So at work we had xmas party organised in Casino..
I had this Hugo Boss blazer I bought some time ago but didn't get to wear it.. Wore it..
So after xmas party we went to a club, was at the bar talking to my colleagues, everyone knows that I have a gf.. So this random 9/10 sugar daddy craving girl comes and stands next to me, I mean she had plenty of space to stand elsewhere but her coming and squeezing in between me and my mate, her boob was pressing in to my shoulder - that was a clear sign.
Since I wasn't looking for casual hook-ups I decided to troll her, so I turned to her, she looked at me, I checked out her body and said hi, she was like hi and I think she was about to say how's it going, but I turned around and continued my conversation with my mate..
She bought two shots, and then made confused look, but I ignored it, so she tapped on my shoulder and I was like
hi again,
and she was like I bought two shots for me and my friend but she is gone somewhere, don't want to go on the dancefloor with them, wanna drink one with me?
I was like sure..
and then after we drank it, she jokingly said, next drink is on you...
I was like - I was about to order drink myself, so what can I get you? got her a drink and turned around and joined my colleagues talk
so she was still there, standing next to me, kinda dancing a bit and always leaning around my body, but I ignored it..
she tapped on my shoulder again, and was like wanna dance?
I was like no thanks, I am not the best dancer
she was like - so what you doing in the club near dancefloor area?
I was like enjoying the music and socialising with my work mates
she was like wanna socialise with me instead?
I was like no thanks
she made disappointed look and was like, what do you mean by "NO THANKS?"
I was like, you're not my type of girl
she was like why did you get me a drink then?
I was like, you got me one, I paid back with one, now we are equal
and she blew up, she was like
why didn't you say you are gay in the beginning????
I was like in the beginning of what? and im not gay.
she was like, you ugly looking motherfucker, how dare you to say that im not your type ? do you know who I am??
I was like no, and I don't want to..
and she was like, you fucking prick, fucking immigrant (I study in UK, but native Russian), nobody ever rejected me, you should be grateful I even spoke to you you ugly piece of shit..
I just turned around and laughed with my mates, and then she was like you pussy, and spilled her drink at me lol
then bouncers came and told her to leave, she screamed the same thing, like DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? CALL THE MANAGER, HE WILL KICK YOU OUT... and they forced her out lol
I mean it's quite sad that it probably ruined my blazer, the first time I wore it, but then experiencing something like that was precious...
I mean nowadays many girls get to this level of consciousnesses just because of all the blue pilled betas give them excessive attention and make them feel superior.
When in reality, apart of their looks (mostly fake), they have no value and have nothing to give back
In mother Russia, you reject girl.
Which is why Russian girls are so easy. They know they're not the prize and it's rubbed in their faces.
Actually this is quite wrong, most of 7+/10 Russian girls, and girls from East Europe are quite hard and due to low economy they mostly look for guys with money.
Many East European girls, esp from Baltic states have model look, they are quite skinny and usually tall.
I have been living/travelling through EU and I know the difference.
E.g. like UK, Germany, Norway, Denmark.. girls dont really go for the money, and would seek other things in guys.
Whereas East Europe like Baltic states, they would seek guys with money/status, and wouldnt necessarily be easy even if you have money, they would play smart and act that they are hard to get to get even more lol
I like that they are intelligent but they are far too calculating and dispassionate. I recently spent some years in Ukraine and thereabouts and then Colombia was a breath of fresh air because the girls would lead with their pussies. I don't think that its one-to-one relates to money since many countries of EE are quite poor. It seems that in Colombia that if a woman likes me that she is just of the mentality that she needs to get me onto her pussy hook ASAP because any other woman is thinking the same thing and so holding out for something more is too dangerous. Also maybe they are just hotter blooded, hornier and more impulsive. In the ex-USSR so many people will think about doing something before thinking about doing it and they are just stuck in their heads. I liked both though and I'll return to both places. So different though.
Genetics matter.
A lot of places around the southwest Atlantic have indigenous cultures that are remarkably promiscuous, or will even turn the males into prey. Probably plenty of reasons why we say hot to describe sexuality instead of cold.
I don't know about that but I think that the ex-USSR people are stuck in their heads to such an extreme level because they lived in an extremely paranoid tyranny and everyone was gossiping about the most trivial shit. I lived in a hostel in Odessa for $2/day with refugee types and I witnessed some extra ridiculous stuff. One guy was out of work but he took a fascination to every aspect of myself such as noticing if I didn't change my socks one day, if a shoe string was slightly not tied, my hair being a bit messy, my shaving patterns, etc. They are incredibly observant people because they have a mind for it and the interest is there. They think and observe forever before any sort of action and they are very risk adverse and the women much more so. They can't easily bounce back from bad decisions and they aren't good at generating real wealth and so they get stuck in this pattern of expecting failure, saying I told you so and also being jealous of others who do have success. During communism everyone was supposedly equal so if someone was doing really well then it was assumed that they stole something. If you were happy then you did something illicit or you are just stupid to be happy when things are not good. Then if you look too extra miserable then like a flock of birds they would talk shit about the person doing poorly. So everyone learned to calibrate their look to be extra gray and neutral. Also some regions seemed to have had it extra bad and mental health hospitals were used as political control. So people were incredibly fearful of appearing eccentric. Today that is just the past but probably still more than half of the population was born into communism and their old ways will follow them to the grave. This is more of just about an abnormal psychological condition of the ex-USSR people more than it is about any other place being some different kind of way.
Southwest Atlantic? You mean SOUTH AMERICA?
Woman looking for money means woman looking for any man who has money.
It works that way in California too. The economy is being beaten while unconscious year after year, if your wallet is thicker than your fingernail then it's good enough. Seriously don't go there.
Yeah, but for those of us that have money, Russian girls DRIP at the chance to talk to you. It is like taking candy from a baby
That's because vodka is prize.
The church is near, but the road is icy. The bar is far, but we will walk carefully.
Care to elaborate? I don't know what you mean
From what I have seen, russian guys are very average to not that good looking. Still, most of them have this IDGAF attitude towards the very hot russian girls (maybe because they are used to them) and are very masculine, which of course resonates with the feminine girls.
True story. Lived around a bunch of Russians in SF for a short while. The dudes are not beta. They do not give a fuck. They’re a little psychotic. Lastly they were indeed “sneaky fucking Russians”. Would not trust those dudes as far as I could throw their rotund vodka drinking asses. Still they were good fun.
