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Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?

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July 6, 2017

If the sex was consensual, and at that specific time she wanted it, how was she used? Even if she gets dumped, she still got what she wanted, she also used the man for sexual pleasure, so how does that make any sense?

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Title Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?
Author redoctober943
Upvotes 57
Comments 67
Date 06 July 2017 06:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v147 points148 points  (2 children) | Copy

Because its never her fault. Ever. Even when she cheats.

[–]Metalageddon8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the only answer, "that doesn't use meta theory for further description"

[–]Caveking0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Makes it the most accurate answer too

[–]JackGetsIt50 points51 points  (7 children) | Copy

Women live and die on their social connections. Think of all women like mini politicians. They are always trying to play to their base and expand their base and not offend anyone unless it's politically beneficial. Have you ever noticed that it's really difficult to pin women down on where they want to eat, or their belief structures or who their friends are? It's because they are constantly trying to be tactful and benefit by playing both sides.

Now. Enter in a break up scenario. It's of the highest priorities for a women after a breakup to garner the lion share of sympathy, support, and friendship. Most women, despite all the modern propaganda, don't do well independently. Women are highly highly dependent on society and groups for support. When faced with a break up women will plan it out for months or even years before the event. You could say that you are always either falling towards or falling away from a women. There is no core loyalty. When the breakup does go down if a women thinks it will play to her base (the group of friends and acquaintances) she will use it. That time 4 years ago you bumped her during a fight because she blocked the door? It's now you slamming her against a wall. That time you yelled at her in the car and she yelled back? Verbal abuse. That time you said her mother's annoying? You have always hated her entire family. That time she was half asleep and she had begged you for a week to wake her with your dick? Rape. That time you got a text from the ex out of the blue? Cheating. And finally all of the sexual fun, kink and blow jobs is now you forcing her, you using her. In a female's logic if you didn't marry her and father her kids and are still paying the bills and fathering you used her for sex. Women use relationships, sympathy, and human empathy like weapons. Some weaponize more then others but all have it in their back pockets because society is gynocentric.

Where does this logic come from? One motivation: emotional decoupling from ex's. The same way it's easier for soldiers to go to war and kill the enemy if you de-humanize them women use self delusional tactics to help them emotionally move on to new partners.

Another factor at play stems from a deep seated survivor instinct women have. Warren Farrell notes, “Men’s greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and women’s greatest strength is their facade of weakness.” Rollo writes about this in an article he calls 'War Brides'. In tribal hunter gather cultures a good chunk of men in the tribe could die on hunting trips or scouting or going to war or defending invaders. Women on the other hand were left to pick up the pieces. Often times this meant her needing to quickly decouple from her former mate and re-attach to a new mate which might even be an invader or rapist. We also evolved from more primitive mammals that didn't co-habit and raise children jointly the way we've evolved too now. So there's probably still long lost instincts that men seed as many wombs and women gather as many protectors but only one alpha seed that doesn't necessarily have to stay around.

Finally we have a more modern issue that compounds this, "he used me!" effect. Modern feminism. Modern feminism establishes that women are victims of male patriarchy and must be on constant guard and proactive defense of oppressive masculinity, women must also look out for eachother. When your ex bad mouths you to her girlfriends she is signaling victimhood and confirming the group think of feminism. She will be praised for leaving you, she will be praised for 'outing' you as a patriarch and she will be rewarded for helping other women avoid you. This will give her elevated status in the group and she will get attention, and lots of other perks like social hangout time or support (room to stay, financial support and female attention and male attention when men get triggered by the false flag of a women's cries for help).

Bottom line, your girl is a slave to her biology, her estrogen, and modern Victim Olympics Feminist propaganda which when compounded by group think she is forced to flip the switch on you.

For more on this I recommend googling:

redpill the light switch effect

redpill the 6 stages of breaking up

redpill greatest hits

rollo war brides

[–]my_sfw_alias12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jack gets it.

[–]cellphon1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Spot on.

Rollo war brides is excellent and explains how women can totally move to a different guy after being in a relationship for years, seemingly easily and emotionlessly.

[–]JackGetsIt2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea. Thanks a lot. Now you've made me re-read the article! I think that's one of the most groundbreaking observations that guy has written. I think he expanded on it in another article about European immigrant invasion.

