape will do wonders for most guys. Forcing yourself to go outside your social comfort zone and start conversations with people is another crucial thing. But the most important thing is to try and be mindful of your negative thoughts about yourself, your self-limiting beliefs and your insecurities so you can weed them out and replace them with healthy thoughts and beliefs of self-acceptance vs self-rejection. Good luck brother and keep learning and striving to be your best self.

1 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

Lot of men resent their size... If they did a little research, tension devices traditionally used to fix penis curvature can be used to increase length permanently and pumps used to increase girth permanently. In a year you can expect anywhere from 0.8"-1" given that you use the device 8hrs a day minimum (excluding breaks) as that is how cell division works. You can realistically expect to gain 1.3" - 1.5" length in a span of 3 years.

This is incredible for someone with let's say a 5.5" penis, it makes a big difference. Even an inch would instantly increase his self worth. Problem is, creating a situation where you can afford to spend 8hrs a day with a weird device on your dick. Anything less than 8hr (with proper nutrition) and you're just wasting your time.

If one is serious enough for this project, it will bear fruit. It has for me. I used to be 5.3" and in a year and a half I'm 6" (6.2" on Viagra). But I wasn't that consistent as I sometimes skipped days). It's a huge improvement to me but 0.7" looks insignificant on the tape measure...But it is a huge difference to me.

2 upvotestheredpill223 years ago

Any chance you could PM the specifics of these devices? Fucking gold mine if you make this into a mainstream product that's efficient enough to be used by your regular joe soap.

1 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

Dude it's mainstream. X4 labs, size genetics, phalluson forte. I used phalluson forte personally and gained 0.7" in 1 year even though I fucked up on the regimen. No shame bro it is what it is this is a self improvement forum.

1 upvotesCalfReddit3 years ago

I'm am happy with my penis as it is, but what did you do to achieve that growth? I ask because it sounds theoretically impossible

1 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

It is not theoritocally impossible. If you know anything about biology, that is how it works. Repairing microscopic damage over time. It's not just for muscles. It can work on vessel cells like on the dick. It will even work for bones you can literally get bigger knuckles by constantly beating them up. Microscopic fractures strengthen over time. Srs look up the science. I am living evidence. With enough patience and perseverance, it will definitely work.

upvoteschootey3 years ago

Ever since I saw those pics of guys with blue, purple, and black dicks, I've lost all interest in this. I'd rather have an average dick than end up with one of those.

1 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

That is like saying "I've heard stories of guys getting injured in the gym and ever since I've lost all interest in working out. I'd rather remain average physique." Those are if they misuse the equipment just like how you'll herniate your disks if you deadlift heavy with a rounded lower back.

19 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

The thing that jump-started my confidence was realizing that I was looking at people's faces to gauge their reactions to my behavior. I would crack a joke, then look for people's reactions. Or screw something up and check if people were cringing at me. When I made a note to ignore people's reactions altogether and just live my life unapologetically, my brain stopped being hypersensitive to criticism and peer pressure.

Identify the traits that you respect in men (like the trait of non-reactivity in my example), then adopt those traits.

If you respect men that don't pander to others, then stop pandering to others. If you respect men who don't laugh at their own jokes, then stop laughing at your own jokes. If you respect men who confront bullies and stand up for victims, then start doing that.

The more your actions coincide with the type of person you want to be, the more proud of yourself you will become. When you're proud of yourself, no one can affect you because you know your worth. You will get to a point where someone will throw criticism and it won't affect you whatsoever, you'll smile and think to yourself 'I wouldn't trade my life for yours in a million years'.

16 upvotesJoRocKStaR3 years ago

Meditate man. Seriously. Chances are you know the answers to your own questions but are too scared to really bring them to light. Meditation will help man, trust me! Looking inward is the bravest act anyone can do. Taking action to fix yourself is 2nd!

6 upvotesvandaalen3 years ago

If by meditating you mean lifting heavy shit and full contact sparring, you are right.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I've never understood meditation. I don't know whether I'm doing it wrong, but I just get really bored.

9 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

As he mentioned, congruency. Confidence is a by-product of high competence. But this step can be accelerated using NLP methods. If you aren't at a certain competence level at some activity (let's say picking up chicks), then you use NLP to make yourself believe that you're more competent than you currently are; (but you must still practice) and eventually become that level of competent.

It also helps immensely if you're highly competent in other things that you do regularly whatever it is that you do (gym, music, sports, etc). Strive for excellence in whatever it is that you do. And above all, take quantum physics very seriously. We're all manifestations of energy... Insecurity, discomfort, awkwardness... It's all just mental because you are too ingrained in the physical world. Once you believe that everything is just quarks interacting together, the IDGAF mentality follows.

