Are all girls like this? Break up.

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June 23, 2017

So. After an 3 years in relationship with this girl [22] and my self [23]. This was 4 days ago. She wanted to break up to experience more. By that she meant fu** more bicks. Her words: >*i think we should break up, ive been dating you for 3 years and only slept with 3guys if i include you, only given 1 BJ. I really want to experience some more in life. But i do hope we can stay close friends.

well as a man i told her straight up

*if thats what YOU want to do then i cant stop you from doing that it is your choice, but i'm not gonna stay friend with you neither talk to you again.

She broke down crying saying

*you need to understand i just want more experience, maybe that can help us later when we start again and ill be more mature.

I replied

*i've already told you, i am not gonna wait for you or keep contact.

She started to cry more begging & hoping that i would keep contact but took my stuff and left.

It didn't take long until she started calling, sending messages. And i havent replied once. She has been trying everything those days. Came to my work, calling, sending messages even though i blocked her she just does it through her friends.

Last message was around 1 hour ago. She tried to make me jealous.

Her words

ive already fuc** 2 other guys and their sucked bicks, i hope you know that i got more experience now and i am willing to try again. If not ill just get more experience as each day goes by.

Well i really dont give a fuck it's her life and her choices. I'm just doing what i love thats gym, my friends and work.

I really should have known she was typicall unmature girl as in the very beginning she tried so many tests: *Stop me from having female friends, Control me and my money. Being overly jealous.

non of this worked on me, over time she stopped trying. She wasnt jealous anymore.

But my question is AWALT? If they dont or havent fuc** enough guys they just hope to continue their relationship again afterwards? Its not the first time a girl has tried shit like this. Breaking up and when she saw i could handle it. They want me back.

Sorry for taking so long to respond to some.

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Title Are all girls like this? Break up.
Author BraindeadIQ
Upvotes 93
Comments 106
Date 23 June 2017 01:35 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]Throwawaysteve123456114 points115 points  (3 children) | Copy

Good on you for holding strong man. There was nothing else you could have done. The last message she sends makes her look like you dodged a trainwreck.

[–]BraindeadIQ30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup i think i did. Life goes on. I maybe young now. But i get older each second!

[–]redditdawg1122 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

I second this, it hurts man but you've avoided a storm of future problems. Go out, lift and pick up women hotter than her, watch the hamster burn itself out.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev84 points85 points  (9 children) | Copy

ive already fuc** 2 other guys and their sucked bicks


They want me back.

I wish I had a dollar for every ex-gf I have who sent me a letter, email or text, usually 6-12 months after a break-up, about how they fucked up by not realizing that I was the "real deal", etc. All they ever get out of me is, "Yep, you sure did."

BTW, under no circumstances are you to ever give this woman the time of day from here on out.

Note to Younger Guys: Any time a woman says she thinks you both should "see other people" what that really means is her, not you, and that she has a dick in mind (if she hasn't been fucking him already) to try out, but she wants to hold onto you in case he turns out to be a creep. Thus when a girl says "We should see other people" you should immediately say, "Hey, it's been nice, but I'm breaking up with you." Then sit back and watch the small, thermonuclear explosion of panic.

[–]jb_trp30 points31 points  (1 child) | Copy

but she wants to hold onto you in case he turns out to be a creep.

You mean, Chad pumps-n-dumps her because that's what he does...

[–]Docbear6416 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

or shit doesn't work out and the cool attractive dude she hung out with becomes a clingy bitch who can't fuck worth a damn . Women are like excited little kids that want to try all the candy and then find out that some of that shit fucks with you in the wrong way .

[–]FinnFox0714 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

usually 6-12 months after a break-up,

TRP has helped me understand things that for decades remained a complete mystery. There was this one chick I fucked a few times when I was in the military. There really wasn't anything between us other than I would get a few beers into me and the next thing I know she's trying to corner and undress me.

This goes on and off for a couple weeks until she gives me a tearful confession that she fucked some other guy and immediately goes to give me a sobbing blowjob. Uh... I really didn't give a single fuck, but she had an entire relationship, infidelity and break up all worked out in her head. After she got her protein boost, she proceeds to break me up with her (yes, she was projecting the whole thing) and that was that. I left her room confused.

Three months later I get reassigned and as I'm about to leave for good, she gives me this handwritten tome. I'll be honest and admit I didn't read the whole thing, but the tl;dr seems to be pretty much what you said--how she fucked it all up. I handed it to a woman that eventually became Legal Cohabiting Female, hoping to get some insight, but she just tossed it into the trash and pretended it didn't exist.

