This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.

rockstarsheep · 2017-12-17T16:47:11+00:00

I am nearly speechless. First the wife, then the gf. This guys needs TRP, stat!

LeftHello · 2017-12-17T19:13:37+00:00

There was some study posted on reddit a while back that shed some light on the whole "it's just sex" thing.

Apparently when it comes to cheating, women are (relatively) more concerned with "emotional" infidelity, while men are more concerned with physical infidelity.

So in a woman's mind, it may be easier to justify cheating by thinking "oh well it's not like I love this guy, we just had sex", and assume their boyfriend/husband thinks the same way. Without realizing it's just the opposite.

Edit: Think I found it - https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10508-014-0409-9#page-1

Consistent with this evolutionary perspective, heterosexual men were more likely than heterosexual women to be upset by sexual infidelity (54 vs. 35 %) and less likely than heterosexual women to be upset by emotional infidelity (46 vs. 65 %).

UrsusG · 2017-12-17T18:01:37+00:00

This hits on one of the most insidious covert contracts men buy into. Its fine to take a child in and be good to them, even being a father. Never ever do it for a woman or expecting to gain respect or devotion for it. You will not. If you love the kid love the kid on the merits of that dynamic. The mom will not hesitate to pull the trigger on you though. Not for a second.

FAT_BALLSACK · 2017-12-17T17:08:19+00:00

Damn dude. He finds put his current gf likes to get fucked down by Reggie Everyman and the only thing he's thinking is he doesn't find her attractive now? As anxious as this post makes me he needed to find out instead of living a fucking lie. Good god

GreenPiller · 2017-12-17T18:45:27+00:00

What would happen if the movie American Psycho had a female protagonist instead of a male one? Would the character be as intriguing or would she just seem like a regular woman?

THEnimble_mongoose · 2017-12-17T18:11:46+00:00

And this is what a guy gets for "being a real man" and taking in someones children as their own.

WTF? Why does this guy think that real men raise other men's kids?

sadomasochrist · 2017-12-17T19:02:40+00:00

Biological father of "our kids." WAT... Dude.

Throwawaysteve123456 · 2017-12-17T17:12:08+00:00

Man, I feel for some of these DB guys. 80% of them scream infidelity, or at least the girl completely given up. For the female stories, which surprisingly is the majority, they describe mostly men that let themselves go, play video games, and jerk off rather than fuck their wives.

Momo_dollar · 2017-12-17T17:47:33+00:00

Why did she confess?

To get rid of him but make it his choice

She was done with him as the kids are now older.

Also to find out if he had been been fucking anyone on the side

Reformed65 · 2017-12-17T20:25:33+00:00

Bob is our kids biological father.

This one sentence would piss me off so much, get the fuck out of here with this "our" bullshit. Did they come out of OP's cock when he fucked you? No, therefore you say "MY kids" not "OUR kids".

Trying to sly in and paint this picture that somehow the kids still belong to OP.

ChuuniWizard · 2017-12-18T03:05:09+00:00

What is this, the script to The Cuckening 2?

[deleted] · 2017-12-17T21:28:51+00:00

I'm more interested in what Bob has to say.

We can learn from that lowlife pussy slayer

chuckthundercock · 2017-12-17T21:47:35+00:00

This is a gut punch to every non TRP guy out there. Post-awakening its a "water is wet" post. All my kids have had genetic testing. Even the hamster can't argue around the health benefits of doing so, its a defacto paternity test under the guise of "health." Every TRP member with kids should get this done stat, in fact, it should be in the sidebar. Any resistance to such test lets you at least know that she's been fucking other guys. Edit: Added it as a sidebar recommendation.

Auvergnat · 2017-12-17T20:20:33+00:00

She says she was "lost" and that looking back it was all a " mistake" and that she now realizes she killed our sex life, not me. She tells me that the reason she went back to Bob, after me pressing her, was because I was "Too good" for her, and that she never thought I actually loved her.

I asked her what part of me taking on her kids, her, and her responsibilities made it seem like I didn't love her. Shes says "I don't know."

