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Leg day ruined by just one female.

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11 May 2018 06:25 AM UTC

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It's a long story, but worth a read, lots of wtf moments.

Went to the gym tonight. As I was passing a new couple the woman was staring at me hardcore. After I passed by, I heard her tell her boyfriend "He looks ridiculous.". I ignored it and grabbed a rack.

A little about her: She's overweight with absolutely no curves, egg mode. Probably hasn't washed or brushed her hair in weeks. Legging read "PINK" all over them.

Was warming up on squats, I glance over... she's obviously talking about me to her boyfriend. I finish my set and turn down the volume on my headphones. Listening... I can overhear saying to her boyfriend "you should say something. You need to say something". A little argument ensues between them saying he doesn't want to bother me.

I'm still warming up, approaching about 65% of my 1rm where I'll increase 5% for singles from 60-80%. I focus on tightness and pause them. I'm running 8 sets of 3. Still have my headphones on, can hear her bitching on and on about my hideous form and how I'm going to hurt myself just doing a single squat.

I've been powerlifting for 9 years with no major injuries. I'm running weights that I can absolutely rep for 8-20 reps if I wanted to.

I do my first working set and she comes over, flailing her arms about and rude as shit tells me "you need to take some weight off it's way too much for you". I roll my eyes and tell her "Thank you for your concern, have a good day." And slip my headphones back on. She hesitates, staring at me before storming off mad.

She goes back to her boyfriend yelling "its unbelievable how he just ignored me like that don--- what are you doing? I told you I didn't want to do that exercise Anon." Her boyfriend mutters something I can't make out tail between his legs style. She yells again "Fine, whatever. Lighten the weight you can't lift more than me, I already told you." He complies (what the fuck).

She's over there talking shit the whole time to him, emasculating him word by word, second by second. She says some shit to him like "You should thank me for coming, I would have just been at home eating pizza or something". Jesus christ.

She's been watching me the whole time, I'm resting before set 5. I watch her walk away. I'm racking set 5, when there's her and the front desk guy right walking into the weight room. Front desk guy waves me over, I walk over and say "hello".

Immediately he tells me "You need to control your weights." She's standing there with a shit eating grin. I tell him "I am controlling the weight" he tells me "well I was told you almost lost your balance with it" I start to say something back he cuts me off "take the weight off and collect your things and come talk to me upfront"

I comply and head upfront, he tells me he needs me to sign a form saying why he kicked me from the gym and it's only for tonight, I refuse. I tell him "I've been lifting here for 5 years dude. I explained to him the weight was actually light and I was controlling it. Watch the cameras." He tells me "That wasn't the only issue, you attacked a gym member when she tried to correct you for the safety of yourself and everyone else" (what the fuck?)

I explained to him what happened and how rude and vulgar she has been all night and I said like 5 words to her. He told me she felt threatened and now I'm making up lies about her and I need to leave before he calls the police. I leave without any words.

Going tomorrow morning to talk to the gym owner, I am demanding that the front desk guy be fired for punishing me without investigation and threatening to call the police on polite and calm me. I am demanding that she be kicked from the gym for lying and disturbing other gym members. Plus her vulgar and rude behaviour.

TL;DR Some girl ruins my leg day at the gym for no good reason. Gets me kicked from the gym ultimately. While simultaneously emasculating her boyfriend. There's a price to pay for all of this.



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Title Leg day ruined by just one female.
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Upvotes 1310
Comments 354
Date 11 May 2018 06:25 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/50183
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0 upvotesbsutansalt1 year ago

Removed as this doesn't fit wihtin TRP's mission. If you want to vent like this again, I suggest you do so to your friends or on facebook.

Also to the OP, after looking at your post history I suggest stop your whining and realize you have a chip on your shoulder/victim mentality. Realize you're stuck in the anger stage and you're not improving yourself by bitching about life. Stop caring about shit you cannot impact and change the stuff in your life that you have the power to.

714 upvotesre4d31 year ago

Being an Eastern European my head cannot comprehend it. What.the.fuck? Felt threatened? Sign a form? Call the police? Ffs!

438 upvotesredhawkes1 year ago

Im from the Balkans. It's like reading some sci-fi.

302 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Welcome to America. Where you're constantly threatened by cops and law suits. It's the real deal here.

My friend got 2 months in jail for raping a girl he didn't have sexual interest in. A short version of the story, it was a tinder hook up, he met her... She looked nothing in her photos. Refused to have sex with her and bam! He's got police at the door in the middle of the night.

249 upvotesHS-Thompson1 year ago

Two months in jail for rape? After not having sex with her?

That story is even less plausible than the nonsense of your original post here, or the rest of your post history which consists of stories of being tracked, harassed, persecuted, and supposedly poisoned by multiple people in your life.

70 upvotesfakenate11 year ago

Some people have a victim complex and they bring this destruction on themselves.

2 upvotesbsutansalt1 year ago

See also: feminist types who all seem to have bad luck and run in the same circles. Uh huh, right. All those people had the same experiences getting raped and shit? Yeah, not buying it. Stop being dumbasses who run in dumbass circles dating dumbass dudes and stop crying rape after the fact because you realized you just banged a dumbass dude.

17 upvoteswhats_the_deal221 year ago

Post history definitely an eye opener

26 upvotesmax_peenor1 year ago

Sounds like a pretty normal time to sit in a cell to wait for a trial or a judge to toss the case.

People realize you can be forced to sit in a cell for a while just waiting for an acquittal, right?

13 upvotesthrowaway245151 year ago

Only if you have serious priors. First offence with no physical evidence will get you very easy bail.

1 upvotestheemulate1 year ago

Having to pay to avoid jail... Bail is such a fucking joke

1 upvoteswordsoundpower1 year ago

Whatever OP is saying, I've seen more happen for less.

33 upvotesRealisticKiwi1 year ago

wtf. Not bragging, but I have fucked more than 40 women (maybe 50), mostly from Tinder and met way more from Tinder whom I did not fuck and not in a second I felt that someone will call the police on me. I am not even good looking, just avg and I even have brown skin and beard like gypsies and arabs (I am neither of them, but some people might be concerned about my look). Also I am quite demanding and assertive etc, still no police. (I am from Eastern Eu)

100 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

You'd be surprised the shit I've seen. Girls co-workers getting guys fired because they didn't get their way. All they had to say was "I don't feel comfortable or safe around him".

28 upvotesksatriamelayu1 year ago

i n c e l . g e n o c i d e

13 upvotesTHEnimble_mongoose1 year ago

Can confirm. That's what happened to me. I didn't flirt or give enough attention to the hos in my office so they all turned against me and mass reported to HR that I "made them uncomfortable." I know because my friend in the HR department told me about the reports and what his bosses were saying about me.

It is complete bullshit how much power they give women in the office now. I am doing better now that I'm not at that job though. I own my own business and work for myself and am earning more than I did in that stupid office job I wasted 2 years slaving away at for nothing.

Offices and HR department hate tall men who are physically fit and have muscles. Especially if they don't suck up to everyone around them and have self confidence. If they flirt with the girls they are rapists and need to be fired. If they don't flirt with the girls they are misogynists and need to be fired.

And if those confident men are white or conservative? Why are they in the office in the first place? Out, out, out. This is America ffs lol

2 upvotesblownnnn1 year ago

Yup, it's retarded what things have become. If your attractive and don't give her attention, they run a smear campaign because you rejected them. They would rather be fucked and dumped then ignored and rejected.

9 upvotescolovick1 year ago

I deal with that constantly. I've had more talks with management over girls upset I won't cheat on my wife with them. Mostly horse faced missing 1 tooth 7/10 below the neck "catches" in the middle of nowhere where I work.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Can confirm. Ive been fired from jobs because my female coworkers felt uncomfortable around me. Usually i dont even soeak to them but a guy who is almost 6’ tall, 240 lbs and athletic is enough to make you scary to them and their over developed sense of victim hood.

1 upvotesEntropy-71 year ago

I used to be a divorce lawyer. What always threw a monkey wrench into the proceedings is when the woman says "he scared me".

2 upvotesmrperez821 year ago

I got charged with Attempted Murder, and I didn't even fire the gun, or was close to the guy. I was at home sleeping.

Short version - A guy punches me, I go home with a bloody mouth. Family wants to know what happened. Dad goes to talk to the guy, he gets beat up by the guy that punched me, and his friends. Dad calls his friends, there's a big fight. Fight ends, everyone is asleep. I get woken up by the police the next morning. Two people said it was me, I'm taken to the police station. And that's when I find out the guy got shot the next day, and I'm charged with Attempted Murder.

Gotta love America.

Oh! I went to trial, and got found guilty. I'm not locked up cause of my sister. If it wasn't for her, I would be locked up for a crime I did not commit.

Once again. Gotta love America.

4 upvotesredhawkes1 year ago

Yea I know the deal. I used to live in NYC for about 2 years students exchange.

Fucked plenty of hoes there, but haven't witnessed anything similar to the things you've mentioned.