Now I understand.

[–]BraindeadIQ5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Any time a woman says she thinks you both should "see other people" what that really means is her, not you

This is 99% true! just a normal ASD word.. most guys can easily see that.

[–]Darkistco points points [recovered] | Copy

boiii i remember the old post, it was called them "throwing out a line" basically all exes do that if you were high value and realize their "exploring" was shit, if you have your shit together and didn't give a fuck if they go.

I remember " i love you and miss you darkist" i was going to ignore like every time I have now but I remember saying "ight" for my own enjoyment

post that like should be put up like every months or 2 to remind newbies exes will throw out a line to catch a high value fish after getting pumped

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Can you find that thread? been searching didn't find it.

Yeah they most defiantly will or if you beg them they will take you back (some) but you'll be THEIR bitch from there on. they are your boss and you bark when your told to.

[–]ThaSupernova39 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your ability to maintain frame in this is very impressive. You're handling this well. It's unfortunate this girl has to spin out like this. To answer your question about AWALT, I will say this is not an uncommon pattern. I've seen this before several times.

[–]BraindeadIQ8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. Yes seen many similar hate to say too many. It's a shame she was nice. But life goes on.

[–]FuckboyAWALT35 points36 points  (4 children) | Copy

Ooh girl that's too damn bad Don't touch what you can't grab. -Eminem

She wanted to try out cc, and now wants comfort/providing back. Typical AWALT don't be mad.

[–]PurpleDrank88 points points [recovered] | Copy

Love that fucking song

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear2227 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

End up with 2 back hands! Put anthrax on that Tampax and slap u til u can't stand!

Fk that line is dope.

[–]BraindeadIQ7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not mad really. Just little sad nothing i cant get over. But i will not show her that weakness.

[–]Buchloe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I never realized the meaning of that line til now. Really good, succinct point he made

[–]1InformalCriticism19 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy

Early 20s, women will attempt and say anything, because they're at their peak. They're trying to get married and swallow peens at the same time. It's a very confusing time for everyone.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yes that's true. That's a shame how easy it has become for our generation to do this. or how hard it is even to HOLD a normal healthy relationship.

This goes out for most younger women's. i've seen some faithful but it's rare today.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not a shame if you enjoy getting laid by hot girls.

[–]dammit_redskins points points [recovered] | Copy

Why would you want a faithful relationship in your prime sexual years?

[–]BraindeadIQ2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Been fucking around before her. but honestly who doesn't like to have partner in crime? sometimes it's nice , but first learn to be happy on your own because then you can give more fuck about your relationship ending.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing to add, your comment made me bust out laughing. Funny and sadly, true.

[–]wanderer77913 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Too much talking. Just walk away.

I've been through similar stuff. The correct reaction is to be like, "yeah, I think we are both young and we need to get out and experience blah blah blah...". And then stop talking to them. That way you avoid all drama and get immediately back to your own mission.

[–]BraindeadIQ9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

I just wanted to make sure that she knew what would happen either way i would have ended it after this converstation. Who want's a girl who want's to fuc* around in her mind. In the end she would. It was just matter of time. But i am glad she came up open honest about this.

[–]d0lphinsex8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon7 points8 points  (9 children) | Copy

But my question is AWALT? If they dont or havent fuc** enough guys they just hope to continue their relationship again afterwards? Its not the first time a girl has tried shit like this. Breaking up and when she saw i could handle it. They want me back.

Yes, AWALT, but you are falling into her frame.

She is LYING TO YOU. You keep hearing this story because you behave the same.

You are being the BETA BOYFRIEND. This makes her crave more alpha. Then she misses your beta commitment.

Solution: commit less, absolutely stop "trying to make it work", make it clear FROM THE START that any commitment you show is conditional on her behaviour, be more distant and unavailable at least some of the time.

You did great handling her shit, the above is how to stop it happening in the first place. It doesn't always work, because women are not monogamous, but it helps.

[–]BraindeadIQ5 points6 points  (8 children) | Copy

Never was 100% beta i would say 75 alpha and 25% beta not perfect and never will be 100% alpha is there anybody? We always got some flaws.

I always stick with what i say. Im very open and clear about my needs and boundaries. But this one took me by shock. No hints no nothing,

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Stop me from having female friends, Control me and my money. Being overly jealous.