One of the most important TRP teaching is that the medium is the message. The reason the OP got cucked for so long was that he made the mistake of listening what she says, while her actions were screaming very loudly "I am not sexually attracted to you". Now decades later, he is still listening to what she says as his primary attempt to understand her.

Redsqa · 2017-12-17T21:50:45+00:00

'Funniest comment' :

Fuck this fuck this fuck this fuck this.

My biggest fear is that I'm just being used by my wife as a provider for the kids and her.

Logically, it makes sense that even if she didn't love me and wasn't attracted to me she'd stick around and take one for the team sometimes. I'm usually not an asshole, I raise the kids as my own and I provide a comfortable living (she's a stay at home mom). My career has nowhere to go but up.

Shit like this makes something inside of me scream. Using my love as a tool makes me feel fucking unclean, like a fucking worm that isn't worthy of being in a marriage where I'm actually loved for who I am instead of just what I provide. My skin crawls and I start feeling nauseous. Knowing you put your heart out and the bitch fucking used you and manipulated you is the worst fucking nightmare I can imagine.

Fuck dude I'm so sorry.

I can't even explain how sick this makes me feel.

Notice the sentence in bold. This guy knows. Inside, he knows he's betabux, perhaps a cuck. That's why he feels so sick.

RockhoundFIN · 2017-12-17T18:54:45+00:00

Kind of makes one lose interest in even fucking them. Every inch of dick shoved into that pussy validates the person carrying the pussy in the belief that this behavior is all good. Have strength and accepting the pill will help, even if it makes you lose most of the perceived value of women.

Sometimes its nice to empty one's balls onto their faces or mouths and see them think of oneself as their god/daddy/whatever. They add as much value to your life as a man thinks they do. An incel or a virgin needs to experience a good dominant fucking a couple of times, after that its just a novelty. Like a good hamburger.

Pussy is pussy. The packaging changes, the person behind the shell rarely does.

MattyAnon · 2017-12-17T19:04:07+00:00

So often deadbedrooms aren't because sex isn't occurring at all, it's because it has been transferred to a different bedroom

Oh how naive. To think she needs a bed for Chad to fuck her.

timleif · 2017-12-18T00:59:31+00:00

When women recount their past sexual relationships, it's "just sex". And yet if you want to have "just sex" with her right now, it magically changes into the Great Valuable Gem That Must Be Won Through Great Effort And Quivering Gina Tingles.

GTFOH.

Lego_My_Alter_Eggo · 2017-12-18T02:57:56+00:00

Stories like this are why I can't get out of the anger phase. It's just so hard for me to fathom how a woman could do this and feel no remorse for 20 YEARS.

If I were cheating on my wife I'd feel constant guilty. I can't rationalize how women can do some of the most awful and disgusting things possible in a relationship and feel litterally nothing at all. Like they don't even consider what they're doing, like they have no empathy for anyone else in the world.

SrPildoraRoja · 2017-12-17T23:31:18+00:00

"On top of that, my new HL GF, that seems awesome, when I told her about all of this, she informs me that she also has a proclivity for finding random men from time to time and that "it's just sex!" and now I don't find her attractive anymore either."

This is golden. How on Earth does he think you get to share with a woman a story like this?

jethreezy · 2017-12-17T20:47:05+00:00

Usually the husband only finds out when he catches his bitch red-handed. This is one of those few rare cases where a thot has outed herself.

So just imagine all the "dead bedroom but otherwise happily married" husbands who don't got a wife that's been pushed towards being this forthright, due to whatever selfish reasons they may have.

nujjj80 · 2017-12-18T02:22:33+00:00

Don't know if this is a true history, seems unreal to me, but I'm speechless. Never been married, nor have children, but dude, you might be able to tell if she's cheating... I know it can take time, and some people are slowing catching the hints, but seriously, 18 years... no sex and being told to be patient all the time, what did you expected? It's also our call to speak and to take care of ourselves, my man... no one else cares, none else will ever will do it for you. Don't wanna sound like an asshole or rude, but you're pretty much responsible for not being able to protect yourself... It's a shame and she's an unloyal biatch, I totally agree, but 18 years, mate... 18 years... Best wishes, man. It's never to late to change if you're willing to put effort.

anon2777 · 2017-12-17T18:14:27+00:00

if i honestly raised someone elses kids for 20 years then found out i was getting cucked the whole time i might honestly kill myself tbh.

