linky here.

She's not doing much rationalizing here, in her favor. Lots of good material to think about here.

She adds this in the discussion:

All the guys I've dated since have pursued me, and have tried to make me happy. I'm not used to it, and at first it was kind of a turn-off. I had done all the work in my last relationship and wasn't comfortable with guys fawning over me. I enjoy the attention for sure, but as soon as emotions come into the equation I lose interest, because the "chase" is over.

There are some hamsters jumping in to "correct" her, though.

Keep your woman chasing you, LTR'ers. But, most of all, leave them better than when you found them.