Funny thing is that I know guys who were fucked up by chicks in my country by simply pulling the ASD card on them, then the poor bloops have to marry those hoes lmao.

Anyways, keep us updated.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Wait wtf? I thought it was innocent until proven guilty in the US? How does that even work?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I was accused of stealing money for a company I worked for. The facts were clear, I could not have stolen it, it was impossible.

What happened? I got booked and got a court date. Tons of police interviews. I had to get an attorney and ended up being found not guilty.

This was after wasting countless hours at the police station, the attorneys office, court. I lost friends, my job(of course) and an arrest record that does not go away even though I was not charged. Also fees on top of all of this.

You might say I didn't go to jail, but I still paid for a crime, I did not commit.

1 upvotesTheguygotgame7771 year ago

That's fucking bullshit. They have DNA tests or some shit that say when you last had sex! Did no one check him?

54 upvotesswampbastard691 year ago

because your country hasn't been transformed into a faggotized litigious, feminized, safe space. We have been too rich and too safe for too long.

15 upvotesredhawkes1 year ago

Believe me dude, shit is going that way pretty fast where I live. Feminist movements, liberal faggot government, westernized millennials etc.

41 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev1 year ago

^ This.

Hard men make good times, good times make soft men, soft men make tough times, tough times make hard men.

2 upvotesdestraht1 year ago

The largest Starbucks in my small town Northern California has been transformed into young millennial fairy faggot central. Literally 3/3 "men" working there yesterday are running around with gay lisps, all the wrist action, singing tones, prancing, the works. Then since its fag central others go there to hang out. I really don't care about people being homosexual (and have known many as friends and acquaintances ) but this is extremely over-the-top as someone (owner, manager I guess) has been fudge packing these guys in there. At this point no normalish guy would want to work there. Its horrifying behavior. I'm definitely not going there anymore even though there isn't quite anything else that fits that purpose in that time slot.

[edit] I figured out an easy solution. I just sit outside by myself and that way I don't have to look at them.

1 upvotesWhiteGhosts1 year ago

the faggotry is hard in the west.

1 upvotesblacklightsleaze1 year ago

Me too. I never seen any kind of fight in the gyms here.

1 upvotesGlennBeckAmerica1 year ago

I'm from America. It's like reading the newspaper.

44 upvotesRealisticKiwi1 year ago

Yeah I am from Eastern Eu as well and cannot comprehend articles like this. But these are all over of reddit. Either I am living in a completely different world in my head or is Western world is that fucked up?

31 upvotesomega_fat1 year ago

The time of Western world is over, it's rot and decay from now on, and other, better states and cultures will take the lead. Like it's always been.

9 upvotesjuliusstreicher1 year ago

I could perhaps agree, but, what other nations are leaders currently?

11 upvotesThynome1 year ago

You'd be surprised about how much southeast asia is on the rise. And it's justified. Spent 4 months in korea and had an absolute blast of a time.

6 upvotesImpressiveDig1 year ago

The best thing about SE Asia is that they have struck the right balance in adopting western culture but also sticking to their asian roots. I'm from Singapore and I like the progressive way of thinking there. Take the best from both cultures.

2 upvoteskrawm1 year ago

i bet it is nice, i would enjoy living in a place that has a rich cultural history but a progressive view on life.

12 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

It’s pretty incredible how quickly it’s gone too hell over here. I’m on my late 20s and I feel that this country is barely recognizable even from when I was in high school.

23 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev1 year ago

So I'm 50. When I was in HS, the old WWII guys would go on about how "this used to be a free country. Now it's going to Hell in gasoline underpants!"

Back then, they sounded crazy. Today, they sound like fucking PROPHETS.

1 upvotesEntropy-71 year ago
  1. Been living in China for 5 years.
1 upvotesAnarchymeansihateyou1 year ago

These stories are all made up. You're not living in a different world, the people who claim this bullshit are. Look at OP's history, he's a constant victim and drama queen. This sub is garbage for garbage people.

2 upvotesRealisticKiwi1 year ago

Thanks for different perspective. May I ask which country do you live?

21 upvotesfromhairtohair1 year ago

Thus right here! Sometimes Im really happy im living in eastern eu...

13 upvotesSuwinTzi1 year ago

emotions over reason. "Safe space".

4 upvotesAwkward_Hippo1 year ago

In australia that egg chick would get laughed out of the gym and called a chubby cunt.

6 upvotesCode3LI1 year ago

In America being offended is a top offense and everyone should bow down to your needs and feelings.

2 upvotesaltlegend1 year ago

Haha in Poland woman slaps herself for being annoying. Small brained American women.

1 upvotesavocadowithsalt1231 year ago

Where we come from, an considering guys in our gyms, she would easily get slapped or at least yelled at. Situation where front desk clerk gets the same treatment is not unbelieveable.

1 upvotesred_matrix1 year ago

Being an Eastern European my head cannot comprehend it.

America is nothing like what you see in the movies...Hollywood and the the media have created the biggest lie, even most Americans believe (or want to).

1 upvotesnetherlanddwarf1 year ago

Unfortunately in America, stressful conflicts happen like this all the time. People love to confront and western women are out of control. It's terrible out here.

1 upvotesUsefulPsychology1 year ago

Thats fucked up, god thanks for Western Europe

1 upvotesRedPilledGodEmperor1 year ago

I'm from the USA and I have never heard of something like this happening. Freaking ridiculous.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Being a human being my head cannot comprehend it.

1 upvoteschrisname1 year ago

I'm from the UK and can't imagine this happening either. Only in America! as they say.

1 upvotesHomeFreeNomad1 year ago

Another European here laughing his ass off at this nonsense.

838 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I'm waiting for a follow up

303 upvotesThynome1 year ago

Me too. Don't leave us hanging /u/nraborderpatroltrump

Edit: Why does this have over 100 upvotes

53 upvotesmadrealworld1 year ago

commenting just to remind myself to check back in a few days cuz i want a follow up

9 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev1 year ago

Edit: Why does this have over 100 upvotes

Inquiring minds want to know. /lulz

27 upvotesnitefuzz1 year ago

Same here. Cannot fucking believe this actually happened. Kind of praying it's a troll from OP, but we'll see.

RemindMe! 2 days "Plz be a troll"

27 upvotesmateusoassis1 year ago

RemindMe! 24 hour "ooooo boyo"

10 upvotesFestiveSlaad1 year ago

Joining the remind me train

7 upvotesShameFairy1 year ago

RemindMe! 2 days

Choo choo

2 upvotesWillMeatLover1 year ago

how does this work?

RemindMe! 24 hour

1 upvotesShameFairy1 year ago

You’ll get a PM explaining I hope?

1 upvotesWillMeatLover1 year ago

Yeah I figured it out just by mimicking.

1 upvotesaliteralfuckingdick1 year ago

RemindMe! 2 days

This better be juicy

3 upvotesSaintSamael6661 year ago

TL;DR Some girl ruins my leg day at the gym for no good reason. Gets me kicked from the gym ultimately. While simultaneously emasculating her boyfriend. There's a price to pay for all of this.

Amen waiting for a follow up.

9 upvoteswillowhawk1 year ago

Waiting for the juicy resolution

3 upvotesI_HATE_GOLD_1 year ago

I just woke up and am in rage mode now. Fuck that bitch and that desk person. Nobody fucks with leg day

2 upvotesaoddead1 year ago

Same here. Hope he gets some justice.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

might as well join the follow up train here

1 upvotesGearPhreak1 year ago

!RemindMe 24 hour "lifting story"

2 upvotesDandBPrime1 year ago

!RemindMe 24 hour "lifting story"

1 upvotesNofapFrance1 year ago

commenting to remind myself too.

248 upvotesEzaar1 year ago

That’s fucked up.

At least she gave you an excuse to not do legs. Dom Mazzetti would be proud.

That dude she complained too needs to re-evaluate his problem solving technique. Maybe something to bring up to the owner as well.

111 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

It really is fucked up man. It seems evil to disrupt someone's health and fitness. Hobby too. I've only had girlfriends try and do this shit, never someone I haven't even met.

Broscience all day, btw

34 upvotesGearski1 year ago

Lol I don't think I'd even say some shit like that to someone who WAS lifting with shitty form, you never know how these people will react + it isn't my problem. I grabbed a bar a guy was squatting and pushed it back onto the rack once because he was wobbling all over the place with no collars on and his plates were sliding off, he blew up on me for ruining his workout and stormed out of the gym, never bothered since.

16 upvotesLordarshyn1 year ago

I'll give someone a quick tip on form if they're doing something really bad, but that's it. A quick "hey try keeping your heels planted, you're leaning in your toes" and leave it there. They can take or leave the advice.

2 upvotesPie_0211 year ago

Please give an update on this situation as it progresses.

144 upvotesswordshab1 year ago

Go to a different gym. Small ones are better than the corporate ones.

86 upvotesAnti_MttR1 year ago

I agree, think dodge ball. I prefer the smaller Vince Vaughan type gym where you know everyone is there for one reason, to better their health. These Ben Stiller globe gym type places are more or less a meat market or an instagram background for gym bros/hoes.