I especially like how he explained it here in the first article

Anxiety, fear, guilt, insecurity are all very debilitating emotions, however it’s women’s innate psychology that makes them more durable to these stresses.

It just makes sense. Women are more exposed to these stresses an so therefore evolved to deal with them. The same way mens bodies evolved thicker cranial bones and robust musculature; women developed world class mental gymnastics!

[–]M1ster_X0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Too many guys on here don't read shit, but think they know it all just because they've gotten good at game and "pulled a couple HB8s". Anyone who hasn't read Rollo's blog or book needs to sit themselves down.

[–]Sensei_Hensei0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You could make a post out of this on main reddit

[–]JackGetsIt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I was actually thinking about it. I will throw in onto my 'draft post' pile and clean it up more and maybe put it up next week. Thanks for the reminder.

[–]redoctober943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can I post it myself, or if I'm not allowed, Do I get any credit xD

[–]dontbedenied points points [recovered] | Copy

Because she has to be the victim.

After I dumped my girlfriend in what was an extremely one-sided relationship (Beta Bucks me doing everything for her), she harassed me for weeks. One of the last things she said to me was "Do you laugh like a maniac when you think about how you played me?" I was pretty hurt from the relationship because it was so shitty and I let her walk all over me, but that shit made me laugh. I don't know what mental gymnastics she did to arrive at the conclusion that beta bitch me "played her" for sex, but the fact that she did is evidence that women will come up with anything to excuse their behavior and be a victim.

[–]omega_dawg9339 points40 points  (7 children) | Copy

this. this. this!!!

i had an ex that cheated on me. the guy showed up at her house un-announced and she just started crying, wildly.

she later claimed to be the victim of the situation... that somehow it wasn't her fault that we found out abt each other.

lmao. she later said that i, "was the bad guy," and that she made a decision to move on with the other guy. she was talking as if she was on a game show and had to pick curtain 1 or 2. lol.

I'm like, "bitch you got caught with 2 cocks at your house and you're still the prize to be had?!"

women are amazing creatures. the mental workout to justify their behavior has to be bordering pure insanity.

[–]Swelfie28 points29 points  (5 children) | Copy

Broke up with a girl a while back. Was told that she was "Mentally a virgin when we met and that I has abused my power and taken her sexual innocence from her that she will never get back. That innocent, naive, beautiful little girl is gone forever."

She was 38 years old and can go all night telling stories of guys she has played and orgies she's had.

[–]platewrecked8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

Mental virginity. That's amazing.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's a new one. Honestly one of the most impressive hamstering I've ever heard of

[–]platewrecked4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

800 Pound Hamster.

[–]jcrpta4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amazing how many virgins pretty well every man on Earth has fucked, isn't it?

[–]IronMonk482 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because you didn't lay down and fully commit to her like a good beta should. Good on you for dumping her.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women are the Gatekeepers of Sex and men are the Gatekeepers of Commitment, so when Sally Sugartits gets pumped and dumped then yes she did get used; she gave up her vag without extracting anything of value from the guy. Meanwhile, her N count just went "+1" and she's one notch closer to the Thousand Cock Stare.

[–]jb_trp10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because the girl is play "Slut Game" and it didn't work. A slut isn't a woman who sleeps with a bunch of guys, a slut is a woman who has nothing else to offer a guy but sex and so no guy commits to her. Sure, they'll hook up and have fun, but the woman's RMV (relationship market value) is so low, she can't get what she wants from the man: Romantic commitment.

And because she only offered sex (because that's the only thing of value she has), and the guy took it, she feels like he "used her for sex" because he didn't commit. She gave him her "best," and her best wasn't good enough. Honestly, if women want high value men to commit to them, they need to have more to bring to a relationship than a warn wet hole between their legs. And sadly, too many women don't really have anything to offer that a few plates can't easily fulfill (and be replaced!).

Men are very logical. When the benefit of being in a relationship isn't even close to the cost, men don't want to be in a relationship.

[–]NexusReflexX48 points49 points  (24 children) | Copy

Because they do feel used. This is probably going to get a lot of controversy here by the "alpha dogs" of this sub, but a girl isnt a piece of meat. To use a girl for just sexual satisfaction IS using a girl. Im not saying its wrong, im not saying its right, it just is.