10 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Your advice was good until it devolved into pseudoscientific bullshit. Quantum physics should be left where it's at: at the quantum level. At the macroscopic scale, quarks and weird shit happening at such a small scale is inconsequential and, with few exceptions, physical phenomena can be explained by Newtonian physics.

That being said, the mind is powerful and nebulous, so in a sense, I suppose you can borrow from some of the implications of quantum physics, but it is disagreeable in nature.

6 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

If believing in pseudoscience produces results in the physical world, I'm game bro. I'm here to play and win at this game of life even tho it really doesn't matter. Anything and everything is disagreeable in nature but it depends on the frame of reference. 3d would be time to a 2d being that is alive... And if you put yourself in 2d, you can't help but agree with the poor 2d bastard.

1 upvotesempatheticapathetic3 years ago

Thanks. I used to be a musician and cared a lot about it, I think the majority of my self esteem from that. But I stopped giving a fuck a couple years ago and don't have anything to do with it anymore. I feel worthless most of the time now and view myself with little value. Not sure where to go from here.

16 upvotestheONE8436633 years ago

You're in the nihilistic phase I was there once. Feeling worthless is because you're not amazed by the beauty of life. I am amazed every second by my existence and the sheer randomness of existence. I must exude this vibe of happiness because women keep commenting about my amazing attitude towards life. Just... Be amazed!

Now that doesn't mean disregard all the rules that apply in the physical world; just be stoic and take it as it is. AWALT is true, Alpha fucks, beta bucks. I see immense beauty in these mechanisms now. It's incredible how a female can convince a low value male to act completely opposite to his biological imperative... And how an Alpha Male can uncover the extreme Masochistic female sexuality just for him and make her act opposite to her self interest.

Live the physical world, treat it is a fun and challenging game, and it's always more fun to win at the game than lose at it.

3 upvotesagrarianabyss3 years ago

How do you get to - and stay in - this frame of mind? Sometimes I live here but it's usually a result of something external, either learning something cool or being in a particular state of mind with friends or at work. I do know that I'm incredibly lucky even to be alive and that the universe is a crazy awesome place but can't seem to hold on to this way of looking at things. Any advice when it comes to that?

0 upvoteshamstercide3 years ago

And above all, take quantum physics very seriously. We're all manifestations of energy... Insecurity, discomfort, awkwardness... It's all just mental because you are too ingrained in the physical world. Once you believe that everything is just quarks interacting together, the IDGAF mentality follows.

... what the fuck are you even talking about?

1 upvotesdigitalnomadic3 years ago

I actually understood that

2 upvotesvengefully_yours3 years ago

How? Well you're a man, right? Men build confidence and self esteem by achievement. You have to do things, earn the confidence, it's not like girls trying to tell themselves they're awesome, men need to prove it. Men prove it to themselves as well as other men, that is how we work, it's what makes us men.

You want self esteem, do hard shit that benefits you. Take risks, get out of the comfort zone and achieve something. Lift, build something, create, endure hardship and thrive. That's how.

3 upvotesA_yoshi_Egg3 years ago

one of the best way to improve your self esteem is to practice something (not video games) untill you are skilled and ready to showcase your ability. then find a crowd that is also interested in the same things. Take pictures or videos and showcase your skill to the world.

Self esteem boost doesnt always have to come from within, sometimes it helps when other people notice that you are capable of doing awesome shit, they will compliment you accordingly.

Being skilled at whatever it is you chose also makes you more interesting to others which will help raise your confidence level, because you know you have something to offer. This is why TRP preaches picking up new, real-life hobbies.

additionally, and obviously, getting your body in top shape will help loads because you know that you are strong and able to protect yourself and others (your girl).

2 upvotesempatheticapathetic3 years ago

Thanks. I said this in another comment but I've been a musician for the last 10 years, it was the only important thing in my life. I've lost interest in the last few years and don't perform anymore and a large chunk of my self esteem has gone with it. Not sure what to get into now.

What are your passions man?

upvotesA_yoshi_Egg3 years ago

i personally enjoy dancing and giving lightshows at raves. wierdest fucking hobby but ive been practicing for 7 years and it gets girls WET. its just a form of expression of mine and how i move my body that turns them on. being one of the best glovers and dancers at any show is guarunteed pussy. last show i went to i had a girl send me pics of her asshole and pussy and telling me how horny my dancing made her and tried to set up a 3some right off the bat. she was like a 5 so i politely declined. next!

2 upvotesempatheticapathetic3 years ago

Just had a look on YouTube. Seems like a really fun scene, don't have much stuff like that in the UK unfortunately. Good job! Gonna keep a look out for new stuff to try.

upvotesawakened11223 years ago

hey man, i used to have the same problem. now, my self-esteem is unshakeable.

like this guy said, "one of the best way to improve your self esteem is to practice something (not video games) untill you are skilled and ready to showcase your ability. then find a crowd that is also interested in the same things. Take pictures or videos and showcase your skill to the world."

you must find what you're skilled at. when you're skilled at something, that'll likely be your purpose in life. that will be the basis of your self-esteem.

as a result, your self-esteem will almost never falter. how could it possibly falter when you're so damn good at what you do?

let me give two examples of shaky and unshakeable self-esteem from my life:

  1. shaky self-esteem: in middle school, my self-esteem was based on playing basketball because all the other kids played it. i wasn't a natural. i felt clumsy when dribbling the ball, i'd often miss close up shots that all the "pro" kids could make, etc.