37 upvoteshalfback9101 year ago

"Here at Globo Gym, we're better than you!"

6 upvotesUrbanEngineer1 year ago

It's true tho... haha. Cheaper tends to be better. It's hard to find a simple gym with less free weights than isolation machines anymore though.

6 upvoteshalfback9101 year ago

I think I know why the move towards the machines is happening. Idiot proof. The weight machines are designed to be pretty much impossible to hurt yourself with.

7 upvotesUrbanEngineer1 year ago

Yep, people definitely have tried, and probably succeeded at suing small gyms for lifting related injuries.

Baby boomers really raised some entitled children.

4 upvoteshalfback9101 year ago

That and you don't want people to know you as the gym some guy died at because he didn't bail out when he should have.

Realistically, barbells are the only potentially deadly thing in a gym unless you are engaging in behavior that would be unsafe anywhere like throwing heavy objects at people. Which, unfortunately, I've seen at my gym.

"I tossed it underhand, bro, chill out." It being, you know, a ten pound iron plate. Some people are just dumb.

1 upvotesjb_trp1 year ago

Agreed. I used to go to a big corporate gym, but it was such a ratrace shit show. You'd have the tanned old timer gorillas who had massive beer bellies in spaghetti strap muscle shirts and a bunch of yoga pants chicks resting on the machines, and I'd always cut my workouts short because it was so packed.

Now? I go to a gym that is in an old warehouse. It has a ton of free weights, I walk down a sketchy alley and swipe my key card and have 24/7/365 access. Most of the time there's only one or two other men, occasionally a girl, and there's plenty of room to do all the lifts and I don't have to wait for anything. A lot of times, I'm the only one there. All I have to do is flip off the lights when I leave.

1 upvotesrorrr1 year ago

And do a charge back on your credit card for the current gym. Fuck them. You don't treat your long term customers like that.

129 upvotesMrVodnik1 year ago

Don't let her nor the front desk guy get away with this. Shit like that is what's wrong with the world when it comes to day-to-day life. I hate it, and it is way to common.

Keep us updated!

48 upvotesUltraKiwi1 year ago

One of the more frustrating things to come across is when someone complains to you to HR or a manager, and that manager will instantly take everything that person says at face value and will just not even attempt to get the other side of the story. In their mind's the are just thinking "Durr... that person complained first so they must be right." So frustrating to deal with that kind of mindset.

6 upvotesPacotheBold1 year ago

First one to call the cops is in the right....

123 upvotesshinolas1 year ago

So weird.

Who thinks they have the right to tell you how to lift unless you’re actually being reckless. Say like, one armed heavy power cleans in between crowded benches in the free weight area. But in the squat rack? The only person in danger is yourself.

Seems like she had some sort of ulterior motive, what that was is puzzling. Maybe it was raw attraction that was clearly unattainable for a ham planet like herself that manifested itself as lashing out and abuse of female power?

100 upvotesomega_fat1 year ago

Not weird at all. She's a pathetic loser with an axe to grind. Always used to getting her way. And when someone doesn't comply with her wishes she goes full Trigglypuff.

63 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

That's the thing. It was a power rack. There's absolutely no way it could injure anyone. The bar cannot travel outside of the cage.

21 upvoteslikely_wrong1 year ago

My guess is you were much stronger than her boyfriend and she didn't want to see that

31 upvotesVasiliyZaitzev1 year ago

Or she wants the D, but knows she ain't getting it because: fat pig.

17 upvotesMattyAnon1 year ago

Who thinks they have the right to tell you how to lift unless you’re actually being reckles

That's not what is going on. She's been brought up on "women are the equal of men" and is demanding everyone else lift less (OP as well as her BF) so that this is true. Lack of complying leads to manufactured complaints.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

The horrifying dystopia.... equality of outcome chops the powerful off at the knees.... or balls, I suppose.

52 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Apologies for the tangent, but being a bigger dude myself (husky, rugby-build etc.), I find I attract a lot of unwanted and unwarranted attention from fat chicks wherever I go, but especially the gym... it is as if fat broads feel a gross sense of entitlement to my attention (something about Mike & Molly, idk). I have combated this by camouflaging myself as a fucking clown at the gym. I wear neon socks, feminine colours and ill-fitted attire (often with offensive slogans emblazoned on them). It is working and I largely get left alone now.

26 upvotesPMmeYOURrareCONTENT1 year ago

I have combated this by camouflaging myself as a fucking clown at the gym. I wear neon socks, feminine colours and ill-fitted attire (often with offensive slogans emblazoned on them). It is working and I largely get left alone now.

That made me laugh. Good idea and execution.

10 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Lol the things we do for gains...

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

As a swole black dude, I see a lot of ass flaunting from thick white girls in yoga pants but... I'm not exactly... Complaining. Yeah. 😉🤗

53 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Update:

Spoke with the gym owner, he's not firing his manager(front desk guy) he was misinformed and was only protecting the business. However, he will be kicking the couple from the gym. He says that not only did she disturb a member and create drama... He doesn't want to see couple's arguing in the gym. He will also be creating guidelines for his staff to handle these situations.

This is a local gym, not a planet fitness. The owner says he has gotten way more bizarre complaints than this. Locker room weirdos take the lead on these.

A lot of advice and what to do in this situation. The best thing you can do is, remain polite and friendly. Comply. Do state your side of the story, but there's no need for harsh wording or becoming aggressive. Becoming angry and upset leads to you making emotionally based decisions and saying/doing things you cannot take back. Last thing you want is, having the police show up and causing a scene.

I live in Tuscon AZ and unfortunately have to deal with cunty women like this all the time. I swear, they are the biggest cunts I have ever seen. Took my little niece for a round of mini golf, we're shooting a hole maybe on our third swing... A group of adult women just started shooting the hole without regard of our existence. We ended just sidelining and reshooting the hole and letting them go ahead.

A lot of lucky posters here today. I'm really surprised a lot of you guys on here don't have to deal with asshole people on a daily basis. Must just be where I live.

13 upvotesPLAY_MY_MEAT1 year ago

will the front desk guy apologize to you?

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

He did actually apologize. He was only trying to avoid confrontation.

8 upvotes__The_New_Guy1 year ago

I'd be expecting an apology from the front desk guy.

5 upvotesSavingMasculinity1 year ago

I dated a girl from Tuscon in college. Worst cunt ever.

Maybe there's something in the air there. Even Family Guy made a joke about it.

10 upvotesSpaceDog7771 year ago

I'm kind of glad the dude isn't getting fired, a good telling off from the owner should be enough. Good that the ham planet is getting banned, what a cunt!

1 upvotesSKRedPill1 year ago

Hmm, thank heavens the gym owner is experienced enough to know the truth.

I guess it's a red flag from now on if a bitch comes up and tries to meddle in your business.

96 upvotesApexmanRP1 year ago

She was also telling her boyfriend to use less weight - sounds like a case of penis envy to me..

You are being oppressed! We are with you! Swole lives matter!

Keep us updated.

78 upvotesTravzaz1 year ago

This girl sounds like two things to me: 1) Extremely resentful towards others. She clearly isn't living the life she wants to live, so she takes out her frustration on others to increase her internal status counter. She probably got an absolutely massive payout off what she managed to do to you. 2) What Carl Jung would call Animus Possessed. Jung believes that it was possible for people to be possessed by their idealized version of the alternate gender. In this case, she was exhibiting a profound need to control you and her own man (who sounds Anima possessed, possessed by his idealized version of the feminine), was needlessly argumentative with both of you, and ultimately relied on feminine aggression to get what she wants.

44 upvotesshinolas1 year ago

100% she felt great about exerting some control over this guy.

2 upvotesgreenlittleman1 year ago

Obviously. This is what happens when someone of low value can influence someone of much higher value.

19 upvotesJe_suis_throwy1 year ago

From time to time here, i stumble over CG Jung and his description of Archetypes, the Anima, etc. Can you recommend some starter reads to grasp his concepts?

6 upvotesLordarshyn1 year ago

Seconding this request. I've read a lot of articles and such. A good book would be nice.

6 upvotesPsychedelicDentist1 year ago

I just finished reading The Essential Jung: Selected Writings by Anothony Storr who was an psychiatrist that studied in Oxford.

I believe Carl Jung wrote up until a few weeks from his death, which was in his 80s, therefore the volume of his work out there is immense. Anthony Storr provides a fantastic background to some of Jung's most intriguing pieces of work - highly recommend

2 upvotesgreatamericancities1 year ago

Jordan Peterson has some good videos (YouTube) about Jung and Archetypes. If you like those, tackle his book, "Maps of Meaning".

1 upvotesthatfigures_life1 year ago

Nice psychology reference. Could be her 'shadow' defined as Carl Jung.

172 upvotesMorphs_1 year ago

Man this is the US at its worst. Only listening to the fat entitled woman, threatening to call the police the second you open your mouth. This shit would never happen here.

59 upvotesDatShitRightDere1 year ago

Aussie here, guarantee she would have been told "Fuck off Sharon" and gone about your day.

