A little backstory, I had a date with this girl, and we hit off really good. After a bit of texting back and worth I find out that she has this fuckbuddy type of situation which she claims finished 2 weeks ago. Without any sex involved.

Okey, I feel a bit like a rebound, but you know I am no angel either. So she comes over one night and we starting to get frisky- And behold, this girl has bruises on her tights, of course I ask what's up?

Apparently she did fuck the guy two weeks ago, but she didn't consider it sex because they only did anal and BJ, I could not believe what I was hearing.

I still let it slide (I know, simp move), until to this bomb today.

EDIT: this is taken from whatsapp, so the weird formatting is emojis and what not, enjoy the shitfest and enjoy me dropping some red pills.

EDIT2: Summary: girl tells me she needs to admit something. She still went to see this guy on Monday (our getting frisky was on Sunday, where I saw the bruises) And again first she tells me that she just saw him to finish things off, no sex involved, but I didn't believe her. So she admitted to that too "I was blinded" and what not. Begs me for forgiveness, and it was really the last time and what not, basically I mock her a little and told her it's over, my mind was already made

16:47 - HER: Actually, I do have soMEthing to confess.... 🙄 but... If I say this, u probably will not talk to ME ever

16:48 - HER: One way, I wanna tell as I don't wanna hide... In anotHER way, I'm afraid if I say, u will not talk, or see ME or what ever worse

16:49 - ME: Well go on

16:49 - ME: Since you already opened the pandoras box

16:49 - HER: Hmm..

16:50 - HER: That Monday night, I actually MEet him for the last.. N that's how he ended it.....

16:51 - HER: 😔

16:51 - ME: Excuse ME?

16:51 - HER: ......

16:52 - ME: So you caME to see ME after you spend the night with him?

16:52 - ME: Hol up i am confused

16:53 - HER: 😔 u got ntg to confused.. N I got ntg to argue with anything u wanna say...

16:54 - ME: So you saw him the night? And then caME to see ME the next day?

16:54 - ME: Let ME get this 100% straight

16:54 - ME: So the bruises were literally fresh af?

16:54 - HER: No

16:54 - HER: Ni

16:54 - HER: No!

16:54 - HER: Bruises remain 2 weeka

16:55 - ME: Ok

16:55 - ME: What Monday are you talking about then?

16:55 - ME: This weeks monday?

16:56 - HER: Yes, is the recent Monday.. N tHERe's no rough activity on that night..

16:56 - HER: Bruises was alrdy 2 weeks old

16:56 - ME: You said you finished with him 2 weeks ago

First you said you just had a chat

Then you said only had anal and bj and you don't even consider that as sex

And now you tell ME this

16:57 - ME: You are absolutely right

16:57 - ME: I am done with your shit

16:57 - HER: 😔

16:57 - ME: I was able to forget it all and forgive, but now i won't believe anything you say

16:58 - ME: Trust is broken beyond repair

16:58 - HER: Do u know how hard is it if u were in my shoes? One way I wanna be honest n anotHER way I knew u were react this way

16:58 - ME: No

16:58 - ME: I don't

16:58 - ME: I don't lie

16:58 - HER: I don't want to!

16:58 - HER: That's y I have hard tiME to tell it

16:59 - HER: U don't know how hard for ME to let u know this.. To be able to explain this.. And yet I didn't wanna hide it... So I tried my lil step to tell u about it...

17:00 - HER: Knowing is unacceptable for u... Yet I took my risk to tell u the truth

17:00 - HER: If I wanna do things my old way, I would have kept quiet

17:01 - ME: Good lesson for you

17:01 - ME: Every action has consequences

17:01 - ME: You lied to ME

17:01 - ME: Not once

17:01 - ME: But twice

17:02 - ME: And i told you i am just a backup for that guy

17:02 - ME: And i am not gonna be that

17:03 - HER: I know every action has consequences... But u do know y I had to lie.... And I'm now coming clean to tell u.... I know I lied... N u shld know how hard is it to open this up to u

17:03 - ME: No

17:03 - ME: You did not have to lie

17:03 - ME: THERe is wHERe you wrong

17:03 - ME: You should have said, i think i still have feels for the guy

17:04 - ME: Would have been way less painful then this rn

17:04 - ME: And

17:04 - ME: No one is telling ME you didn't bang him again

17:04 - ME: Since anal and bj is nothing for you

17:04 - ME: Your own words

17:04 - HER: ..... 😔

17:05 - ME: you're clearly not relationship material

17:05 - HER: 😢😢

17:06 - HER: All I wanna do is just tell u the one last truth

17:06 - HER: N I don't have anything else I swear

17:06 - ME: The amount of things you have said, and soME i let slide, soME i had to point out for you that that's not soMEone would say looking for relationship

17:06 - ME: Clearly shows your mindset

17:07 - ME: Why do you think this holds any value to any more?

