Hey guys, old man here. The topic of this post is getting past the anger phase. First what do I mean by the anger phase? I mean that phase you go thru when you realize that you have been lied to for a long period of your life. Most guys here go thru it. And it is quite natural. I mean waking up and realizing that most of what you have been told about woman is a lie. I mean sugar, spice and everything nice, and then you find out it is mostly BS. A good analogy would be being told by society that every morning when you get up, you have to punch yourself in the nuts. Then one day you realize that “hey, I don’t have to punch myself in the nuts anymore.” Of course you are going to be angry. You’ve been faithfully punching yourself in the nuts for years. You think to yourself this is stupid, but society has fed you a line that you should.

So what happens when you stop? You get pissed. Heck, who wouldn’t? You just found out that you have been killing yourself over a lie. Of course you are going to be angry. The same thing applies to a women acting on their nature. Finding out the true nature of women will set you off. You get angry at all of them and it is just as bad for you. It’s like getting mad at a compass for pointing north! Heck, that’s what they do. And the problem is two-fold. First, you walk around with a chip on your shoulder. And second, you fall into the typical social trap of women’s shaming language, society backlash and all the crap that comes with that.

But don’t worry, that anger phase will pass. What comes after is an understanding phase. Consider it a an awakening. Anger becomes understanding. And this is when you as a man will reap many benefits. This is the point of awakening. A perfect example can be found in “the rational male” by Rollo Tomassi. (Required reading by the way.) His words don’t come from a place of anger, but rather understanding and reason. And this is where life gets better by tenfold. Stress goes, attitudes improve and you will be at a better place in you world. You gain an inner peace that is noticeable to yourself and others. Life gets easier and you become a master of your world. Heck, everything gets easier. And you know what the best part is, getting into a situation that in the past would really frost your cookies. Now you see it coming and can adapt with little effort. Interpersonal relations get easier as well as professional relationships.

So guys understand. Once you pass that point you will be a far better man than before. And you know what the best part is? Knowing that this pisses women off to no end. Nothing is more satisfying that seeing the face of a woman after she gives you her standard crap and replying “Ya, you’re probably right. Well… got to go. Nice meeting you.” And then going your own way.