32 upvotesGearski1 year ago

Depends where you lift dude, some of our gym's are planet fitness level cucked. I'd get ''noise complaints'' whenever I deadlift, the staff used to constantly harass me about it until I told them one more complaint about my 100% normal deadlifts (I'm not screaming in the rack or anything, just the usual bar banging sound) and I'd find a new place, haven't bothered me since.

29 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Have a friend that unfortunately due to where he lives had to switch to a cuck level gym. He had to give up deadlifts because of the noise complaints. He supplements it with RDLs and looks like he's in that movie A Quiet Place when setting the weight down.

65 upvotesLordarshyn1 year ago

We joke and do fake lunk alarms at our gym...a lot of those guys are DLing over 500 pounds, and some put flex bands over the bar, too.

It's not a quiet gym.

I heard someone complain once, and the owner said "we're primarily a body building gym. Planet fitness is down the street if you don't like it ."

I'll stay going to this gym as long as I live near by.

31 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I would join this gym in a heartbeat.

27 upvoteshalfback9101 year ago

The problem is, these gyms usually cost a shit-ton more.

What's nice about the Planet Fitnesses of the world is that they're cheap BECAUSE 80% of the clients never show up. Hell, I'd be at Planet Fitness if I didn't need LA Fitness's racquetball courts. How the fuck can you argue with ten dollars a month?

1 upvotesaveris11 year ago

Hmm.. do you also drop heavy dumbbells and 45lb plates from 5 feet high with a massive thud too?

'cause you'd have a serious problem with people at our gym the moment you do that.

Slam loaded barbells into the smith machine rack as hard as you can and walk around with your chest puffed out with pride?

You can never lower a 500lb+ barbell without a bang but you need to be aware how fucking loud that is.

People like that get dirty looks from big jacked guys too who often lift way more than you.

You know it really messes with other people's concentration, right?

"I don't give a flying fuck!" attitude doesn't always fly, my man. Learn to adjust.

1 upvotesLordarshyn1 year ago

Yeah bro I grunt and yell when I'm curling 20 pounds and I walk around beating my chest making ape noises to show others how alpha I am

1 upvotesBcano1 year ago

Mexican here , same just name her maria

4 upvotesjuliusstreicher1 year ago

Where you from? Sounds like my kind of place.

2 upvotesMorphs_1 year ago

I live in the Netherlands. The culture is more down to earth. Women haven't gone fully crazy in the feminism here, although some of the SJW crap is catching on here.

24 upvotesChaosender691 year ago

Hope its not planet fitness

17 upvoteskhmaixover1 year ago

I heard they don't even have squat racks

7 upvotescaptainroyal1 year ago

They do have 1 single leg* press machine though.

Edit: Though keg press would work too.

8 upvotesRinkyInky1 year ago

Keg press to train for those nights at the bar.

3 upvoteshot_rats_1 year ago

I was scrolling down hoping it was a Planet Shitness and OP just didn't know. This greatly disappoints me, and I'm glad my own local gym owned by a powerlifter would never in a million years let this happen.

126 upvotesrhetnor1 year ago

Bet she went home and frigged herself off fantasising about you fucking her.

1 upvotesGod_marxus_VI1 year ago

That's how it sounds to me dude

90 upvotesJerryLawlerPigFace1 year ago

Can confirm that this is 100% grounds for the front desk guy getting axed as well as this girl getting booted. If you have a sensible gym owner he’ll do the right thing. Don’t be surprised f he doesn’t. We all know how the feminine is favored in society today, and he’ll do whatever makes the best business sense to him. Hopefully you go to a somewhat medium chain size gym where the gym owner knows you for your 5 year long tenure.

102 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

It's a local gym, gym owner used to powerlift and does know me. I'm hoping the talk goes well.

27 upvotesJerryLawlerPigFace1 year ago

That’s great news. That’s a big plus in your favor. He’ll most likely agree that this bitch is whacked. Either way, he has to look at it like this: either lose this psycho bitch who is not a regular member (he is going to lose her anyway because she’ll most likely quit), or, lose a tenured gym member (you). A smart gym owner would want people like you in their facility, not these shit starters. It’s absolutely absurd and mind boggling that this random lady, who you don’t know, feels it’s her personal duty to tell you in an aggressive and unfriendly manner that your form isn’t “correct”. That’s unwritten gym etiquette 101.

12 upvotesmrHappyPotatoe1 year ago

From easternbeurope. Here in gyms etiqutte its written in gym membership! Only certifiedntrainers can give advice.

1 upvotesfridgefucker121 year ago

I really want to know the end of this story. Can you pls update when this wraps up with a new post?

36 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

It's not like having fat girls around is good for a gyms image.

I'm not trying to be shallow here but if I don't see people in shape at a gym I know I'm at the wrong gym.

See planet fitness.

44 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Planet Fitness doesn't want people in their gyms. It's not set-up for having a large amount of members. They make the price super cheap because most people are lazy and don't cancel small subscriptions. It's a genius money grab really.

20 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

Not going to lie as much as I hate their business model it works. Their stock keeps going up.

18 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Tootsie rolls and Papa John's pizza for all.

10 upvotescsch651 year ago

Planet Fitness...where they don't judge you. Unless you are all yucky muscly and sweaty. Gah

6 upvoteshalfback9101 year ago

This is correct. If all their members went to the gym once per week, they'd be fucked.

1 upvotesSpecialistParticular1 year ago

Maybe my PF is always dead, but so much the better for me. Don't have to wait for anything.

2 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

Idk wtf planet fitness gets a bad rep here, I go to that gym and was going 5x a week during winter. At my gym there’s plenty of hot girls, and mostly out of shape dudes. It gives me more attention since I’m young and athletic looking.

1 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

You kind of answer your own question.

Weak out of shape guys. Yeah it makes you stand out but being in the company weak man isn't what this sub reddit is about.

It's the exact opposite, funding strong men and surrounding yourself with positive influences.

1 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

Nah I’m Gucci bro. I’ve grown around strong men and friends my whole life. I’ll capitalize on going to a cheap gym where I don’t have to worry about dumb ass meat heads staring me down and I save money too. I’m a simple man, I don’t need a fancy gym.

1 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

I get it dude. I'm not hating on you I'm just kind of explaining why this sub doesn't like planet fitness.

I work out a lot at my local park work station. You don't need to drop big money to workout.

2 upvotesThePhilaDood1 year ago

Yeah I totally disagree with this.

Planet fitness is different and they don't consider themselves a gym as much as a fitness center.

You're being extremely shallow as the entire point of a gym is to better yourself; get into shape.

7 upvotesCopidosoma1 year ago

yeah. Front guy could have just taken 5 minutes out of his extremely busy ( /s ) day and watched to see if you were actually lifting beyond your capability. After he confirmed you weren't he could have told her to f*** off ( also /s unfortunately).

62 upvotesAwes0meApple1 year ago

holy shit I would have cancelled my membership right at the front desk. good luck tomorrow, hopefully these actions have consequences for both the woman and the front desk guy.

41 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I had a similar experience once, just different setting. It was at a supermarket. Bought a coffee machine and on the parking lot I noticed that the lid was missing. So I went back to the store and informed the cashier about it, he called his manager and they just told me to grab a new one. And just come right up to the counter no need to wait in line he just need to scan it quick so the alarm don’t go off. So I head to the electronic section and grab the coffee machine. When I went back to the line it was huge and I just went to the front ( as the manager has Instructed me to do). This loud women begins with the “ excuse me get back in the line etc”. I just glance at her and ignore here, and then she turns to her husband to say something and he awkwardly and annoyed try to avoid talking and she kinda then turns to me and tries to poke my shoulder for attention but I just complete ignore here. She then tells the cashier that I jump the line and he told her that he told me to do so because he just needed to scan the machine so the alarm don’t go off. Still with a given reason she still was nagging not getting her way. This happen to me way before my own unplugging. I did have my beta ways dealing with relationships back then, but one thing I knew was never acknowledge loud women in a public setting. That just drives them more mad. Think if you just had blasted that music in your headphones, and just got into beast mode and ignored her presence you might had a different outcome. Or perhaps not.

29 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

In a public setting like a gym, I only acknowledged her out of curious behaviour. You never know if she was trying to get your attention because her boyfriend dropped a weight on himself and is dying. More of a liability thing I worry about.

68 upvotesLayback1 year ago

Wtf. Guy at the front desk was a huge faggot. Should be fired for that

78 upvotesbtrpb1 year ago

Am I the only one with the balls to say this signs like a highly exaggerated or maybe even made up story straight out of the school yard?

9 upvotesdmanisclutch1 year ago

Yeah I’m with you, this guy just needs some karma and wanted to come here to cry wolf

1 upvotesvkrish11 year ago

Victim mentality is strong. If you've been lifting for a while, you should know the staff by now,l that was my first thought. Went through post history.

7 upvoteswanderer7791 year ago

Yeah I'd bet dollars to donuts this didn't happen

6 upvotestemerarious1 year ago

It’s total bullshit.