  2. unshakeable self-esteem: later on in life, i started getting into online marketing. as time went on, i realized i had a natural gift of selling things online. i enjoyed copywriting (writing with the intent of selling) and made tons of money. almost every single advertisement and newsletter i sent out had very high conversions. i just had a natural intuition for what would sell and what wouldn't, and i enjoyed the process very much. my self-esteem is now based on my marketing abilities. whenever i even think about feeling like shit, i just get back to work and do what i'm so damn good at, and i go back to feeling like a million bucks.

all the other comments about meditation and getting rid of insecurities work, but those should NOT be the foundation of your self-esteem. if you don't have a main activity/skill/purpose in your life, then all those meditation/fixing insecurities/self-acceptance shit won't work.

the foundation of your self-esteem should be based on finding your life's purpose and what you're good at (it's the thing that you're a natural at, you enjoy doing it, and you could work days on it without stopping). i highly recommend reading Mastery by Robert Greene for more info on this, and I also recommend trying out many various activities to find out what it is you're good at.

1 upvotesempatheticapathetic3 years ago

Hey thanks a lot for your comment. I have been a musician for the last 10 years and that was my mission, and I did get some self esteem from it. But in the last few years I've stopped giving a fuck completely and just lost interest and as a result my self esteem has more or less died. I still think I'm a great musician and all that but I just don't care about any of it anymore. I haven't found a new passion/replacement or new source of self esteem. Online marketing sounds really interesting tbh, glad it has worked out well. Not sure what I can do/try as a new job/hobby yet.

1 upvotesJackGetsIt3 years ago

Well said but remember that this only applies to hook ups and short term relationships. LTR's prefer alpha bucks but will eventually chunk their alphas that for alpha bucks and then when they are older and don't have alpha options they will settle for beta bucks.

24 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

This is why feminism is the most misogynistic ideology out there. This woman feels terrible for not being attracted to the sensitive dependable guy she's been brainwashed into thinking that what women look. She shouldn't feel like that, just like men shouldn't feel ashamed that they love big tits on a young woman.

1 upvotesDocbear643 years ago

Yeah it's so odd when you meet a typical Nice Guy and mention oyu actually like the bodies of women . I'll never understand how a grown ass man can recoil at the thought of like a womans body . It's mind boggling , even in my bluest of blue moments I couldn't deny being attracted to the female form , I'd imagine men like that are beyond sexually repressed .

upvotesrealsimp3 years ago

The key detail in this story is that OP mentions twice (once in her post and again in the comments) that Guy A and B are about equal in terms of physical attractiveness.

The dealbreaker was behavior. Guy A acted beta. Guy B acted alpha.

4 upvotesGroundhogLiberator3 years ago

Anybody else notice the irony of naming the beta "A" and the alpha "B"?

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I'm finding it had to believe honestly. Guy A has attractive traits that boosts his ltsmv, but advertises himself poorly for the initial wow factor.

1 upvotesFilthy_Rich_3 years ago

Guys have a hard time wrapping their heads around this concept. Logically, Guy A should be the winner. I mean he sounds like a winner to me. He shows interest, effort, he takes her opinion into consideration, and he seem dependable. You have to throw logic out the window when you're dealing with women though. They all want what they can't have.

1 upvotesTheJedi_Lied3 years ago

I honestly think we've been conditioned to think illogically about relation dynamics. This interaction makes the unplugged say "duh." Once you get it, there's a lot of logic there.

9 upvotesjotenko3 years ago

Reading this shit and realizing how I used to behave is both infuriating and hilarious.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I can attest to this. I always do better with girls if I'm cold and distant. I don't want to be but this is how it is.

upvotesrealsimp3 years ago

Could you elaborate. I'm interested in your game

3 upvotestheredpill223 years ago

Not him, but firstly, SMV trumps everything. You have to be on her radar initially.

When you meet at first, let your eye contact linger for a split second longer than you would with anyone else. Then pretty much ignore and treat her like you would treat anyone else in a social situation. Early on, never give her more attention than the other people around. Enjoy everyone's company equally. This shows you're not needy and will make you more liked within the group as a whole, which is essential. Make an effort to include everyone in the conversation. Always laugh the loudest, but don't always laugh.

This proves that you're high value and if you're good at it, she'll be the one vying for your attention.