Here, for you: Stop me from having female friends, Control me and my money. Being overly jealous.

Overly controlling is a hint of having low self-worth and also being overly jealous. People often compensate it by having an extraordinary sex life too feel more worth. The problem with this is that that this sex drive must get more intense as time goes by. So cheating becomes interesting or other sorts of extreme sex visible in porn.

Problem with this: It's a coping mechanism that eventually leads to failing relationship - if he is not a cuck.

[–]throwitdownman1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I'm confused here: I think (through my experiences and friends/TRP members) that sex is essential to a good relationship. Are you saying 'extraordinary sex' cannot be maintained steady and must always 'get more intense'?

I don't know if if sex intensity is something that 'must' escalate over time, maybe I am interpreting incorrectly?

And if it must improve, to say cheating becomes interesting suggests all relationships are doomed to fail? (Good sex -> more intense sex -> cheating/extreme sex -> lose the relationship)

[–]BraindeadIQ2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I can say when people are tempted to cheat it brings excitement into their mind, the adrenaline starts going crazy so they get so tensed up and excited that it "Feels" better.. that's my opinion.

but to cheat your mind will go there first and actions follow. You can fall in love with every girl if you put you'r mind to it. (not all lol) but that's how i think. >You need to water the grass to make it greener.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Are you saying 'extraordinary sex' cannot be maintained steady and must always 'get more intense'?

A healthy sexual relationship is quite important and very much essential to a good relationship as you said.

But there are people that misuse sex as a way to compensate for other things in their life.

As with all things in life (food, video games, tv, internet consumption, porn, alcohol, certain compulsivebehaviors, cigarettes, drugs) sex is a means for a narcisstic person to increase their feeling of self-worth or hide flaws in their lives. If a person does that the need for a greater fix becomes more important. If you don't develop a healthy coping mechanism, the probability that a narcisstic person wants to cheat becomes higher.

If the girl is narcisstic then only her feelings are important (to get the next fix, possibly cheating). Your feelings are shit to her.

There may be other factors as well: For example if a woman takes the pill and won't become pregnant her unconcious mind tells her that the male is not a fertile male and should cheat. This view could be taken from an evolutionary point of view but is not scientifically proven I guess.

Here's the problem: Sex we see in porn is not usually healthy sex. It's hard to maintain this kind of sex in a good ltr. That's why TRP preaches dread, maintaining high SMV and other behaviors that show your boundraries and remind her what she will lose if she cheats.

I really don't know if relationships are doomed if the sex is too good. At first thought I would say if the partner misuses sex then yes, otherwise it could be maintained. What do you think?

[–]throwitdownman0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sex to a narcissist can be used an ego inflator, and distract them from reality. But I think a narcissist (self-obsessed) will view anything they do as an ego inflators not specifically sex.

TRP preaches dread, SMV to project an image of desirability. If you use this on a girl, it 'will' make them to want to have sex with you ASAP. If you're testosterone levels are ok, I don't see why 'extraordinary' sex cannot be maintained since she'll be eager. Plus Sex God Method does work, making the male's part easy.

Certainly the opposite is proven to be worse? When the sex is bad, that's when people shamelessly cheat. To say now that too good sex leads to cheating as well, then logically it doesn't balance out.

If the girl wants her 'next fix' she'll look first at the man who's been giving her extraordinary sex (the LTR). She wouldn't want to leave his side (traveling etc) because she'll be missing out on the great sex and her horny mind will explode.

The scary thing is that if you actually apply TRP, even a basic Jane will start to misuse sex because it's something so good, so intense, that it is natural to crave more. You really can't feign ignorance and say Porn sex doesn't exist to a girl because her imagination will see it as reality. Plus all girls compare sex lives for bragging rights which is why sex in moderation always fail relationships.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with everything you've written.

Eventually it all comes down to the specific girl and circumstances, I guess.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yes that's what i've read and known. but being able to help her/without trying but by showing not every guy is about sex or is a dog to bow when she wanted to.

About the sex part i didn't get. (2nd language)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it. If she's not willing to work on her issues there's nothing you can do. But she would've first to realize that there is an issue. And that's the tricky part. Without suffering there is no need to change anything.

Coping mechanism = Not to deal with the root cause. Rather feeling better by getting pleasure. Similar to taking drugs if hardships are to be faced. Or eating cake instead of working on issues. Or watching porn instead of making oneself better. Or watching TV instead of socializing, and the list goes on and on.

