This is a bit off topic, but I think it fits here as it helps men unplug from the fantasies of women.

As for the clickbait title, I am completely against abortion, except in a limited number of extreme situations, but I believe it is to men's benefit that it not only remain legal, but be normalized. We should never allow the truth to be hidden.

I'm copying the entirety of a post that was making it's way up the popular pages, do not brigade:

> [I had an abortion]

>.... and I feel absolutely fine about the whole thing.

>Abortions don't have to be a traumatic, necessary or emotional ordeal. I'm in my 30s, have a well-paying and stable job, am in a commited and long term relationship, and do want kids but ideally in another 2 or 3 years.

>An abortion is a choice afforded to me, a choice I went with for convenience; and that's absolutely fine.

There are a number of things in that brief post that are enlightening, but the interplay of two statements is highly illuminating.

FIRST

>Abortions don't have to be a traumatic, necessary or emotional ordeal.

One of the highest comments asks where this expectation even comes from. Why is it automatically assumed abortions would be traumatic? Have you ever asked yourself why you might expect that? It comes from BP indoctrination. Men are sold the fantasy that women are *naturally* caring and devoted mothers. They want nothing more than the health and well being of their family. It is this natural state of women that makes them such great partners. A man can spend all day out of the home slaving away, breaking his body, to earn money just to come home and give it all to his family. And he can trust his wife while he's away all that time. And, at the end of the long, grueling day, his wife will want nothing more than to care for him since he's her family and we all know women inherently want nothing more than to have and to protect and to care for their family.

Men expect women to be traumatized by the loss of their children because anything else would annihilate men's fantasies.

But what is the truth?

SECOND

>An abortion is a choice afforded to me, a choice I went with for convenience

A woman would rather have an easier life than have her children.

A woman would rather have $500 hand bags than kids.

Men kill themselves to have a family, women happily kill their families to have more.

Men have careers SO THEY CAN HAVE FAMILIES.

Women have careers SO THEY DON'T HAVE TO HAVE FAMILIES.

If she will happily and without conscience kill her children to have more, what do you think she will do to you, just a mere man, if you get in her way of more? Still think marriage is a good idea? Still think trusting them is?

Keeping abortion legal and normalized emboldens women enough to stop hiding why they do what they do. It is the deceit of men that make them so malleable, allowing the truth is hard, but always worth it.