Give her very limited indicators of interest, check her out "subtly", enough that she notices, but no one else does. If you want to come across as a powerful male who gets whatever woman he wants, these are the litrle intricacies that are important. Now when she starts trying to talk to you, after you've subtly shown your interest, it looks to the other members of the group that women are throwing themselves at you and you're not even trying. I don't need to say how powerful that is, not only for gettting the approval of the other women in the room, but also the approval and respect of the men, who will want to be like you.

Now you want to be friendly and nice, but it's what I call a cold politeness. You want her being the one wondering "does he really like me?".

Again, don't spend all of your energy on the one girl. Get around the party, meet everyone, don't limit your interaction to one person. Try to talk to everyone. Since you've established that you're high value, now you can be really nice without coming across as ingratiating or needy. Make a point of talking to the shyer people if you can, they will massively appreciate it and it will make them love you. Avoid arrogant, insecure people, they will probably insult you and try to shit test you due to jealously. We know how to deal with the situation if it arises, but the best course of action is to avoid it completely. More fans / friends, more power. Especially when you have the cold rationality of TRP behind you.

Chances are you will see the girl again, after she's hamstered most of the night about whether that confident, funny guy actually likes her or not. If she's confident, she'll be the one approaching you. If she's shy, you come on to her strong, but this is when the party has died down a little and there's less of a crowd. So your neediness isn't being shown to everyone there, just her. These are the subtleties you need yo be aware of if you want to be both well-liked AND a TRP pussy slayer.

This is all natural when you have a mentality of true abundance.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

There's 2 things: women like validation, and people want to impress those they respect. As well, wanting to impress someone implies that they are of a higher social status than you. Like the girl in this post, women crave validation but want it from a source that it is hard to obtain it from. She likes the bad boy because he rarely gives her the time of day, so when he does it means so much more to her. This feeling of validation from a difficult source will lead to her trying and impress him with looks or other. And since people respect and like (not always consciously but subconsciously) those people, she'll end up liking him even more. Women are attracted to people with high social status. In contrast, the guy that compliments her all the time is giving her validation while also not requiring her to impress him. He has put himself either on her social level or below by complimenting her often. Through trial and error this is what I've found. I might be wrong on all of this. This is why I rarely compliment girls. It also helps that I have "resting bitch face" so I always look unimpressed with people. People are constantly trying to impress me because it looks like I'm unimpressed all the time. That isn't intentional though. I'm on mobile so sorry if formatting is shit and my explanation is trash.

9 upvotesConceited-Monkey3 years ago

Based upon what she says, the B guy has other irons in the fire, whereas A seems to be focused on her. Given the way her brain works, B is therefore of higher value.

4 upvotesYouDislikeMyOpinion3 years ago

This is written as if I would post it directly to the okcupid subreddit thread.

I think that no one has really mentioned attraction. Logic is one thing. Attraction is another. Thoughts of attraction are one thing. Actions of attraction are another.

I'm going to put it bluntly, it seems that B is doing the trick. A can't do the trick. I think it's also important to note that this is not a relationship so the name of the game is dopamine. Which amusement park ride gives the most excitement.

It seems that OP is looking for a relationship, pitting two guys together for a duel with the highest value man (to her) of the two taking the throne. A paragraph of praise written for a man she is pursuing less than a man who did not get a paragraph. Suffice to say that it shows that OP is not looking for a relationship, and is going to bangville every weekend for the time being.

I'm not sure why a man with real options would go for someone like OP for a relationships. Seems logical to rent but not own (like B), and hold out for something much better to own (If a guy is into relationships).

Edit: Funny how I couldn't find anything about attraction over on that subreddit, but here, the third highest rated response is about attraction.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Where's Bangville? I can't find it on my map anywhere.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

About 10mins North of Whoretown.

1 upvotesmax_peenor3 years ago

On the over side of Tangtown, but none of the rides have long lines. Chad inherently knows how to get there without a map.

4 upvotesFubukiAmagi3 years ago

Douchebags get to fuck for real.

Nice guys get to pay for meals.

upvotesInsydeinformation3 years ago

Men bitch and whine so much and it's pathetic. It's like most guys don't realize what a good deal being a man is.

When it comes to women you can be as selfish and abrasive as you want and they will treat you better. So many men have a problem with this. Its little wonder women don't respect betas, who would respect a creature who reacts negatively to its own self intrest.

Betas exist to serve women, and women exist to serve alphas.

44 upvotesJtr3343 years ago

You're missing the point. It's not about purposefully being selfish and abrasive. That's the byproduct of actually having a fucking life. Women aren't attracted to the behavior itself, it's what the behavior IMPLIES vis-à-vis HE HAS BETTER SHIT TO DO SO MUST BE HIGH VALUE.

Read between the lines bro.

upvotesInsydeinformation3 years ago

I completely disagree, but believe whatever you want. There are plenty of nice guys who have lives, and plenty of asshole who don't. The two things are not correlated.

