So I'm Re-reading models by Mark Manson and something really caught my eye. Something that I honestly think in the 5 or so year since the book has been written has changed drastically.
A typical complaint from a normal girl: “He’s really nice, why doesn’t he ask me out on a date more often?”
A typical complaint from a very hot girl: “Ugh, that club owner keeps flashing his watch at me. He’s so sleazy.”
From my own personal experience, which is reinforced by a good amount of Field reports posted, this comment changes more so on how the women perceives herself to you at that moment. Not only that, but that same perception also dictates how normal of an action they will flip into "being hit on by a creeper".
I also seem to see this trait more so in women who seem to not get the attention "they deserve" via social media, as well as women who get ALL their attention via social media.
It almost seems that harsher and harsher rejections of "beta" males is replacing social media for validation. What I looking for more insight on is why this is actually happening.
Back when I was getting over my really Bad AA I hit on a LOT of very attractive women. I got rejected left, right, and center but it was never flat out mean. Now I am fairly good looking and tall so that probably plays a part in it, but even so I was heavily invested on female validation at the time so I was pretty cringey I'm sure.
The only time I have faced really harsh rejections were:
mildly attractive women, aka women I kinda had to convincing myself to approach. The other batch was actual whores and gold-diggers.
The first batch, most likely my in-genuine attitude about the whole approach bombed it I'm sure. The second batch, I wasn't giving goods for sex so I was a wait of their time.
But it just seem brutal for the guys starting out now, were I was a few yeas ago with social skills. I've seen drinks hurled at guys, screaming at the top of lungs for no reason, and flat out just pointing and laughing at guys for even starting to walk over to women. The straight out brutal way these women act just seems to be more and more vicious each time they do it.
Where does this trend of ever growing viciousness come from? It's not actual hot women and their rejections, because frankly hot women(who aren't gold diggers) rarely actually do this. In fact I usually see them kinda pep the guy up a bit even while rejecting him. It really seems to be those slightly above middle of the road girls that are aggressive with it. Also its ALWAYS in groups, never when there is a 1 on 1 approach.
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