Elsewhere in this thread, OP talks about a friend who sat in jail for 2 months for the rape of a girl he never had sex with. He has also seen multiple guys get fired because a girl said he made them uncomfortable.

OP is full of shit.

1 upvoteswhuttupfoo1 year ago

This type of shit is not that uncommon. I've had one friend in the past month get into a similar gym situation with a fat SJW like OP, and also another one got falsely accused of rape.

1 upvotestemerarious1 year ago

I’ve had a friend get accused of rape too, but they actually had sex. The gym story just reeks of bullshit, especially with how the employee handled it.

25 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

Yes and no...

Visit a planet fitness in a smaller town and the staff themselves will come over and tell you to stop showing off.

13 upvotesbtrpb1 year ago

Live in the UK so can't say I've experienced those gyms. All sounds very odd.

7 upvotesDarkone061 year ago

Comedy central did a piece on it. All this shit is real at all their locations.

https://youtu.be/SbK3wWpWNto

7 upvotesbtrpb1 year ago

I watched. Sounds like Planet Fitness is a no go for people that are actually fit...

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Yep. I was in a Canadian chain gym, like a planet fitness, deadlifting only 315. Staff were admonishing me for "show boating"

5 upvoteskcxvi1 year ago

I think most the stories on here are exaggerated or made up. Most of these stories are subtle brags.

8 upvotesSovereignSoul761 year ago

There are 265K people in this sub. The chances of something like this happening is actually perfectly reasonable.

26 upvotes9gagGod1 year ago

If the gym has cameras or anything you've already won. As a regular at that gym for 5 years you could easily get people to vouch for you as well but seriously, fuck that bitch.

7 upvotesSovereignSoul761 year ago

I can't imagine a gym not having cameras in the free weight section in this day and age, for liability reasons...

47 upvotesI_STOMP_YOU1 year ago

Sub is going downhill. Fake ass post like this getting votes

14 upvotesThree_Finger_Brown1 year ago

Seriously, this reads like a 12 year old wrote it "and when mom gets home Im going to have her kick your ass..."

Why bother going after the front desk guy or girl? (if this even happened)

Just get a refund of your gym membership or put a stop on your credit card and let them fight it out and find a new gym. Simple as that. I guess if this does ever "happen" again, you should report her behavior to the front desk before she has the chance to report you. Or start wearing a gopro at all times to record all the awesome encounters you seem to have...

1 upvotesSpecialistParticular1 year ago

If it happened then the desk guy absolutely deserves to be fired. "I'm kicking you out because some fat chick didn't like the amount of weight you were lifting"...?

24 upvotesCypher2111 year ago

Yeah this is complete bs. Don't believe a word of it.

4 upvotesfridgefucker121 year ago

How are you sure it's fake?

3 upvotesDo-it-for-you1 year ago

Story doesn’t make sense, easiest thing to point out is the fact the front desk guy started talking about how OP should lower the weights he doing first, waited for OP’s reply, THEN the front desk guy explained how he threatened and harassed the woman so he needs to be kicked out.

If he needed to be kicked out for harrassment, then his weights being too heavy wouldn’t even pop up, nevermind being asked to lower the weights before being asked to leave.

“You need to control your weights”
“I am controlling my weights”
“Ooh and you threatened a member so please leave”.

A normal conversation would go straight to...
“I’ve been told you harassed this women?”

19 upvotesJe_suis_throwy1 year ago

You see, the problem was that you were lifting a weight that was probably far below her bodyweight and thus you disqualified yourself to this landwhale as mate. /S

Some SJW cunts just want to stir shit up to get that feeling of control and their Ego boosts.

As all the others said, speak to the owner and get him to review the tapes. Shit stirrers aren't satisfied with doing that once, their egos need constant assurance "that they are in control". I guarantee you, your incident wasn't the only one. In the end, the owner wants proper clients in his gym, not drama. I'm sure if your connection is good enough you can get her expelled for the false allegiation.

1 upvotesnraborderpatroltrump1 year ago

There's a price to pay for this evil behaviour. There has to be.

8 upvotesJe_suis_throwy1 year ago

Yes, It's an absolutely infuriating situation.

It will take some time, but the Payback will come. You need to be patient, complying and calm when you talk to the owner. Also there might be something in her false allegation.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

There is its called the Type 2 diabetes she probably already has

2 upvotesDesthr01 year ago

I would up the ante by being prepared before you talk to the gym owner. Get cancellation documents ready, new gym membership docs ready, and even get some of the regulars to hop on board. That way, if, in the slightest chance, the owner is special, the financial impact can be immediately realized.

And, unfortunately, the price to pay is frequently nothing. Justice must be exacted by those who have been offended against in these circumstances, almost always.

19 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I just can't believe this is true, I'm sorry.

1 upvotesredd_reality1 year ago

I can't believe op didn't man the fuck up and end the hamplanet's tirade before it ruined his day and he had to write a trp post about it to feel like a man.

Actual proof lifting alone doesn't make you a man or reinforce your self respect.

19 upvotesmelungeonmuscle1 year ago

Lol idk but this sounds like some details being left out. My instincts tell me you're full of shit OP.

2 upvotesrmtusr1 year ago

Yeah, sounds like some 4chan story of something... prob bs

15 upvotesredpillbanana1 year ago

The only relevant question: did you smash?

You had me laughing at "egg mode", that's a perfect description. Women who have that Tweedledum build are so unappealing.

Bill Burr explains perfectly why women like this are such busybodies: Why women are Assholes

10 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Wouldsmash for world peace. nothing else.

3 upvotesUnrealenting1 year ago

Dude don't EVER react. You should have ignored her and immediately told the front desk you were being harassed. As a man you're assumed to be the assailant in any interaction with a woman and she can lie without anyone questioning a word she says. If a woman is upset immediately remove yourself from the situation and call for help.

I once had a girl injure herself and then try to get me arrested because I told her whiny ass to shut the fuck up and wash the dishes she left in my sink for 5 days. If I didn't get it on video I'd be in prison right now. Videotape, audio record, and always have an eye-witness. We no longer live in a rational society of due process.

2 upvotesMajestq1 year ago

This comment literally made me spit out my coffee in laugther. Have an upvote. Fuckin LOLZ

11 upvotesturn20left1 year ago

Which Planet Fitness do you lift at?

6 upvotesZech4riah1 year ago

"Can happen only in US?"

So hard to believe this actually happening :D

17 upvotesrmtusr1 year ago

This reads like some fake bullshit. I've seen some shit go down at the gym. Impossibly bad form, slamming weights, using machines backward/wrong, and I've never seen any action taken by staff of members.

28 upvotesaccidentalfritata1 year ago

You guys are the male tumbrinas, is everyone clapping?

9 upvotescolovick1 year ago

It's unlikely but not impossible. Gyms don't stay open letting toxic people stay there. This might just be a mix of low pay employees not wanting to deal with shit and a genuinely terrible person needing banned from the location. The big thing is just not getting invested in it and realizing that at the very least someone making this kind of post not asking for advice should really have waited a day to post the results so something if value could be gained from the story

3 upvotesbinrobinro1 year ago

I hope you give us a follow-up after you talk to the gym owner.

4 upvotesSlitoreye1 year ago

I mean you made this up right lol? I can't even begin to comprehend how this happened. I'm infuriated just thinking about this.

4 upvotesTRPDigesting1 year ago

How does this have as many upvotes as it does? This reads like rage-porn.

I agree women at the gym can be oversensitive and moronic, but this is unbelievably outlandish.

In the event that this is actually true, I suggest you find a different gym. Clearly the one you're at is attracting a special pedigree of idiot.

4 upvotesCapitalMM1 year ago

Next time punch her in the face. You would have same end result but feel awesome.

8 upvotesPutins_Orange_Cock1 year ago

This guy is an obvious troll and this is made up.

10 upvotesColt42O1 year ago

I don't believe this story. Why would a random whale care about your safety? Why not tell the front guy to pound dirt and wait for the cops and tell them to watch the cameras? If this is real and you let them kick you out you're a bitch

3 upvotesJust_Another_Wookie1 year ago

It's still trespassing once you've been asked to leave and refuse, regardless of what the cameras show (and the gym has no obligation to share its surveillance video with the police, anyhow).

5 upvotesgreyseal4941 year ago

don't believe a word of it

6 upvotesAJRey1 year ago

This is the dumbest shit I've ever read

3 upvotesGoblinsStoleMyHouse1 year ago

I've been going to the gym for about 3 years now. I've never seen anything like this.

3 upvotesTeleclast1 year ago

You’re an idiot. First you don’t leave on your own you ask for his manager or the owner or their number. This is just an issue waiting to happen that they do not want public. They should have reviewed the taps if there were any, and at he least this should never have gone with you being kicked and especially not a threat to call the police. This is enough for him to be written up or fired easily and putting the gym in a bad position as he is representing them with this.

3 upvotesmenial_optimist1 year ago

I refuse to believe this is all there is to the story.

