Far too often we hear the use of the common shaming tactics used when describing a 'real man,' or a 'real woman.' Any time you hear this spoken in the context of intersexual dynamics, you should always question the person saying it, as it is a huge indicator of their intentions and relative SMV.

Real Men

The application of the word 'real' to a man's identity, whether used by a woman or a beta cuck, is solely valued on his utility to the opposite sex, as well as our globohomo capitalist joo-society. 'Real' is in many forms contextual in these cases, as it is leveraged in the form of feminine interests.

'Real Men take women on dates and get the tab.'

'Real Men help with chores.'

'Real Men always put the child first.'

'Real Men won't have sex on the first date.'

'Real Men respect women and listen to/believe what she says.' (Includes sexual assault claims)

The above are examples that the Feminine Imperative uses to shame betas, and attempt to beta-tize the alpha, into undertaking responsibility and sacrifice for women's imperatives. Keep in mind, to a woman, a man can be 'real' at one point, but not at another.

Example:

18 year old 6'5 Rugby star Chad doesn't treat highschool Tracy like a princess, never buys her dinner or answers her texts, fucks her roughly and blows his load in her mouth whether she's okay with it or not, and sleeps with many other girls. Tracy loves this because he isn't like the other emasculated soy boy conforming feminists in her English class. They aren't 'real' men like the dominant, masculine, preselected Chad.

But now Tracy is 35 and a single mom with 2 kids, none of which are Chads, and she keeps trying to reach out via facebook to reconnect and get him to commit. However Chad is busy vacationing in Ibiza and pumping 18 year old vaginas full of cum and wants nothing to do with her. He may stop by for a quick fuck when he gets back in town for old times sake, but will disappear afterwards. Tracy hates this, and concludes that he is an asshole and not a real man (anymore) now that she is in her epiphany phase. She then settles with a beta who does the 'right thing' and marries her after 2 months, absolves her of debt, and gets lights-off missionary duty sex once a month. Her gfs and peers praise her for finding a 'real man.'

Real Women

The application of the word 'Real' to women is to artificially inflate their already low SMV to make themselves more attractive to high status men. They may do many important things at their community book club, school, or have a PhD, but they know subconsciously this doesn't get them their desired sexually pair-bonded relationship.

'Real women are ambitious and educated.'

'Real women are strong, independent and don't need no man.'

'Real women know how to cook.'

'Real women suck dick.'

The examples above are primarily utilized by low SMV women during both their party and epiphany phases, and post wall career women who sadly have more humanitarian value to their jobs working 60 hour work weeks then they do for arousing a cock. You will never see an Instagram post or internet meme with the above captions from a hot 22 year old, but single mothers, fat BDSM slags, and alpha widows in their 40s will do so without shame. This is especially effective 'girl game' to ensure locking down a beta who has been sexually/relationship starved, but has no effect on Alphas because they know better and don't want women for anything other than sex. You can't fuck a PhD, an empowering script written for 'The Talk' or 'Good conversation' from a woman who 'knows what she wants.' Single mommas: Get ye gone!

Bottom line, the social leveraging of the word 'real' is a feminine interest to either modify men to their needs, or shame other women via virtue signaling to prevent competition for Chad.

Know where you stand when a woman tries to assign this label to you, or other males.