I disagree with how the red pill tells young men, especially those in a school setting, to stay off of social media and not waste time with it. In my opinion, this is by far one of the worst mistakes a guy can make not only for college but life after it.

College:

I was in a popular fraternity but it's not just me, my friends who were not even affiliated with Greek Life and weren't really at their peaks in college did it as well. My friends really saw themselves reaping the benefits after graduation a lot more than I did. When we first started, we added as many people as we could as friends on Facebook.

If I met a cool guy in college, I was adding him on Facebook.

If I met a cool girl or hot girl in college I had good interactions with, I added her on Facebook.

if I met any cool or attractive person in general that I had a couple of good interactions with, I added them on Facebook.

Friend zone? No worries, I had them as friends on Facebook.

Did not matter, I kept growing my Facebook friend's list with lots and lots of people I had great interactions with in college and I kept on growing it and growing it and growing it. I ended up having over a two thousand "friends", a word I am using loosely here, by graduation. Now this is where the payoff started to happen.

Life after graduation:

After graduating college, I was somewhat struggling to get my feet set in regards to a career. For a few months I moved back home but after that, I managed to get a decent job in a medium sized city. I worked as a bartender for a little over a year and put some pics up on social media, all of which managed to get a lot of likes. Friends from back in college PMing me, checking up on me, and hot girls from back in school contacting me non-stop.

My university has a somewhat alumni base in most major US cities and a prominent one in some of them. I was never lonely, always had friends and former classmates drop by at the bar I worked at to talk to me and they tipped well too.

After struggling for over a year, in my mid 20s, I finally found a respectable entry role in a big city which would help me get my career started the right way after graduation. Shared it on social media and immediately was told by former classmates of alumni group in the big city who would help me get settled and make sure I don't feel lonely. I listened to them and boy was I happy, but the fun had not even started.

Then the fun really started.

I looked better than I ever had thanks to lifting, sleeping well, and eating right. Now I was starting to get paid more too and dress better. The pics I put up were better pics and now it was more than just likes themselves.

Came to realize that a lot of hot girls from back in my college days had moved to the same big city and were living the party life. I went to alumni association meetings as well as other meet ups that I found through facebook events that I was invited to.

Immediately, girls who knew me from back in college that would not have slept with me back then were all into me, sharing their stories, asking me what I was doing, giving me their numbers, calling me to parties they knew going on, and it was rare for me to be lonely.

Even the girls who saw me on campus a couple times but I never approached immediately remembered that one time they saw me. Funny how when you get better, they go from ignoring you even when you make eye contact to that one time they saw you and remembered what it was like.

And it kept expanding from there, the opportunities were unreal.

Former sorority beauty not only wanting my cock now but telling her other friends about me. That's the funny thing about hot girls, they have a lot of other hot girls as friends in their network, and word spreads. I slept with this one gorgeous brunette sorority sister I was just friends with in college before she left to pursue graduate school in Europe but through her I also met her two cute friends, one who I was FWBs with.

The options were endless, everyone knew a party that was going on every week where hot girls and some former Chads would gather. Opportunities hook up, get laid, and meet women; it is unreal. It was almost like a completely different world, a filter in a way, where college graduates who were high SMV weeded out low SMV college kids and took the high SMV ones into their crowd.

I had a lot of friends hitting Tinder and doing the PUA thing at bars, their results were decent but I felt like I had a leg up on them. By doing what I did, I was constantly being thrown into social circles and events with hot girls who saw me around enough and socially well connected guys who knew a lot of cute girls that were single.

Almost every former sorority sister had a friend that just graduated college, was heading to the city, and needed help finding her way around ;)

It was like a web of social connections and I felt right in the mix. Meeting cute and available girls in their 20s was never an issue, it was like a hidden society in a way now that I think about it. The events I went to were full of college grads that loosely knew each other and wanted to keep a community after college. Cute college girls and social guys from college were the main ones who took part in it and it I never felt that lonely after graduation because of it.

It was almost like this college bubble carried over on to the big city and turned into a bubble for college grads in their 20s.

Like some kids from the University of Florida would move to NYC and they would all stay in their alumni group but also mix with kids that graduated from Michigan or Syracuse and it would turn into this bubble of 20 something college graduates who carried the entire hookup culture to the big cities. Events would go on with these college grads who had money and wanted to desperately live out the rest of their youth.

I think every guy in college, no matter how high or low SMV, should do this.

Make friends, don't worry about getting laid, don't chase girls, and simply add them to your network. In a few years when your value goes up and you really hit your stride, you will truly reap the benefits.