3 upvotesAuntieXhrist1 year ago

The Chubby Bitch probably fingers herself while thinking about you. A lot of sweet overweight girls, not her—full of self-loathing with chubby-hag BF

3 upvotesThunderfin1 year ago

There's a price to pay for all of this.

Lol, made me laugh. Innocent until proven guilty seems to just be thrown out of the window these days.

But yeah, fuck her (not literally). Sounds like an unqualified total creep. If nothing's done I'd find a different gym; I definitely wouldn't be a patron of gym with those types of toxic folks.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Why would you go back to this gym?

I'm a law student, so that threat to call the police or her actions I would have laughed my ass off and threatened a very real suit to the gym and that woman for tortious liability, causing me annoyance. Don't let her, or the gym, get away with their actions.

6 upvotesHeiser_1 year ago

What the fuck? That women should get a mental checkup ASAP. Absolutely pathetic

5 upvotespbgswd1 year ago

what a psycho cow. Damn straight talk to the boss. Or you walk with your membership.

2 upvotesLkeacentipede1 year ago

Great example of how being calm can give you the upper hand, or at least no being can only put you in a worse position.Thanks for sharing op, waiting the follow up

2 upvotesLkeacentipede1 year ago

Also, seing you've been powerlifting for 9 years, I'm curious what the weight was

7 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

395lbs was my working sets.

3 upvotesLkeacentipede1 year ago

Volume work with almost 4 plates is strong af

1 upvotesAuntieXhrist1 year ago

395 lb is ok if it’s 2-1/2 times your body weight.

  1. What weight class?
  2. Did USPA rules apply or ‘gym-Bunny world record’ rules?
  3. If sanctioned meet, what was your total weight with Squat and Deadlift?
  4. Are your arms bigger than your legs or as they say in competitive powerlifting, Popeye Arms over Col . Sanders’ legs.
2 upvotesdaniellederek1 year ago

Vote with your wallet. I'd do the manager the courtesy of a visit but if he doesn't apologize and waive fees for a couple months I'd tell him I'd be doing a charge back on the visa card for not receiving services paid for.

You did pay with credit card right? Always pay for anything intangible or that has warranty with a card. It's the only recourse you get in a lot of situations.

2 upvotesbadgerninjacow1 year ago

What I don’t get is: why bother? What was her beef with you?

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I don't know. I can't figure it out. It's had me up all night thinking.

2 upvotesPanderjitSingh1 year ago

Some people just like to tell others what to do. School prefect/hall monitor type. Low level totalitarian.

4 upvotesJDRoedell1 year ago

Can’t have a man improving himself in today’s world. How else would the harpies maintain their dominance over weak men?

2 upvotesbigtom41 year ago

What city are you in? I’m guessing Midwest

2 upvotesrobinremix20001 year ago

First of all, she shouldn't be need to be thanked for going to the gym, she should go because she should want to better herself. Second, her boyfriend needs to man up and learn to tell her no. Lastly, the front desk guy shouldn't convict OP without evidence. It should always be innocent until proven guilty, not the other way around. That guy needs to be fired.

2 upvotesMydogisbently1 year ago

I just skip legs and do chest 7 days straight!

2 upvotesCasd121 year ago

Do you workout at Planet Fitness or what?

2 upvotesmattizie1 year ago

If you know the owner of the gym, you should have told the front desk guy to call him then and there. Highly likely the cunt would have had second thoughts about telling you off if he thought you were mates with the owner.

Otherwise, should have just ignored him, see if he calls your bluff and actually calls the police... good luck keeping his job after a stunt like that!

2 upvotesKinbaku_enthusiast1 year ago

I think my natural reaction would have been:

  • When a stranger tells me what to do and I know she just clearly wants to start shit, I would tell her to fuck off and leave me alone, go bother someone else.

(People want to start shit with polite people, not with people that bite back)

  • The moment I know someone's manipulating other people's point of view (like the desk clerk), I make sure to immediately counter attack. "Did you see me control them badly or did that girl tell you so? Because she's been trying to start shit with me. I'm not sure why, but she's cursing me, keeps trying to talk to me, I heard her lie to her boyfriend about me.

(Typically I prefer to just talk the truth, but if someone's already proven to be easily lied to without verifying, then it's more effective to play the same dirty game. Lying with certainty sways people that weren't interested in facts enough to check whether what the person said was true).

  • Instead of immediately yielding and going away, I would give him the option in advance: I would prefer to finish my workout and he would prefer me not to talk with his boss and his threat with unfounded allegations. I would do this by first saying what I would do: "I wonder what your boss would think about a 5 year member being harassed with fake stories and threatened to have the police called on. Your videos will show that I'm telling the truth. It will not look good for your performance review to harass longstanding customers. Or you could just let me finish my workout, you check the videos and learn that I'm right anyways and I won't have to tell your boss. Your choice.

Because although you'll probably do well talking to his boss, it's better to just get what you want.

Things like this are like politics. When it's a fight, be willing to fight as dirty as your opponent. Whoever isn't flinging shit is losing. Whoever isn't making deals is losing.

2 upvotesIWasBornASinner1 year ago

well we know youre not running tren lol. get that cunt kicked out and that faggot at the desk fired.

2 upvotesCount_Giggles1 year ago

You handled that like a champ.

2 upvotes66sheets2thewind1 year ago

this is fuckin crazy. update after you talk to the owner. holy shit my brain hurts now

2 upvotesamirican1 year ago

What the hell was her problem

2 upvotespapparella0071 year ago

black knight this bitch and this blue pill gym attendent. The gym is a sacred place and if anyone comes close to taking that away, especially for no good reason all guns should be blazing. Update us on how it all goes

2 upvotesRaughKee1 year ago

A similar thing happened to me in my condo gym years ago. I was benching 1 plate per side, no clamps (I only use when necessary, and I'll determine that). This older out of shape woman older comes over in the middle of my set and tells me I have to put clamps on. It was in the January-February time frame when all the slobs do their yearly pilgrimage to the gym as part of their "new year, new me" bullshit. I just laughed at her and told her to mind her own business. It was satisfying.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Actually, it's much safer to bench press without clamps on. Especially if you don't have a spotter. All you gotta do is dump the weight to one side if you get trapped.

2 upvotesiquitbro1 year ago

No idea how this post gets 1200 likes, are so many dudes stuck in their anger phase? Not sure what the takeaway of this post is supposed to be, all I can hear is some whining about how mean women are.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

This isn't anger. It's about a man being unfairly treated. Other people's mental health and control freak attitudes are harming our way of life. If We do not do something about this injustice and grotesque treatment, it will only become worse.

I've seen in the comments a lot of men here, arguing about power, trying to prove who has more power, deciding who had power, etc Open your eyes people, we are losing that power on a daily basis. It doesn't end here.

2 upvotesLightSkinKen1 year ago

First of all, NONE of this SHIT even sounds real. If it is , I kind of feel bad that you let someone else’s conversation ruin your workout while you had on headphones. You said you even turned the music down to listen to what they were saying. Do you normally take the bait this easy in life? I think you can see the lesson in this.

1 upvotesnzwolfgang1 year ago

This bizarre once in a lifetime thing just happened to someone who posts on the Red Pill reddit?

Seriously did you laugh at her or roll your eyes at her loser boyfriend or ANYTHING to preempt her wacky behaviour? It all seems like too much of a coincidence that this happened to someone who possibly hates women, or at the least doesn’t respect them. Said with respect bro.

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I definitely don't hate women or dont not respect them. I'm just aware that their behavior is very narcissistic and can affect my life negatively. You can't hate or have zero respect for a dog being a dog.

That being said, I did nothing to provoke her approaching me first. The post is exactly as it happened. If you had noticed in the post, I didn't really put down her Boyfriend, just felt sorry for him. I didn't laugh at him or her, I just don't really pick on other people like that in the gym. It's not warranted, 9 years ago I started at the bottom.

2 upvotesthrowaway-aa21 year ago

It all seems like too much of a coincidence that this string of events randomly happened to someone who possibly hates women, or at the least doesn’t respect them.

The fuck does this even mean? So essentially, if someone of the opposite gender does wrong by you, it MUST be because you hate them. Huh?

1 upvotesSovereignSoul761 year ago

The guy is clearly a moron.

1 upvotesekilic9111 year ago

I’m just raging from where I’m sitting just reading this. Shit like this happens to me too and I am usually buffled by them trying to figure out how to react.

1 upvotessourdieselfuel1 year ago

It's not true. It was written in order to make you feel that way.

4 upvotescafeitalia1 year ago

This shit will never happen in the US. No gym will do this shit. None.

6 upvotesfromthecrypt81 year ago

I’m lost for words really. Please do a follow-up. Can’t wait to hear how this plays out. Front desk guy is clearly blue pilled af instantly believing the eggmode bitch over you.

Btw, do you have a theory as to why she felt the need to be this much of a bitch to you? You hadn’t even talked to her at all before she instigated. Some weird form of bitterness that she’s stuck with a simp of a bf and never could land an actual man?

What did she mean when she said you looked «ridiculous» before you started to lift the weights? That you look really fit?

So many questions. Female entitlement is too real.

