Backstory: I'm a 3rd year in college and have been in a relationship for almost 4 years so, for much of my school life, I didn't get a chance to experience the hook-ups and casual fun of college. A committed relationship has its benefits, but I (like any other guy) always wanted to enjoy having sex with different women. Recently, my relationship finally fizzled out, and I was single again
One concern I had was that I was out of the game for so long that I thought the standards of women were extremely high. I always thought you need to be an extremely attractive dude with a perfect body and 10/10 charming personality to woo a girl into having sex with you.
I learned that I was completely wrong. I matched with this cute girl from Tinder, and we went out to get some coffee. We both kind of felt awkward, but in the mutually entertaining way (we would just kinda stare at each other and laugh).
I ask her to get a drink with me, things just clicked, we go back to my place and she initiates sex with me.
In my mind, I'm like "it's that easy? REALLY?!". From that day forward, every single party/tinder date has led to me taking some girl home and fucking her. This entire time, all I had to do was just ask
Moral of the story: this is by no means a brag post or anything (I'm a pretty average and dorky guy), but by simply not being a total ass and putting myself out there, I'm having sex with girls that I thought were completely out of my league.
Just some insight for the guys out there like me who thought they weren't good enough, when in reality, it really is as simple as just putting yourself out there
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