To me, woman are for my entertainment. A quality woman can and will better your life. Theyll cook for you. Theyll give you lots of laughs. Theyll clean. And youll give them mind blowing sex in return, as well as security and comfort.

They wont, however, give you happiness. They wont give you the will to live. They wont give you a purpose. All fof that comes from within.

[–]dontbedenied16 points17 points  (5 children) | Copy

They wont, however, give you happiness. They wont give you the will to live. They wont give you a purpose. All fof that comes from within.

Man, so true. I am going to read this quote every day. I let my Ex completely control all of those things, and sadly I'm still trying to rid myself of memories and emotions from the relationship.

[–]NexusReflexX9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

I am too man. To try and FORGET about a girl who impacted your life so heavily is stupid. Youre lying to yourself if you think you can forget her, if you think she didnt matter. She did matter, and in my case i was with the same girl for 1/5 of my life. Instead of trying to forget, embrace the pain. Embrace your flaws. Whatever happened with u and your ex, it was YOUR OWN ACTIONS that caused her to do whatever she did, mine cheated. At first i blamed her, and i was angry, bitter, amd even scared that i fucked my life up forever and ill never find someone like her. Then i accepted it. I blamed myself and my actions. I wasnt attentive. I wasnt a good lover. I wasnt a man. So i accepted that, and made a promise to myself to never treat another girl like i did "the love of my life" again. Read that sentence. Then re read it.

I made a promise to myself to never treat another girl like i did "the love of my life" ever EVER again.

Its a long journey, in fact, the journey is as long as you are alive. Always be improving, always be moving in the path that you want.

There are days where i admittingly lay in bed, watch porn, anime, and just relax.

I also work out 6 days a week, work 40+ hours, and make time to go out amd socialize.

Those days i do nothing, try amd bring yourself to read 2 pages in a book. Just 2. Thats 2 pages more knowledgable then you were the day before. Thats improvment.

[–]redoctober943[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

If she cheated then that's all her fault. It doesn't matter how unhappy she is in the relationship, she should end it, then pursue some other guy.

[–]NexusReflexX6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Very true. She made rhe decision to cheat, so she did.

But really, she was unhappy in our relationship, so she sought it out elsewhere, its the nature of woman, so there is really no reason to be mad at it. Its like being mad at water for being wet.

You cant control other peoples actions. The only person you can cobtrol is yourself. On that note, blaming other people for what happens to you is a contradiction. You need to control your own actions so a girl doesnt feel the need or want to cheat. You need to be a better man.

[–]Lazysaurus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's the nature of humanity. Men cheat too, and slightly more often on the whole. Can't pin this entirely on women.

[–]dontbedenied2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah...I think part of the reason this experience was so painful was because I realized I can't be in denial anymore. My Ex confirmed all my worst fears about how awful women can be. It doesn't matter what you do or say (doesn't matter what THEY say either), they will crush you like a bug in the worst way possible if you give them the opportunity, and will do so without giving a second thought about it.

It must be said that our Exes treated us like shit and disrespected us, and there's no excuse for that kind of behavior. But being butthurt about that won't get us anywhere. We let these people into our lives and allowed them to treat us like that. We all have our reasons for not walking's a lot easier said than done. But we know better now, and it's on us if we let it happen again.

And yeah, there will not be another "love of my life". In terms of future relationships with women, they will serve as nothing more than entertainment for me. I know those romantic "Disney moments" I had in the past really meant nothing.

[–]Willow-girl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That works both ways, you know! "A man" isn't a purpose, either. Having a good one is merely the icing on the cake.

[–]redoctober943[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yes but by that logic we all use everything. We use our parents to look after us, we use our friends to socialise. 'Use' isn't really a bad thing, however these girls need to realise that, and that they also used the guy. How is it my fault if there was a mutual desire for sex? I did her a favour.

[–]NexusReflexX0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hmm. Speaking from my own personal experience, i have used girls for sex. I used them and then never talked to them again. This makes girls feel like sluts. Whether thats a good or bad thing is up to them.

