Comfort with Risk is a Defining Aspect of Testosterone. Its why our Car Insurance is Higher. Be Comfortable Risking Creepy and You Will Slay.

Arrys · 2017-09-01T00:55:29+00:00

The main issue is people have no clue who the fuck they are. And even beyond that they don't care to find out. They don't WANT to be themselves. They want to find someone else to tell them how to live. How to be. To tell them what they are.

I find this to be very true, and it's worth stressing again (although the rest of your post was good too).

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know who you are, but it takes a high degree of introspection to step back and really analyze both what you think and what you do. Then to take the next step and compare what you do with what you want in life to see if they align.

People like to be comfortable as they are. It's easier to settle for who you are now so you don't have to suffer and work your ass off to change for the better ("I'm a heavy set guy, that's just who I am.. "I'm not the kind of guy who approaches girls in bars"). Bullshit. That's nothing but excuses and shifting the blame to something other than yourself, which is what children do.

If you're sitting on your ass every day, making excuses for why you aren't working on yourself or putting in the effort to change your circumstances, then you do know who you are - you're a loser.

It's one thing to take the step back and analyze your situation introspectively and be aware enough to tell if your actions are in alignment with your goals. Anyone can do that to some degree. But where most people fail is on the follow through.

Once you start to actually take action and follow through on what you want to do to improve your lot in life, it's amazing how your sense of identity starts to follow. When you start working out daily, eating correctly, investing in yourself, it all begins to take shape. You begin to realize that you're the kind of person who takes-charge, who doesn't allow himself to be a victim of circumstances out of his control. You learn drive, passion, dedication.

Shakydrummer · 2017-09-01T00:54:47+00:00

Funny enough, my own mother would always give me the advice of 'leaning into the discomfort' when it came to tackling different objectives in life.

It kinda rubbed off in a positive way, because you're entirely right, leaning into the discomfort is what creates opportunities. Anyone who is worth knowing and respecting in life didn't wait for opportunities in life, they dealt with the risk of putting their neck on the line and created their own opportunity despite the risk. The same idea just translates to anything really - don't be afraid to to pursue something - so in the case of women, what's getting shot down and moving to the next one compared to wondering what a missed opportunity would be, and kicking yourself in the ass for it months down the road.

Fuck that, fucking go for it, with anything in life.

WhySoRuff · 2017-09-01T02:35:44+00:00

All I got for hoe's is hard dick and bubble gum,

and I'm all out of bubble gum.

But on a serious note.

Thotwrecker · 2017-09-01T08:11:12+00:00

This is a good post. This is the same attitude one of my friends who is it top salesmen at his company does. Push hard, polarize, you cleave through the leads and quickly with ruthless efficiency - those were going to buy will be making that decision quickly, and those who wouldn't have bought no matter what you did are quick to react and get out of the way.

If she wasn't going to fuck me, I'd rather know now that after I put 26$ of drinks and 2 hours of my time into the bitch. Some people at his company don't like him, but he puts numbers on the board and he doesn't really give a shit if a few people go and have a bad experience and it sours the company's rep in their eyes. He's in it for himself, fuck the company.

This is definitely the approach to take with women - you don't represent some larger "conglomerate" of good men that you have to represent by not being rude or pushy or confrontational or weird. You must be ruthlessly efficient, because believe me there is NOTHING women want more than to waste your fucking time, they want your time more than money (if you are an alpha, if you're beta bucks than sure, the bucks is their real purpose with you.)

Now days it's a thing bitches blog and tweet about, having guys on tinder take them out to free dinners and entertainment while they had no real plan to "go out". You must cleave - distill the pool of leads down to the x% who were going to see you as a real sexual possibility.

Nowdays before I meet with a girl on Tinder I'll pretty much know if she'll fuck or not. Why, because I say enough ridiculous offensive shit that if she wasn't going to fuck me, she wouldn't have stayed in the conversation. She wouldn't have agreed to meet at my place or "grab drinks at 10pm"

This attitude tends to come from abundance. Like true abundance, not "abundance mentality" that you try to convince yourself to behave like you have when you look in the mirror. Once you fucked enough you stop caring about getting all of them to like you or think of you approvingly, you're goal is fuck her, to own her body, and to do that, you have to push the boundaries of what people are comfortable with.

