And the funny thing is that we are mostly taught the opposite. That your "partner" will be your safe place.

THIS IS NOT TRUE FOR MEN. It just isn't.

A girl can control this instinct initially, to get you emotionally invested, to "get to know you". She will hide that her attraction is diminishing as you stop being a mystery to her, she will even fuck you just so you will be sure she WANTS you to open up.

This is just another trick nature plays on us. We feel safe opening up to someone and making that person special to you, your partner. But in reality it doesn't go down like this. ever. Unfortunately.

The more she know you, the more she will shit-test. The more she will try to break barriers in the relationship. The more she will try to get away with. AND the more she will try to drain your energy.

This is something that every guy should internalize and learn how to deal with their own way. Women aren't an investment in the sense that you give (doesn't matter what) and you get back. The ONLY thing you get back is the NOW and only what is happening NOW. Otherwise you are throwing your time, money, w/e in the trash.

When you think about giving anything, when you think about commiting, remember this: You are paying her for what she has ALREADY done. You aren't getting ANY guarantee for the future.

Women aren't an investment in any possible way. They are time wasters, money wasters and energy wasters. The good part about this is that pussy is the only thing they can offer, really. There is not that much to it other than this.