Russian female age 20: perfect ice sculpture with a deep mind and a temple of a body
Russian female age 30: stable wife not like western degenerates
Russian female age 35: grizzly bear
that's because they eat shitty diet, not exercise (EDIT: because of almost poverty, they believe that time is better spent in school/work. Many will argue with you that they're too old to become pro and make money out of it, I know that this sounds stupid, but that's the way they often think) and their budget for skincare is low. Add to that partying, smoking (more popular than in the west) and working more hours cos the economy is shit, that damages the body too.
You see comrade, in Russia girl buy you drink.
How dare you reject the No.3 prostitute in all Kazakhstan?
she not nise, she rood and gypsy and her vagjin hang like sleeve of wizard.
This was the funniest thing I've read today
In case you didn't know, it's from Borat, in case you did know, have fun watching it again. Dude's fucking hilarious.
Me and my mate always do the Borat disco dance on the dance floor
my key pickup shit atm is borat accent and borat dance moves lol, girls like this shit and always laugh, i mean it can never get old
I actually bought the Borat body thong to use in a picture on dating apps when ever i get around to doing that shit again.
borat is by far the funniest movie i know
But anus tight like mitten of small child
Oh come on man, you have to go further into what "sleeve of wizard" means, IN DETAIL!
I came home from the bars drunk as a skunk and just lit a few bong tokes. That comment still has me laughing, I am actually having trouble typing this.
PLEASE DEAR GOD ELABORATE FOR THE GOOD OF MY SOUL!!!!!
LOL try rejecting a Romanian or Ukrainian hooker/dancer in London. If you dudes had half their tenacity there’d be no need for this sub.
im romanian and i swear romanian women are the most stuck up i've ever seen. they're hoes but pretend they're princesses and they either go for rich drug dealers or beta bobs
Well we were rulled by comunists for the past 50 years. What did you expect? But yes romanian women are more concentrated on having a good living experience then been stuck with a beta cuuk
first of all, i don't understand your phrasing. second, in countries with good social safety nets women go for true alphas or people with a matching character. which is somehow better for everyone especially since you don't have to worry about basic needs
Lmao, I always laugh my ass off when people say this.
I heard a story about some douche at the airport harassing the employee at the gate, he kept asking "do you know who I am? "
Eventually the agent behind the desk gets on the overhead and announces "apparently this gentleman here doesn't know who he is, if anyone can help him please come to gate [whatever]..."
I would Love to witness something like this.
It's nice to know people who work at airports still have a sense of humor. They're so depressing these days.
They sometimes do, but not if you say bomb, hijack, or allahu ackbar
Just yell at your friend Jack across the airport and tell him hi!
Lmao I'ma start doing this
So true, the first REAL time I had a run in with this was when I was a college freshman.
My fraternity brother had a father who was a Judge up in San Francisco. He had gotten us all (like 15 guys) a big table at Morton's for the night to have fun and show off his money.
When we get there, he tells the little 19 year old hostess and she says "Oh thank you Mr. McKenna, we are clearing off your table and it will be ready in 10 minutes.
He goes, "No, I want it RIGHT NOW, do you know who I am ?!?!?!
She blinked and look at him, then looked down at the reservation sheet and said "Mr. McKenna?"
He got red hot with anger and SHOUTED back, 'JJUUDDGGEE, McKENNA!" "I want my table ready in 5 minutes.
It was ready in maybe 7 and everything was fine. But it sure was a great lesson on how NOT to ever act in life. Straight up douchebag who I found out later, came from money and got his judgeship with it.
As muhc as my father passing at 19 sucked, I am so happy that I was able to see what it is like eating Top Romin, and now owning a large company where I can do whatever I want.
I have been a mechanic, been a serer, bartender, valet, hell I even was a "sandwich artist at Subway for 6 weeks". That kind of attitude is so NOT Red Pill, it just screams off weakness and we were all embarrassed to be with him.
The only judge I care about is judge Dred lul
What answer do they expect? If they do know, it's even worse cause it shows that their status means nothing.
They are expecting the answer, "oh you're important? Sorry i wont throw you out like the garbage you actually are"
Next time 'I'll be like' ' Yah i think I have seen yoi on tv, are you the president of america?'
My answer is almost always "nope, don't know don't care."
The takeaway from this is that, as a man you will have to deal with rejection. Women very rarely do, and flip out when it happens to them. Which is why they will almost never approach. It's not like you can read TRP, lift, and dress nicely, then women will come flying at you like some shitty axe body spray ad.
Watch any nature documentary when they show mating rituals. The male bird has to build the best nest, or do the best dance. The male walrus has to tusk the fuck out of competitors to get some walrus pussy. Shit even penguins have to find the best pebble to present to females. And what do the females do? They get to accept or reject. That's why this girl flipped out, her brain subconsciously knew she gets to decide, and OP short circuited that.
Remember that you can get chosen by a girl, but it's on you to have the frame to build attraction. Maybe OP could have responded warmly and she would have found his personality douchy. Maybe after he takes the blazer off he's got a dad bod. The point is, understand that women are choosers, and men are approachers, and that straying too far from that doesn't work well.
Perfectly summed up mate, also it was funny to read..
I watched a lot of Animal Planet as well, and actually extracted some useful information from animal world lol...
Also another example is dancefloor, I mean guys that can dance, and have the moves, even if they have average looks/clothes, girls usually give them attention, because they feel granted being with someone that dominates the atmosphere (club = dancing, so cool moves = domination @ club)..
Another tip that I extracted from animals is intimidation e.g. someone is trying to provoke you for a fight, and you show them that you are ready to take it, and are prepared for it, their brain then develops different hormones and they start doubting themselves... Also you can scare people just with eye contact, same as a mouse can scare an elephant just because mouse has nothing to lose and is ready to take the fight lol..
Goddamit, they just had a hunting sasquatch marathon yesterday and I learned nothing from that. That shit was so bad we were just watching it for kicks.
Take something else from the animal world then.
DEER. Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize.
You don’t need to do any of those, ever again. If you ever get an urge to defend, explain, excuse or rationalize your actions to a woman, you’ve already failed.
She called you gay, you wanted to defend and explain yourself (and previously in your conversation). That marked you as a weak man to her, she felt betrayed because she thought she was dealing with an alpha male who’d want to fuck her no strings attached. Instead she got bamboozled, she got a dude with no frame and no desire for sex. Of course she would be upset, you basically tricked her. You started off strong and aloof which turned her on (letting her buy you a drink while mostly ignoring her, and then melted in front of her because your frame is weak, so you felt the need to prop it up with words.
