I don’t ever post my FR’s here because most of them are but a result of PUA knowledge and execution. This one, however, was special. This is the kind of shit that does not happen (at least to me) often. This was one of those days where everything went text book, with lots of notes to take from it.

You will see numbers next to a few sentences in this FR. Each of these will relate to a short note I made in the end of the post, explaining my actions, covert intentions and social behaviors. My recommendation is for you to have this webpage open twice on your browser and leave the second tab showing the notes on the bottom half, so that you can refer to them easily while reading the FR on the first tab, and not have to constantly scroll up and down as you read the report. Refer to the notes as you see them while reading the FR, otherwise this will look like another anonymous brag for internet points and the time I put into this will be wasted.

 

Now, on to what matters:

 

I live in SE Asia and went out with a few friends to a rooftop party which lasted the whole afternoon. Lots of booze, music and sun (it’s always summer here).

 

Quick side note: I get a haircut every 2 weeks, lift with an “I’m taking Jerusalem back” mindset, and was wearing a black t-shirt that is 1 size too small for me. I am not big by any means, but in the middle of slightly overweight, soft-looking dudes wearing tank tops, these easy-to-do things put me easily in the SMV top 20%, game not even being considered.

 

We get drinks and I lead my friends to chill at a standing table pretty close to the DJ booth. As soon as we get there, I lean against it and turn around to them, making them stand around me.1

Not much happens for a long time until most people have already had a few drinks, so I keep doing my thing there. I’m in a good spot, surrounded by good looking people and looking like I’m the one in charge of the group.

Fast forward 1h or so, the sun starts setting, the music starts turning heavier and people start gathering around the dance floor. Time to have some fun.

I look around and see Chad dancing. Fit, shirtless, in front of the DJ booth with his hands up and eyes rolled over. He is the center of attention at that moment, and no one dares to join him due to his highly perceived SMV. He literally has a 2m diameter of empty space around him, in a crowded place. Meanwhile, I note he’s also too high on something to care.

I’m slightly taller than him, maybe same muscle size. Not nearly as ripped, though, but I’m wearing a shirt, and that works wonders for all the hamsters watching.

He’s my way into the social value throne.2

 

So I dance my way towards the DJ booth too, acting like I own all that shit, while all 3 people I know in that place are literally still sipping beer by their table.3 As soon as Chad sees me, he walks up to me and gives me an “I’m so high on shit and have known you forever, come join me” hug.4 I smile, put my arm OVER his shoulders in an “I’m here, bro” way, hold the side of his head against my neck, always giving him my side, while his torso is facing me. Dude is gone and now I look like his protector to the eyes of everyone.5

 

I go back in the crowd hi-fiving a few clearly socially awkward dudes who would never say no to some instant social validation. I’m having fun while creating social value.6

 

This HB8 catches my eye. She is maybe 5m away from me surrounded by a few guys trying to slowly dance their way to her.7 Apart from the self-inflated ego sloots dancing by the speakers and shit, she’s clearly the hottest chick I see around me.

She is with friends so my first thought was to approach the group. My second thought was that there were too many girls around to waste my time with running groups, so I just approach her, smile, pull her head towards mine (not the other way around so that she’s entering my area while already starting off the interaction with kino), put my lips against her ear, give it a brief pause and say

 

“Hi.”

Oh Hi – smile

“I have a big, big problem here. Can you please help me out?”

Er… sure. What’s wrong? - Big, intrigued little girl’s eyes.8

So I pull my phone, already open on the “add contact” option, where I had previously written “somehow cute girl #4 at somehow cool party 29-01-17” as the contact’s name, and hand it to her. I knew this was a big fucking leap but I was just too high on life and enjoying myself not to push boundaries and see how far I could go.9

 

Big smile and giggle, followed by her looking down and to the left while covering her mouth.10

She writes her number down and hands me back my phone.

So now I ask her name, tell her mine and follow up with a pause and quick judgmental stare. I then ask how old she is. I do this for two reasons, first one is I don’t want to become an accidental pedo since in Asia girls look pretty much the same from 15 to 30. Second one is that girls here have a big concern thing with being and looking young, so if she’s over 25 she’ll feel a bit embarrassed, and keep playing in my frame.

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“Oh…”

I know… - sad face.

“Tell you what, I usually don’t go beyond 25 but will open an exception for you, since you’ve been so helpful with solving my problem 2 min ago.” - Big fucking grin.11

Haha ok then!

Smile and keep dancing, giving her my side view. Guys around are either starring in “Oh no you didn’t” mode or giving me thumbs up.

