When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I used to always see these gorgeous women around my age dating guys in their thirties and forties. At the time, it didn't make sense to me. I thought, “What could these beautiful girls possibly see in these old guys?” Now, I get it. Now, I totally understand.
Older guys possess a number of qualities that young women find attractive. They're generally more mature, confident, established, own cars and homes, and have a lot more sexual experience. If you've done your required RP reading, you know that these are all things that women are attracted to.
This short post is for you guys in your thirties, forties, and fifties who want to date women in their late teens and early-to-mid twenties. While the truths of TRP never change, you'll need to make some changes to your game if you want to bang younger women. What would be effective game for a 20-year-old to run on a young woman, if run by a 40-year-old, will most likely come across as immature and rude. The same is true if you tried to run the same game on a 20-year-old that you would on a 40-year-old. You'll likely come across as stale and old.
When I first realized how easy it is to pick up younger women, how much they enjoy the company of older men, I was blown away. Like I said, I never understood it until I was in my thirties. But now, I get it (and I get it often!). But not all (heterosexual) young women are into older guys. In my experience, I'd say that about 25% of young women prefer/only date older men, 25% prefer/only date guys around their own age, and the remaining 50% date both older guys and guys their own age with little preference.
Where To Meet Younger Women
So where do I meet all these younger women? The same place I meet women my own age – everywhere! Once you get in the habit of talking to women everywhere you go, you realize that fun, young, attractive women are all over the place just waiting for you to flirt with them. Here are a few examples of places I've met young women over the past few months:
Dunkin Donuts – I stop a DD to grab a black coffee occasionally which always has several attractive young women working there. I make it a point to flirt with women everywhere I go. A funny observation here, a backwards compliment there – whatever. I struck up a conversation with a cute 20-year-old behind the counter one day and made a stupid but playful joke about asking her out to get a cup of coffee which she responded to favorably. We ended up going out a few times always having a great time, sleeping together after the second date.
Tinder – I've dated several young women that I met on Tinder. If you're into bigger girls, which I'm sure plenty of you are, Tinder and other dating apps are amazing. They're packed with chubby young women looking for a mature older guy to spend time with. I've also met a couple fit girls on Tinder over the past few months, both of which were in big cities while I was traveling, both of which resulted in one night stands. The thing about Tinder and other dating sites/apps is that it's a numbers game. For every 1 young woman I actually go out with, there are 5 to 10 that I talk to that don't result in a date.
One younger woman I met on OkCupid resulted in a wonderful 8-month semi-monogamous relationship that just ended. She's a 25-year-old eye doctor with a pretty face, thin waist, and a big ass. But, more importantly, she's really smart, has a great sense of humor, and she made an awesome travel partner. Her and I went on several trips together and they were all incredible. Unfortunately, we want different things in life (she wants kids, I don't want any more) so it had to come to an end. But I'm telling you this for the older guys not just looking to bang younger women, but who want to build a relationship with one. If that's what you want, it's definitely possible.
The Gym – This one is tricky. While I often flirt with women at my gym, I rarely ask any of them out. However, I did ask out a fit, cute 19-year-old woman who works at my gym not too long ago who I had been flirting with for a while. We went out several times, having sex on the first date.
These are just a few examples, but you get the point. Young women are everywhere. The only place you won't find them is at your house. You have to actually go out and talk to them.
How To Pick Up Younger Women
One of the biggest mistakes I see older guys make with young women is that they try to come across as hip and youthful themselves. Young women who are into older guys like them because they are just that – older. Don't try to act like you're the same age as the young woman you're trying to pick up. If she wanted someone her own age, she wouldn't be talking to you.
You want to come across as fun and flirty, but also mature and experienced. You've got years - possibly decades - more life experience than she does. Use that to your advantage. Surely, you've done some interesting shit in that time. Tell her about it! Don't worry about making yourself sound old. It's not like she isn't aware of the age difference.
The key is to keep it fun and entertaining. Tell her about how you traveled all over the world in the Marine Corps or about how you used to play guitar in a rock band. Or maybe you had that one really cool job where you got to meet lots of important people. Or how you got so drunk with your frat brothers in college one time that you woke up on the campus of a completely different university. You get the idea.
I've traveled all over the world, I play several instruments, am a published novelist, I have a large social circle, and have countless crazy sex-drugs-and-rock-&-roll-filled stories to tell from my younger days. In other words: I have stuff to talk to young women about. I'm telling you this not to say, “Look at me, I've done a lot of cool shit,” but to illustrate the types of things that young women find interesting. If you're in your 30's or beyond, you've definitely been alive long enough to have done something that young women want to hear about.
Tell stories that show how fun, adventure seeking, confident, and fit you are. The things about myself that I mentioned in the above paragraph are all things I usually work into the conversation. But don't just come out and say, “I'm a novelist with 6 novels and 2 novellas published by Red Pill Press under the pen name Chad Thunderballs and I've been writing for 4 years and I......” No. You want to tell your stories in such a way that you leave them wanting more.
When I first meet a young woman and she asks me what I do, I'll often simply tell her that I'm a writer. Naturally, she'll ask, “What do you write?” I'll answer with something like, “Books,” “Words,” or something similar in a playful tone. Usually she'll laugh and ask another follow-up question. This keeps the conversation fun and moving. Don't just give it all away at once. Make her work for it – she'll appreciate it much more.
You'll also want to display a lot of the alpha traits that are talked about here at TRP. Fortunately, being an older man gives you a big advantage here. I've found that by simply being older, a lot of my actions are interpreted as being alpha when, if displayed by a young man, they might not be. If you're into being a gentleman, holding doors open and shit like that, you can get away with a lot more of that type of behavior as an older guy. Young women interpret it as being mature and dominant. Just don't go overboard with it.
Girls Just Want To Have Fun
This post is already longer than I wanted it to be so I'll end with this. Guys have wondered since the beginning of time, “What do women want?” If only you would've listened, Cindi Lauper tried to tell you in the early 80's: Girls Just Want To Have Fun!
This is, in my opinion, by far, the most important thing to keep in mind when trying to pick up younger women. Girls just want to have fun. In my experience, this is true for women of all ages, but it's especially true of young women. Make her laugh, show her a good time and, before long, you'll be balls deep in a woman who wasn't even born until you were in your twenties!
Women just want to have a good time and they want YOU to give it to them. Keep it fun and flirty, but act your age. Young women like older men because they're older and more mature. Talk about all the interesting shit you've done in your life and keep her guessing, wanting more.
So for all you older guys who want to start picking up younger girls, get out there and start talking to every attractive young woman you come across. If you display confidence and maturity while being fun and flirty, you'll be amazed at the response you get. Not all young women are going to be interested in you but the ones who are – and there will be a lot of them – will be eager to learn from you, hear about your exciting life, and find out what it's like to get fucked by an older, experienced man.
Take care and be well!
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