Well there are guys that also have little self-worth that would tolerate this kind of behavior, that's what most people refer to as a cuck. A cuck is a guy that cannot stand of himself and does everything to please a girl, even if it's against his interest. This is similar to being a cuck in the sexual meaning - watching your girl having sex with some other dude. This behavior can be seen on different levels, but most often this patterns is allowed by a guy with little self-worth. Narcisstic women tend to chose cucks in their relationships and prefer dominant men for cheating.

But you did the right thing. There's nothing you could've done better. It is not possible to negotiate with (pathologically) narcisstic people. It's just they are so self-oriented that they can't experience empathy for other people. The only thing is to cut off the relationship or lose as time goes by if you stay in that relationship.

That's just the way of the narcisstic woman. There are also non-narcisstic woman out there. Hopefully you will meet a nice woman one day.

One thing I'd like to add: Don't focus on sex in the relationship. It attracts narcisstic people. Sex should be there as a means to fulfill a relationship, not as a means by itself.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

If she said that she has someone else in mind or is already doing it. Prepare to cut all contact, don't be her friend, don't call her. Ghost her

[–]BraindeadIQ5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Already gone no contact.

[–]SirAttackHelicopter7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

When women say they want to take a break and fuck around, they ALREADY did it. All they want from you is to appease their growing sense of guilt and to further enable and justify their bad behavior. Bullet dodged.

[–]stonepimpletilists points points [recovered] | Copy

Well, you clearly DO give a fuck, but you at least put away your bullshit feelings and did the smart thing.

Clearly hasn't been told no much before, was a pretty brazen one, wasn't she

[–]BraindeadIQ10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

Obviously i do care for her. But life goes on. You can't wait around. Be willing to walk alone if needed too. People come to your life and they leave. It's life.

But by brazen i dont understand since English is not my mother language.

[–]stonepimpletilists points points [recovered] | Copy

She had balls.

I want to fuck other people, and don't want to miss out

Go ahead, I ain't waiting around

OK, I fucked a bunch of people, stop being silly and take me back ok?

That last part... As if she seriously assumed you were put on this earth to serve her. How can you take chicks seriously when they say shit like this? lol

[–]exit_sandman9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

OK, I fucked a bunch of people, stop being silly and take me back ok?

I think the next part was even better, when she basically said "you'd better take me back now or I'll be even more of a slut once you finally change your mind"

[–]stonepimpletilists points points [recovered] | Copy

And here, for anyone else reading, is why OP did it right.

Fuck your feelings, the 1000 ASKTRP questions about what to do. You fucking know what to do. the trick is to just do it, and stop trying to talk yourself out of it. OP didn't have another chick lined up even (ideal) but I'd rather jerk off, and have some dignity, than be cucked like that.

At the very least, if/when she got pregnant, you will always have that doubt in your head. trust is a one and gone proposition

[–]BraindeadIQ2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

truth spoken. dignity is a must and self respect.

[–]BraindeadIQ2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed, i'm happy she was open honest about this. but honesty sometimes gets you nowhere.

I guess she did when she saw Chad pumped her and left her.

[–]setsuna04 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

So she basically wanted to be a hoe? Maaaaaaan fucc her bro. I wouldn't say AWALT explicitly. Maybe they are but not in the manner she did it lol

You did well

[–]mabden4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

i think we should break up

At least she was up front about it and did not suggest a "break" or just cheat. However, her intent was the same; test out different cocks to satisfy her "curiosity" with you waiting in the wings. The problem is they lose all respect for you by agreeing to this bullshit and any future relationship is fucked. If you are not good enough for her to remain loyal, you never will be.

ill just get more experience as each day goes by

Once she goes down that road, there is no taking her back, fuck, the only choice is the one you made.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. i'm happy she did actually tell me honesty.

but thinking i'll wait.. no way.

[–]exit_sandman6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

But my question is AWALT?

No, what you just described here, and how your ex handled this was pretty extreme and is more indactive of her being an actual nutjob. Be grateful that she was transparent about it, that way you can stop wasting time on her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear2222 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nodding and saying fuck ya for holding frame. Excellent job. In case no one has suggested she had already found the guys she planned to fuck before leaving you. No worries. She's not yours it's just your turn. Keep killing it brother!

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I do also think that she found a guy.. i overlooked the always on the phone

[–]Docbear642 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

ive already fuc** 2 other guys and their sucked bicks, i hope you know that i got more experience now and i am willing to try again. If not ill just get more experience as each day goes by.