Zerophobe · 2017-12-17T21:00:19+00:00

The worst part she dumped this truth on him so that she could feel good herself.

(Cause she came "clean")

Nice therapist she has.

FranckShmibery · 2017-12-17T18:46:51+00:00

“A woman who is sexually unsatisfied is almost guaranteed to cheat, always.” -Daniel Rose, Sex God Method

juliusstreicher · 2017-12-17T17:48:04+00:00

The "for that, I'm eternally grateful" should be a tipoff that it's madeup.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2017-12-17T21:40:11+00:00

Honestly surprised this guy hasn't strangled this woman to death.

Salted_Pretzel · 2017-12-18T05:21:52+00:00

This hurts my heart just reading it. I can only imagine the amount of pain this person is going through right now.

[deleted] · 2017-12-17T21:01:59+00:00

To people who don't believe this post, here is the post the OP made a week before:

This might be wrong but I noticed something in the last couple of years.

Basically I came here for advice, and eventually decided to get a divorce with my then 56LL wife of 22 years. I decided to get a gym membership and a friend introduced me to this Ketogenic diet.

I focused on ME, I worked out, I ran my dogs more, I bonded with my step son despite the failed marriage, and I lost over 18 lbs in just a couple months. The confidence of her not breaking my spirit on a daily basis is astounding! Some things I've noticed in the last 3 years however, are troubling, and also giving me hope.

I might be way off base, and maybe this only applies to my age group, but here's what I've noticed since re entering the dating pool.

In the last 3 years I've dated 4 women, all around my age (55), one of them I am still seeing, the other 3 I am not. Sorry if this is a long story, but I always noticed with my ex wife that she didn't really pay attention to stuff, in general, like situational awareness, etc. So for some examples, if I enter a room and my partner says their knee hurts, I might ask if they need anything while I'm up. She just doesn't, ever, not even once. If I asked her to pay a bill, she'd forget by the next day. If I taught her how to operate the wood stove 18 thousand times, she'd still not remember it, and after the 18thousand and first time, she'd say "I get it!" all snappy, yet not remember the next time. She would forget to put oil in her car, or put gas in, I'd almost always find her vehicle in some inoperable state of disarray that was 100% preventable. I'd teach her how to pump gas, she'd forget by the next time we went out, I could actually see it in her eyes, the confusion and realizing she wasn't faking it, she really did not remember how. She'd forget events, most memories, I'd say "remember last year where we put the Tarps in the garage, it's by those..." and she'd say "we have tarps?" YES, WE DO, I WATCHED YOU PUT THEM THERE.

At one point we thought she had a tumor, or a brain cancer, because it REALLY was an issue, she would forget to pay a bill, and when I pointed out that we got, and she OPENED personally, multiple "Shutoff" notices, she'd look completely confused.

I could basically watch a movie with her, and a few weeks later watch it again, and she'd say she had never seen it before, same with books, same with basically anything. She'd make a recipe and realize the temperature was too high, mention "Next time I'll cook it lower!" and then next time burn it again, and go through the whole "It was too hot!" realization process.

I bought her a toy that she had been begging me for, a K'nex kit, you know, that little kids play with. So they are pretty basic, but each time she pulls it out, I have to re teach her how they snap together, yet she holds a job, has friends, drives a vehicle, etc... She's a professional to boot, she is a counselor of sorts, in a very stressful and demanding job, and does her job NO PROBLEM, never forgets ANYTHING. So, after 20 years of DB with her I finally pulled the plug, and back to the present, have dated 4 new women in the last few years. One of them was NOT a DB type of woman. I took her fly fishing last month, she picked it up in one day, ONE DAY, we went out the next weekend she still remembered how to tie a knot, was excited to be there, and ACTUALLY had absorbed all the information I gave to her about fish habitats and where they might be hiding, like she was repeating my own phrases back to me and smiling and having fun.