Both men and women have a magnetic attraction to people who treat them badly - and then nicely - and then badly again. It is an emotional rollercoaster. The instinct is stronger in women.

26 upvotesJtr3343 years ago

Read what you just wrote and explain to me WHY the fuck people would want to be treated like shit. What purpose does that serve?

The entire reason women are attracted to stoic, aloof men has nothing to do with them being stoic and aloof. Women have evolved to be attracted to these behaviors because those men are the ones who are DOING SHIT. They were warriors, builders, leaders, teachers and on and on and on... They didn't spend their days thinking about how they would take women on a emotional roller coaster. They just had other/better shit to do with their time. Women understood this and became attracted to the VALUE that these men brought.

Think about your favorite restaurant on a Friday night. It's busy as fuck and there's a long line. But the FOOD, the food is fucking delicious. Now, there's a restaurant across the street serving the same food with no line, but the quality is SHIT. You don't LIKE waiting in long lines. In fact it annoys the shit out of you. But you'd rather wait to have really good food than instantly get shitty fast food.

THAT'S the point you miss.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

It's actually a broken habit cycle, I don't know why brain forces it but unpredictable rewards are far more addicting. Thats why gamblers keep playing and video game addicts keep grinding. They don't know when they will earn a reward and are being fed small, meaningless prizes once in a while to keep them hooked always anticipating something better. Find an extract of Power of Habit by Charles Dihugg

upvotesInsydeinformation3 years ago

Not even reading your comments anymore. I don't argue with betas.

You, like most autistic men, think everything has to make sense in a logical sense. Women don't make sense. Hell, men don't make sense either.

Would men, get married in a world that made sense? Would 10/10 women marry write letters to serial killers in a world that made sense? Get with the program, son

3 upvotesawakened11223 years ago

your comment's spot on, but there are a few thing i'd comment on.

you're right, women aren't attracted to men who do shit. they're attracted to men who are confident/invulnerable. it just so happens that confident men are more likely to do shit. people confuse cause and effect. people say that women are attracted to the effect (the act of men doing shit), when really women are attracted to the cause (the behavior of male confidence).

i've also known many beta men who do tons of shit (hobbies/career-wise/etc) yet they make any woman's pussy dry up instantly when they talk to women because they have no confidence, aren't aggressive, etc

there are two points i'd touch on:

1) to me, male/female dynamics does make logical sense, but many people get the logic wrong. the right logic goes like this: women like confident men because confident men are more likely to be invulernable, which compliments a woman's vulnerablity. this is why women are attracted to murderers, etc.

2) you're right, reproductive instincts don't always align with self-interests. evolution basically said "hey women, since it's tough for you to survive due to inherent vulnerability, we'll make you feel attraction to confident/invulnerable men because they have the highest survival chance."

this instinct pervades today. it's a good instinct too. women shouldn't be having babies with pussy men and giving birth to half pussy kids, it's bad for the species.

but the downside to this instinct is that it makes them feel attracted to confident criminals/scumbags/losers/murderers, etc, which goes against the woman's self-interest.

upvotesverify_account3 years ago

Human instincts do not always align with self-interests, especially when reproduction is concerned.

Natural selection would disagree. Your genes are only interested in what's best for them.

3 upvotesHS-Thompson3 years ago

I don't know why this guy is getting downvoted, this comment is basically spot-on.

1 upvotesSeemedGood3 years ago

Both men and women have a magnetic attraction to people who treat them badly - and then nicely - and then badly again.

I have not seen this behavior preference in healthy men, only ones that have real emotional issues from childhood domination by mothers.

upvotesInsydeinformation3 years ago

Tons of healthy guys get whipped; what are you saying.

Sure, it's not extreme but it's the same mechanism. I call it the "honey what's wrong" technique. Women periodically get sad and moody and men try harder to please her without knowing why.

1 upvotesSeemedGood3 years ago

I'm saying that I haven't seen cruel or particularly fickle behavior on the part of women create "magnetic attraction" in healthy men - mostly it just creates mild to moderate annoyance. Yes some guys get whipped, but the healthy ones only get whipped by careful manipulation as opposed to necessarily "being treated badly - and then nicely."

1 upvotesTheJedi_Lied3 years ago

Both of you guys are talking about the same thing. Some women like being treated like shit more than others, proportional to quality of father. There's a grey scale for what women prefer and tolerate, but in general having a life and being selfish produce the same symptom.

1 upvotesJtr3343 years ago

Not arguing that the behavior doesn't give them the tingles, it does. I was just correcting this guy on WHY it does. Casanova over here thinks women genuinely enjoy disrespect and rudeness. They don't, but they tolerate it because they subconsciously understand the implications that behavior has i.e. "If he was a beta he wouldn't dare treat me like that so there must be value"

1 upvotesKolbykilla3 years ago

The is the basis of basically all sexual strategy that people fail to wrap their head around.

