Yes, mad I know but last night I went for dinner with my father and brother (should I say my sister for his blue pill mentality) and my goodness, some of the crap that came out of their mouth.

Like everyone who swallows the pill, at first its the bitterest to swallow.

Yet, these two were on form when the subject of mutual friends were getting divorced and I was against the idea of marriage, and also touched on the fact that I wish there were Prenupts in the UK.

Both came out with stuff like "you were obviously hurt." I said "obviously not, If I found a girl I'd like to end up with, I'd want to ultimately be in control lead and not follow."

Them; "so dont you want women to be in control, and to let them run the relationship?" Me: "wow."

Them: "have you not ever seen these romantic films?"

Them: "did you know king edward gave up his throne for the love of his life" me: "please see superman 2"

Them: "Say you dated Emma Watson, shes hot, and she ended up with you, and couple years later, you were both a famous couple and she started to control you as you say etc what would you do?" me: "id dump her, and go for a younger celeb."

Them: "say your wife/gf needs 10k for something in the early stages, you not gna bail her out?" me: "wife, potentially, girlfriend? Absolutely no fucking way"

Them: "say your wife needs money for your wedding, or anything, are you gna neglect her?" me: "have you not been listening to me?"

Them: "aren't you afraid you'll end up alone?" me: "arent you afraid of being with someone who allows you no fucking freedom?"

Them: "You are selfish, you dont GIVE. A relationship is about letting the woman feel special, shes the only one for you. Buying her chocolates, flowers, etc." Me: "LOL"

Sad isn't it? So close to home. They are genuinely afraid that I chatted up the waitress in between this conversation, but she was married, but I still tried and she still engaged thus proving another point I made about committment.

The truth hurts I kept saying to both of them, and sadly they just never grasped it. I fear for my younger brother, and my dad, whos wife (my mum) treats him like a doormat.

My mum works with my dad, and wants to work with him more over a long winded trust issue. I said to him "hand on your heart, would you prefer if she didnt work there?"

He said "well she brings a lot"

Me "yes or no"

Him "well shes very good actually..."

Me "hand on your heart?"

him "no..."

Shut them both up eventually.