Comfortable practical "you" wouldn't finance a BMW over 60 months and be stuck with the payments on a depreciating asset and put down your perfectly fine Accord for a scumbag offer from the dealership. But agigated, slightly frothy "you"? You just might if you get worked up enough and your greed and perhaps fear juices are flowing.

Similar concept to women. Comfortable practical women aren't trying to get dominated and fucked hard. But women who get emotional and worked up either positively or negatively, and have some kind of physical, emotional reaction to you? Many, not all, but many of them will fuck you for making her feel some way about you.

ShitsWithTheDoorOpen · 2017-09-01T01:26:51+00:00

Good post. I always act like a creepy old man and I do not give a shit. It gets me laid a lot. I walk this world in a mental position where not only am I unafraid of my sexuality, I fully embrace it. When I see a sexy little bitch she can see the predator in my eyes. With a single glance she already knows I am thinking of getting her naked, penetrating her and giving her orgasms. Women love you to feel that way about them, it is primal and honest.

[deleted] · 2017-09-01T05:38:02+00:00

Risk is the only way you can show confidence.

Fuck, this is so true. Anyone can walk around all day with their head held high, perceiving themselves as badass, but it is only when thatan is tested, that he and everyone else will find out if he is actually a badass.

Jolly-rancher359 · 2017-09-01T02:03:50+00:00

One thing that really helped my mentality in approaches and pick up is the fact that some of these girls want a good smash session. Girls can get really fucking horny especially if they aren't getting laid.

billrad72 · 2017-09-01T02:29:08+00:00

Hard dick and bubblegum!lmfao

LiveAFTSOV · 2017-09-01T02:42:21+00:00

A scrawny video game nerd can WANT to have a chizzled physique, but that's not who he is.

This is the problem with the "Discover who the fuck you are" posts (I'm not bashing this post, I agree 100% with unapologetic sexuality.)

There is no "whoever the fuck who you are" because you have to change who you are just to become red pill.

If you change all the thoughts and behaviors of a personality, is it still the same person?

Some people ARE meatheads.

Other people ARE paintballers.

Other people ARE musicians.

This even raises another problem:

Some individuals force themselves to be something, but is it them trying to be something they are not?

I visualize a kid fucking around on Fruity Loops studio making shitty beats and claiming he is a rapper. A rapper is "who he is."

So then he is internally conflicted, cus he doesn't know if he is slaving over his music, suffering because it's who he is, or suffering because it is who he is not.

My solution? Be nothing, from that nothingness, you can be anything.

Burt_93 · Fri Sep 1 5:39:54 2017 UTC

Why Do You Write Like This

tropzumuch · 2017-09-01T02:39:26+00:00

Gotta get me some hard dick too

Good post tho

returnofthequack · 2017-09-01T12:29:19+00:00

Great post. The big L quote at the end seals the deal.

"energy level of a eunich"... funny because it's true

GreenTeaOnMyDesk · 2017-09-01T14:05:40+00:00

Our car insurance is higher because we drive more miles.

MagnumBurrito · 2017-09-01T14:16:49+00:00

Great post. Saved it.

Also put "You are sex dude. Walk talk and look like sex," in my daily reminder note.

Raelist · 2017-09-01T04:44:37+00:00

Hmm. For those of us guys with low testosterone, I wonder if we can get a discount on car insurance.

red-arctic-tern · 2017-09-01T05:15:23+00:00

Men should get into street fights, go bungee jumping, travel to fucked up countries and compete in some sport. Otherwise you won't be a man.

[deleted] · 2017-09-01T12:30:49+00:00

I agree, the comfort with risk thing is why women will always respect you when you go straight in the pooper without asking.

Dragon_Garoo · 2017-09-01T15:51:22+00:00

So much this. Was out shooting pool with a guy I know, ex of a friend, he was with a 20-something cutie. We were all hitting it off and had great chemistry. High fives, a bit of kino, etc. Threw down we should chill some time - she balked... has a boyfriend. Just said 'no worries' and took off. Maybe another time. Maybe she thought it was creepy. Maybe she didn't wanna get called out in front of her friend. Meh. More in the sea.

Raikkonen716 · 2017-09-01T20:20:57+00:00

It reminded me of this: "We're taught terror from the nursery. Terror of God, or, even worse, of scandal. We're taught to spend our entire lives cowering in self-denial. The truth, Mr Gray, is that every impulse we strangle only poisons us." Oscar Wilde, The picture of Dorian Gray.