We do not negotiate with terrorists . You know who becomes worse with each passing cock she handles? if you guessed your ex you are absolutely right . You don't want to go back to her because the sweet fun girl you loved is gone what you get back will be a more depressed , used up , and baggage-ridden woman and you know what she'll probably expect you to work even harder even though she's had more cocks in her .

For your sake stay away she was already a bad girlfriend breaking up with you just to fuck somebody new but now she's showing you she's just a horrible slut in general . Every other guy gets to use her up and doesn't have to be her boyfriend , why would you agree to do more for getting the same damn thing ?

[–]BraindeadIQ1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

used up , and baggage-ridden woman

i laughed so hard! i will stay away.

[–]fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

i hope you know that i got more experience now and i am willing to try again.

This doesn't even mean anything to someone with a logical mind. In what way does her sucking numerous dicks make her better for an LTR?

Be rid of this whore and others like her.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Good question.. I will honestly say she wasn't the best. but not the worst either. but after sometime she was good as i taught her what i liked.

[–]fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's exactly right. People become better when they learn what a specific person likes.

In other words, her blowjobs will be best if she practices on you and does what you like, not what 75 Chads like.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed.. you don't need 75 chads to be the best. I'v had sex before her with girls who have slept with many guys and tbh.. they have sucked. some just lazy and put no effort in the sex.

[–]1walawalawa3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

First, well done. This was very well-executed. You didn't take any of her crap and ghosted her. Stay strong. They always come back with some nonsense to try to get your attention.

Here's the problem for guys gaming and banging girls in their early 20's.

The majority are all like this in my experience. The reason is because in general most guys they encounter are beta Blue Pill White Knights who pander, supplicate, pedestalize girls like this.

Her only prize or currency is her pussy. When she starts acting out like this she wants you to chase.

A few years back a girl I was banging broke up and I just said thanks, bye.

She went mental...chasing crying and eventually a week later we got back together when I banged her.

She said "I thought you would chase me..."

But....the problem was by taking her back like that and being serious about her...she did it again 6 weeks later but this time it was worse. In that case....I did chase. Disaster.

I've learned. Don't chase. In my last kind of weird break up, the girl I was banging for 9 months suddenly had a melt-down over some pretext. "I'm out" she texted. "k" I replied. She then had a melt down calling me every nasty thing there was...I didn't respond. She tried provoking me a few times after that.

I just moved on. Now 6 months later I've never spoken to her since "k".

Feels good to finally have done it right and moved on. My own self-esteem is higher now.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. yes majority is like then. Women want what they can't have, And if they get it they wan't the other guy next

[–]Mobiiz3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Keep ignoring her. She's not worth talking to ever again, especially considering she sent you that last message. A lot of girls aren't like that - the ones who are checked out of the relationship already wouldn't even have that conversation with you, they would just go out and cheat.

[–]BraindeadIQ5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

She aint worth nothing now. Ive been cheated on when i was 18. But that wasn't a LTR only 8 months. But i walked. She made up so many lies trying to hide the truth.

Once the word is out that you cheated it's out.. you can't lie to people when they know the truth.

It took me 3 months to find the truth. She tried the good ol technique it was 3 months ago get over it. nope nope nope. Doesnt work that way either. Then she tried to beg me back at first since i was still growing i did mistake of trying again didn't take me long (2months) until i relized this isn't what i wanted and the fact she lied once she'll do it again.

[–]untrp6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

Good on you. She's trying so hard to get you back. She definitely didn't fuck any other guys at the time this all happened since she's been busy with her emotions, but that isn't your concern. She showed what she wanted, and you were okay with that. You said okay and walked out the door and laid down your intentions of not contacting her again. She's currently trying to break that. You've got an abundance mentality and a frame of steel. Way to go, man. Keep up the solid frame and don't give into her emotional response.

[–]BraindeadIQ2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Thank you! I learned the hard life as teenager. So i told myself never let people take me for granted or use me. And my life is my life and non others. Thanks to rough childhood. Took me sometime lost friends, got new better ones. More confident then ever!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You've probably been there before so you don't need this advice but I'm gonna say it anyway. Right now it's easier to keep your head up cause she's freaking out and hitting you up and trying desperately to get you back so that makes you feel high value, strokes your ego, etc.

