Disclaimer: when I say "all" I mean a large majority. Of course theres always outliers so I dont want to hear any special cases.

Its been proven that women largely dont give a shit about average guys. Hypergamy. They want the best they can get and see most men as undesirable.

The men they are interested in are the powerful, strong, good looking Chads and Tyrones. It's clear that when the top 20% of men have tons of women fighting for them, they have many options and dont have to be overly kind, compassionate, caring, or loyal. Those are where the majority of "Assholes" come from.

Undesirable men are invisible to women. Women dont give a shit about their struggles or even bother to try to. They cant comprehend what it's like.

So because they have their eyes only on the prize, when these top tier men treat them poorly they go around thinking "All men are assholes! They're pigs and cheaters! Etc."

This isn't the case. Average guys literally cant afford to be assholes. Most are as nice as possible, spend their entire lives trying to be worthy of a woman, provide for a woman their whole lives, put themselves last after everything.

Women on the other hand, all of them practice Hypergamy, all of them want the top tier males and feel cheated if they have to settle for someone they think they can do better than. They all lie, they all cheat to get what they want. They all get taken care of and catered to. Most top tier females act the same as low tier females and vice versa.