8 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I think she meant I look ridiculous because of how serious I seem when I come to the gym. I'm the guy that shows up with a huge gym bag, headphones on, and a huge fucking thing of water. I also wear boots with shorts. I really like squatting in boots.

Also I'm super nice honestly. I'm really cool with people working in, will give advice or spot if asked. Lifting is a hobby for me, I really love it and the benefits it offers. I also love seeing people PR. It's exciting.

Why did she target me? I don't know. Some people really just don't want to see others do good.

10 upvotesfromthecrypt81 year ago

I think it was no coincidence her body looked like a hardboiled egg and her hair looked greasy af. Most haters come from a place of deep unhappiness with themselves. Keep up your positivity and dont let this scum get you down.

2 upvotesPurpleSweetz1 year ago

"You can't lift more than me! Take some weight off!"

he complies

Lord pls no

1 upvotesDyskord011 year ago

Hold the gym accountable.

Dont let them push you around, both she and the white knight deserve to face the consequences of of their actions.

The left dont hesitate to slander, disinvite or disemploy anyone right of Chairman Mao so we shouldn't hesitate to crush them.

Forget the false right virtue signaling "we're better than that," as you accept a dignified defeat. Let the land whale go home to her cheeto stained couch and double stuffed pizza bagels, posting fat acceptance porn where the BBW gets the ripped Adonis,on reddit.

We all know she'll quit the gym in two weeks.

MAGA

3 upvotesJerryLawlerPigFace1 year ago

I knew everything I had to know about this bitch when she was described as the type to wear leggings with “pink” on them.

4 upvotesRazkolol1 year ago

I don't think you've kept your calm if he threatened to call the police, if you had you could have easily told him "I've been lifting here longer than you've been working here, i would like to have a chat with the owner, if you are kicking me out w/o investigating the manner this could have serious legal consequences for the company, i suggest you rethink your approach after you've discussed with the owner", if he's still unreasonable get his retard ass fired and file complaints and shit there must be some sort of customer rights law that prohibits this kind of shit.

12 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I think the form was meant for me to legally agree that they were right to kick me out. I refused to sign it.

1 upvotesRazkolol1 year ago

Good, get his ass fired then, file a complaint, the dude called you a liar and threw you out of the gym where you were a member for 5 years and this over some random chick who's been there once or twice? If there are other gyms in your area think about switching and file complaints + shit on them all over the internet, all review sites, fb, etc. I would feel disgusted to continue to go there after that kind of shit. Don't take shit from anyone, especially from companies making profit from your ass, they should be laying out the red carpet for their regular customers not pull this kind of bullshit.

2 upvotesjuliusstreicher1 year ago

He may well have kept his cool while the clerk was an officious prig. I've been in situations equally ludicrous.

5 upvoteschambertlo1 year ago

This is why I neither speak to or acknowledge women at the gym, and I really wish that there was a Men's Only club somewhere so that I wouldn't have to deal with them at all.

1 upvotesJaereth1 year ago

and I really wish that there was a Men's Only club somewhere

Oh God that would be awesome.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Another ridiculous part of the story... the front desk guy “waved you over...?”

Wtf is that. If a gym employee waved me over I would do the same back to him. He would have to come over if he wanted to talk to me. Front desk service employees don’t wave the customer over, the customer waves them over.

2 upvotesCapnRonRico1 year ago

It is extremely difficult being a loan male if a female who has companions decides to target you.

It happened to me a few years ago. I was at this music event and there were a set amount of deck chairs of which I was sitting in one.

She came over initially very polite and started talking to me as if she was interested, I knew what her game was before she even started walking towards me.

And then it happened, she asked if she could have my seat so she could sit with her friends. i politely said not a chance.

She kept badgering me about it and it was really getting on my nerves and after the fourth or so time she was becoming insistent I give her the chair.

At that point, I calmly said to here that she could go and fuck herself & I would give my chair to any other person before I would give it to her & now even if I do not want to sit on it anymore, I am going to sit on it just so she cannot have it.

She stormed off and 10 mins later comes back with security guards saying that I tried to sell her drugs. Security guards did not want to hear my story & I told them the only reason was she wanted the seat.

They didnt care and as I left the venue there were 3 cops waiting for me and the searched my pockets etc.

I explained it to them and they said it doesnt matter you are not allowed back in for 24 hours.

It makes me pretty angry & I would be much more pissed off in your circumstances if you have been going to that gym for a long time because it becomes like a second home and you get to know people really well. I am surprised the front desk sided with her.

It must be either one of those mega gyms with cafes etc or the front desk person is new.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

If this story is true, and no material facts left out, I hope you get what you're going for. F that jealous hippo.

2 upvotesPpppap1 year ago

Upgrade to a more expensive gym... is something that some rich guy told me once.

2 upvotestemerarious1 year ago

This never happened and you’re full of shit.

2 upvotesMwoods3421 year ago

WTF?!? do you lift at planet fitness, wheres the JUSTICE! like innocent until proven guilty? and what a beta male front desk white knight, like what gym bro would get so heated over someone throwing up weight? That boyfriend needs to just toot it and boot it, and.... I cant even type a coherent sentence man, I feel for you, the gym is the last place you should be shamed for aggression and work. A gym without resistance isnt a gym, otherwise how would you get them gains...

1 upvotesHelrade1 year ago

Hard to believe. This gym must be on the west coast.

1 upvotesLordarshyn1 year ago

Stay calm, collected, focused and sharp when you go back. I know you're mad now, but keeping that anger under control and coming off as the calm and collected person will get you further. Also be sure to post an update.

I'd be so fucking pissed if this happened to me.

1 upvotesNandoRods1 year ago

RemindMe! 24 hour "damnson"

1 upvotesratpoison9871 year ago

didn't i read that she offered to suck ur dick but u told her no? Maybe you shoulda told management that she's been sexually harassing you.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I could lie but it wouldn't be just when something was done. I don't want her to be punished for anything but her evil behaviour.

1 upvotesFuton_Rasenshuriken1 year ago

Commenting so I can see the update later on.

1 upvotesRedpillandrew1 year ago

I can't fucking believe it. No words. Please let us know what happens next

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Amazing to see how girls react when you have solid frame

1 upvotesBeachCruisin221 year ago

update asap pls, this story is infuriating

1 upvotesSnazzy_Serval1 year ago

She yells again "Fine, whatever. Lighten the weight you can't lift more than me, I already told you." He complies (what the fuck).

Well she's right of course. Not every guy can squat 300.

1 upvotesabitofhope1 year ago

What. The. Fuck.

That's all I have to say.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

She tried to correct you for the safety of you and everyone else. This got me mad. Complete bullshit. She did it for the safety of her ego. It seems like you were surrounded by little bitches.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Sometimes I catch myself longing for the days of the men's only gym, but even if by some miracle you could actually open one without a legal massacre, anyone who has ever been propositioned in a sauna knows exactly what it would turn into.

1 upvotesyou_do_realize1 year ago

Why did she initially say that you look ridiculous? Is your appearance out of the ordinary in any way?

1 upvotesshahido20171 year ago

You were polite and she was still a bitch ffs, kudos to you for handling the situation calmly. Clearly her bf is submissive for having a fat bitchy GF talk to him and others like that, but that’s none of my business.

1 upvotesjohnyann1 year ago

There should be a rule where if someone is lifting a certain amount of weight, you aren’t allowed to complain unless you can lift it too.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Don't blame women for this, blame your shitty gym

1 upvotesDaumenkino1 year ago

Can't wait for the update. That was ridiculous.

1 upvotesMattyAnon1 year ago

Going tomorrow morning to talk to the gym owner, I am demanding that the front desk guy be fired for punishing me without investigation and threatening to call the police on polite and calm me. I am demanding that she be kicked from the gym for lying and disturbing other gym members. Plus her vulgar and rude behaviour.

Not going to happen. The best you'll get out of this is nothing to happen and not being fired. They'll take the simple way out here and remove your membership if you kick up a fuss.

1 upvotessaiyan1011 year ago

Damn this is a first. Commenting for updates

1 upvotesValarMorghulis901 year ago

I don't know what bullshit gym you go to, but I'd find a new one if this doesn't get squared up. I've been a part of my gym for years now, and I have dealt with bullshit from random people who don't matter. Never, and I mean never, has anyone approached me on form. What happened to you was definitely some twilight zone shit, and should be fought with zeal. I'm expecting an update post.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Latest trend: Womanatees posing as “powerlifters” because they don’t have the discipline to train and eat how they should for fat loss. What they lack in strength they aim to make up for with dirty looks, bogus claims to knowledge, and in the worst case scenario—this type shit.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

It's crazy man. I'm seeing this shit all over IG. My favourite are the half naked women lifting shit amounts of weight with horrible form. You can't say anything without being cut down with the thousands of dick in hand, cuck followers.

1 upvotesnaIamgood1 year ago

That is why i have created my own gym in the garage. High initial investment but I don't deal with BS like this. All gyms are now planet fitness

1 upvotesthe_mountains19851 year ago

You workout at planet fitness....on there could this happen.

