I think that everyone should go to a Rave/Club every once in a while, simply because they eliminate a huge tool for attraction that we are used to: Talking. It's very difficult to talk in a club and next to impossible at a Rave, you're forced to use only your actions to show attraction and close with a girl and for that I believe they are very good 'training' areas. It reinforces how important and easy kino really is.
Raves:
Dubstep/House/ and EDM. Lights are all over the place. Girls dress hyper sexual and plenty of guys are still bluepilled as fuck.
Do's:
Everyone is going to be drunk as shit/rolling on acid/molly. If you are comfortable around people on these drugs go ahead and do them, but don't be that asshole that overdoes it (Obviously). If you don't like drugs just stick to alcohol, but pregame that shit since mosts raves won't let you bring alcohol inside.
If you're fit take off your shirt. It's socially acceptable and if you have any muscle texture and look like you're having a good time girls will FLOCK to you like a herd. It's actually amazing how well this worked the first time I did it.
Peacock! Peacocking at a Rave is almost expected. Look as ridiculous as possible, this is also a time to bring out that old halloween costume and wear it. I've gone as Superman, Santa Claus, and Cupid. All worked fantastically.
Bring props to give out, it's not necesarry but people love free shit. It can be a 5$ bag of glowsticks or part of your costume. My best idea was giving girls my superman cape to wear and it was almost like I was 'marking' my territory.
Don'ts:
Do not stick with the same girl all night, if you start dancing with a girl do more than just grinding, I like to spin them around and look them in the eyes while I dance and both of us crouch to the ground. I usually make out with them, dance with them for a bit, maybe slap her on the ass than I move on. Keep a mental note of what girls you dance with and come back to them later in the night. Around the 1/2 way point you can choose what girl you want to try to sleep with.
Don't just start grinding on a girl, it's dark so theres a huge chance she's ugly anyway. My usual approach is to face them and grab them by the hands and spin them/back my ass into them so they grind on ME. You don't start grinding on a girl for the same reason why you never approach a girl from behind. Theres a good chance she's on drugs so you're going to freak her out. Lots of raves can be sausage fests so tons of guys have already tried to do that and it's hilarious to see how nervous these guys are doing it.
However: Don't be afraid to get sexual. It's expected for that shit to happen so once you start dancing try to escalate kino like a rocket ship. Usually after kissing a girl I start sucking on her neck or just motorboat her if I feel it's good to go.
Go in with the mindset to get girls, you main focus is having fun. Girls can smell that desperation from a mile away and it makes your look both pathetic and creepy. If you don't enjoy the music than why the fuck are you at the rave?
Clubs:
Similar to a rave but much more tame. It's similar to a frat party.
Do's:
Pregame, Clubs are expensive as shit. Drink the booze you want + a little more cause it's gonna wear out soon.
Dress nicely. All the time I see guys in t-shirts or getting by with just a collared shirt but try to rise above it. My usually gear for a club (Depends on how the club is made) is a Blazer w/o a tie, White collared shirt, and jeans.
Get to know the owner/bartenders. They are your friends and if you treat them well and they get to know you will be treated like a Prince. I get free VIP spots all the time and plenty of drinks on the house. I even got a few job offers as a club promoter.
Don'ts:
Same basic rules as a Rave, expect everyone to be drunk as shit.
Stick around the club too much. Unlike a Rave it's perfectly fine to leave the club early. You dont' have to bounce around girl to girl like at a Rave. If you find a girl and she's clearly DTF, grab her hand and leave.
Don't be a creep/idiot. (Obvious) But bouncers are just inching to kick people out, especially guys. If you cause any trouble at all expect to get your ass to the curb.
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