I don't use Instagram. I had it for a couple of months before realizing it was perhaps one of the most insanely toxic and demonic of human technological conceptions in recent history, and I felt like my testicles were receding inside me ever so slightly every time I posted or "liked" someone's picture. I'm only 24, too. I'm also in very good shape and have no issues with women - so this isn't coming from a place of "jealousy" or "bitterness". More, a place of ... fascination.
Recently I've been browsing it again out of curiosity, checking up on people I know and hang out with, people from my gym, girls etc.
Every female profile I have come across, of women I know/women I see at the gym or work, is a collection of desperate, hypergamy-drenched soft-core porn. Every single profile is a work of unabashed, tasteless and hyper-sexualised vanity. Out of about 200 profiles of girls I know I could show you maybe 10 that don't feature relentless ass and bikini photos. One of my best friends has a 14 year old sister with 15k followers, and her profile is simply photos of her ass and basically nothing else. She is 14 for fuck's sake, I go to her house and eat dinner with her and her family and laugh at her when she has to be in bed by 10.
Her latest photo is her in a bikini from behind with a blurry, pathetic looking beanie sitting scrunched up on the bed next to her, her ass takes up almost the entire shot and the caption is "loving my new (sponsored brand name) beanie!!", with ~4k likes and hundreds of comments all along the lines of "peach emoji" "tongue out emoji" "praying hands emoji" from not only men but other women. It's completely mind blowing. I've heard this girl fart and sing Justin Bieber around the house.
I discovered the profile of a personal trainer at my gym. She's post wall, quite attractive still and a really funny/humble seeming person. Her profile, once again, is just photos of her ass. The same fucking photo over and over, standing sideways in the mirror with her ass sticking out, sitting on her bed wearing an open shirt with nothing underneath and a G-string on with "loving these warm days" caption etc. You can taste the anxious, post-wall desperation to the point where it's almost uncomfortable.
Two cute girls at work - both quiet and shy, both in relationships. Their profiles look like preliminary casting-couch auditions. There is nothing of any interest on any of these women's Instagram pages, it's simply just photos of their bodies and thousands of likes and comments from complete strangers. In photos with their boyfriends, they are STILL sticking their asses out as far as possible and making that the center of the photo, as if to signal to the internet and the omnipresent Chad F. Thundercock himself "please come and fuck me and cuck this little bitch i'm with".
At this point I had to take a break and put my phone down, my dick confused and my mind spinning. I was overwhelmed. I thought, "Alright, Diomedes, so what, 50 out of 50 girl's profiles you've looked at have been full of ass and tits photos, there has to be SOME girls with decent, interesting profiles?"
I remembered the feminist wearing a huge trench coat I met out in a bar a few weeks ago who scolded me for wearing a girl's Trump shirt and lectured me on misogyny and white male privilege. She told me she was an artist. I looked her name up as I managed to get her number and name anyway. Lel. Lo and behold, near complete nudes of her. Standing in the mirror in bondage gear, a g string up her ass, fingers in her mouth, lying in her bed in an open shirt, bent over in Victoria's Secret, you name it - this profile had it. Her art was all drawings of vaginas, dicks, and graphic sex. It sent me down a rabbit hole of all her "feminist" friend's profiles, and they were almost all identical. Nudity, sex, vulgar art, nudity, ass, sex, shitty art, ass, ass, ass, bondage, ass, alcohol, cigarettes, cats. Girls who talk about spirituality and equality, feminism and female empowerment - their profiles could all be mistaken for an amateur pornstar's.
What blows my mind even further is that many of these women are in relationships and their boyfriends are "liking" and commenting on these public pictures. I don't even know where to begin on that.
I'm not exaggerating or cherry picking here. Try it yourself. The girl you're into at the moment? A current plate? Look at her Instagram and you will see photos of her ass. The cute feminist in one of your college units? Look at her Instagram.
This shit is toxic for men, too. One of my training partners at the gym was recently dumped by his LTR, and since then he's started an Instagram profile entirely made up of him posing shirtless in different scenic locations. He gets a female friend and his sister to go on road trips with him specifically to take photos of him for his Instagram. His inbox is full of messages from gay men. At the gym he's constantly checking his likes and followers and asking me about which photos to post. He is heavily depressed, it's fucking sad and obvious he's doing this to get the attention of his ex who cheated and left him. He's extremely good looking, has thousands of followers, girls like his stuff, and yet moans to me on a weekly basis about not being able to meet women, about not fucking, and how he just wants his ex back. My mind tells me the women liking his posts and posts by other accounts like his, simply want to be associated with a physically attractive man, yet are fundamentally disgusted by his obvious insecurity and never want to actually meet him or fuck him.
Going from meeting women in real life, not having them on social media and only interacting with them in person, to then finding their Instagram accounts is like being smashed across the face with a BBC dildo. It's a parallel universe. All women are seemingly, inherently the same person. They all want to be famous, they all objectify themselves, they all conform to some unspoken law of "in order to be accepted here, you must objectify yourself". It totally tarnishes my idea of these otherwise previously desirable girls and turns me off to the point of not even wanting to have anything in the slightest to do with them.
This is the state of cuckoldry we've entered fellas. We've got to sit back and be told we're disgusting pigs, that toxic masculinity is the problem, that we are inherent rapists, that we objectify women, and here we have these exact same women willingly posing essentially naked for millions of men. You don't want a woman who shows off her body publicly to millions, if not billions, of men? Too fucking bad, you disgusting shitlord. It's 2017.
If an alien came to our planet and saw Instagram, it would believe it was some sort of amazing, God-sent breeding application built for men. It would then vomit and recoil in terror and disgust and immediately leave our planet once we explained the real state of affairs.
Interestingly, when I go far back on many of these profiles, the photos get increasingly more innocent, there's no ass shots or body photos or anything. You can actually pinpoint the moment this perversion started to take hold on these girls, as if some sort of whore-switch has been universally set off in their brains at the same time. It's fascinating.
Being on Instagram made me feel like some sort of utility or resource. I can't explain it. It is as if the average male exists on Instagram as nothing more than a faceless source of validation feeding and contributing to this "movement". A tool, if you will. I looked at some of my male friend's accounts, they have ~200 followers and post nothing but pictures of food and scenery and shitty selfies taken in their car or bedrooms. No one comments on anything, they get 10 likes, it is just fucking sad, i'm not even a woman and their profiles made my pussy shrivel up.
My foray into the world of Instagram was a disgusting but eye opening one. Men do not belong in this dark, twisted place. If you are using it to facilitate business, or to show off a top 1% lifestyle, more power to you. These are the only examples I can think where a man could be excused for using this platform, otherwise you are an orbiter and validation resource with an uninteresting profile whether you like it or not. Get off that app, retain your dignity and your mystery.