I taught her how to use my woodstove (typical woodstove) and she started a fire with it the next morning. The other 3 women were the opposite, just like my ex wife, I would teach them how to use my coffee maker, and by the next day it was "Can you make coffee? I can't figure it out!"

I actually kinda lost my temper a bit with one of them, and said soemthing very rude and unlike me, "Do you pay attention EVER or is this just how you are?"

She acted like I had just dropped salt in a wound, she broke down, and basically said that it had been an issue in all her relationships, that she just didn't see the world how most people do, that stuff that is easy for most people is really hard for her, and yada yada. I pointed out that it's funny because things SHE likes, she has no problem remembering them, or self teaching, or growing, or you know, paying attention.

I apologized and we decided it was best to go our separate ways, so over the next year I date two more women, both are the same, both can't pay attention, I can tell them stuff, they don't remember it 10 minutes later. I eventually lose my temper on them too, again, and say stuff like "Have you ever attempted, um, maybe, trying to pay attention?" and they both did the same, almost instantly melted down into sobbing and saying "All men say this to me, I'm just not like other women!" etc etc.

I have noticed with my new girlfriend, the one that actually pays attention, that it seems to transfer into all kinds of other areas of our lives, she pays bills without me having to beg her to, she uses the correct account, she cancelled our yard trimmers and informed me that she likes using Lawn Mowers and will mow the lawn as an enjoyable thing she likes to do. She took my car to the shop and had it fixed without even asking me, she just seems to get it, like, she thinks...

Now here's where I might be going off a tangent, but I REALLY really don't think so, and sure there's gonna be a few people saying "I don't think those things are connected..." but here's why I think you're wrong. Paying attention is one of the most critically important things you can do for your partner, besides it's ability to keep you both on the same page, it also creates a communication platform, you know, like when I would get mad at the stove, if it was burning funny, IF my wife had ANY clue how stoves worked, she could have said "I hate when the cold air pushes the smoke back down." Instead, she was just running around the house like a, excuse my french, idiot going "Why is this happening?!?!" despite me having explained it to her countless times. People that don't pay attention to things that can KILL you if mishandled, are certainly not going to pay ANY attention to your personal needs, think about it, they don't even care enough to make sure you don't suffocate in your sleep. My current SO loves intimacy, we have sex probably once a week at least, this is UNHEARD of for me, the previous 3 women, the other ones like my wife that refused to pay attention to anything around them, basically told me within a few weeks that "Sex just isn't that important to me, at this point in my life." When I asked them why it wasn't, they couldn't even give me an answer, they actually didn't even understand their own reasons, ie, they don't even pay attention to their own thoughts. That's terrifying!

I just can't help but notice that in my dating experience, all of the LL people I dated, seemed to not pay attention to much other than their own short term desires and needs.

I think that people who DO pay attention to stuff around them, and actually invest into relationships, and hobbies, and knowing information, they are the ones that are more likely to give you that same investment, because knowing stuff, and investing is part of what brings them fulfillment. Just food for thought, have a good day all.

Apologies if this has been brought up before, and apologies if I'm way wrong, but I really think there's something to this. My step son has a really healthy relationship with his wife, and I noticed it with her too, she just pays attention, I teach her stuff that she actually remembers every time I see them, it feels so good to know they actually listen and pay attention, which makes me pursue a relationship with them, which in turn leads to them doing the same. I think these LL people, in a lot of cases, not all, are just bad at paying attention, hence why one partner is always standing there going "HOW DO THEY NOT SEE THIS FOR WHAT IT IS!?" Because, they don't pay attention! HELLO!

Update - I absolutely love how the top rated comment here is a girl "womansplaining" to me that this was all actually my fault for wanting my wife to know how to not kill us with the wood stove because "You're boring and you talk about man stuff so no wonder she ignored you." In essence saying I deserved it. Wow.. WOW... I have no words. This is the same type of thing that get's men called out for being selfish.

