Foreword:
Original Post : http://archive.is/FI6Qo
Credit to u/seattleron for creating the original topic
I highly recommend everyone read the original post as well because It's a treasure trove of information and hopefully this one turns out to be one as well .
Intro : For those men of the sub who have more wisdom and experience than those of us who are in our 30's , 20's, and and teens of this sub and still trying to figure life and ourselves out.
What advice would you offer to a younger version of yourself if you could talk to him today ? Would you have had kids ? Would you still have gotten married ( I know doubtful). Is there something you would have invested more time and attention too ? Were there things you tried / explored you would have told yourself to avoid ?
Drop some wisdom on us .... again
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