The difference though is your intent. When id use a girl, it was for my own selfish satisfaction. I wasnt immersed in the sex and feankly i was just glad i was having sex.

But when you dont use a girl for sex, but youre still sleeping together, the relationship os much better. Everything os fun, youre always having fun. You feel a connection with a girl.

The best times ibhave with a girl is when we communicate through body language. Smiling through your eyes. When you have control over your body, you can in a sense have control over their body.

On my most reason fling, this girl and i, hb8, model, ex stripper, were out at a bar. I could mord or less control her body at will with mt eyes. Id stare into hers, and let my gaze linger doen to her ass as we are sittinf at the bar. The entire way down her body squirmed as i was truly appreciating her beauty. When it got to her ass, she arched her back amd had her ass look as good as humanly possible. I

[–]redoctober943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So when you used the girl, did she know it was just short term or did she really think it would last?

[–]dgillz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They wont, however, give you happiness. They wont give you the will to live. They wont give you a purpose. All fof that comes from within.

Truest, most RP thing I've read in months.

[–]M1ster_X-4 points-3 points  (10 children) | Copy

A woman's only function to a man is

A) Sex (release of sexual energy)

B) Child bearing (extending/expanding your genes into further generations)

I honestly saw the words "quality woman" in your post and nearly broke out laughing, if not for the fact that you are as much as you try to sound like you're a red pill thinker...still very much blue pill. There are no quality women. There's no special someone, no unicorn. A woman can make your life more interesting, yes...but better? Come on, man. They can more easily RUIN your life than make it better. I'll give you a high five on the rest of your reply but that part right there needs to be excommunicated from your brain ASAP.

To any red-blooded heterosexual man, you're communicating with a hot girl because you want sex from them. Not because you think they're mentally stimulating or socially savvy, because you want to go balls deep with the nuts hanging out. Men want sex. WOMEN want sex, they just aren't overt in this desire. Even when they are getting sex, they aren't overt with the desire. When they're being discarded however, then it becomes overt, and why? Because women have no agency over men aside from sex. If women instinctively date up or "fuck up", then what is it really that she provided to this man whom she saw of higher value than her enough to open her legs for? It wasn't "entertainment" (I can do that just fine on my own with my friends or doing something I find passion in). It wasn't her cooking (hell, I cook 10 times better than any woman...ever notice how the greatest chefs in the world are MEN!?).

It was sex. She gives pussy, she gets provisions. That's the deal. They literally ARE just that. Meat. Going by your last statement, you completely contradict the statement previous to it. If they don't give you happiness, purpose or the will to live, then what does that leave of any known benefit to a man of high value that they can provide?

Yup. Sugar walls.

[–]NexusReflexX4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

There are plenty of quality woman, not sure why you think there isnt. I agree there are no unicorns, special someone, etc etc. But there are quality woman, and to think that EVERY girl is a slut is just plain wrong. EVERY girl can BE/BECOME a slut, but some do have good upbringings, good morals and values.

Just going off of numbers here. Bare with me here.

If there os a girl that is 1 in a million in the world, that would be considered a unicorn. Now, there are 7 billion people alive, and 50% of that is female. Based off numbers alone, that meams there are 3500 unicorns. 3500 "special someones".

If you truly believe that there are no quality women i feel sorry for you.

[–]M1ster_X-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

You have no idea how plugged in you are, but it's okay because that's why we're here to open your eyes to the truth.

I didn't say all women are sluts. I said no woman is special. You aren't just pedastaling, you're practically building an altar. Maybe some have endearing quality to them, but that doesn't make THEM quality, no moreso than I'm a quality human being because I can make a mean gumbo. I could be right asshat, just happens I know how to cook.

With the right amount of attraction, a woman will slut it up though. That doesn't make HER a slut, but you go right ahead and think those high quality women you idolized haven't rode the cock carousel a time or two...and keep assuming you've swallowed the pill while you're at it...and while you're at it put the next tooth you lose under your pillow, because you're living in fantasy land right now.

As Rollo said in The Rational Male (which I'm obviously guessing you haven't read), women are gonna fuck. They might not fuck you, but they will fuck soneone.

Please, I beg of you...sidebar. Immediately.