Just make sure that when she stops trying to get you back you don't fall into the pit of "what she doesn't want me anymore?" and try to start getting her back. Seen too many guys do that vicious cycle.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah eventually she is gonna stop. At the moment like you said it boosts my ego seeing her wanting me so bad back.

Makes me feel wanted and other girls will she me as more wanted. (Hidden truth) for some.

[–]untrp0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Awesome dude! Use that confidence and change in your attitude and self-confidence to your advantage. What you do next is entirely up to you. Now that you're out of this relationship, as you're already applying solid TRP fundamental concepts in your life, you could go out and do exactly what your ex had wanted to do and get laid and experience the freedom to do so. Spin some plates, get your needs met when you want them met, and enjoy the rest of your life without having to worry about this.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Thats what i'm gonna do for awhile.. i am absulout no hurry in life. I am happy with my life. Single or not i'm happy.

[–]untrp1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Once again, good on you bro.

I always encourage men to spin plates. Spinning plates allows you to have your sexual needs met without relying on a single person to meet them.

It also presses upon your plates what you’re about and instils in them the correct notion that you are a sexual being whose desires will be met when you desire. When you are with them, you will get what you want and they will come to realize, accept, and appreciate that. Plates meet your sexual needs for a hole to fuck, and they fulfill their needs for primal and sexual male attention.

It also lays down the sexual foundation in possible relationships, because of these plates, if you choose later down that you want to promote one of them who not only fulfills your sexual needs, but proves themselves to be of unmatched value to you beyond being just a pussy to fuck, you can promote them to a relationship. The sexual foundation will be the underlying framework to the relationship.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good point there! I'll keep this in my mind. As far as EX she met my sexual needs, since she was open minded to new things. And thats one thing i'll miss. We talked fantasy and what each of us wanted to try.

But your point is something that i'll have to think about! Thank you!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She defiantly did fuck other guys.

[–]BraindeadIQ4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

IF she did then that was her choice. Who knows. Its not my business now. She is an X.

[–]1UnluckyPenguin2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

But my question is AWALT?

Here's a few key points for AWALT:

  • All women want more validation.

  • All women want to have a back-up plan or beta bucks (submissive guy with money).

  • Ex's always want a good guy back after they have had their fun. Only a guy that has no respect for himself would take them back.

However, it is less likely for a woman to be like that if she comes from an Asian background and a religious background. (Still completely possible, just merely less likely.)

Just had to note: It doesn't seem like english is your first language (bick? fu**?), but you made a good choice joining this sub.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bick. Fuck. Thought bad language wasn't allowed. and yes you are correct it's my second language.

i agree i see there is something i need to learn.

[–]Psychocist0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Any reason you say Asian and religious? Is it because of the societal/peer pressure to suppress their hypergamy?

I'm heading to Thailand soon (Chiang Mai) and am hoping I'll meet some LTR material over there because the prospects are bleak in the UK.

LTR isn't the goal, but I'd still rather have those kinds of women in my life than dirty sloots.

[–]1UnluckyPenguin0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Don't get married. A lot of foreign women have been known to only stay with the man for the minimum amount of time the collect alimony.

I'm sure Thailand is slightly better than the US and UK, but don't assume any women is worthy. Judge them by their actions, not their words.

[–]Psychocist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I won't be getting married, don't worry about that. Zero benefit to me.

[–]Westernhagen2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

(ten years from now, hundreds of cocks later) "Where have all the good men gone?" she sighs, "Maybe I can get back together with my old friend BraindeadIQ and convince him to man up and marry me..."

[–]jumpinglane2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

well said. can confirm all my exes who are about to approach their thirties send me these texts "hey i was just wondering how you are? :)" when i look up their pics on the internet I immediately know whats up. they are about to enter their own lonely, dark rabbit holes for the rest of their lives.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hahah. 10 years from now. Still won't work. maybe friends. but nothing more will ever escalate from that. and thats ONLY because she came open honest with her intentions. but until those 10 years are up. i won't contact.

[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

. I really want to experience some more in life.

And they say guys only think with their dicks? She's thinking with a hundred other dicks.

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not all women are like this, but sluts are gonna slut. What can ya do?

Keep ghosting. You don't need this crazy in your life.

