First of all Thank you and deepest love to all my MGTOW brothers!

My MGTOW journey started when I broke my wrist on a dirt biking trip about 6 months ago which left me out of work for 4 months for recovery.

At the time of the accident I was around 40 pounds over weight, lacked self determination (I was a simp/mangina), had not excercised for years and had a poor diet of whatever and whenever.

During my recovery period I had lots of time to myself while my significant other was at work 5 days a week. having always been an avid gamer I was on the computer a lot now learning to use the computer with solely my left hand, I began researching the causes for bone breaks and learnt about a lack of bone density due to poor nutrition which made sense as my significant other would rarely (never) cook so we would eat take away too often.

Weeks went by as my mind was still occupied with learning to use my non dominant hand for things and as that started to improve I then found the ketogenic diet for weight loss, mental sharpness etc, I also found the NOFAP movement and the concept of losing my "life force" through masturbation struck deep. ultimately NOFAP led me to MGTOW.

A month or two into my recovery I was immersed in self improvement videos and researched strength training, throughout all this time I was under constant pressure to get back to work ASAP as "we" (I) had a wedding to pay for which left me in between a rock and a hard place as I was warned that if I was to go back to work to quickly I ran the risk of re breaking the injured area as I work in construction and am constantly using my hands.

So come the 10 week mark I was booked into a specialist appointment for an X-ray and examination/removal of the cast from my right wrist. Having worked in construction since I was 18, now being 27 I knew that with the current state of my wrist I would not be able to perform my duties as my wrist was in no way near the required state for manual labour. The specialist asked my job field and as I explained what I did he gave me an additional 3 weeks before our next appointment.

Upon breaking this news to my significant other, I was met with anger and hostility as "we need to pay for blaa blaa wedding related shite", even trying to make it out that I had coerced extra time off work from the specialist because I was lazy. Being the mangina I was I pleaded I hadn't and would get back to work ASAP.

Through the next couple weeks I was under even more pressure from my (divorced) mother in law about the wedding and that I needed to get back to work to give her daughter the big day she had always dreamed of.

The resentment was building and I was learning of the schemes of these women through the MGTOW videos I was watching. They had found a hard working mule to whip.

So come the next specialist appointment and X-ray yet again I was given additional time off because the break had not healed enough.

This time round breaking the news, the rage I was met with was quiet severe. I was told I was lazy, useless, hopeless etc etc.

After hearing this I spoke to my mother who is a doctor, currently with her own acupuncture and Chinese herbalism clinic about trying to explain that my injury had not healed to my significunt other. When my mother did attempt to set the record straight she was not believed and was accused of not wanting the wedding to happen and that she hated my wife to be and was trying to ruin her big day. My mother for my sake tried to see past what was said to not cause inter family fights/problems.

Now the days were nearing to the wedding and the stress all round was growing. Finally I was cleared by the specialist and that same night I was back at work at full duties.

A couple weeks passed and my wife to be had a hair and make up trial, she sent photos of her hair style to my mother and asked for her opinion, my mother gave her honesty and said that she wasn't a fan of the style and that it could be executed better (mind you two of her bridesmaids said the same thing that the style and execution was poor and needed improvement) my wife to be's reaction was illogical and princess like to say the least. My wife to be reacted in spite and proceeded to uninvite/cancel the wedding singer who was my mothers one and only wish for the wedding, he was a long time family friend/neighbour and has known me since I was a baby.

My mothers reaction was calm and collected, upon hearing the news of the cancellation, she called me to say that we needed to talk, my wife to be and myself.

The version I was fed from my wife to be was one of fiction about how she was told she was "ugly".

As I was now back at work 6-7 nights a week to fund my funeral I mean wedding, I didn't have time to go and visit until about three weeks after the fact. By this point it was my wife to be's hens night and my mother now wanted to see only me, without my significant other participating.

On the day of the hens my wife to be got ready to go out and my brother came and picked me up and we left for my mothers place. My other brother met us there.

When I spoke to my mother I had found out the truth about everything that had transpired and who was really in the wrong. This angered me deeply and I spilt the beans on what Iv endured in this relationship of 6 years. I came to the conclusion that drastic action was necessary.

While the hens night was going on, I made my way back home, cleared out my things and left to go and stay with my mother.

4am in the morning whilst I slept I hear banging from the front door. It was my wife to be. My mother let her in and I broke the news to her that I could not be with a 26 year old who acts like a 6 year old, someone as self centred and self absorbed as her. She would not accept this, I told her to leave and that I needed to sleep. She eventually left and was later that day dropped back off at my mothers place by her mother and aunt who didn't even dare to come in and speak to us, just simply dumped her on us.

Stranded, I agreed (idiot) to drive her to her mothers place. Upon arrival I was met with death stares from my mother in law, I tried to explain my actions that I could not be with someone who reacts and acts soo illogically but it fell on deaf ears. My wife to be begged me to take her back which like the mangina I still was took her back with the wedding still going ahead (what was I thinking).

Change was promised but was not delivered to say the least. In the weeks to come the same cycle repeated in various ways but I knew deep down I would never marry this person. Each time she would suck me in with begging and talking of the fun times and how much she loved me but having now been red pilled, I knew that I simply might agree in the moment but would go back and say I would not be marrying her. It was now me who was playing the game back on her. This was not the person I was and it did not feel right but I knew I was destined for something else.

So here I am, 3 days ago she went through my phone without my knowledge to find out if I was cheating on her. Never would I cheat nor have I ever thought about cheating on someone as I had been cheated on in the past by ex's. I let it slide for the moment as I had nothing to hide and her searched turned up nothing.

The next morning after finishing work I went to the gym and had a good think about everything. When I got home I had a shower and when I got out the shower I noticed that she was awake and on her phone, when she put her phone down I picked it up and said to her. "Understand what is at stake right here right now, if you don't unlock this phone for me to go through it, we are done for good, no wedding, no nothing. Gone forever" this immediately sent her into a crazy fit of rage but she quickly realised how fleeting her situation was I started to count down from 5. Once the clock ticked down I would leave. Again I said if it's not unlocked we are done. She would NOT unlock the phone. I packed whatever I saw in sight quickly into my gym bag while she cried and begged. I jumped in the car and left for my brothers house.

Her mother tried contacting me, her aunt, her friends and it's given me such pleasure to block each and every one of them.

It's still early days but I will hold strong and not fold into this venomous trap ever again.

My wedding was just six weeks away but I have today officially cancelled it!

Thank you again MGTOW brothers. I am free. I will never be controlled and leeched from ever again.

I have been spreading the word to all my friends about MGTOW and to research it themselves.

MGTOW has literally saved my life. I am forever in MGTOW's debt.