Why girls always complain they were used for sex when they get dumped
Women live and die on their social connections. Think of all women like mini politicians. They are always trying to play to their base and expand their base and not offend anyone unless it's politically beneficial. Have you ever noticed that it's really difficult to pin women down on where they want to eat, or their belief structures or who their friends are? It's because they are constantly trying to be tactful and benefit by playing both sides.
Now. Enter in a break up scenario. It's of the highest priority for a women after a breakup to garner the lion's share of sympathy, support, and friendship. Most women, despite all the modern propaganda, don't do well independently. Women are highly highly dependent on society and groups for support. When faced with a break up women will plan it out for months, or even years, before the event. You could say that you are always either falling towards or falling away from a women. Women do not possess a core loyalty. It’s only your turn.
When the breakup does go down if a women calculates it will play to her base (the group of friends and acquaintances) she will use it. Out comes the hurt locker. That time 4 years ago you bumped her during a fight because she blocked the door? It's now you slamming her against a wall and she fell most likely concussed. That time you yelled back and forth at each other in the car? Pattern of extreme verbal abuse. That time you said her mother's annoying? You have always hated her entire family. That time she was half asleep and she begged you the week prior to wake her with your dick, and finally you did and she loved it and fucked you for an hour? Rape. That time you got a text from a lonely ex out of the blue that you ignored? Cheating. All of the sexual fun: kinky play, sloppy blow jobs, hair pulling and butt slapping that gave her earth shattering orgasms she bragged about to friends is now you forcing her, you using her. In a female's logic if you didn't marry her, father her kids, pay the bills and are still clearly in that capacity...you used her for sex. Black and white. Women use relationships, sympathy, and human empathy like weapons. Some weaponize more than others but all have it in their back pockets and god forbid you pumped and dumped her or plated her. Now you really used her!!
Where does this logic come from? One motivation: need for emotional decoupling from ex's. The same way it's easier for soldiers to go to war and kill the enemy if you dehumanize them women use self delusional tactics to help them emotionally move on to new partners. Another factor at play stems from a deep seated survival instinct all women evolved. Warren Farrell notes, “Men’s greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and woman's greatest strength is their facade of weakness.” Rollo writes about this in an article he calls 'War Brides'. Biologically men are more expendable than women. In tribal hunter gatherer cultures there were a lot of ways men could die, they could die on hunting trips or scouting new areas or going to war or defending from invaders. This could leave women without resources and a without a mate frequently. Women were left sorting out the pieces. Often times this meant her needing to quickly emotionally decouple from her former mate and re-attach to a new mate which might even be an invader or rapist or immigrant or crippled white pubic haired tribal elder. Women that didn’t have interpersonal IQ and emotional resilience didn’t pass on their genes.
We as humans also evolved from more primitive mammals that didn't cohabitate and raise children jointly the way we've slowly evolved too now. So there's probably still long lost instincts that men seed as many wombs and women gather as many protectors. Only one quality chad alpha seed that doesn't necessarily have to stay around is needed to get pregnant. The tribe and other males could provide resources if caveman Chad wasn’t around for multiple reasons.
Finally, we have a more modern issue that compounds all this evolutionary biology and psychology stuff. The ‘he used me for sex’ line is hyper compounded by Modern feminism. Modern feminism establishes that women are victims of male patriarchy and must be on constant guard and proactive defense of oppressive toxic masculinity. Modern feminism encourages women to act as a cabal or cartel. When your ex bad mouths you to her girlfriends she is signaling victimhood, while also reaching out for protection, but she must give her patronage to feminism. Feminism acts like a racketeering mob boss: “Sure we’ll keep your pussy safe but first you need to pay homage.” Show me a women that is protected by feminism that didn’t pay for protection. Saudi Women covered head to toe locked in their homes? Fuck you pay me. Stay at home wives? Fuck you pay me. Judge Judy, Stacey Dash, Christina Hoff Sommers? Fuck you pay me. Boys and girls having their sex organs mutilated at home and abroad? Fuck you pay me. 11 year olds married to 60 year olds in Afghanistan then stoned if they're raped by someone else or acid attacked for going to school? FUCK YOU PAY ME!
So your girlfriend is forced to choose support or the political and social wilderness. After the transaction is complete she will be praised for leaving you, she will be praised for 'outing' you as a patriarch and she will be rewarded for helping other women avoid you. This will give her elevated status in the group and she will get attention, and lots of other perks like social hangout time, elevated status and material support (room to stay, financial support, female attention and male attention when well meaning blue pill men get triggered by the crocodile tears).
Bottom line, modern western society is a gynocentric playground that gives your girl lots of room to maneuver in. Your girl is a slave to her biology, her estrogen, and modern Feminist driven Victim Olympics. Compound this all with racketeering and good old fashion group think and she is forced to flip the switch on you.
For more I recommend googling:
Redpill the light switch effect
Redpill the 6 stages of breaking up
Redpill greatest hits
Rollo war brides