420KUSHBUSH · 2017-12-18T01:04:13+00:00

You poor, poor bastard

My heart goes out to you. I wish you all the best and all the luck I can donate to you

UndergroundCEO · 2017-12-17T20:49:30+00:00

When someone makes a 28 paragraph post with no TL;DR

UrsusG · 2017-12-17T17:02:02+00:00

I call fake on this story. It reads like a comment bait creative writing exercise.

Why would she confess? Because her therapist advised her to? Because she wanted it off her conscience? (lol).

If the hypothetical woman had been adamant enough to continue an extramarital affair for 18 years without it getting on her conscience (lol), she wouldn't need a confession.

The confession gained her nothing, and if ex husband had gone crazy with that information, it could have even damaged her reputation.

tl,dr: bullshit

ohohohoholol · 2017-12-17T21:07:06+00:00

Why do you guys think this guy fucked up? Or where specifically?

barredspiral · 2017-12-17T22:38:50+00:00

Why would she say the reason is that you are better than her? Is it just a lie to try to make you feel better?

truedemocracy3 · 2017-12-17T23:20:15+00:00

Good god. There are a ton of lessons in this post. The rationalizing on her end ("I thought I wasn't good enough for you") which is bullshit. The fact that the guy thinks doing everything for her kids is sexy and earning love, that one is a hard pill to swallow for many. Hell I would not be surprised if the divorce was AFTER the kids turned 18 just so she can drain him of resources before kicking him to the curb. That she still had feelings for the biological father which is almost evolutionary at this point. And of course his new girlfriend rationalizing that away. Also, him telling his girlfriend about the ex wife. If his gf wasn't attracted to him before she sure as hell wont be now that she learns how quickly this wife pulled a fast one on him.

Some lessons for the newly initiated here:

If you are single and with no kids NEVER date a woman with children. There are many reasons for this. Mainly that the fact she is single and has a kid is a red flag to begin with - what happened to the guy? Is she from a divorce (RED FLAG). Was the kid out of wedlock from an accident (RED FLAG). You also have to factor in that not only will you have an extra life to consider with her, but you have two - both her kids AND her kids biological father who at the very best case is a swell guy who minds his own business but still competes for the love of the kids (and the kids will almost always deep down favor the biological dad). The ONLY time I would consider dating a woman with kids is if you also are single and with kids and thus it's a shared experience OR you are old enough that her kids are adults themselves and you don't have to pay for their shenanigans.
Be alert. Stay vigilant. Take what you want. A MARRIED woman or a girlfriend saying 'be patient' about sex is a massive red flag. If that's the case instead of saying 'ok sweetie' work on yourself, kick her to the curb if you must, and at the very least start questioning what could be driving this behavior. Yes the guy is the victim here but he is losing out to a deadbeat, not an alpha doctor, so I almost guarantee the OP is a complete schlub.
Don't break frame with the new gf. If you come to a girlfriend talking about a past breakup how you were cheated on for YEARS she will lose all respect for you. Yes, in an ideal world as your partner she would be sympathetic and I'm sure she is, but her attraction would go out the window. Of course in this situation you likely cant get away with lying but a simple "when we were married she had a moment of weakness and slept with her ex and just now told me. I told her to never contact me again" could save face, but there is no real alpha answer to getting cucked that bad.
If you are going to date a single mother make damn well sure you are higher SMV than the ex in BOTH looks and status. Yea he is a deadbeat blue collar alcoholic and you are an accountant, guess what to most girls you are the catch but to her that is an already set up AF/BB dichotomy. I GUARANTEE you that this guy is worse looking or more out of shape than the ex. You cant beat EVERY boyfriend a girl has had, that's often unreasonable especially if you date high value women. But if you're dating someone who has a former husband, fiancé, super LTR she maintains contact with, etc. then be sure you can kick his ass and that she knows it.

Interested to hear other thoughts but those things jumped off the page at me

imdar3ald3al · 2017-12-18T00:06:38+00:00

I feel bad for the guy but it astounds me to think how badly his blue pill conditioning prevented him from figuring it out earlier.

mishasam89 · 2017-12-18T05:02:00+00:00

"because I was "Too good" for her, and that she never thought I actually loved her."