17:07 - ME: Your truth value is zero rn

17:07 - HER: Like I said, I'm just trying to clean up the last.... 😢😢😢

17:08 - ME: You fuckin said you already cleared it 2 weeks ago

17:08 - ME: Which point did i miss?

17:08 - ME: 🤔

17:09 - HER: ..........

17:09 - ME: You ALREADY saw how i reacted

17:09 - ME: And then you were like

17:09 - ME: Fuck it

17:09 - ME: LemME see him again

17:10 - ME: Probably BLANK would applaud to that

17:11 - HER: It was not like that... 😔 MEeting u on Sunday was an impromptu... WHEReas the two on Monday, was planned earlier....

17:11 - ME: Ahhh we have been thru this once before haven't we?

17:12 - ME: Apparently you got real hard tiME telling people off

17:12 - ME: No matter who it hurts 🤷

17:12 - ME: Ohh you got planned it

17:12 - ME: Gets even better 👍

17:12 - HER: I didn't know with the early planned,u have reacted that way.. How could I even tell u the later one?

17:13 - HER: I wanted to tell u everything...

17:13 - HER: But frm the way I react, I was afraid...

17:13 - HER: But it has happened....

17:13 - ME: Ever heard of phones?

17:13 - ME: Whatsapp?

17:13 - ME: Text?

17:13 - ME: Snap?

17:13 - ME: Kik?

17:13 - ME: All the ways you could have not MEt him

17:14 - ME: Right now i believe you went for one more taste of that juicy dick n

17:14 - HER: I know I shouldn't OK??? 😢😢😢 I was just blinded n got into it... And I regretted it very much!

17:14 - ME: Pahahahhaha

17:14 - ME: Bye bitch!

17:15 - HER: ....

17:15 - ME: Holup!

17:15 - ME: So you did fuck again? 🤔

17:17 - HER: All I just wanna do is just tell u the last truth .... N i could just face u n ntg to hide frm u..... 😢😔

17:17 - ME: Answer

17:17 - ME: The fuckin

17:17 - ME: Question

17:17 - HER: I got ntg to say since u didn't wanna hear ME out anymore

17:17 - HER: Whatever I say... I

17:17 - HER: It doesn't matter to u

17:18 - HER: As much as it MEans to ME to clear the truth

17:18 - HER: Instead of hiding frm u

17:18 - ME: Ok

17:18 - ME: So you did

17:18 - ME: No worries

17:18 - ME: Hope it was worth it

17:19 - HER: ....

17:19 - ME: 🙌👏🙌👏🙌👏🙌👏

17:19 - ME: The only thing i hate

17:19 - ME: You know what i hate?

17:19 - ME: I hate to be right, all, the, fucking tiME

17:20 - ME: I knew you will be bad from the talks and everything

17:20 - ME: So i should have really ended it sooner

17:20 - ME: It was my mistake 🤦🏻

17:21 - HER: It was just my last truth ok

17:21 - HER: Can u not like that?

17:21 - HER: I'm really sorry...

17:21 - HER: 😔😔😢

17:21 - ME: You fucked him

17:21 - ME: No amount of sorry will cut it

17:21 - ME: I told you many tiMEs

17:21 - ME: Not like otHERen

17:21 - ME: MEn

17:21 - ME: No second chanches

17:23 - HER: Can u be reasonable?? I know u r not them! I MEt u on Sunday! And the very next thing was Monday! And we weren't enough to say we consider togetHER or firm yet...

17:24 - HER: But it has happened...

17:24 - HER: If u say we were in a rship, then yes, I m unacceptable.....