I keep dancing like this for a couple mins and then go meet Chad again near the DJ booth. I face the crowd and put my hands up. Many people (mostly guys) respond by doing the same.12

After dancing near the booth with a few people for a while, I go back in the crowd and see HB8 looking at me. I sign her to come join me and give her my side again, until she positions herself in front of me. I ask for a kiss on my cheek.

Hmm why?13

“Because I’m opening up an exception for you, and that’s very nice of me. Come, give me a kiss on the cheek and I’ll do my best to reciprocate.”

HAHA ok. - Kiss on the cheek followed by make-out session14 until I end it.15

“Got a little bit carried away there, didn’t we?” – laugh.

I have to tell you something

“What’s that?”

I have a boyfriend.16

“Well you look like the kind of girl that could use two.”

She giggles and I kiss her on the forehead while slightly puling the hair on the back of her head.17 I leave her to join the crowd again.15

 

At this moment I have guys coming to me to take selfies, giving me bro shakes, fist bumps and hi-fives every time they cross my way.18

Random chick approaches me and starts dancing around me 2m away from HB8, I play along. Random dude sees this as his chance with HB8 and approaches her.

HB8 pushes him away and comes in between me and random chick.19

As the gentleman that I am and not wanting to let anyone down, I dance with both of them.

After a few mins of this, I dance my way into a group of post-walled women who were getting no attention. They smile and dance along for a bit.20

I then leave and join Chad again, who is now completely trashed. Fuck him, nothing to do here for me anymore. Pee break time.

As I come back from the toiled, HB8 approaches me.

I’m so thirsty, I need water.21

“You have to come to my place. I have amazing water there. And like 5L or more.” – I got this line from some guy’s comment here on TRP. If you’re reading this, kudos to you, kind stranger.

I can’t go home with you and you know why. – Giggle.22

“Haha I know. Come, let’s go.”23

Maybe I can give you a ride and drop you off at your place, then, just because I feel bad for letting you down?

“Maybe you can.” 24

 

 

 

Side Notes:

 

1. In PUA lingo, this is called “locking”, and basically consists of positioning yourself in a way that shows you are the one confortably “anchored” in said location, while everyone else is just there standing, looking less comfortable than you just to listen to you speak. Extra points if you pull this in a place that can be seen by everyone. I chose the table closest to the DJ.

 

2. People evaluate other people and stuff by comparing them to the nearest version of it they can find. You will look much better in everyone’s eyes if you stand next to a not-so-good version of yourself.

 

3. If you act like you know everyone, people will assume you do know everyone.

 

4. People want to socialize. You will be surprised by how many supposedly high-SMV people will enjoy and embrace your company if you approach them from a non-inferior angle.

 

5. This is a very subtle way of AMOGing while being friendly. Careful on pulling this shit, though, some people might take it the wrong way. Dude was high so I got away with it.

 

6. Be casual friendly to low-SMV people to boost your perceived social status. They will not brush you off since they want to boost theirs too, and that does not come easily for them.

 

7. The “let me subtly stare at you looking for an IOI that says I can dance with you while facing you and only you” approach is the worst way to go for girls in clubs. You will reek of insecurity and desperation.

 

8. Be vague yet intense, make her want more and ask you questions. Make her emotionally invested.

 

9. I have been playing it very, very horizontally, lately. This has resulted in way more plates than I can dedicate my time to, which by itself results in ridiculous amount of IDGAFness and detachment of results from whatever approaches I do now. This is key to just let go and enjoy the moment instead of thinking too much.

 

10. This behavior means shyness and submission in the presence of someone with higher SMV. You should ALWAYS assume this reaction is as a sign of clear attraction towards you.

 

11. You have to set your “here’s your chance to win me over” frame right after you get IOI’s, otherwise you’ll be playing in her frame and she’ll either friendzone you, find you too pushy, or both.

 

12. Most people are just sheep, they want to be shown how to act cool, follow, be accepted in social crowds and become part of something. Don’t underestimate this by thinking everyone is an independent thinker who can smell your bullshit from afar. They are not.

 

13. Shit testing starts.

 

14. Pull.

 

15. Push. Let the hamster spin

 

16. “Help me out here with rationalizing how you’re better than him.”

 

17. This is my go-to move I often use when I’m faced with a chick telling me she can’t do x, y and z because whatever, but is still giving me IOIs.

Detailed explanation, for the noobs:

  • Kiss on forehead -> patronizing and friendly, let’s just back off and be friends, then

  • Pull hair on the back of her head (SLIGHTLY) –> I want to fuck you

  • Her hamster -> which one of the two is it?

  • Her pussy -> I’m really fucking confused here too, so please excuse me while I go sploosh.