To paraphrase the comedian Dave Chappelle, you might not be an alpha male, but you were wearing the costume of one, which explains her anger and resentment of you.
It’s not getting rejected that bothered her, it’s that she got tricked.
I was like she was like then I was like and she was like so I was like now she was like and I was like so she was like.
Edit: just to be clear. I don't dislike the story or dismiss the effort op put into writing this down for us. Happy holidays everyone!
User is surprisingly not a troll but instead a literal like meat head.
pumping iron is what i like,
if it was other way around, we'd probably end up banging
she came to me and she was like sup bro, do you even lift?
and i was like yeah boy
and she was like what's ur dlift pb?
and I was like 6 plates honey
and she was like omg please take me to the house of gains with you
and i was like sure, gimme your number & ill hit you up
and she was like no baby, lets do it now
and i was like sure lets go
so i took her to my place and i was like touch my pecs, and she touched them and was like please take me rough and deep daddy
Supermarket romance novels for dudes, now there's your niche.
Not sensitive about it. Takes it in stride. Hmm.. Will keep info in case they invent the gay pill.
// , It would save us all a lot of money
If only that’s what it was really like. Getting close to a 7 plate pull. 630 the other day, probably had 645-650 in me if I made the jump. Fuck I love deadlifting. Anyone reading this, if you lift and don’t deadlift you fucking suck. Only exception are people who physically can’t due to injuries.
my max is around 585 but i have to work on my core, last time i did it @ convenient with belt, it seemed like my core wasnt prepared. By core i mean abdomen/lower back..
also when i take pwo and attempt max or 90-95% my bp is too high lol, so i have to do it w/o PWO..
but deadlift is my favourite lift, i only started doing it a year ago seriously, and regret not doing it earlier for all the years i've been lifting...
i mean like taking two scoops of mr hyde and doing some heavy deadlifts is like best shit i ever experienced
Same here. Pulled 315 as a max back in March. Loved it so much I dedicated all my training to get a 900lb deadlift.
I’ve never taken 2 scoops of hyde though. Usually one makes me nauseous after 15-20min. 10min in I feel like a God though, and that’s ideally when I will go for a max. I have to take it after a few warmup sets or else I’ll get bloated, feel like puking when I hold my breath, and I can’t fit my belt the way I like to lol.
Holy shit!! my friend, do you have any tips for me. 1 RP is around 160 pounds. My goal currently is to reach the 1000lb club.
I JUST hit the 1000lb club with push/pull (bench and deadlift only). I hit the overall 1000lb club after 4ish months of serious strength training.
No offense, but that’s a pretty weak max deadlift, even for a beginner. What do you weigh? Because of that I’m going to assume you don’t have a solid strength base built up. I always tell newer guys and people who are deadlifting under 500 the same thing George Leeman tells his clients. Linear progression will take you SO far when you haven’t built up a strong base.
So for you, if 160 is your max, you want to pick a weight you can do 20 reps with, for most people that’s around 40-50%. Deadlift twice a week. Work up to at least 1 single within 10% of your max every deadlift session. After you pull the heavy single drop the weight and do a set of 20, and then from every session onward increase the weight by 10lbs.
Because of how weak you are now, you will progress VERY fast using this method. Just keep adding weight until you can’t get 20 reps. Then drop down to 16 reps and do the same thing. When you can’t do 16 reps with the next weight drop it down to 12 reps and so on. You can easily reach a 405 deadlift within 4-6 months if you weigh 180+. Use the same method for bench and squat.
Work up to a heavy single every session; since you’re not strong yet you can grind out one rep maxes very frequently. A 160lb deadlift max for you, even though it may be just as hard, is nowhere near as taxing as me doing a 615+ pull. It’s great for building your CNS anyways. Will drastically increase your work capacity, the more you can work without burning out, the faster you will progress. For a 180lb guy though, 1000lb total should be achievable within a year.
Dafuq man. I started SL at 135 1x5 for my DL. SL jumps you up 10lbs/wk till you hit 2 plates. That means I beat your PR in 3 weeks. You got 15 yrs on me, so you got T and youthful recovery in your corner. I pull 300 now after 8 months of SL with time off/deloading a few different times.
Either your form is completely fucked or you’re not pushing your envelope. Deads are supposed to wipe you out without hurting yourself.
There’s an Alan thrall youtube vid about 5 steps for setting up for deads. There’s Mark rippetoe vids on dead form. There’s the starting strength book to get you fixed up if you’re a reader.
Get your shit straight man. Somethings wrong you should be pulling way more than that.
Are you serious? What is your height and weight? I don't get to work out regularly but last time I maxed on dl I hit 405. I'm not trying to shame you, I'm trying to help figure out why your lifts are so low. Unless you are very small or you have medical issues, you can absolutely without a doubt lift more than that. I'd be willing to bet a thousand dollars you're just not pushing yourself as far as you're capable of because you're apprehensive.
Lol this cracked me up. I thought I was like the only one who was like noticed this. Its really like funny actually!
I don't mind it. I'm quicker to believe this story over 99 percent of the spergs who writes a field report like a thesis lol.
I feel like you gotta automatically subtract 2-3 points from the HBs mentioned in this sub's field reports. This girl was probably like a hard 6. There's no way a 9 would be that desperate for attention.
What do you call a 9 in the UK?....a tourist.
First I was puzzled. Then I laughed. Then I felt bad for the Brits. That’s quite the burn.
OP is far from the first man to experience the hilarious rage of hot women tasting rejection for the first time.
esp for you,
https://imgur.com/a/FEGu8
here are two pics of my ex, for me she is a 9..
and what you said is wrong, i mean most 9-10 would give attention to guys they think are in the same league as them, when i was around 16-21 i was thinking same as you, believing that hot girls are some superhumans and would never approach guys...
but now when my eye contact game is strong, i have experienced various girls and know their mentality and behaviors, can notice signs and signals easier, it is very common...
