We all know that Blue Pill conditioning goes deeper than just sexuality. However, the awakening to the realities of female centric sexuality can lead you to look at the ways you've been conditioned in other parts of your life as well.

Our lives are awash with conveniences. They are helpful and often make our lives better. But conveniences are not guarantees. They are services offered to us. There is no guarantee that they will be available when you need them. Reliance on their availability is nothing more than one huge, and incredibly dangerous, covert contract.

As men, it is important that we identify these covert contracts in all areas of our lives and do what we can to protect ourselves. Unfortunately, because of the good that these conveniences do and the ease they add to our lives, it is easy to become conditioned to rely on them for daily life.

Below are a couple of examples of one sided covert contracts that I've uncovered in my own life.

  • Food will be available at stores for me to purchase at any time I wish.
  • Clean water will come out of my faucet when I turn it on.
  • The money in my wallet will continue to be valid to transact business.
  • The utilities (gas, water, electricity, etc.) that I pay for will continue to be provided in perpetuity.
  • Gasoline will come out of the pump.
  • My credit cards will always work.
  • The GPS will reliably work and me how to get where I'm going.
  • The police and government have my best interest in mind and will protect me.

This list can go on, but I hope you see the point.

I've chosen to address some of these issues in my own home over the past several years. You may want to do the same.

Not all of the items that I listed above are or can be completely within your control. However, you CAN take steps away from dependence and towards independence in parts of your life like:

  • Food
  • Water
  • Energy
  • Money
  • Shelter
  • Self Defense

And many others.

One of the cornerstones of my personal philosophy is that complete self-sufficiency is the ideal state for a man. I may or may not get to the ideal, but I will continually move closer to it. Reducing the reliance on conveniences and the performance of people outside myself is the means by which I move in this direction.

But how is this Red Pill and what does it have to do with sexual strategy?

Living a self reliant lifestyle is a powerful way to live within your own frame. A man who is becoming self sufficient isn't going to give up the independence he gains. Instead, he will be going about his life and will choose who he brings with, for what purpose, and for how long.

I've seen discussions here many times about how TRP is about making better men, and the improvement in sexual outcomes is generally a side effect of this self improvement. We obviously lift, address our own personal attractiveness, and all the other great advice we find here.

But this self improvement isn't just about looks and health. We can get results by improving all areas of our lives. An independent, self reliant man is a powerful man. He doesn't need to lean on women or government or anything else for that matter. He is the beginning and end of the purpose of his life, blaming no one for his shortcomings and owning his role in taking care of himself.

Also, from personal experience, the more independent I become, the less I give a fuck about the problems of other people that don't have a bearing on my life.

For the BP'er trying to find his way out of his mess or a RP'er looking to further solidify his frame, taking on a self-reliance mindset may be one way to begin building or grow your outcome independence and the IDGAF attitude that is so central to RP life.