Frame, Wimp, Asshole, and Everything in Between
The subject of frame is a tough one to grasp for newbies to TRP, so I'm writing this to instruct you guys on how to have good frame with women and more importantly with people in general.
First of all, you don't build frame, you FIND it. It's within you already. Everyone has a dark side that they've learned to suppress,
and whether you like it or not, these darker aspects of you are important if you want to get ahead in any area of life, including women.
The following method is the fastest way to find your frame. It's not the easiest, but it's the fastest.
Step 1:
Wimp
First step is recognising that you're a wimp. This is the first bitter pill. It's not really your fault, since the alphas in society benefit greatly from having a mass population of middle class betas to push around. You are a product of this conditioning.
A wimp or beta never puts themselves first. They are always trying to help, always at the service of others. They are always nice. But it's not the good kind of nice. People who are genuinely nice know that being nice is expensive, and they spend their niceness very carefully to avoid being stepped on. Not so the beta. He gives away his time, attention, money, energy very freely and was taught to expect others to do the same in return.
They do realise the world doesn't work that way but they still carry on living this way because it's so ingrained and it's the only way they know how to behave. It will take drastic measures and massive action to reprogram their thoughts.
Step 2:
Asshole
Be an asshole. This is the second pill you have to swallow and it tastes a lot worse than the first one. And it's also really hard to do. Women are biologically engineered to suck all your time, energy and attention. Actually people in general will do that if you let them.
Start to take from people without giving anything back
Start asking for favors/money from women all the time, and don't reciprocate (I'm still struggling with this one)
Start manipulating people at work (I'm getting better at this. Read: The Prince)
Go to job interview and ask for $1000 more than what the market rate is for your job
etc etc
Whether you like it or not, and whether you agree with me or not, these are the traits that all successful people have. Just read up biographies of successful people and you'll find that they have made peace with the dark side of their personalities and have found a way to channel them to good use.
Read this article about Bill Gates if you don't believe me. Notice that now Bill Gates is such a goody two shoes doing charity and healing the world. That's because he can afford to be as nice as he wants right now and nobody can walk all over him barring a really bad incident.
Step 3:
Fine tune your frame
Find your balance. The mainstream definition of balance is always "somewhere in the middle". That's fine if you want to be taken advantage of on a daily basis.
I find that a comfortable place for me is just below Asshole. It fluctuates and sometimes I give in to the stupid gamble of being nice towards another human being but for the most part that's where the balance is. Find your own sweet spot and keep fine tuning it until you have your frame down pat.
This is what people really mean when they say they don't have a "great personality". What they mean to say is that they've been sterilised to the point that they start to hate themselves. The only way to get out of this rut is to let that inner demon out and let him roam free for a while.
Try it and report back. I promise you, you won't regret it.
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