Rather than that, seeing some 5/10s being desperate for attention of someone that is out of their league is uncommon, as they are usually insecure and would stay in their shell and prolly hang around with betas approaching them
She's hot. Not quite my type so I'd give her 8.5 but most guys would give her a 9.
instant positive reaction when you talked about eye contact.
you seem like a man with experience. can you elaborate some more on stuff like this?question coming from someone within 16-21 yo
edit: second question. do you think it is virtually possible to be a man with a SMV of at least 9 til the age of 21 when we can’t actually have that much of s professional success? ofc there are exceptions for this but even thes tech millionaires didn’t develop their social status yet
With first question, eye contact is quite important for cold approaching or getting girls interested in to you, or test the waters and see if they are interested in to you or not. You can improve it by making eye contact with strangers outside, for example I used to have really poor eye contact, I would usually turn away when someone looked back at me.. then I decided to improve it.
And when it got stronger I realised how powerful it is.. like one example of how you can do it.. try to get the moment when girl will notice you, look at her and when she looks at you smile, or just check her out..
If she is interested in to you she will check you out later, and that way you will know that she is in in to you, also you will have some sort of contact and approaching will be easier..
Few times it happened with me like you see it in movies.. like one time I was socialising with my friends at the pub, and there was another group of people, I noticed one girl looking at me so I made sure she noticed that I checked her out as well, and we basically looked at each other few more times over time, then I went to a bar to get a round and she went to buy something as well, we just looked at each other and smiled, I already knew that she is interested, so we had some more eye contact, and later I decided to test the waters and showed her a pack of cigarettes and looked at her like if she wants to go and smoke one, she nodded and I went outside so did she.. we chatted, but then her friends came out and few girls were jealous of her or something and they were luring her back in and shit, and one girl started calling everyone to go to a different place and did all kinds of things to disrupt us..
Tl;dr I got her number, we went on few dates later and banged and also dated for few months
And for second question, look wise of course, personality wise might not be yet..
Because you wouldn’t experience certain things yet and wouldn’t know how to react.. e.g eye contact, tone of voice, knowing what you can and can’t say to certain girls. Jokes girls like, how to move to another step e.g approaching, escalating to a kiss, getting her home and banging..
Also it depends on your goals, like if you look for girls to date or one night stands..
But I guess it also depends on where you live.. e.g I lived in Russia/Baltic states for most of my life, girls there have same mentality and basically they have the idea that a guy should chase a girl and prove that he is the one before she even kisses him - so from that you can extract two points
for long term relationship this is good because if you get a girl like that she prolly won’t be a slot and will be at some point loyal to you, but it will be harder to get her and you will need more effort/patience and take methodical approach and not escalate things too fast..
another point, as a short term hookup perspective this is harder, because she will have “anti slut” mindset and escalating things too fast might ruin it.. so your game will need to be strong at all levels for that.
But as I said it is different in different parts of the world.. like I have friends living in Germany and some of them are in to dating girls regularly, and it seems like getting a girl to your home on a first date is nothing major, they don’t really mind and often come on a first date..
Like in Russia, 9/10 girls will never go to your place on a first date..
But one tip I can give for personality, just don’t take things seriously and put a bit of selfishness when it comes to dating..
Like when you see a hot girl, don’t be afraid to check her out, even if she notices it.
Don’t be afraid to talk and joke with random girls, or initiate small talks..
Like I usually say some dumb shit and troll girls, and they instantly know that I don’t care and they kinda like it, they like to laugh and many girls like guys with laid back mentality
Don't get me wrong, I didn't mean that the girl approaching you and making initial effort was out of the norm - I just think all the effort she made after being rejected (buying you a drink, sticking around and being persistent) is not common for a true 9.
First of all these girls are uncommon, and if they're true 9s they're constantly receiving attention from men so they have well inflated egos. I can't imagine them sticking around if they put themselves out there to a guy and he rejects them. They'd probably just move on to the next guy they find attractive. A 6 or 7 would be more likely to double down and keep trying to 'game' you.
That all being said, this is hypothetical thought for me. I've only been approached by one HB9 and I didn't reject her.
I think that 7+ girls are more outgoing than 6-, as 6- are usually shy and are full of complexes and some suffer from anxiety, they wouldnt really approach a guy that is out of their league, or is kinda good looking, taking rejection for a girl is different than a guy..
and most are butthurt thinking that most of guys are jerks and only use them for sex, because that's what most 6 and 6- girls experience with guys..
With that on mind, 7+ girls are more likely to approach you because they are confident they wont get rejected..
I mean at least it happens to me, i can't remember being approached by a 5-6 girl, i know some that tried to socialize with me and get my contacts but that was in classes/work/friends..
i only got approached by 8+ girls probably a dozen if not less times in my life...
i dont see anything special in 8+ girl, they are pretty much the same as other girls, some are more outgoing than others.. I know some really hot girls that are lonely and dont get much attention, and this is mainly because majority of guys are afraid to approach them, as they think that they are out of their league lol.
many people in this thread got butthurt and call it fake, but i guess they just didnt reach the level of getting 8+ girls, i mean once you get there and gain the confidence, it will be completely different..
You have to learn how to notice small signs and signals, and learn how to play the game, like smile in the right moment, test the waters the right way or approach in the right time..
You sound like someone who isn't banging 9's
10's only dude I don't have time for these 9's. I love rejecting them my bro. That feeling when she spills her drink at you am I right??? Fucking pound it my man.
That better?
Bro i dont even have time for 10s, gotta give it 110% right, thats why i pull 11s now, dont even gotta try bro
Bro I lift so much I grew an EXTRA DICK. So dude my rule is like, one chick for each but they have to add up to 16 at least. So like a 10 and a 6, or 2 8's. Or this one time a 1 and a 15; never again for that, man.
I figure if I tried to type a post up in Russian, it'd be way worse.
abuse of simile should be a crime, and a banned behavior on this sub.
The reason why girls rarely ever approach (aside from the ones that do, the stereotype seems to hold true) is because every girl is self conscious to an extent and fear rejection so they wait for a man to make the first move. If they are extremely attracted they imply and add hints, if the man is oblivious they go the direct route
Well yeah, that’s why you often see guys with girls that are out of their league, because they take the risk more often.. e.g. guys with lower IQ or guys that don’t care, they don’t fear the rejection and don’t care about anything, all they want is to get the girl.. so they risk more, but more opportunities arise for them..
Vs guys that analyse the situation and know possible consequences of rejection and have some sort of self respect they don’t want to lose.. they end up not approaching a girl that potentially could end up with them so they miss possible opportunities :D
Makes you wonder whether they are truly so dumb, since they don't base their own value on whether they are accepted or rejected, or any opinion from some random woman.