Can someone explain WTF this means?

juliusstreicher · 2017-12-17T17:42:53+00:00

Not only was he BPed, to which we all have probably fallen victim, but, he fucking cries to his new gf about it! Now, THAT is sad.

LandoChronus · 2017-12-17T19:08:44+00:00

Not that this takes anything away from the post, but it has been posted here before.

PhaedrusHunt · 2017-12-17T20:38:10+00:00

This dude isn't an AFC. He's a WAY below average FC.

JohnnyCocktails93 · 2017-12-17T20:48:44+00:00

Alpha fux <> Beta bux. Couldn’t be anymore crystal clear gents.

leDesespoir · 2017-12-17T22:19:13+00:00

Jesus man. Life is truly a cruel mistress, I'm sorry you went through this. Women are so duplicitous, I've experienced similar things, albeit not nearly to this depth. I can't even imagine.

Hope you pull through this, man. Gotta keep soldiering on, no one cares about us except our fellow woke men.

[deleted] · 2017-12-17T21:38:09+00:00

Another of countless examples about how men grow up believing in a fantasy of how women are and then gets his understanding of the world shattered. Called Cognitive Dissonance by the way.

Women aren't monogam and the idea of the family as it is portrayed on tv, radio, bed time stories, movies is a lie. That is not how women work, ever worked or will ever work. I feel sorry for you, but more importantly im thankful. Another warning which may stop me from ever being foolish enough to become married or try building a family.

halfback910 · 2017-12-17T21:59:42+00:00

Wait... so they did not have sex at all?

TooSwoleToControl · 2017-12-18T00:43:41+00:00

He signed up for this by raising another man's children. The ultimate cuck.

newls · 2017-12-20T21:13:06+00:00

So often deadbedrooms aren't because sex isn't occurring at all, it's because it has been transferred to a different bedroom and you're being cucked!

Women will fuck. They may not fuck you, they may not fuck me, but they will fuck someone. If she's not giving it to you, she's eagerly giving it to someone else who doesn't give nearly as much of a shit about her as you do.

deprimidaok · 2017-12-17T19:13:13+00:00

irregardless of red pill theory, that therapist is awful. there was no need to disclose such harmful information AFTER they're divorced

SaintHolland · 2017-12-17T22:46:50+00:00

Marry a church - going virgin. Problem solved.

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-12-18T03:52:09+00:00

This guy is weak. He's beyond hope. I feel for him but his behavior is beta extreme.

There's a bit Patrice says on one of the O&A bits where he roasts Opie saying something like 'every man has to at least juggle (several plates) at some point in his life'

Its a good point because it teaches you a lot about women and never to put up with BS behaviors like them withholding sex etc. This guy chose to be in a dead relationship for years because he had no better judgement. No guy friends to tell him 'bro gtf out'. It's sad yes and it's gotta suck to have a RP bomb dropped so late but fuck me if this guy didn't need a wake up to reality.

jewishsupremacist88 · 2017-12-18T01:23:31+00:00

lol..this is this guys fault. i dont feel bad for him. hes a cuck and a beta.

traveldeedee · 2017-12-18T13:25:23+00:00

Marrying a single mom and raising HER kids just tells us you're a pathetic cuck. I don't want to console you, you make me sick you pathetic chump.

AstuteBlackMan · 2017-12-18T04:56:52+00:00

I'm not getting married. This is bullshit.

atraw · 2017-12-18T08:05:56+00:00

Now I know shmucks are just blue pilled men and there is still chance for them.

newgrounds · 2017-12-18T09:03:30+00:00

My skin crawled reading this. I feel sick.

throwawaydefriended · 2017-12-18T09:15:49+00:00

As intrigued as one might be to read this, needs a tl;dr.

Trpogre · 2017-12-18T09:35:42+00:00

Dude. You are fucking youself.

Never. EVER fucking sign marriage papers.

And what the fuck are you doing raising another mans kids and fucking a whore of a mother?

And finally... keep your feelz to yourself with your new gf. Don't be a fucking pussy. Jesus christ man.

[deleted] · 2017-12-18T12:07:53+00:00

It's something you don't really think about when you're new to the whole trp thing (because you lack awareness outside of yourself until your eyes are forced open), but...

