tl;dr: Don't trust a woman to raise your children; add that to the list of things women aren't good at.

To forestall some criticisms: Why am I not posting this in MRP? Because those guys are already married. This is for guys who want to have kids, need to vet a partner, or maybe don't even have a prospective partner yet. Why am I posting this at all? I've had several conversations with men on TRP about this very topic, so I know there's some interest. Is this sexual strategy? It's reproductive strategy, and there might be some MRA relevancy.

Caveat 1: You have to be a real stud to pull this off. (I'll explain why later.) But you have to be a real stud to pull anything off, so get to work.

Caveat 2: There is a relative risk to this strategy. But there's relative risk to any strategy. Know the risks, no matter what you're doing.

I have a son in his 20s, and two teenaged daughters, and I raised them all, so they are confident and happy people. Raising kids is fun and easy (if they are normal). Just imagine how nice it is to get up in the morning, have your wife leave the house, play with your children, go for a walk, check out the hot moms at the playground, go to the library, do whatever you want, then take a big-ass nap in the afternoon.

I don't have to tell you guys how horrid some mothers can be. 95% of typical American teenage girls hate everything, hate their mothers, hate their sisters and brothers. Why? Because we have emotional teenagers raising actual teenagers, everybody getting riled up all day every day. And how many boys have had a number done on them by their mothers, whether they get along or not? Are they then equipped to go out and handle the world?

Seems obvious when it's spelled out like this, but I would never have thought these things 20 years ago, and I certainly would never have planned to do this, but I was extremely lucky. When the kids started to arrive, I was teaching at a university, not particularly happy with it. There was no way in hell I was going to have my kids go to a daycare and have a sexualized physical encounter with some older child or some adult pervert. My wife had a pretty good job, so I quit mine and fired up some freelance projects. It was all very seat-of-the-pants. I'm here to tell you a few things I've learned.

Here are some considerations, in no particular order.

The money.

The overwhelming consensus on TRP is a woman will resent her man if she makes more money than he does. This is actually incorrect. With women, it's all about what she feels, not what she thinks or knows to be the case. If she feels as if she makes more money, then you have a problem. Don't let her feel that. In my case, she makes more money than I do most years, but I control the money, and she feels that. It's not a problem.

Another thing about her making more money than you is, in fact, a really good thing: You'll have nothing to fear from a possible divorce. Depending on the state, and other considerations, there won't be any alimony or child support; you might actually get money from her (I'm not giving legal advice here, obviously). And custody will probably not be a problem. I'm imagining one of you guys doing this maliciously, having a few kids then kicking your wife to the curb after a few years, taking the kids with you.

The sex.

If the woman stays home with the kids, a lot of men think she'll be really glad to have her husband come home and give her attention, and a lot of men will be wrong. The last thing she wants is somebody else touching her. If the man stays home, the opposite is not automatically true. In fact, if you are staying home with the children, there is a very specific hurdle you have to overcome.

This is something you will not likely see discussed anywhere except this forum. And it's something that I didn't even realize was a potential issue (because I did not experience it) until I saw it here, about two years ago. User u/trudatness (I wonder, is he still around?) mentioned, as one of the pitfalls of being the stay-at-home dad, the maid and nanny services. What's the problem with this?

The woman will see that the house is in order and the children are taken care of. She will appreciate this, but not in the way that a man will: she's not going to think that she needs to do anything for you. She will be able to relax, but that's not a good thing for you! You don't want a woman to relax, you want her agitated. Furthermore, she will feel that you are a good little bitch. Obviously not good.

That's why you have to be a stud.

Her job.

This is for the vetting process, well before the kids are on the way. You have to be sure it's not in a masculine environment, for obvious reasons. It should also definitely not be in academia; I know from experience. There is entirely too much fucking around going on there.

Be wise. This is what I meant about "relative risk."

The time.

This is my favorite aspect of this, beyond having well-brought-up children. My wife would come home from work, we'd have a beautiful, nutritious dinner, that I made, and then: it's ME time. You don't really get a free pass like this, every single day, when the woman stays home. I can go to my workshop, go to my office, leave the house, go to a friend's house, to a bar, to the gym, ANYWHERE I want, with total impunity, with no excuses, EVERY SINGLE DAY. It's wonderful.

I could go on and on. There are so many benefits. It's so much easier and more pleasant to keep up on your house upkeep, for instance, when you're there in the daytime, every day, and that's huge if you live in an old house.

If you want some child-rearing tips, it's not necessary, it's really just commonsense. Funny thing, it's very red pill: boundaries, strong communication, leadership, delegation, doling out limited responsibilities, expectations, etc.

EDIT: Apparently most here think this is all just plain impossible. As it turns out, I've been the Alpha Fucks my entire adult life without even knowing it.