1 upvoteslast_to_know1 year ago

Why would you leave without finishing your workout? You think the cops are actually gonna come for that shit? And what happens when they get there? They gonna arrest you for what exactly??? Lol

2 upvotesokuli1 year ago

They gonna arrest you for what exactly?

For trespassing. When gym tells you to leave, you leave. That's how it works in USA. It's a private business, they don't even have to explain.

1 upvotesupstairstraffic1 year ago

I'm with other people here, I'm in the UK and never heard of anything like this in a gym here. Chains like Pure gym or The gym or a local one, nothing of the sort. If true I would be losing my shit.

1 upvotesucfgavin1 year ago

I hate to tell you this...but she won't be kicked from the gym. He may apologize and do something to make it up to you...and maybe even fire the dude that works there...but nothing will come of the fat chick. If they did, she would go to the media and social media and it would create a big problem for the gym.

That being said...in for update.

1 upvotesgrewapair1 year ago

Ironmaster.com

No more fees, no more germs, no more overhead of getting to the gym and back, no more waiting for the weights you need. No more rudeness. If you only have 10 minutes, you can lift.

I had to change my workout to an all dumbbell workout, but lifting is lifting, it was possible to do.

I've already paid for the weights 3x over in missed gym fees. The whole thing fits in a closet in a 1 bedroom San Francisco apartment. One of the smartest purchases I've ever made.

1 upvotesMacRobsal1 year ago

You should ask the Gym Instructor to follow you over to the power rake, assessed you technique, ask for some tips (probably not needed) and he would have seen your sweet lifts and probably left you alone. Or asked the “lady” what exactly technique wise were you doing wrong and thrown in some mechanics of movement terminology shit to show who does know their shit. Not you, you stupid trollop. Played her at her “expert knowledge” game with being open to her suggestions but correcting her when she talks absolute bollocks.

1 upvotesADeadDawg1 year ago

Powerlifters = Strong as fuck, but look weak

Bodybuilders = Look strong as fuck, Arent as strong as powerlifters

best to train like both.

1 upvotesAwkwardEmpath1 year ago

I want to believe this isn't true because it's really cringey on her part. People like that are unbelievable, how miserable do you have to be to act like that?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I really want to hear about what happened after you spoke with the owner.

1 upvotesjoner8881 year ago

She was trying to get you chicken legs. What a bitch !

1 upvotesCormacD1231 year ago

Maybe it's just cause I'm not from America and don't experience these types of people, but I find it very hard to believe any of this story

1 upvotesvoyager141 year ago

Not sure I would take form advice from anyone who “would have just stayed home and ate pizza”

1 upvotesPMmeYOURrareCONTENT1 year ago

I wouldn't have the guts to take this to the gym owner, as I would anticipate even more frustration and disappointment. I'd probably just quit and refuse to further pay for the membership. Good on you if you do try to solve it, curious what will come of it.

I second the "please be a troll"

1 upvotespennynotrcutt1 year ago

Was this at a Planet Fitness? Those places suck and they are against actual muscular fit people who can pull a lot of weight.

1 upvotesokuli1 year ago

Lol, Planet Fitness must be the worst out there if everybody just assumes it's them. Never heard of them, closest one to me is 45 minutes drive. We have "24 hour fitness", though. I think that would be my second guess.

1 upvotesGraefinator1 year ago

My question is how can this guy at the front desk be so oblivious that he can't see through some obvious lying. Regardless if it's coming from a man or woman, use some discretion holy shit.

1 upvotesChildOfTheLostTribes1 year ago

Should've ignored and not say a word. Now I'm thinking about it, it might've been worse.

1 upvotesneoda11 year ago

Please update the story and tell us what happens after !! hope you win. no way u cant

1 upvotesd6x11 year ago

that sounds like a self defense situation to me

1 upvotesfictionalnerd1 year ago

you should have gone to the front desk and told them that she was harassing you. Anyways can't tell if srs tbh.

1 upvotesRe-Binge1 year ago

Can we get an update later?

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Please give us an update. I would definately like to know the conclusion of this.

1 upvotesStonecoldwatcher1 year ago

I can barly comprehendwhat happend, seems surreal

1 upvotesiuhoisrdhtawepor1 year ago

Push through, this kind of stuff is one giant shit test. It is ridiculous how far it has come, tho.

1 upvotesafricanpyjamas691 year ago

This woman was clearly unhappy because she had too much control in her relationship. I feel like it all started out as a test for her boyfriend to try to get him to not be a beta cuck.

When women have too much control they are unhappy. What a fucking whacko.

1 upvotesPsychocist1 year ago

I am demanding that the front desk guy be fired for punishing me without investigation and threatening to call the police on polite and calm me. I am demanding that she be kicked from the gym for lying and disturbing other gym members. Plus her vulgar and rude behaviour.

Don't be a pussy. Who gives a shit about him or her. Sort out your gym membership and forget they exist.

1 upvotesvkrish11 year ago

what the fuck did I just read? please tell me you made this shit up. If you're a regular at the gym, shouldnt you sorta know the front desk people already?

Edit: nevermind...post history jesus

1 upvotesokuli1 year ago

I'm going to same gym for almost 2 years, but never spoke to front desk after signup because I don't need to. Just nod to them on my way out. At large corporate gyms there's a big turnover and unless you're very social you won't know front-desk guys personally. Also, I'm in Seattle where everybody pretends they don't know each other and tries to deny existence of other people.

1 upvotesRocketPowersSD1 year ago

Lying in having me in arrested is literally a past time for some women. I honestly believe that if a woman has more than 10 men arrested over the course of a year, she should be investigated.

No one is the victim to that degree, but of course that’s every female fantasy, in addition to the men being raped and beaten and starved in prison, because women are evil cunts without souls.

1 upvotesWrath_of_Trump1 year ago

Going tomorrow morning to talk to the gym owner, I am demanding that the front desk guy be fired for punishing me without investigation and threatening to call the police on polite and calm me. I am demanding that she be kicked from the gym for lying and disturbing other gym members. Plus her vulgar and rude behaviour.

Right before I read this part, I thought to myself "If I didn't lose my cool and call the desk guy a pussy, I'd just come back the next day and tell the manager exactly why I'm finding a new gym." Good on you man.

1 upvotesmaplemaximus1 year ago

You got hoed by the front desk guy.

1 upvotesSteVe_Brule_man1 year ago

This is outrage bullshit. No advice or growth in this.

1 upvotesegokalp1 year ago

update us tomorrow dude. i hope gym owner turns out logical man

1 upvotesGregseh1 year ago

Did you not ask the front desk guy to check your form and offer advice? Defuses the situation, gets him on your side, or he just fobs you off and you go complain the next day that the staff refused to help correct dangerous form.

Sometimes it's not the best move to take the direct fight, but better to hit it oblique.

1 upvotesU-941 year ago

The gym is sacred time. Woe to the one who makes me pause my music or take off my headphones because of THEIR problems. I have a wardrobe of sleeveless death metal shirts to ensure you stay the fuck away from me.

Side story: I went to wash my face in my gym's bathroom. The soap dispenser was empty. Whatever. 3 days later, same bathroom. Dispenser was still empty. I punched it off the wall.

Next day, brand new refilled soap dispenser.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Lmao I'm mad as fuck. Crabs in a bucket meets gynocentrism resulting in the cucking of a good soldier's gains.

1 upvotesauosie1 year ago

I would’ve lost it I’m glad you kept your cool they are just jealous and she has nothing better to do fuck them

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I have reservations about the veracity of this tale.

1 upvotesVanityKings1 year ago

Your story sounds like bullshit, but it's possible. Just incredibly unlikely, particularly if you've been going for 5 years and you haven't built some sort of rapport with the staff by then

1 upvotesKing_Maui1 year ago

Shitty situation indeed, perhaps having good rapport with the staff would have helped in this situation. Since you’ve been going there for five years they would have known how you act and wouldn’t have believed some out of shape slob.

1 upvoteswheresMYsteakAt1 year ago

Bro... This doesn't happen much but reading that pissed me off. I was laughing reading up until you got called to the front desk. Your title doesn't do this post Justice it should read "fat bitch gets me tossed out of gym". I don't know if I'm more mad at the fat bitch or the fag at the counter.

1 upvotesaverageN1 year ago

I’m so confused... I really can’t think of anything besides trying to convince her boyfriend that she dishes out good advice.

1 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

What a fucking bitch dude. I hope that fat ass woman gets a heart attack from all the pizza she’s eating. She was probably bitter and jealous that you were 10x more fit than her obese ass and her boyfriend. I hate rude ass people in the gym, especially newbies or nonregulars. Hope this gets sorted out and that couple NEVER steps foot in a gym again and stay in the house eating French fries where they belong.

0 upvotesliberty11271 year ago

Do you work out at planet fitness? Tell that bitch to mind her fucking business along with that cuck at the front desk

1 upvotesSuwinTzi1 year ago

Dude, do give us a follow up

1 upvotesfflando1 year ago

This is why I am a member of a small gym.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Keep us updated on what happens





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