Men who can't accept rejections have nothing going in their lives.
It's like with girls, if they add someone from 3rd world on facebook that send dick pics, they will start getting more and more invites, and eventually end up getting hundreds of dick pics a day lol...
my friend girl did a test, she made a fake profile and posted some girls pics there, added few indians and ended up with like 5k friend requests in few weeks
What do you expect from a country where pussy is sacred.
What even are the "consequences" of rejection? Most rejections aren't actual rejections. Most guys approach a girl expecting to be rejected.
Most men are crippled by irrational fear because back in the day they could get their head bashed in for hitting on another man's girl. Guess what, that doesn't happen anymore.
Also the way OP behaved was retarded and disrespectful. Yes, the girl has a bloated ego (what hot girl doesn't?), but she was made to feel like the rejection came from a place of bitterness or anger, not because the guy was unnavailable. OP escalated tensions and got a drink thrown at him. He could have just mentioned he's taken and faithful. He has no reason to manipulate the girl.
Well nowadays there are no consequences of rejection in most ocassions, girl would say no and you go away and that's it..
sometimes she might have a laugh at you or her dumb friends, but then it is forgotten in 2 mins lol.
dont really see the point of explaining and announcing that i have a gf, saying that im not interested is more than enough, and also if i played it passive w/o minor trolling then this post wouldnt exist, and you wouldnt get butthurt
Rejection causes ego death and loss of relative social status.
The ego creates an unsustainable self image, and tries to protect that self image by avoiding or making that image immune to situations that would put pressure on it. It's an extremely fragile construct and one that doesn't help you at all in life.
By changing our perspective, we can filter out fake rejection from real rejection, which is very rare.
What you did to that chick was not real rejection. It was a form of self preservation, which you later justified through backwards rationalization. Instead of being offputting and douchey, you could befriend her, get access to cool shit she has going on in her life. Hell, even throw her onto one of your single friends. You don't have to fuck her. Girls are very grateful to meet and network with cool guys. The way you handled that situation was lose-lose. You can take a lesson from it, or you can take this criticism personally and attempt another useless verbal attack on me.
In most cases the rejection has little to nothing to do with you. A hot girl has so many guys approaching her on a night out that you're just the next idiot of the night in her mind. Sometimes she alots you a small window to show your personality, sometimes she gives you nothing. Maybe she has to go meet her friends or go to the bathroom when you stop her. Maybe she is taken. Who knows.
There are too many external factors at play for the rejection to be personal. That's not her rejecting "you," it's her just not giving a fuck.
A true rejection is rare and usually just sounds like, "you're not my type, have a nice night." If you're oblivious to this and keep pushing you may get a "fuck off, dude." Considering you're not good for eachother, nothing bad comes from it. It's not a personal attack, though if you've got an unsustainable, bloated self image of an absolute pimp it can hurt.
The fact is this: we're not meant to be with every girl. There are some girls who we have strong emotional, mental, and physical chemistry with, and some girls who we feel nothing with. This comes down to personality types, not looks. Sometimes you meet a stunning girl but you find her personality to be toxic. Sometimes it is the opposite. The same happens with girls when they meet guys, but girls are usually much more experienced socially than most men, so they can peg our blueprint / archetype more easily than we can theirs when we are new to approaching.
Ultimately, in any kind of relationship, romantic or platonic, what's most important is how we feel when we are around that person.
Humiliation and lowered status at one of your social venues possibly in front of friends co-workers ect.
Depends on how you approach and how you handle it. Turn the rejection into something funny or amusing and neither of those things happen.
Also it helps to know your social status and not allow it to be hurt by some random girl's snap opinion of you. I hang out with some gorgeous girls and really fun guys. I even feel bad for a girl if she doesn't want to be a part of my life because I know how much value she will gain from it.
Agreed, if you have the skills you can play that shit off and make her look the fool.
I’ll take “things that never happened” for 500
Woulda believed it without the "bouncers escorted her out" part.
Woulda believed it without the "and then the whole club started applauding" part.
You don't think throwing a drink on someone will get you kicked out of a bar/casino?
One time at Metro club in L'viv, Ukraine my local buddies and I got a good table, juices, vodka bottle and beers and we had several 8-9s swarming our table. One of the 9s spoke very little English and was sitting next to me and across the table as an 8 who was demanding my time and she became increasingly belligerent the more I put her off. Then the hot girl next to me whom I liked a lot started soft crying because she thought that I was speaking with this other woman in English because I liked her. I had to draw a hard line with the belligerent chick and she started cussing at me and being nasty so I asked her to leave. She wouldn't leave. I asked the bouncer to make her leave and he wanted nothing to do with my woman problems and so we just had to tolerate this toxic pest (and one of our guys was into her friend). The banging hot chick next to me was acting too emotional fragile and so I lost interest and I thought to myself, WTF just happened here.
[edit] I remember that I did physically wrestle the vodka bottle away from her across the table and I felt that this was all that I could do.
Embellished probably. She was probably a 7 and she was pissed at him. Doubt she literally said "no ones rejected me before" but she probably had that attitude. I have seen angry women throw drinks at men so that's believable.
This, no way in hell a 9 would behave like that.
Exactly. She was a drunk 7 at a casino holiday party.
Also, no 9s in UK.
9's and 10's have higher standards of behavior than other women? Are they subject to higher brain function because of being more attractive? No. They are women. The difference is that they are women that have been practically worshipped by betas their entire lives and think they are entitled to top shelf everything simply because of the validation they receive for their looks on a daily basis. What happens when you reject spoiled children? They throw a tantrum.
9,10, 5.5, 0.526, doesn't matter.
I think it's more that genuine 9's and 10's simply don't approach men like this. Her actions don't line up with a 9 IMO.
Women go to great lengths to avoid rejection and at the highest levels they would never place themselves in a situation like this unless the guy was some kind of famous celebrity with huge status.
I can believe it if its in Russia, but if OP was in America, fuck no.
Touching you with her boob = sexual assault. Calling you gay = sexual harassment. Cussing you out = harassment. Sounds like she should be locked up in an equal world.
// , All are equal. But some are more equal than others
"All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others." --Animal Farm
≠
I know right. Shit is the equivalent of rubbing your ballsack against a girl
Nice job bro.