I really think that terror of scandal is what truly destroys the life of so many men. The life of every beta is somehow based on trying to avoid as much as possible any form of scandal. Be it approaching a girl, look someone in the eyes, making a phone call.

shakespeareSMG · 2017-09-03T20:39:32+00:00

Good

But I would not call it "creepy" as that is a female term for being a man and desiring sex that's become a popular phrase and shit-test they have been using of late.

MarcoCorona · 2017-09-05T00:08:13+00:00

Can confirm. Recently were messing around with a woman that pushed all my buttons and thus drove my body into sexual overdrive.

Testosterone levels must have been crazy high, my dick has not once gone soft in two weeks, drooling precum all day long forcing me to change underwear at very least twice a day (including at work). Balls literally aching after six to eight hours at most, forcing me to empty them and every single time I climaxed I made a huge mess. And by huge I mean two sheets of cleenex drenched in cum, dripping wet. Absolutely unfathomable quantities of cum; swimmers included.

My sex drive was out of control, I never ever have experienced anything like it before, it was quite literally beyond my comprehension how this was even possible.

I had a really, really hard time to get any work done, getting any mental tasks done was excruciating difficult, I fucked up menial tasks at random, no matter how simple they were.

My perception was tainted, vision blurred, some noises were suppressed, others were amplified, my olfactory sense overwhelmed me, I literally could smell fertile women in passing and it fucking drove me nuts. Every whiff of ovulating women entering my nostrils disconnected my brain, I were fucking unable to talk for good ten minutes.

My beloved cat was sick and I had to take her to the vet.

The vet and her assistant, both being female, were with me and the cat in the examination room for... maybe 15 minutes. After mere five minutes my body must have flooded the whole room with pheromones.

Both the vet and her assistant were breathing heavily, cheeks glowing, playing with their hair, nipples pointing skywards, and I kid you not, flexing their thighs in plain sight repeatedly while leaning with their asses against the furniture, torso leaning ever so slightly backwards. They were so aroused that they literally fucked up the blood collection, spilling some across the examination table. If the exam would have taken any longer they would have been displaying a nice, soppy wet camel toe.

During the whole exam I appeared extremely calm on the outside, but, oh boy... on the inside... I were very much pleased with myself because I had the aura of an alpha that has the ability to turn women into submissive bitches in heat just by standing with them in a room. Not mimicking but actually being an alpha dog.

Also: I would have fucked them both right then and there if only circumstances and my mind did not prohibit me from doing so.

And here is the kicker: The testosterone levels rose just having the right psychological buttons pressed while dirty talking over 1.750 miles distance. The mind can move mountains and do so much more. Be an alpha! Sweat it! Let the women see and smell that you are the top dog!

TL;DR: It was, quite literally so, "fucking magic"!

1ledzepplin1 · 2017-10-31T01:33:16+00:00

You're speech and this post in general gave me like on edge and I'm totally pumped up and excited to go meet my first girlfriend in years but what the fuck am I seeing this in an insurance thread for other than possibly the fact that I'm looking to buy insurance and was feeling sheepish about going to start that purchasing processs earlier today so decided to post pone...

[deleted] · 2017-09-01T19:30:17+00:00

I think you're right about men, but might be understating the situation for women:

Their risk is a reed might give them a paper cut.

Or dying in childbirth. For hundreds of thousands of years, there has been an evolutionary arms race between the size of our skulls and the size of women's pelvis's. This is why we're born about 3 month premature.....if we go the full term of 9 months.

Also, they might get knocked up by a loser.....and give birth to losers.

Get comfy with risk. It screams alpha.

Absofuckinglutely. There is a running debate on the number of male vs female ancestors we've had....a surprising number of males never breed.

Here's a fun experiment.....chat with a SJW type, and paint this picture: You're a female in a village or pre-history camp, and a warlord rides through and kills your husband and sons. What's the best move? Fuck the warlord. A surprising number of women will admit that yes, this is the right move.

Title	Comfort with Risk is a Defining Aspect of Testosterone. Its why our Car Insurance is Higher. Be Comfortable Risking Creepy and You Will Slay.
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YOU HAVE TO RISK CREEPY