Plate denied sex yet wouldn't let go of my neck

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June 10, 2018

Being RP-ed for a year now I was genuinely concerned for my life. I don't mean that as concerned I may physically pass away. I mean that as my life as I know it.

At 33yrs of age, I've never once witnessed a behavior like she displayed last night ever in the history of my dating life. I came to a point where I teetered on the thought that I was going to have to use strength to get my neck out of her arms and in doing so worried I may hurt her (bruise) and she'd call the cops. Because she mentioned so. Or suck it up and ride the wave.


RANT: Last night I was over at one of my plates homes. Low key evening, which at my age is a much better time than being at a bar, lounge, or club. We were cuddled up watching a movie in bed when suddenly she pushes her ass into my crotch (we were spooning) and I am now acutely aware that she's horny. Fine, I begin foreplay. She reciprocated.

As it came time for me to escalate things she grabbed my hand and shook her head no. I understood this as she's on her period, she's not interested, she's not that attracted to me right now, she has a headache, insert whatever her reasoning is. I didn't ask, I didn't care. Went back to focusing on the movie. As I did that she said "I'm just not shaved down there, and don't want you to witness that."

Apparently being shaved at the age of 24 is important for that age group. I smiled, told her I understand. Back to focusing on the movie. Because I am not a dentist and I refuse to pull teeth. If she felt uncomfortable with the notion of sex, so be it.


Movie wraps up 30min (ish) later and she begins to advance. I think we're back online and all systems are go. I begin to escalate she again, grabs my hand. Says "No babe, I'm not shaved." I smiled, said "That's right, I forgot." (I didn't forget) Told her it's late and time for me to head home and suddenly saw a side of her I didn't realize existed. She latched onto my neck and pushed my face onto her chest. I laid there for a minute assuming things were playful. Told her I really need to leave it's getting late, and I have church in the a.m. She said I am not letting you leave, you should stay here. I chuckled, and said "well I need to adult and go feed my dog & handle that responsibility." She proceeded to state "Not until you give me kisses." This is where frustration set in for me because I was tired of kissing. I told her "Well, I know where that leads and I don't wanna play this game with you." in a smiling manner.

As I go to lift my upper body up off of hers she interlocks her fingers. I smiled, and kept going. Her upper body is now lifted up off the bed with mine. I'm now on my knees, in bed. I put my hands, gently, on her forearms and said "Babe, I really do need to go. I can't stay in this bed any longer without coming on to you. I know you don't want that right now and I respect that. But I really should be going."

With confidence she said "You can't get out of this grip without hurting me. And if you hurt me I'll call the cops on you." She said this with a smirk on her face. One that I couldn't tell if she was serious or perhaps joking. She proceeded to say "I just want more kisses! and you're going to give them to me now. Or I will not let go of you."


It was at this moment I worried. My hamster was spinning with a decision I had to make. I was stuck in what felt like a power struggle. Any time I have said something to a woman along the lines of "I am heading out." It was never an issue.


Fearing the worst, I gave in. Afterwards, she said "See! That's all I wanted." And she walked me to the door. Re-reading all of this it doesn't sound bad. But the encounter was surreal & I'd much rather stay home with my dick in my hand than to ever feel what I felt yesterday evening.


Has anyone ever experienced a similar situation? If so, how did you handle it? As unfortunate as it is, I am completely turned off by her now and the thought of something like that happening again. I will be advising her I no longer want to see her anymore later this evening.


TL;DR OP felt he was in a power struggle w/ plate & seeks the insight of other RP's that have been in a similar situation. Plate wouldn't physically allow OP to leave her place without caving to her demand.

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Title Plate denied sex yet wouldn't let go of my neck
Author CCJ22
Upvotes 9
Comments 15
Date 10 June 2018 07:27 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Weezus42023 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

Say you dig the bush or offer to help her shave it off. Tell her to suck your fucking dick. Titty fuck her. Come on man

[–]kaane13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is clearly fucked up mentally. Do not stick your dick in this kind of crazy

[–]justtenofusinhere7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're asking for help in understanding her actions. This really needs to be directed to AskTRP. Go ahead an delete this before you get banned and ask over there if you really want answers.

PS: It was an all around shit test. You failed doubly, first because you stopped escalating after she gave you repeated clearance to go forward. You then failed by refusing to follow through with your stated decision until after you complied with your demands. No contact her for a month minimum.

[–]nofilmynofucky3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

  • You fell into her frame
  • she's fucking crazy
  • hard next any woman who threatens you with the cops for no reason

[–]VillagersUnite6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What the hell? Any woman that threatens you with a smirk on her face is major bad news. That would've scared the shit out of me.

[–]MrAnderzon5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Looks like she wanted to have sex despite the "not shaved" crap. One of the tools here on TRP, keep going until you hear a verbal NO. Than we all know NO just means not yet.

[–]throwabcdaway3 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I would chill out on her intentions honestly but you are free to leave if u feel uncomfortable.

U can also just text her exacrly this, that u felt super uncomfortable at that moment, often honesty is the best move especially if ur cobsidering not seeing her again. if she is intersted in u long term so shell play nice.

The good thing with text is that if she ask when or if u directly talk about when she grabbed u and threatened to call the cops if u defended. If she texts back that "come on its no big deal" or even a "ok i understood i went too far" in both case u have proof and admission that it happened, then u screenshot and ull feel more safe.

[–]1CCJ220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Gah damn, I like this idea a lot. Thank you

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

More kisses?? Do women even like sex, or do they like the validation that sex gives them

[–]Aktiv8r0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Was in a similar siuation but it was that i didnt want to have sex and she did. I just started videoing the encounter and caught her crazy antics on tape. If i wasnt the stronger one, i would of been raped that night. She really flipped her lid when i pulled out the phone and started to state what was happening, though. Bitches be crazy, bro.

[–]As-You-Were0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This whole thing reeks of feelings and hamsters.

Unless you wanna ltr her I’d say soft next.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Has anyone ever experienced a similar situation? If so, how did you handle it?

seeks the insight of other RP's that have been in a similar situation.

You have a flair point bro, post this to askTRP

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

So shave her yourself. I did this twice to a girl that ended up become a FWB for years and eventually the LTR that lead me here many many years later. She was also a flatmate at the time so not great form there, but whatever.

Makes for a fun game, some great sexual tension in between make out and sex, adds some trust, and destroys that excuse for her in the future.

Alternatively you could have left her arms where they were, scooped her up off the bed and taken her to the shower to do the job her self with you supervising.

Now that I think of it, I think she may have been trying to point you in that direction bro.

[–]1CCJ220 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm not as good at thinking this shit up like you guys are on here. Good advice though, I'll remember this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I have to admit I was riffing on a porno I saw as a kid which was nothing but guys shaving girls. Be warned though, the second time round I had to let her shave my chest before I got to go to work downstairs.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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