2 upvotesAscended_One3 years ago

Hats down to her self-awareness.

Unless it's fake of course.

2 upvotesmorcerfel3 years ago

I hate being B. I really do, but fucking shit man, if it's between being B or being cucked, the choice is simple.

2 upvotesBlackVale3 years ago

What are the responses to this?

2 upvotesTheJedi_Lied3 years ago

She got the b and a mixed up

2 upvotesAnjaJutta3 years ago

Attraction is not a martial art where you can take the moves and apply logic to them. The way women are attracted to men and vice versa is not something that developed in modern or paleolithic times, it's something that developed before the first human even officially existed. It's roots can be explained away with broscience a million times but the red pill is not about telling fibs about stoic cavemen but rather learning first how to add value to yourself and second honing the steps of the mating dance.

1 upvotestheoctopuss3 years ago

It's the pheromones. Even if they are of equal physical attractiveness, Guy B probably has more T. Guy A acts like a supplicating pussy because he's low T.

Ever have a girl smell you for no apparent reason, especially after a workout? It's them pheromones.

1 upvotesKoryphae_3 years ago

But aren't threads like this popping up because women themselves to some extent realise that the societal feminism has been forced on them? I mean clearly she wants one but is pressured to have another...

1 upvotesiamneptuno3 years ago

Don't play games, that's childish. Always mean what you say to women. Don't lie to women. Just be yourself.

This is a good advice, as long as you have a real value, of course. Those who don't have anything real indeed often resort to silly games and lies, with a questionable success rate.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Chad is like a rich guy and has GODly levels of status in the SMP. Betas are middle-class people. Nerdy Ned is needy: women are scarce as shit for him.

Omega males are super needy with not only sex, but also friendship, which is a big turnoff.

1 upvotesAndgelyo3 years ago

Chad doesn't have to be rich, he can be tall(in most cases), has a manly jaw, muscular with a v shape, and dresses nice and be social. He can also work serving fries at mcdonalds.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

OK, Chad's attractive and has high levels of relational capital; 30 year old McDonalds Chad might not get much success with UMC women.

1 upvotesNotNormal23 years ago

so act gay, and pretend not to like wimen. Got it!

upvotesNavidian3 years ago

Have you seen how women act with gay men in person? This is completely true.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Gay men are usually attractive though. The real kind of gay, where they were born that way, not the "I can't get chicks so I'll try sucking a dick" kind of gay (according to my gay friend's wisdom).

1 upvotesJizzWall3 years ago

That was me as well. it's hard to even believe i was that guy at one time. It hurts actually at how many times i've been duped.

Live and learn!!

1 upvotesGnarlyBellyButton873 years ago

It's impressive and meta how she acknowledges that she has discrepant feelings and clearly sees that her biology betrays her. She's like the real life Deadpool.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Guys wish they could like ugly or fat chicks all the time.

EDIT: If they are otherwise attractive and the only thing holding you back is their looks.

1 upvotesXeloda853 years ago

God damn that latter part sounds like me today. The prior sounds like myself 3 1/2 years ago.

It feels good becoming Chad. My question to the ECs is, if you find a young low count partner that's interested in being moulded by what you think is right,... How long can you keep the AP/BB paradigm up with a good potential long term chick that you've vetted. She's always wanting my dick, likes to cook and clean healthy. Didn't go to the liberal academia out of high school... And a slew of other things.

Like when do you start giving her a beta bone to ease her feels ?

1 upvotesnotjaysmith3 years ago

So... from one side females do not approach me and from the other side i should be asshole to them???

It seems like this is a ticket for an eternity of loneliness. Plus i do not like being a dick and i do not like being the douchebag that thinks he is better than asking a girl out

1 upvotesbrinkleybuzz3 years ago

"When a man does exactly what a woman expects him to do she doesn't think much of him. One should always do what a woman doesn't expect, just as one should say what she doesn't understand."

Oscar Wilde

1 upvotesHorus_Krishna_53 years ago

lol let me guess, this was hastily deleted cuz it proved red pill, that's why this is archived.

1 upvotesSpiderjoy3 years ago

In Asia the guy who pumps the cash pumps the pussy. No money no pussy.

1 upvotesMckallidon3 years ago

Respond to the complete opposite of who women say they are. Women are so full of shit they bullshit themselves.

1 upvotescirclhat3 years ago

According to most red pillers the nice guy isn't really nice and expects something in return while the douchebag is not a douche at all but in reality a guy who isn't a push over and works out 10 times a day.

1 upvotesLuckyluke233 years ago

once I've seen one of these I've seen them all.

no surprises for me here at all. just Be the "B" guy and not the "a" guy

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

It still makes me laugh every time I read "OKcuckolds".