[–]PantsonFire12342 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well dude could have been much worse. Atleast she wasn't a lying whore and actually somewhat decent. Now she's fallen for the indoctrination and wants to ride the slut train. But you had her before that. You got the experience an alpha woman and not some beta whore. Be happy and wish her well. You can't safe her decline.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Don't worry they're not all like that. Your girl was very naive. Some of the new women you're going to meet going forward will be far more sophisticated about how they manipulate you to get what they want. They will sneak behind your back and get it, instead of announcing anything or breaking up with you.

Your ex-GF done goofed: she thought you're going to agree to anything she says like a good beta male. Now it really hurts her that you instead told her to GTFO. It's like, she has no pussy power over you at all!! So hurtful!

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Spoken truth. Hard to say if all of them are like that (Open Honest). Some will cheat like you said behind back. but eventually they get caught if not there are signs most guys miss.

Pussy is a weapon to some guys. Go ahead pull that shit on me and i'll walk.

[–]mrrooftops1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

She will remember never ever to tell her boyfriend what she is really wanting to do. The next guy she thinks about doing this to she'll either leave when she knows she's going to end up having those urges (honorable) or cheat very secretly (more likely)

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i second the last one. happens more often. but there will be signal ahead.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Classic. It's the usual.

It is pretty funny when you go online and can see that every guy has had the same thing told to them almost verbatim.

[–]yoda35 points points [recovered] | Copy

did you want to marry her? Probably best to move on and meet other girls. Are you have any luck with other women?

[–]BraindeadIQ1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh yes.. plenty of women.

[–]BestSC862 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

No...not all girls are like this...she actually sounds like BPD or sort of a psychopath.

No way in hades that she did not show other signs while you were dating but you probably overlooked them because her pussy got in your way. But really just not sure why you just spent 3 years of YOUR prime with this one girl who frankly sounds horrid.

Thirsty much?

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

No signals, just out of the blue. But i overlooked the fact on the phone more often when i think about it. But it's a how our generation is. Not all of us. I use my phone 40% of the day at most. I barely use any social media. I only use it to contact my friends when they don't pickup the phone as i call.

[–]Cock_Klepto points points [recovered] | Copy

There are always signs. Probably just not in a language you're used to or things you dismissed or blew off.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


Maybe not BPD but NPD (narcisstic personality disorder), although both often come together.

[–]Pro_Like_Me0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bro just post the swear words no children here

[–]Chemlab1870 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

But my question is AWALT?

Yes. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but eventually even the most loyal will crack, they may not cheat physically, but eventually they will all cheat emotionally.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup heard that one before. If you let it escalate too far it's gonna get physical.

I´ve seen and known girls who cheat emotionally in the most "faithful" relationships.

[–]PlanetoftheGrapes940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You handled this very well. Another victim of 3rd wave feminism. Poor girl fucked herself over and will never lock down an alpha. She'll be resorting to a beta bucks when she's hitting the wall after racking up close to a triple digit body count

[–]LordThunderbolt-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy

This whole time she only sucked you once? Wow.

"ive already fuc** 2 other guys and their sucked bicks, i hope you know that i got more experience now and i am willing to try again. If not ill just get more experience as each day goes by."

Lmao women are fucking retarded. She most likely hasn't fucked anyone yet and she's just saying this, thinking it's the right thing to say. If I were you, Is message her saying "You sucked and fucked 2 other guys already. What makes you think I'd find that attractive at all? U moron. It's the complete opposite. I was considering seeing you again but now u sealed your fate. Disgusting." just for shits and giggles. You seem to not have oneitis so I think u can fuck with her mind still just for laughs. She'll probably drink bleach after that.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Wrong. Do not do this. Fuck revenge, fuck playing games, fuck enjoying declines - just move on as quickly as possible.

TRP is not about losing all empathy, it is (among other things) about not letting YOUR empathy (romantic feels) be played against you.

Getting even like this is just admitting that it hurt you. We already know that, OP already knows that.

Hit the gym, get laid, move on.

[–]IronMonk481 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Listen to this OP. The best revenge is being successful and not ever contacting her again no matter what! Also, someone said you wasted your prime on her. I disagree. If anything, she's the big loser in this situation. The wall will hit her soon. You're a male and your prime is in your 30s! Continue to be a badass man OP!

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Too bad i'll be bald before 30's! just kidding.

Successful is the only way. either dream about it or chase it.

[–]BraindeadIQ1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Revenge is also sign of being immature. I'm a grown up. I don't play games with peoples life.

[–]BraindeadIQ0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I won't. it's not the solution. the only thing i'll do is keep no contact, live my life. do what i wan't as i always did.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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