Women like sex. They just might not like it with you. OP nails it. Sex hasn't ended, but has rather been transfered.

The good news is, there tend to be lots of mistakes made before getting to this point. Properly vetting, setting a frame and holding it, and finally, walking away if necessary, can ensure that your risk is minimized.

You can only control your behavior. Do your best and walk away from bad deals when you see them. That's the ultimate power, and also the only real power you have as a man.

Transist0r420 · 2017-12-18T13:37:31+00:00

wish RP existed back in the day. I am blessed to have this info in my early 20's.

LiteSoul · 2017-12-18T14:14:26+00:00

Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks dynamic, one of the most clear examples

amekooky · 2017-12-18T14:48:20+00:00

sounds like dale gribble finding out about his wife sleeping with john redcorn while he raises their kid.

Augustuscrassus · 2017-12-18T16:00:41+00:00

Jesus this is some sidebar shit.

Avskygod0 · 2017-12-18T16:33:22+00:00

jesus your society truly is falling apart

and your gubmint and media is trying to spread that here, no cancer allowed

silvergun_superman · 2017-12-18T17:09:12+00:00

This is beyond terrifying. Whenever I have a friend who's considering getting serious with a woman who has kids I will send them this.

oldrunnerguy · 2017-12-18T17:53:49+00:00

Amazing, my heart goes out this man!!! I was married to a single mother for 22 years and now recently divorced. The sex progressively went away after putting a ring on her finger. Makes me wonder if things were all they seemed to be!!! I don't want to believe it, but it may fill in the puzzle!!

I can only hope that this gentleman can get on with his life!!!

kieran9323 · 2017-12-18T20:10:11+00:00

she met him in public space, coz she was afraid for her life, there is no other reason

AllahHatesFags · 2017-12-18T22:23:41+00:00

And they will ban you or shadowban you if try to tell the poor cucked men there any Red Pill truths; it's sad because they are the ones who need it most.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2017-12-20T00:00:57+00:00

Ah, the old "Too good" line.

That literally means you are too "good". Not in terms of quality but you are an asexual puppy to her. You are too NICE. That's why she hamstered it into "you don't love me". He didn't portray any alpha characteristics and her female brain could not imagine that he didn't "get it" so he was just being beta because he didn't actually love her.

Men and women, damn near, speak different languages. Being beta literally comes across to a female as "you don't love me because you are not making me attracted to you".

The most accurate red pill I have ever read in my years in the manosphere has been - be attractive, don't be unattractive.

thebluesSV · 2017-12-20T16:36:58+00:00

One thing I've learnt is that you never give your ex girlfriends, wives these sorts of meetings. It has all to do with them and nothing to do with you. They are 99% just going to dump any guilt/crap they have on you as a way to get "closure" with absolutely no regards for your feelings, like a trash bin.

After that they will walk away feeling refreshed while now you have to take the emotional burden of whatever evil shit they did.

The least the woman in this story could have done is take the secret to the grave, why hurt this man further after all he has done for her.

The other advice I have is no matter what a woman does to you just dont react. The less tools they have the harder time they will have hamstering away their wrongdoings. If you react negatively as expected you will become the bad guy. What the man had to do was just stand up, say "excuse me I have to leave". And just leave.

No reason to say the things he said about the volcano and plug, he could have just let his future actions speak for him.

I got redpilled at a really old age (31) and cant imagine the pain and dissapointment of getting redpilled at 60 or something after raising chads children in what must be the ultimate way of losing the game of evolution.

[deleted] · 2017-12-20T21:53:57+00:00

In 20 years not a single friend told him what was going on. No one knew? That's bullshit. I feel so bad for the guy, but truth is everyone one of us is sitting in a similar position and we just don't know it. If all the veils got lifted at once, we'd be cracked in two before having the strength to leave them. AWALT. Never get married. Pre-nups all day. Never let her move in.