This is why you gotta shop at Jos A Bank
That blazer really tied the outfit together dude
Girls hate rejection lol. I mean we hate it too but we all learned how to handle it in an appropriate way. Funny thing is their go to insult is either 'you're ugly' (something that some guys say to girls as well which makes no sense seems they were the ones trying to hookup lol) or the classic 'are you gay?' (lovely bit of shaming. It couldn't possibly be that I'm not attracted to you lol).
man y’all little pepe bitches posting fanfic stories is some of the saddest bullshit online
// , You'd say this even if he posted a video with a cryptographically proven timestamp and a published news article.
pretty sure you can’t cryptographically prove emotional bullshit
This should be the top comment
Feminism and it's many gynocentric brainwashing efforts is mass-scale hamstering to convince men and women that women have value beyond their sexual agency.
They do not.
Um, this shit was talked about thousands of years ago. Has nothing to do with feminism.
IDK why downvoted, a very true statement. Women didn't magically start turning into entitled cunts after they got the right to vote.
I'm smarter than most of the dummies here.
Because everyone who discovers sex thinks they're the first to do so... so obviously it just started happening yesterday man.
Solipsism is like that, men get that way too, especially the weak minded and slow witted ones
// , It's downvoted because it's beside the point.
// , Definitely.
Normally, though, in those ages past, men could handle this shite, and even expected it.
Feminism does sort of exacerbate the problem by its influence on blooping up men who would otherwise know how to reign in the BS.
Add some psychological touch at the end of completely meaningless story - achievement unlocked
This subreddit is going to hell. More and more unbelievable and seemingly fake field reports. :/
hows that fake? even though it happened to me, i dont see anything superficial and unusual lol, it's just not many guys have the balls to reject a hot girl..
i wouldnt reject her either before i had a gf..
A much milder version of this happened to me. I was at a bar with my girlfriend and some friends. I went to the bar to get us some drinks. A blonde HB8 turns to me and says “hey how’s it going.” I respond, “not bad, you?” She doesn’t respond to the question and instead asks, “do you have a girlfriend?” I said, “yup, right over there” and pointed. She looks and then tells me “she’s beautiful, hold on to her.” I said “I will, thanks.” I thought it was a fine interaction.
Then she turns back to her friends and I hear her say, “that guy is a fucking ASSHOLE.”
Lmao. Most passive aggressive shit I've read in a while.
LOL. That's when you know she's REALLY attracted to you. The right response would have been: "thanks, but stop buttering me up"
Man this one time I rejected like several dozen 9s/10s and didn't fuck any of them. It was so cool. I didn't fuck these girls I could have who were so hot. Totes redpilled.
teach me master. I cannot go a day without accidentaly sticking my dick in a 10
So u acted like a douche and got douchy behavior in return. LOL
What do you do when accused of being gay? There's gotta be an elegent TRP way to dismantle that assusation.
Agree and amplify. Ask her if she has a brother.
Or if you really want to stir the pot, tell her she looks plenty manly enough, that's not the issue.
just laugh or ignore it, why should you prove not being gay
"Stop calling me that or I am going to hit you with my handbag"
"Whatever" works pretty well, and also, "Would there be a problem if I was" since we give zero fucks about that in this day and age anyway.
Tl;dr:
1 OP is at a bar, unavailable
2 Attractive girl compliments OP by hitting on him and buying him a drink
3 OP responds by buying her a drink and insulting her “you’re not my type” instead of a simple “I have a girlfriend”
4 Women can’t handle an insulting rejection because women are not accustomed to it
5 OP loses his coat and Girl suffers no serious consequences
Real mind-blowing stuff here
it was a P&S blazer you uncultured swine
I would of plated the ho. Why would you go to a club? To socialize with your bros in your Hugo Boss jacket?
// , He's trying that whole atavistic mate-loyalty thing
she's just used to every guy going full beta mode when in a range of 50 meters to her...
Ahhh for the first time in my life I hard nexted a girl like this on Christmas. She absolutely lost her shit and you could tell it's never happened to her before - she was def. used to always getting her way.
I had a similar story , I met a genuine 10/10 on plenty of fish (which at the time was a huge red flag as why She needs to be on there ) I was bored with shit sex only In the positions she likes, her bad attitude and her no blowjobs rule so I said no , her reaction: “do you know how many guys would kill to be in your position right now”
lol i only met fat whales or girls with srs anxiety on pof.
My first girl i met there had at least 8/10 face, but only facial pics, so i was kinda hmm.. only facial pics = 99% whale..
i didnt ask as i didnt want to ruin it, but she kept talking about 24/7 working out and mealpreps and clean eating so i thought i might be wrong..
and i ended up meeting 200lb whale
// , They're out there, but you have to filter pretty hard, and be in the right location
This exact same thing happened to me like 6 months ago, except it wasn’t a 9/10, it was some 4/10 fat chick from my Highschool. I wouldn’t talk to her at a bar so she ended up spilling her drink on me and then THROWING HER GLASS AT MY FACE. I walked out of the bar bleeding out of my forehead, then had to explain this to the cops. Ofcourse she told the cops I ASSAULTED HER. Ended up lawyering up and had to deal with this bullshit for 2 months. Fucking loser bitches who think they’re entitled
lol i had to take this chick to court for being homophobic and assaulting me :D
but with 6/10 and below 6 girls, always reject me and act like im fucking ugly and dont deserve them, and then i go for 8/10 9/10 girls and they kinda like my company..
and when i was younger i didnt really know whether i can pul lhot girls so i went for like average 5/10 6/10 girls, and they all rejected me.
fuk dem
This isnt related to the topic at hand but how does a fat guy gain confidence when people look weird at you. I know that i must loose the weight and it's a slow process i feel like this is more of a mentality then looks. Should i wait until i reach my peak or just approach women daily? Living in a really small town that everyone knows everyone around here
Hi man,
Yeah I used to be fat when I was younger I know that people look weird at you and some avoid contact :D
I was fat probably from 10 to 15 years, and I remember when I was 15 and lost some weight I tried to get a girl from online and she rejected me when we met :D then I gained some motivation, started losing weight and improved my looks, and finally got my first gf when I was 16, and then the pickup game started after we broke up and I gained some confidence..
