Hey guys.
I went out clubbing last night with my friends. There were seven of us, three guys including me and four girls. My girlfriend Hannah was meant to come too but she was feeling ill. I offered to stay in with her but she insisted I go out and have a good time.
At the club my friends got talking to a group of women who apparently work in finance. They were here for some kind of conference and were checking out the local places in their spare time.
One of them, Lauren, started trying to chat to me and ask for my number. She was pretty but I was not interested as I have a girlfriend. I told her this but she then started asking for pics of Hannah. I showed her and she said that I ''could do better than that''. I was very annoyed and told her to leave me alone.
Later me and my friends were dancing, and Lauren and her group came up to us and she started trying to dance with me. I gave her the brushoff once again and moved away from her and she gave me a dirty look. A while later she came back and by that point was very drunk. She smirked at me and threw her drink in my face. I was absolutely fuming and in response I poured my beer on her head. She started crying and ran to the bouncer who got us all kicked out.
Everyone then proceeded to have a go at me. I understand they were annoyed that we were kicked out, but everyone was acting like I was wrong to pour my drink on her. They all saw her splash her drink in my face, but everyone was saying it was nasty to do that to a girl.
The ladies in our group were talking about how upset they'd be if someone ruined their dress/hair/makeup by doing that, but when I pointed out she did the same to me everyone said that it isn't the same.
Nobody said goodbye to me last night and I made my own way home. I told Hannah what happened and she agrees that I didn't do anything wrong. I tried explaining myself again over the groupchat but everybody ignored me.
How do I sort this out in a mature way?
TL;DR: My friends are acting like I was in the wrong for pouring my drink on someone who threw hers in my face.
[–][deleted] 64 points65 points66 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A friend of mine got beaten by his friends because the girl he refused claimed he tried to rape her... White kinight simps are the real cancer that lead to feminists entitlement
[–]KaptajnKLO38 points39 points40 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"Friends" that don't have your back are not friends and you shouldn't waste your time with them.
[–]newcaprica123 points24 points25 points (3 children) | Copy Link
This is why you should avoid friends at clubs or bars. Advice from an older mgtow here. I hate going out to drink with my work colleagues, again i am very private person and share only lies about my life while i get them all to open up. Yesterday night the boss was with us and was messing with me and trying to tell a girl if she was interested in me to which she said no, again this was practical joke for him to look all alpha and take my case. I looked and her and said your a 30 year old woman i would never want something that old. Shut him and her up and her whitenight beta boi couldnt just believe how blunt I was. I dont fear any of the bosses after work, they are all simps who want to fuck all the girls in the team of 50 people or so. They cant wrap their heads around the idea that i dont pursue women at work as its dangerous in the era of metoo.
[–]Buchwild5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
It's just a dumb idea if you value your job, do you want to piss people off you're gonna see or be near every day?
[–]Smacers1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. What's the best case scenario here - you meet someone and marry them? Then you get the joy of being around them 24/7 - no thanks.
Worse case scenario, #MeToo, breakup and getting the cold shoulder for years, fired, rumors, etc., the list goes on.
[–]cbr900rr19960 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
lol!
[–]WotanReborn17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If my friends revealed themselves to be simps of that maginitude we would no longer be friends.
It's impossible to have respect for people like that and can't really have friendship without respect.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"how do i sort this out in a mature way?"
go MGTOW. never talk to, look at, fuck or deal with women ever again.
[–]Oneironaut917 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
cringe normie gets a lesson in the female concept of equality
[–]ThaiEscapePlan6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
fucking millennials pretty much all raised by single mommies. bros before hoes.
[–]Origami843 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, stop defending yourself. "No one throw beer on my head and get away with it" that's all you need to say. No need to debate the point.
[–]gazzaoak2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
There is nothing that bloke can do.... ditch them....
One time, i hunged out with this pokego group, then a white knight guy on the group decided to mock me after a girl rejected me on the group... i there then i started to bite back by calling them fuckwits.... then eventually I got banned... even tho i lost the battle... at least i attack back and cause a bit of damage...
My dad taught me not to fight battles that you will lose (even if you win that situation (or war if you could put it in those words), you will still lose the overall battle). But my thoughts even if your going to lose the overall battle, at least you fought hard and cause damage by attacking them...
[–]RoboMandrake2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That's easy - new 'friends'. The current group will figure it out one or two divorce rapes later.
[–]KaitouNala2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Really: do unto others and all that fucking jazz.
Also "friends" i'd be in search of new ones after that.
[–]harrison_wheels2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Pussy turns man against man, brother against brother. It's sad.
[–]jackalhead2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Your friends are idiots. Ghost them all and go your own way.
[–]Soullfester0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave them, they aren't your friends. Trust me if you were truly popular in that friend-group, for example the alpha, all of them would've been defending you no matter your sex.
[–]Exactly_what_I_think0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I always run a tab.
If/when I get kicked out because of an angry woman at least I got a night of free drinking.