17:25 - HER: I m sorry that it has happened... N just the last thing to tell u.... N ntg else hiding

17:26 - HER: What ever I told u frm past... To my family... Those are alrdy past... N that's real.... N not lies

17:26 - ME: Let ME see

First, 2 weeks ago all finished, no sex

Then, oh i didn't have sex only anal and bj

Then ohh uups i also MEt him monday, but defo no sex

And then i still had sex

But i really really really this tiME it's last tiME, pinky promise

17:26 - HER: I swear! It's the last.. Ntg fuck else

17:27 - ME: Sure i forgive you😏

17:29 - HER: Look, if u see how difficult I have to tell u the actual truth I only MEt him that day... But I have to break it down to different stages? I know it's my fault, I was too afraid.... Initially I thought I could just hide since I don't think we were serious enough...

Haven't said, when I MEt u on Tues, I know u were serious about it...

N it took ME so long to figure out how can I or how to open this topic to u

17:30 - ME: Not to worry

17:30 - HER: I'm... Really sorry 😔

17:30 - ME: Thanks for that

17:30 - ME: At least found out now

17:30 - ME: Not 3 years down the line 😏

17:31 - ME: Btw this whole convo goes to reddit

17:31 - ME: Don't worry i hide your picture

17:31 - HER: But now u said I'm only good for sexual attraction for u, not rship material 😔😔😔

17:32 - ME: Lol i banged soME chicks yesterday too but hey! I am good relationship material

17:32 - ME: Right?

17:32 - ME: Riight? 😏

17:32 - ME: Just reverse the roles and see how you feel

17:32 - ME: It's as simple as that

17:32 - HER: 😔 k

17:32 - HER: Sorry...

17:33 - ME: Although not sure you would mind since anal and bj is nothing to you 😂

17:33 - ME: Must be soME fucked up mind to think that

17:33 - ME: Listen

17:33 - ME: Lets be realistic HERe for a sec ok

17:34 - ME: Even if i would forgive

17:34 - ME: I would never ever forget

17:34 - ME: And i would never trust you

17:34 - ME: Like ever

17:34 - ME: You know that's reasonable right?

17:34 - ME: Right now i am calm

17:34 - HER: .....

17:35 - ME: Even if you would be a fuckin nun once we togetHER

17:35 - ME: I would think what you doing or wHERe you at

17:35 - ME: And i would ask, i would be jealous

17:35 - ME: And that is not healthy

17:35 - ME: And i am not wanting to do that ok

17:36 - HER: Is just the start of things wHERe I try to clear things up even before we get serious 😔😔😔😔 I thought that was the best to do .....

17:37 - HER: But seems like u would ratHER want ME to hide frm u things before we get into a rship... 😔😔😔 all I wanted to do is just clear things up n start clean

17:37 - HER: 😔😔😔

17:37 - HER: But obviously it doesn't seem to work out that wau

17:37 - HER: Way**6

17:37 - HER: 😔😔

17:38 - ME: No, the best to do is to be months single and then look for a relationship, not have a package, who you said you finished with 2 weeks ago ( which was not long enough tiME in my opinion) and then find out you still had him

17:38 - ME: That is the right thing to do 👍

17:38 - HER: ....

17:38 - ME: Anything else i can help you with?

17:39 - HER: Ntg...

17:42 - HER: Can u just not like ???

17:42 - ME: Lol nope

17:42 - ME: Actions

17:42 - ME: Consequences

17:43 - ME: It's really that simple

17:43 - HER: I told u that was my last truth

17:43 - ME: The only thing you really did

17:43 - ME: Is deepen my hatred for woMEn even more

17:43 - ME: Awalt!

17:44 - HER: BLANK....

17:44 - HER: CoME on....

17:44 - HER: I'm trying my best to open that up.... N it is the last thing I wanna get it out

17:44 - ME: Yup yup yup

17:45 - ME: And i appreciate it

17:45 - ME: As i said good now

17:45 - ME: Than 3 years later

17:45 - ME: If you were fine still fuckin him that MEans you didn't care about ME

17:45 - ME: Simple 😏

17:46 - HER: It's alrdy done!!!!

17:46 - HER: It's over

17:46 - ME: Good

17:46 - HER: I told u that's the last of the last

17:46 - ME: So you can move on 👍

17:46 - ME: Yup

17:46 - ME: Like it was last tiME the last tiME

17:46 - HER: IT IS!

17:47 - HER: 😔😔😔😢😢

17:47 - ME: As i said

17:47 - ME: You had your fun

17:47 - ME: Hope

17:47 - ME: It

17:47 - ME: Was

17:47 - ME: Worth

17:47 - ME: It

17:47 - ME: 😘

17:47 - HER: If I didn't care about u, I wouldn't even thought about telling u everything about ME... And the last truth 😔😔😔😔😔

17:49 - ME: Are we done?

