I’m not going to beat a dead horse, but we’ve all heard of the following before. Basically when women has casual sex but hold out with serious prospects. It seems that it comes across to men as though women are rewarding the flings and punishing the relationship material dude.

Then, many women seem to brand this line of thinking as absurd and ridiculous (not what we’re debating here). So, I’m genuinely curious if women can actually see it from the mens’ perspective? If so, then why force a change of perspective. If not, what would help make it more relatable?