1 upvotesFrenetic_Zetetic3 years ago

Despite all this, I find myself pursuing B more than A.

I literally laughed out loud at this, because she's proving everything on this sub correct.

1 upvotesredpillnexus3 years ago

Wow, she even named the two guys "Alpha" and "Beta". It doesn't get anymore real than this.

1 upvotesmyschadenfreude3 years ago

Never buy them anything except Happy Hour drinks. That goes until you're in a LTR, and only then it's metered. If she doesn't get you birthday or Christmas gifts, you get her nothing.

Showering girls with what they "want" illustrates that they don't want that. Which 1 - Wastes your money, 2 - Repulses them from you because they find you clingy as opposed to reacting to their queues.

1 upvotesPantsonFire12343 years ago

Lets not fool ourselves here. Besides the obvious personality dynamic that could be at play here. There is a big indicator that B is way above this girls league. Women don't like to hear this but men are programmed to fuck 80% that moves. We get selective only concerning commitment.

I know tons of girls who bragged from their high tower about all the hot stuff men had done to them. But when I asked them about their boyfriends they usually were struggling to find something to boast about.

There was this girl I know who used to brag constantly about all the rough fucking she'd had and the shit horny men would try with her. Pull her thong up in public, smack her ass, offering a quick fuck in the bathroom etc. Very big mouth on this girl, always a wise ass and acted like she could get anyone. She was dating some scrawny fuckboi dude and probably told herself she was close to locking him down. Ended up being pumped and dumped by a 150 lbs Asian boy who got bored of her. Sexual strategy succesfull am I right?

Another girl I know got fucked by a cabdriver in exchange for a ride home, got double teamed after a night out meeting two guys 15 minutes before the club closed. The guy she was chasing for a year left her puking on the toilet bowl right after she begged him for a date and if not a FwB 'relationship'. Anything to keep his attention. But he just flat out walked. Good enough for a fuck, not hot nough for a talk.

This is the hall of fame of the average womans succes. Selected as an All-american slut but can't even get an AFC to put her on his peewee roster. Doesn't even get to sit on the bench. Posts like this make it seem like there's some magic code to unlocking a woman's obsession but the truth is that these are just girls who don't realize they are a 5 chasing an 8. Some of these exmaples I gave you were full blown beta cucks. They just acted like 'example B' because they were dealing with a girl who looks like Rosie O'donnell. Men project and whenever we read a story about a girl on TRP we instantly imagine the girl we would want to fuck. Whilst in reality it's often the opposite.

Things like this don't tell the whole story. Women suck balls just like men do. There are 'Beta' and 'Alpha' women. Women like that will never be happy and neither will you if you target them. Because you will either be example A (within her league) or example B (out of her league and completely disinterested).

If every woman aims 2 leagues higher than she herself is in then no guy will ever have anything but boring plates who don't stay in shape. Ignore these low value sluts and target the hot ones. Girls on Okcupid aren't hot, they are average.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

the women on okcupid and pof are fucking disgusting. all the "alphas" talking about crushing it on those apps are ugly faggots

1 upvotesTRIICT3 years ago

Guy A reeks of desperation. No normal person wants to be with a desperate person. Guy A types make it too easy. Aloof Asshole is the way to go.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

ALWAYS keep in mind: Alpha fucks, beta bucks!

the only difference here is that this girl at least has SOME morality compared to other women.

1 upvotestruekejsi3 years ago

Exactly. This is the reason why more guys act like jerks towards women. Because unfortunately, being the nice guy who treats her with respect and wants to take it slow, doesn't get rewarded.

from OP post comments...well, we have a winner I guess.

1 upvotesNosleep73 years ago

This is good to read. I clearly just started gliding down into the blue zone again I can easily see that reading this. Time to get my shit together and stop being a pussy.

1 upvotesMikeAlphaGolf3 years ago

Had a girl the other night tell me. Oh I was texting with this guy earlier. He was asking me to come over, but he's a bit shit and needy. But it made me realise I wanted sex, so I texted you.

It's relationships on easy mode at a certain point.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

She should send nudes to entice Mr.B...she should send to me first for quality control inspection to see if they could be up to Mr. B's standards.

-1 upvotesLord_NShYH3 years ago

It really is that simple. Straight from the harlot's mouth.

upvotesRPtruthe3 years ago

I have my integrity, and if a woman wants to run off with a douche because he treats her like garbage, well she gets what she deserves.

28 upvotesCesare_MA3 years ago

Too bad integrity doesn't get you laid.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

What's so great about getting laid anyway?

Is it the social aspect of it or the sex itself that is so desirable?

In the former case, there is no end to the desire for affirmation that one might have. In the latter, sex is at most a couple hours long, and that is being generous.

I would rather choose the long game of integrity than the short game of being a douche bag just to get some ass.

