If you are a zero to them it means they simply don't find you attractive. They won't care if you have a BMW, have 100k in the bank account, like traveling, or anything that makes you who you are beyond that superficial physical attraction. You simply will not even get a chance to demonstrate value. If you ask them for their number and text them they won't text back, they will flake on your plans and not reschedule, and mostly completely uninvested emotionally. Similar to a person without a degree not getting a chance at an interview.
If you are a 1 to them they will love your hobbies, make time for you, be excited and giggle with you, probably have sex with you pretty easily. The difference in how you get treated is night and day.
It doesnt matter if she looks like shrek or she looks like arianny celeste, if she doesnt find you attractive she won't settle, she will move the fuck on.
I'm still struggling with depression and anger after working my whole life to be semi successful monetary wise and its been killing me inside women will never like me for who i am until i become physically attractive. However, i understand and am trying my hardest to change. Ive given up fast food and candy and been cooking vegetables, brown rice, and lean meat for a week. Currently at 190lbs 20% BF at 5'9" and my first goal is to be at 179 with 15% BF within 90 days.
Thanks for reading.