I think it depends on your genetics e.g some guys look better when overweight, also depends on your height and weight.. e.g if you are like 5’8 260 lb or around it then while you are losing weight, you can maintain good haircut, maintain good or no facial hair, depending how you look.. try to find suitable clothes and then you can try.. if you don’t have much experience and confidence then cold approach on random girls might be hard :D
So while you are losing weight, I can suggest approaching girls you know already, socialise more if you can, take some classes if you have any around, that way you will meet new people without even approaching them and will have more opportunities to get girls..
ahah funny story. Me also being a Russian living in Europe and who wears Boss blazers made me enjoy it even more.
I’ve lost all hope in this community.
What inspired your hope in the first place? Genuinely curious.
Experienced something similar once, but she tossed a table with the drinks on it at me. Missed me. Still I'm stupid, maybe, should have banged her. Probably for the better to not stick dick in crazy as a TRP novice. Also a 9/10, gorgeous like the girls on perfume advertisements (even the hair) but 8 if you subtract points for rejection revenge.
I guess you’ll be realizing you’re gay soon buddy
Sweet baby Jesus. This was a pleasure to read.
It's unfuckingbelievable how women think they can "grace men" as if they were Mother Teresa. It's mind blowing, and yet men can adopt this mindset to their own advantage. And they should.
yeah lol, it is even funnier to see 5/10 and 6/10 girls that manage to get some attention and start behaving like that, just precious
TL;DR Russian has drink poured on his Hugo Boss blazer.
This is what most women do every fucking day. If you reject a guy its okay and if it happens to you he's a prick? Bitch.
Mehn..I don't get why you are getting sticks because of your post. You could have been nicer to her but you didn't need to be. You don't have to be nice to her because she is a woman. Well,women and blue pilled men have infiltrated this thread so just ignore them. Hope you could dry clean the blazer Bro
хуета конкретная. делать нехуй что ли?
Squat on my wayward son. They'll be peace when you are done. Lay your weary head to rest, don't you drink no more.
And I was like.. and she was like... and I was like ...
I give you a pass for not being Western, therefore being accustomed to different linguistics, but I only hear chicks recite past conversations saying, "I was like blah blah, and he was all like BLAH BLAH." They do it all the time in the States.
Not being a hater, though in a world of male competition, it can always be misconstrued that way. Still not a bad story man.
I bet u feel super alpha top-tier red-pilled God
For some reason this reads like it was a fantasy thought up when some chick brushed against op at the bar.
Zero evidence presented, so zero evidence needed to call bullshit.
what kind of evidence i have to present? carry a 360 camera built in to my hair and film everything?
send you pieces of my blazer that have her scent/DNA on it?
Not sure. Not my story so I can't say what would be evidence of it happening. Just saying your story sounds like something a dude thought up to sound more interesting than they are. Like it sounds like your night was completely uneventful and you cooked up this weird story out of boredom. Even if you discount the dialogue that comes off as a teenagers fanfiction, the events in your story sound suspect, like a poorly written movie with the script being done by a socially awkward thirteen year old.
That's the beauty of the internet, unless there's sources, citations, video, or photos it can be discounted and refuted without the need for a reason.
// , Dude, you really want to fact check the field reports?
Maybe install some kind of camera device with a TPM linked to a blockchain timestamping system?
Not really. I see this happening on a regular basis.
I am so envious. You should check out the disgusting pigs the media calls "women" here in America.
She had value; she could recognize a hugo boss jacket and apprized the $$$$ inside it.
Ahhh I see like the penguins. Penguins wear bow ties OP, bad choice of outfit. Next time wear a tuxedo, you won't have to worry about getting hit on by 9s.
I was like no, and I don't want to..
WOW! DAYUM dude......you dropped the Tsar Bomba on that hamster!
You just interrupted her, accepted her drink, bought one back and behaved like an ass. An alpha is a man that knows what he wants, he communicates clearly, stays calm and does not intend to cause unnecessary drama like you did or communicate like a autist.
Interrupted her completely pressing her core against me when there is plenty of space around the bar?
Or by saying that im not interested and dont want to dance with her is not clear and calm?
keep postin bro, i just want to see what else people can come up with :D
Like actually implying that a sugar daddy seeking 9/10 would approach a student, not a wealthy looking 35+ year old? I had my fair share of rejecting women when I was in a relationship and never managed to enrage them. Except for one, she didn't talk to me for like a week, lol.
Depends, I also work and do investments, and bruh hugo boss blazer that's the key for lurkin 9/10s
Those, my mate, are classic signs of LSE, where she thinks the only value she has are her looks.
I’d generally refrain from being around these girls.
Well yea same, it is only good as a casual hookup to get temporary momentum and feel glorious to see other guys mirin at you, but in the long run it’s not worth it and over time it gets annoying anyway
Too many goddamn "likes" in this FR. Drop the likes from your vocabulary bro, you will go far.
Your blazer is not ruined, just take it to a cleaners place and explain what happened. They should be able to fix the stains
yeah i took it already, also club manager gave me some cash to do it, as an apology, so it ended quite well, i got some action going on and hopefully get my blazer cleaned
you just confirmed how likely this whole spiel happened
I bet that was a nice blazer
hugo boss arian velvet, going full yew mode
honestly it sounds like its worth the blazer just for her reaction lol
Completely worth turning down an easy lay with a hb9 just for the lolz of seeing her entitled ass lose it and being incapable of accepting that any guy could possibly turn down the divine gift of her interest. It won't change anything but sometimes these bitches just need to be knocked down a peg or two.
Female entitlement and privilege causes reactions like this. I blame beta males for condoning this behavior, but good on you for not being one of those losers that just gives in to every pretty face he sees.
Get the blazer dry cleaned. Will remove both the drink stains as well as memories of that horrible girl.
I know throwing a drink in a guy's face is a media cliche, but I didnt think it ever actually happened. But I guess insane women are capable of anything.
Hope you dry-cleaned your blazer.
I encourage newbies to go out and make an effort to intentionally shoot down an interested woman. Its crack cocaine for your confidence, and acts as a vaccination against pedestalization and oneitis.