[deleted] · 2017-12-21T20:23:39+00:00

Fuck

Just when you are over the anger phase

0kool74 · 2017-12-21T23:11:14+00:00

I remember reading that story as well....and having a high degree of WTF from it. But, it just goes to show you there's no level of understanding you can have about women that they won't out of the blue shock, surprise, and reduce you to ruins.

DatingCoach111 · 2017-12-22T04:04:12+00:00

Jesus mother of fuck this shit boiled my blood. Good post.

AdrianWerner · 2017-12-22T12:27:13+00:00

The moment you took over father duties for another man was the moment you stopped being a real man to her.

That said, personally, the most infuriating part of this story to me was that she needed a therapist to realise the shit she has been pulling has been wrong. Like...WTF?

Indubitably_Confused · 2017-12-24T23:10:59+00:00

Send the man to the sidebar quick.

donadora · 2018-03-17T14:56:17+00:00

I don’t think I was breathing while reading this story. Holy shit. That guy needs a hug

primatepicasso · 2017-12-18T02:17:18+00:00

Too bullshit of a story to be real

DrinkMyPenis · 2017-12-18T00:33:19+00:00

Shit, I would never raise another man's child on basic principle to begin with (it should never your fucking job to "man up" to compensate another guy's lack of responsibility,) not even taking into consideration the scenario in OP's post. And that fool did it for two whole decades. Just wow.

It doesn't matter how hot she might still be. A single mom is single for a reason, and usually that reason has to d with a lifetime of shit judgement or downright capriciousness back when she thought she had unlimited credit on that score.

strwbry-wild · 2017-12-18T17:51:55+00:00

(Woman here) reading this story made me nauseous. My heart truly breaks for you. Women that pull this are no different than men that do this! They should all be shot, as to save a lot of people grief. I personally can not begin to understand how people can treat one another like this. Unfortunately, I know a lot of women in my life that fit this bill. And they are family :-(. I also know men who've done this. It's heartbreaking and sickening either way. I'm sorry for what you went through and I hope you find somebody that can truly be honest. At least the girlfriend was honest. I don't agree with her but she didn't put you through years of b****. I personally believe there is one man for one woman and one woman for one man. I have also been happily and successfully married for over 20 years and would be devastated if my husband did something like this to me. I give a hundred percent honesty that's all I ask for in return. I learned a lot of what not to do from my mom who had been married 6 times. And is never happy in a relationship. Even torments her own grown children and their families) Only took what she could get from them and kick them to the curb after. So I do know women are like this. She also dated some scumbags that were pretty awful too. I saw both sides. Imho just draw and quarter these kinds of people and just be done with it. But I'm all about capital punishment! I also like cars... 4x4s and guns, so that goes without saying. I hope you can find a real woman that won't pull this s not one that acts like a child😠. We are few and far between but we are out there. Gl man

suxxos · 2017-12-18T21:22:55+00:00

Guys do the same thing all the time. Let's not by hypocrites. Most guys I know have cheated/cheat regularly on their wives/girlfriends and don't even feel guilty about it. (Even the ones that have OK wives.)

[deleted] · 2017-12-17T18:07:24+00:00

The part with the gf can't be real, why would he tell her that? And why would she tell him shes fucking strangers after that?

TuffGuy93 · 2017-12-18T00:39:08+00:00

women like this need to have their genitals mutilated so they can never enjoy sex and thus.. never cheat.

drqxx · 2017-12-18T02:34:28+00:00

Beta Bucks / Alpha Fucks.

Bwhahahaha good for him. Let this be a lesson my fellow wolves.

Title	This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.
Author	quityourbullshit777
Upvotes	864
Comments	390
Date	17 December 2017 04:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	TheRedPill
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/47807
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7keq9z/this_is_the_most_horrific_dead_bedrooms_story_i/

This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.

This Woman Cheats On His Boyfriend And Cries For Sympath Because "He ruined my life."

Your best is never good enough(Long read)

Ideas for Effectively Sharing Your Faith With Others

Second night out in home country

Grab a Sunday morning coffee, and sit back, and read how this guy, with the help of his family showed the soon to be ex wife some consequences

Beta Bucks / Alpha Fucks.

Take what is yours and share the rest. The hungriest be wolf always eats.