 

18. This is how ridiculous people usually are. You could have found the cure for cancer or the formula to achieve world peace, and still be seen as a virgin beta. However, if you’re some guy whose only thing to show is a DGAF attitude and make-out session with a hot chick at a party, you’re seen as King Pussy SlayerTM.

 

19. Dude was not bad looking, and maybe she even liked him, maybe she would have fucked him in another context. Maybe. Fact of the matter is that girls much rather share a desired man than have exclusivity with a pushy one. Plus, she had just made out with me, and looking like a slut in public is a no-no for most girls.

 

20. When upping your pre-selection status, you don’t have to do it with the hottest chicks, so don’t worry about playing it safe and going for the group that’s surely going to embrace your company. Chicks usually think that if you’re good to several other chicks, you must be good to all of them.

 

21. “Is this really alpha cock that I’m considering to sit on and thus jeopardize my loving relationship for, or can I still get my validation from simply making you buy me shit instead of fucking me?”

 

22. “Can you please give me one last confirmation that I’m about to choke on alpha, IDGAF dick? Thanks.”

 

23. Ignore shit test. Easiest way to go once you’re already pretty close to the Promised Land.

When her body language says one thing and her lips say another, play along. Agree with her, and keep physically advancing if you see no physical objection from her, be it moving somewhere else or taking off her pants. If she does start pushing you away or even remotely showing less investment (giving you her side, not touching you, talking to other people too much, checking her phone constantly) play along again. “Push her away” too, give her time to get comfortable with the fact that you’ve already stepped a few stairs further up in her staircase to pussy and WAIT for her to advance (never try to compensate for her lack of comfort ASD with more sexual escalation). It will happen, so be patient and keep escalating when it does. Once (if) she gives you ASD again, I guarantee you it will be once you are BEYOND the phase where she gave it to you a few mins ago. This is how you escalate. Pull until you get ASD -> push -> let her pull you -> pull again until more ASD -> repeat until gates to Vaghalla have been breached -> extreme success.

This goes for all moments of your pull, especially LMR.

 

24. If a woman sucks a dick, she tells a really long story about how she was put in a dick sucking situation. - GayLubeOil.

Your job is to help her create that story in her head. Once she comes to you in the morning for “I had no idea this would happen” validation while still figuring out how her new acquired walk will influence her ability to wear high heels, bouncing her way around the apartment to the door, AGREE.

It all just happened, no one is accountable and you’re now one of her blameless lays.

 

 

Final Additional Notes:

 

  • Don’t let you ego look at this FR and go “I can never pull this kind of shit because I am not a guy who has x quality, which Praecipuus clearly does have”. It’s not only about how much you lift, it’s not only about your haircut, it’s not only about your social value, it’s not only about your game, it’s not only about your fucking one-size-too-small black t-shirt. It’s about efficiently maximizing all that you CAN have, prioritizing the fields that come the easiest to you.

 

  • Whenever you are in a social environment and realize you are raising your SMV exponentially, act like that’s your everyday life. Do not, for a second, act like a happy kid on Christmas day. People need to think that is the only way you are used to being treated.

 

  • I don’t pull this kind of shit very often. This was a good day for me and my attitude in this event was most certainly overkill if you only care about taking a girl home. I was way more into having fun by manipulating the social environment than getting my dick wet. Not everything needs to go so well for you to pull.

 

  • Maybe HB8 saw all the SMV-raising stunts that I pulled, maybe she saw a few, maybe she saw none and the fact that I DGAF was enough for her. Bottom line is it doesn’t matter. Focus on having fun regardless of who’s watching.

 

  • This person I acted like yesterday was not “natural” me. I am not the shit. I am a guy who’s always struggled with social behavior and creating empathy as a kid, and that made me read tons of articles and books on how to deal with people. I was the nerdy kid at school, watching the drug dealers fuck the hot girls. If I were following my “natural” instinct, I would have ended up drinking beer in a corner, talking to my friends, admiring all those sheep in front of the stage from afar and gone home by myself much earlier. This was learned behavior that only comes with experience, many mistakes and blow-offs (way more than success stories, to the point where I don’t care about them anymore).

 

  • I don’t think I am the shit just because I can pull, and neither should you. Women are just people with very flawed ways to evaluate men’s SMV’s. Use that to your advantage but don’t let your ego get attached to your success stories, since they all depend but from these same flawed SMVometers.

 

  • This FR is not about the pull. It is about how you can easily manipulate outdated human intuitions, dogmatic norms, and gynocentric social behaviors to your servitude. We are all predictably impulsive primates living in a concrete jungle whose royal currency is pussy. Use that to your advantage.

 

  • I am not the shit, but I can very well act like I am (maybe that does make me the shit, though), and so can you.