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[โ]ruifaf24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Smoothly and early I asked my dates how much of "liberal, modern and independent" they are. Depending of the answers they could get a bitter surprise: half of the bill.
Because my chivalry is inversely proportional to the amount of feminism that I deal with
[โ]t353tfb11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be careful with that. I married a girl because she was pretty and sexy and said she wanted to be a stay home wife who raised kids with conservative values. Also she claimed to have a low n count and she was only 24. 24 years later I'm still paying the price for her cheating ways.
[โ]ruifaf5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It must be hard. I've paid almost the same price for almost the same promises. In some way I had the same as you. But way lighter: 10 years. But I didn't marry her. I convince her to postpone to have kids.
Nowadays most women don't have a gram of shame. They talk like they think the world is theirs. And they are challenged, when asked those questions, to show how powerful they are. No one wants to be or to appear submissive.
Any person can pretend to be something else. But time reveal the true colours. It took me almost 10 years (relationship was decaying fast in year 8) to realise what I was dealing with.
Now I don't hate woman. I understand or try to understand their nature. I have girl friends and I don't avoid woman.
I just don't bring them to my home.
[โ]baumaein19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
haha, a date is not an invitation. It is a mutual agreement to see each other at a certain time and place. Besides how many dates are initiated by women? 10%? The majority of females still think the man is not worthy of her time if he doesn't initiate things.
[โ]joylover72 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And you know damn well 9% of them just want a free meal
[โ]Legitime-Defense2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The last chick I went out insisted on paying half the bill. Also, she wasnโt American...
[โ]TheKingOfHerbs4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Big pp energy
[โ]Adddy33 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not entirely true. Iโm a 17 year old female who has a job, car, and pays for my own expenses. My boyfriend had a job at one point but hasnโt had one in awhile. When we first started dating he always offered to pay for my lunch and I always brought my own money every date. Sometimes he paid for me and sometimes we paid for our selves. Now because I have a job and he doesnโt I have paid for his lunch many times, probably more than he has for mine. I see no problem with paying for my boyfriends food because itโs a partnership and I believe in equal share๐คทโโ๏ธ just trying to shed some light on the issue and show itโs not always women dating men to steal from them or use them.
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[โ]Adddy30 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes? Most I know donโt so Iโm proud of the fact that I have a job working 30 hours a week, I car I paid for myself, and not having to rely on my parents like other teens I know๐ข
[โ]ValleyOfGiants3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is his name Chad?
[โ]MothafuckingMufasa5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kek, godtier LARP
[โ]sirVorton1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not about the bills actually. Girl would gladly pay for you on the date, but that would be it, the end.
[โ][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex paid for a bunch of things, wouldn't let me pay her back, then threw it in my face later when the relationship started falling apart.
I paid for shit too, or we split. Which was nice. But buying things for me, and throwing it in my face.....typical female bullshit.
[โ]RixDixRox0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[โ]lilacluna5480 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know Im probably gonna get downvoted to hell for being on here but I honestly prefer just paying for my own food. Its a dumb as hell concept that men have to pay when we have equal rights now. I cant be the only woman that feels that way.
[โ]gerald_targaryen0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I suggest splitting the bill, I never see that woman again. If she suggests it , she's usually very desperate to get married and settle down. Moral of the story , don't date.
[+]aidan-fox-6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Or you can just take turns paying the bill. I always thought that whoever invited should pay.
[โ]anti-hypergamist10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Would be nice, but in practice women do not do that. It's not only an expectation, but a demand that the man pay for everything, because, you know, she's all tradional and stuff.
[โ]aidan-fox1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well damn, that sucks. I would definitely agree with the traditional stuff, my family is Arab and they expect the guys to pay for everything... poor men, their woman suck the money dry.
Back when I was dating, I would always pay for the first date, and if the guy is interested, he can pay for the next. Kinda hypocritical to call yourself independent if you donโt pay for shit.
[โ]anti-hypergamist0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are definitely not the norm as far as women go. Back when I was dating, I can't remember a time a woman ever offered to pay. Quite sure I would have remembered because I would have been shocked!
[โ]aidan-fox0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk itโs just common decency. Itโs only fair.
[โ]catactacatalyst0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seconded.
[โ]gerald_targaryen0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then only men will pay... unless you live in a strange world where women ask men out
[โ]aidan-fox-1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your right, I mean sure, initially the guy asks the girl out, but what about the following dates. Surely, if you like the person you would want a second or third date.
Which is why I usually pay for the first date. If the guy has the guts to take a chance and ask me out, then it wonโt kill me to take a chance and pay for the meal.
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