17:49 - ME: Anything else i need explain?

17:49 - ME: See i am man with principle and strong willed

17:49 - ME: I don't have many friends because i can see thru their bs and i cannot fake

17:50 - ME: And i hate lies

17:50 - ME: And cheaters

17:50 - ME: And sure we were nothing

17:50 - ME: I know that

17:50 - ME: But

17:50 - ME: You graved otHER mans cock still

17:50 - HER: I'm not even cheating on u!!! I would never wanna do that

17:50 - ME: So that makes you a cheater too

17:50 - HER: That was before we were serious

17:51 - ME: Yup but you said you were finished with him

17:51 - ME: Simple as that

17:51 - HER: And u do know how hard is to tell u the whole truth!! And I manage to say it today

17:51 - HER: 😔😔😔😔😔

17:51 - HER: 😢😢😢

17:52 - HER: And all u can say was I cheat n lie.....

17:52 - ME: Yeah cheating is far fetched, but lier 100%

17:52 - HER: But my intention was just to tell u the truth n the last thing that happened

17:52 - ME: And since you can't say no to a cock

17:52 - HER: CoME on....

17:52 - ME: You will also cheat

17:52 - ME: So

17:53 - HER: That was the last

17:53 - HER: Ntg else

17:53 - ME: Sure it was

17:53 - ME: 😏

17:53 - HER: 😢

17:53 - HER: 😔.....

17:54 - HER: All I wanna say, I didn't have the point to actually tell u what happened... But I know I have to coME clean if I wanna start soMEthing new with u... And all I could thing was just tell u this last thing that happened with the intention that I'm not gonna do anything behind ur back... 😔😔😔

17:56 - ME: Listen the truth is, after you told ME it was 2 weeks ago, i was a bit vary, like it's too soon, i will end up as a rebound

Then i see the fucking bruises and i was really shocked. I had to think long and hard READ INTO THIS, I WANTED TO BREAK THINGS OFF ALREADY THEN

And now this surprise visit, and again you lie that we only MEt, but nooo, had soME of that juicy bad boy dick again

17:56 - ME: And you still think you got a chance with ME? Lol

17:56 - HER: The bruises is REALLY 2 WEEKS

17:57 - HER: it's alrdy recovering!

17:57 - HER: It's alrdy gone

17:57 - ME: Talking about the Monday visit

17:57 - ME: The bruises story was just when i was thinking hard if i should continue things with you pr not

17:58 - ME: The monday visit you had

17:58 - HER: It was really 2 weeks for the bruises!!!!

17:58 - ME: Just had a nice push 😏

17:58 - ME: Shut up!

17:58 - ME: Jesus

17:58 - ME: Read what i write 😱

17:58 - HER: 😔😔

17:58 - ME: I said

17:58 - ME: When i saw them

17:59 - ME: I already considered if to carry on with you

17:59 - ME: Get it!?

17:59 - ME: But you had anotHER ace in your sleeve lol

17:59 - ME: A surprise 😂

17:59 - HER: 😔😔

18:00 - HER: I told u, all I wanted is to coME clean to tell u the last thing....

18:00 - ME: Ohh shit

18:00 - ME: You know what

18:00 - ME: I just killed soMEone

18:00 - ME: I caME clean to the police

18:00 - ME: But they still locked ME up

18:00 - ME: Whyyy?

18:00 - ME: I caME cleab 🤷

18:00 - ME: Clena

18:00 - ME: Fuck

18:00 - ME: Can't write

18:01 - HER: 😔😔😔 ok...

18:01 - ME: I am telling you, i am really thankful you caME clean

18:01 - ME: That does not MEan tho you are forgiven

18:02 - ME: That's not how life works

18:02 - ME: You made a choice

18:02 - ME: That choice was wrong

18:02 - ME: You have to live with it

18:02 - ME: 🤗

18:02 - ME: Choice seeing him that is

18:03 - ME: And hey

18:03 - ME: Maybe you call him

18:03 - ME: He wanna see you again

18:03 - ME: Revenge fuck

18:03 - ME: Win win 😏

18:03 - ME: I bet he does anyway

18:04 - ME: Because you REALLY MAKE HIM HORNY

18:04 - ME: wink wink

18:04 - ME: 😏

18:04 - ME: Damn i can be nasty when soMEone makes ME angry!

18:04 - ME: Feel the wrath of BLANK 😈