At the end, choosing a life of integrity, though hard at the beginning, sets you up for a path of intrinsic benefits and joy as opposed to one of constantly satiating oneself on a sensorial level.

3 upvoteskez883 years ago

Having integrity and getting a lot of pussy aren't mutually exclusive. You can get a lot of pussy and do it in the way you want to, you just can't be a doorknob pushover about it

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I totally agree. Maybe I should have been a little clearer, but I was outlining some of the overarching extreme ends of the spectrum of fulfillment between sex and integrity.

I think a healthy marriage between integrity and sex is a lot more possible than many may think. That being said, I'm noticing an echo chamber of sorts where there is this unspoken assumption on threads like these that sex should be achieved by any means necessary, as if to eliminate the amount of unnecessary suffering one may experience in such pursuits if ill-gotten.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I agree. Using sneaky tactics and underhanded means to try and get laid (i.e. lying about income, profession, marital or relationship status, using drugs or alcohol to impair her judgement, etc.) is actually beta behavior. Alpha males use genuine confidence and charm to build attraction, and that's supposed to be the natural order of things, and there's nothing wrong with a man seducing a woman with his personality and charisma. There's also nothing wrong with purposely being aloof and cool and not being needy and texting back right away, etc. There is always some deception built into the game but women employ many deceptions of their own, so I say tit for tat. Thats the game. So there's a big difference between running game and being a creepy shitbag.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Yes and having confidence and charisma and being able to attract and seduce women isn't isn't an evil act of deception. It's giving women what they really want. They don't want a boring beta asskissing nice guy. Guys who learn game are learning how to attract women on the deepest primal level, and news flash: women LOOOOOOVE that feeling. It's a win-win for all. I don't know why there are so many arguments on this topic (treating women with respect vs running game) because women play the game too and they love it. They WANT to be gamed. End of story.

3 upvotesnotcheddabird3 years ago

What the fuck do you mean? What's so great about getting laid anyway? Are you serious. Was that a serious question?

If you want to be a monk then go do that, this isn't the fucking monk subreddit.

-1 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Why so anger? Not getting laid I presume? In all seriousness though, what about the so-called monk mode, as elaborated on many TRP threads?

0 upvotesdoooken3 years ago

Well, I wonder what the purpose of you frequenting this subreddit was if not for getting laid.

You do make a good case though of choosing the path of joy over the path of pleasure. I wonder if it is the social conditioning that has got us all accustomed to pleasure over joy. Therefore losing our integrity for the overstimulation of the senses.

1 upvotesmy_sfw_alias3 years ago

It might. Join team hilpuss and go to the protests- One butch cut purple haired freak will probably fuck you within the next 8 years.

1 upvotesswifter_than_shadow3 years ago

I think it honestly is too bad. In a fair world nice guys should finish first. TRP is a formula that works, and I use it, but I don't like it. The world isn't fair, I know. But it should be.

2 upvotesthisishowiwrite3 years ago

in a fair world nice guys should finish first.

I disagree entirely. In a fair world, winners finish first.

0 upvotesjoseph_fuzzco_Jr3 years ago

Would you rather drive 40 minutes to kill and cook an angus cow yourself, or microwave tendies that have been sitting in your freezer for months?

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

trick question... the tendies were already microwaved. you must pick them up off the floor.

1 upvotesthisishowiwrite3 years ago

The tendies. I don't have the time or the money to purchase a steer, string it up, bleed it and dress it, butcher it, then cook it. I've got far better shit to do with my time.

0 upvotesjoseph_fuzzco_Jr3 years ago

Apparently, women would disagree with you.

3 upvotesthisishowiwrite3 years ago

Maybe. But my experience with women tends to lend itself towards them taking the easy option in most cases. I've seen very few women go out of their way and absolutely bust ass to achieve something.

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I wouldn't say I have better physical or conversational chemistry with him than with A.

This is like a chick (that you're hitting on) from the bar saying "I'm not having sex with you tonight".

0 upvotesstomponthesun3 years ago

Too much black and white thinking here imo.

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

I bet that guy "b" was just taller.

0 upvotesTERMINUSxNATION3 years ago

Maybe someone can clarify this for me:

Wouldn't the stoic and aloof behavior of this "chad" contradict the point of forming a personal (or some type of..) connection with this girl that leads her to be sexually drawn to you? Like where is the balance between being stoic while being "open" and "honest" with women in a non BP way??

Any insight would really help, Thanks.

0 upvotesThe_M0rning_Star3 years ago

That's about that girl's ego. Has nothing to do with either of the men, or how they presented themselves. "Well, this one is like obsessed with me, why won't you do it??" She's chosen to satisfy her ego, rather than her relationship needs. It's a mistake a lot of people make in pursuing a partner.

-2 upvotes • [deleted] • 3 years ago

Great post, except for the anal part. We've been so conditioned by the (((controlled media))) to accept every kind of sexual degeneracy, it's sad.





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