Summary: Girlfriend of 4 years suddenly breaks up, sucks strange dick for a month, comes back. OP seriously considers taking her back like nothing happened. This... is what happens when you're brainwashed by society and feminism.
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For those of you who would like a back story, here it is.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half years. We were going to move in together and everything but she told me she wasn't ready, and she told me a few days after that, that she wasn't happy and didn't know what she wanted. I think she suffered some depression and anxiety due to some medications. So we took a break. I know, a break is never a good thing. But I love her. I didn't want to end things, at all. So I told her to take some time to think about it and if you really don't want to be together anymore that's fine.
So we took about a month break, we talked a little bit here and there, but she came back to me very apologetic, ready to start over. So of course I took her back, I love her.
But she told me that while we were on a break, and at her best friends house, her friends cousin was there and he ended up getting my girlfriends phone number from her friend. He starting texting her and talking to her. She admitted to texting him and said she was nice to him but that's it.
So eventually he developed feelings for her and wanted to hook up. She told him she didn't feel that way about him, and didn't want to take it further. He took it badly and began threatening her and took it further and sent a Snapchat around that said he had been fucking her for the past month.
So here we are. She swears it isn't true. And I believe her. What bothers me, however, is that this took place when we were on a break. The problem, is that there is no evidence ethier way. TLDR; my girlfriend and I were on a break. She was texting a guy and he developed feelings for her. When she said she didn't feel the same way, he we t ahead and told everyone they were having sex.
EDIT: let me make one more point, I believe her because of how much effort he has put forth in retaliating against her and trying to exploit her. I saw the Snapchat. It was very mean, it was your typical response if someone had just gotten rejected.
EDIT 2: after a little research and asking around. I have found out that this guy has issues. He has abused girls before, and tweeted nasty things about them. I don't know if it makes things any clearer.
AskMen always gets threads like these once in a while, where you can tell that the guy's caveman instincts are screaming at him to run away from this woman because she's trouble - but he can't because society has told him that men are white knights who must protect the damsel no matter what.
So to recap: OP has been showering this girl with affection and love for four fucking years. And one day she gets up and walks out the door because "I'm not haaaaaaaapy". Even before we get into the rest of the post, there's your RedPill Truth #1: she's not yours, it's just your turn. If she can just leave in a flight of fancy like so, what would prevent her from doing it when you marry her? And then you'll truly be fucked due to our court and alimony system.
Anyway, so she goes on this break and comes back with a story about how a Chad-like man tried to get with her at a party and got her number. But but but but she totally didn't do anything with him!!! Just talked!!! RedPill Truth #2: trickle truth. This is a common mechanism women use to deliver bad news. Start slow, admit to doing something sort of wrong, but also end the story in a way that makes you seem moral and chaste. Then over time, if the beta pushes you for more info, slowly release more and more in a controlled manner. Never believe a woman's initial story.
And then of course, OP's juicy tidbit at the end of his post. "I have found out that this guy has issues. He has abused girls before". Girls. Not girl. Girls. As in, despite being a scumbag asshole, he still managed to attract multiple women (including OP's gf... even if they didn't bang, she gave him her number) so he could act like a douche towards them later. Compare this to your average Billy Beta computer programmer who's kind and sweet but can't even get a date. RedPill Truth #3: Girls are attracted to dangerous men. Ever wondered why all the high school bullies, the gang members, the drug lords, the sociopath Wall Street bankers end up getting the most beautiful and loyal women? It's because females, despite proclaiming that kindness/honesty/compassion is important, actually gravitate towards the most aggressive and socially dominant man in the group.
I don't want to witchhunt OP but I'll just say a look through his post history shows he's not in shape and generally is a beta male. My advice is for him to cut this chick out, lift, start enjoying some plates and regain his confidence.
Sadly, instead he will likely take her back, marry her, enter a dead bedroom, and have two kids who are oddly darker skin toned - but he'll shrug it off as some weird genetic quirk. And this is how he will live and die, because bluepill society has poisoned the minds of our men.
TL;DR: A woman's commitment to a LTR with a beta is about as strong as thin tissue paper. Do not lock yourself into marriage with these people.