I lucked out and Drew two college girls at a dance club one night. I was in a pissy mood and really didn't want to dance or talk to anyone. I was the only guy in the place who wasn't breaking his back to get laid, so naturally I drew the two hottest horniest girls like moths to a flame. No nice clothes, no cologne, no game. Just genuine ZFG and a face that said "Everyone here is beneath me."
pissed 'em both off, and I roasted their hamsters while I was at it. I wasn't mean, I never raised my voice or used profane language. I just dismissed them and belittled them the same way I used to dismiss my ExGFs' little kid sister who had the puppydog crush on me. "Go away".
haha, reading this whole thing, and then having to imagine it was all with a russian accent made it all the better
Hahaha. I've had this happen too. 9/10 bombshell. I wasn't giving her enough attention at a party, so she lifted an opened can of beer over my head with several people looking, and i said "do it, i dare you", so she spilt the beer all over my head and onto my fly ass sweater. so i calmly told her to hand me the beer, and she obeyed because she had swallowed my cum and balls before, so i took the beer, and calmly poured the rest on her head. Then she smacked me, LOL! i remained calm and kept talking to my buddy. She was furious. She couldn't understand why i wasn't giving her all of my attention. I'm cutting contact with you before you do the same to me! Go away!
you sound like a bitter beta bitch OP does it feel good rejecting her? it makes you feel good about yourself? rudely saying 'no thanks' then turning around to your mates multiple times to her to make yourself feel better?
most top comments are like 'good job bro' - has this sub became a circlejerk for bitter betas that swallowed the red pill and now they're like YEAH WE"LL SHOW THEM SLUTS THAT WE CAN REJECT THEM TOO!
outside of her lashing out at the end, being friendly with her would've sufficed if you wanna remain faithful to your girl. did you treat her like that because she was hot? and now is your chance to 'get back' at the hot girls that rejected you before? you feel better about that?
you're an alpha but secretly beta bitter bitch you just found red pill. fu ck you and your hugo blazer mate. idiots like you make this sub a circlejerk 'yeah that'll teach her!' forum.
idiot
lol so much rage and butthurt, anyway thanks for admitting that im an alpha.
Mehn..this fella is pained,wanna bet this is a woman?
// , Checked his post history. He's grade A+ guy martial arts doing, serious lifting, shittest-acing TRP
And he has a point about the gloating underneath the "I was surprised by her behaviorrr" tone of this post
Wow, like, a Hugo Boss blazer? Like, wow dude. Like that must have been boss 15 years ago.
It’s funny that it made you butthurt, and triggered stalking mode - since you are commenting on my other posts.
Best Hugo Boss gear was 1940-1945.
Ohh you went there. Say what you want about them but their military dressed nice.
That black leather SS uniform though.
If the one doing that were a man feminist would say "gender violence" and other stupid shit ...
Feminists are idiots.
So let me get this straight a supposed 9/10 comes up to you and buys you a drink but instead of trying to smash you acted like a bitch?
I didn’t act like a bitch. I have a gf that is above her league, and I’m comfortable with my relationship.
But since I had the opportunity I decided to kinda troll her, by doing same thing that most girls do to guys.
Did you tell her you had a gf?
No, did you tell your mom you like tranny porn?
(Your profile is full of it), might as well try to trigger someone on /b/
Why are you trying to change the subject? And I do love trannys.
Just because I can lol. So how are tranny’s and gay shit related to TRP?
Fuck your tranny loving mother fucker
Girls that are used to having their way will flip out when for the first time in a long time, they don't get it.
Had a qt girl outside a gas station ask me to use her money to get her cigarettes because "lol i left my wallet at home." Told her no and she had this venomous look of hatred come across her face. This is something most normal people would say no to (especially if a potentially underaged boy is asking the favor), so the fact she freaked out over this is testament to how little she's been told no in her life.
I have just created a fake tinder account with pictures of a supermodel to reject every single girl. I like to destroy their egos
im not trying to tell you what to do with your time, but dont you think you could spend that time being more productive and working on yourself?
// , "I'm not trying to tell you to ______, but don't you think you should _\______?"
-______-
but make sure not to get too obvious, bishes feel the bait
And this is what makes me sad sometimes. They stop living because they've already been gifted the bare minimum. They feel entitled and have shitty personalities at the best of times.
this is the sad reality of women nowadays.
I kind of feel like she was being nice to you but you were more interested in making her feel like shit.What's the point in doing that? What were you trying to prove?To make it worse, you are the one that started talking to her. I personally avoid any potential drama with women. I would love to reject a beautiful woman and make her feel like shit but if if that comes with the risk of her flipping out on me and starting some drama then its not worth it.
He MADE her feel like shit? No, she approached him expecting a certain type if reaction, the type of reaction she always gets, and he flipped the script on her so she couldn't handle it. Women will shit guys down like this all day long but they just aren't used to being the ones on the other end.
In my early 20's I was fucking with this girl from the factory we worked at and after I was tired of her shit I broke it off. Now I was beta as fuck and she was only a 5 but she lost her shit saying that she does the breaking up, nobody breaks up with her. I told laughed and told her there is a first time for a everything, left.
You guys don't get it. Yes, I would love to do what OP did. His frame was tight, he put her in her place but was it worth having his expensive blazer being ruined? Was it worth the drama?
// , Consider the alternative, modifying your behavior to avoid any situations where women act a fool at you.
Is what you propose worth it?
IS THAT worth it?
We live in a dangerous world ruled by feminism. I occasionally find myself in a position where women approach me or show interest but I am not feeling them, I can easily outrightly reject them and put them in their place but I am not gonna do that. I'll find a way to reject them without aggravating them. Why? Because I know women are crazy and they can ruin my life just from that one moment. Its not worth it
Just carry around an RPG bro noboody will mess with you.
Afterall they'd have to be accepting of your diversity because if they called you a terrorist they would just be an Islamaphobe and get kicked out of the bar. If the woman in your FR was a hardcore leftist fem she would bang you regardless because you could just say you're a refugee.
yeah bro, or sis... better next time I carry an AK to protect my self from dangers of feminism..
or better an RPG as the other guy said, but RPG might be problematic to acquire and carry in the EU
Yes, yes it was all worth it.
That's not blue pill sub mate.
Also first you criticized me for doing it, and then you said that you would love to do it yourself? how does that link up?
You sound like a downright beta. If it comes with the risk of her flipping..? Why are you stuttering? You don't want to ruse a hoebag from fear of her making an uncomfortable situation for you? Cmon man. Pull your finger out.
exactly. whats OP's point of making a hot chick feel like shit. or anyone for that matter? OP is a bitter beta bitch
Sound like a good beginning for Брат 3. After he is done chilling with his dudes he finds the manager of this establishment and shotguns him.
That’s my favourite movie as well.
Also shotguns is quite possible since the only gun civil people can get in UK is shotgun
Funny story. I felt bad for her until she had the meltdown