[–]NexusReflexX2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I mean i have relationships with hb8s on a regular basis, so i must be doing something well.

You seem really angry, may wanna check that first.

[–]M1ster_X-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice for you bro. As if I'm not maintaining relationships either just because I don't see these girls as the future mother of my children? What you call anger I call realism, but don't worry. When it hits you, you've still got this place to learn from. If I'm still around I'll try not to rub it in too much.

[–]JackGetsIt1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

You're throwing out a lot of nuance in both your comments. As I read his comment he's not pedestalizing he's not saying there are unicorns. He's simply saying quality women exist. 'Quality women' doesn't mean she's above cheating and leaving quality just means she offers more then just sex. Maybe she cooks and cleans, maybe she's good companionship, maybe she wants to help you on your mission(s), maybe she believes in a captain first mate dynamic. Lots of women do offer this and some of them keep it up. Feminism has just shamed women like this and therefore they are harder to find. Feminism also convinced women that they can leave at anytime and that there's a six foot, 6 figure, 6 pack guy she deserves waiting around the corner and if she doesn't find him she will be happy anyway 'cause "strong independent wymanZ! power!!" This has made a lot of women jaded and empty because they've thrown away a lot of time trying to act like men and sleeping around a lot.

[–]M1ster_X-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

I see your point, and thank you for clarifying it in a context better than "you're wrong, I'm right, na-nana-boo-boo", but that said I'm going to agree to disagree on the unicorn concept.

Let me be clear, I don't devalue women...but at the same time I don't put them in as high of a regard toward my personal ambitions as to being a definitive asset towards them aside from bearing and mothering my children, until I see proof to the contrary that she's "worth it." My bar of commitment is quite high.

[–]JackGetsIt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't devalue women.

I didn't think you were claiming that at all.

I see proof to the contrary that she's "worth it." My bar of commitment is quite high.

As it should be; and even after she proves it men must still be on guard and protect their assets because at anytime women can use the system against you.

[–]M1ster_X4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice to know we can come to a conclusion even if our ideals are not the same. Sorry if I came off as being abrasive.

[–]Darkistco points points [recovered] | Copy

god this, it's kind of weird how I see "a quality woman will improve your life" yes they are like children and very amusing to play with.

but cooking? nope

[–]M1ster_X0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she CAN actually cook, that's all well and good because it's one less responsibility for me to take. But I'm more than happy cooking for myself, and in fact I enjoy it. Plus, I know what I like, so obviously nobody is going to be better than myself at it in my estimation lol.

[–]RedSkeller6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because pumping and dumping is the ultimate rejection for a woman, driving them so seek the shelter of social media, friends and exs.

[–]jcrpta2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a rationalisation used to make them feel better.

80% of relationships are ended by women; women are naturally very good at finding things wrong with their partner and blowing up the relationship.

So when the tables are turned and she gets dumped... well, hang on a minute, when she does the dumping it's because there's something wrong with her partner. So if her partner's just dumped her, it follows there's something wrong with her....


The hamster won't let that line of thought continue for any length of time; it jumps in immediately with "unless, of course, there's nothing wrong with you; he was using you".

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

There's a concept in economics that pretty much dictates all principles that follow: demand and supply. Where it applies to the SMP is simple. Relationships between men and women revolve around the demand and supply of each other's currencies. For men it's time and commitment. For women it's sex. We demand each respectively and supply our own for the other.

When a women feels 'used for sex' it's because she either supplied more of her currency and demanded more than she received, or overvalued her own currency demanding more commitment and supplying less of her own. Either way, the discrepancy in the exchange is what arises in said feelings.

The fact of the matter is, women often over-value their own currency and demand more than they supply. However because they aren't rational actors in the conventional sense, this principle of human relations is often lost on them. Keep in mind that men can also under-supply their currency - commitment, and over-demand women's'. However, the former, all things being equal, occurs more than the latter.

[–]IVIaskerade2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

she still got what she wanted

No she didn't. This is basic TRP shit.

[–]Mildly_Sociopathic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because she wanted more or at least the possibility of it developing into something more (can serve for great validation that you're worth commiting to).

She feels duped, she feels cheated and so, used. She didn't get what she wanted and the relationship ended while not being in her favour.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She was likely using sex as a trade off for a relationship/commitment, but without commitment, the man got what he wanted from her without "giving up" anything.

[–]nightmancommeth3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its a coping mechanism

[–]M1ster_X1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because they know they WERE being used for sex, but don't want to admit it. Women have much stronger sensibilities than men do, image...or perceived everything to them. This why they classify getting fucked in a bathroom stall 5 minutes after meeting a high SMV guy as "having fun" or "Seeing what's out there". They want to slut it up without being reminded they're slutting it up.

Dumping one, or dropping a plate, puts all that into perspective and then she hamsters herself into the thought process that she wasn't the one who was brazen desiring sex, but the man she was fucking. She only accidentally fell on your dick X amount of times.

[–]2johnnight1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women trade sex for "stuff". It's a covert contract. The consensual sex is done with the expectation that it will result in at least a relationship. Even if her rational brain says "I agree it's just sex", her unconscious brain judges the situation on the gains and gives her bad emotions for not achieving any return.

Men trade "stuff" for sex. That's why you see betas get angry, when they invested "stuff" and got no sex in return.

Both sexes do this.

[–]Kommanderdude1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because women are like children and never want to take any responsibility and look to blame others for everything. Same reason my ltr's road rage incidents are always the other drivers fault. In reality, 90% are actually her fault.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They want other people to see them as less slutty then they really are.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's a simple dodge of responsibility.

[–]JackGetsIt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very succinct. I would just add it's also a play for victim status. Most women's actions can be describe by one or both of these in tandem.

[–]rubenescaray0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they realize they're not that special, they realize their vag has not magic powers to control men or especifically a men she was attracted, and they see are just another girl...

Women feel they are special, that they deserve everything because she is who she are, they feel entittled.

[–]mrpoopistan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Human beings are not rational. They feel then rationalize, which is a whole different ball game.

It's a little bit cognitive dissonance and a little bit sour grapes.

[–]estar50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Except in the scenario she wakes up one day & is bisexual, now wants a girlfriend & y'all break up

[–]Willow-girl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most women, even nice girls, are essentially raised to be prostitutes. They are brought up with the expectation that they'll get something (even if it's just a vague promise of a relationship) in return for "giving up the goods."

Women who do not toe the line and uphold this standard -- who "give it away" -- are usually harshly censured, especially by other women, as they threaten to break up the monopoly on pussy. They're branded "sluts" and "tramps." There is, in a weird way, a stigma against women who aren't prostitutes! So a woman who fucks you with no strings attached may feel guilty about doing so -- she's broken the rules. She's "sold herself too cheaply" and may try to recapture some value after-the-fact.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Victim mentality, blameshifting, entitlement-to-marriage.

It's designed to elicit beta whiteknighting protective instincts.... "I wouldn't just use you for sex, I'd marry you first!"

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Translation, "at least the sex was good and easy, but I was kind of a bitch to him, tee hee hee. But I can't admit to slutting it out to anybody, even myself, so it must be him that was doing it."

It's 100% pure Projection.

Remember that a man, any man, is responsible for all of a woman's shortcomings, poor choices, or any other negative traits she doesn't want to acknowledge.

[–]dylanrockz2002-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Chicks don't complain when you actually dick them well, mate. They only complain about getting used for sex when the sex was bad because they had sex and still DIDNT get what they wanted. Not my fault some men have small todgers and can't navigate minge. Girls don't mind me "using them" because I'm straight up about it and my todger is massive Lol

[–]redoctober943[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Mate, if that was the case women wouldn't continue to have sex with the same guy. A big dick is not the thing that makes a difference to her accusing you of using her. You could have a 10 inch cock, and she will still say you used her. Her saying you used her has nothing to do with it because the two topics are unrelated. She is accusing you because she wants to make you look bad, not because she was disappointed in sex. That's why not only do girls accuse guys of using them, but they accuse them of having tiny cocks too. W_O_M_B_A_T knows what he's talking about.

[–]dylanrockz2002-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

What a coincidence that blokes accused of using chicks for sex are also accused of having a small

[–]redoctober943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't mean they do both at the same time, although there could be cases where that has happened. Sometimes after a break up they will accuse the guy of having a small dick even if he hasn't.

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