Being RP-ed for a year now I was genuinely concerned for my life. I don't mean that as concerned I may physically pass away. I mean that as my life as I know it.
At 33yrs of age, I've never once witnessed a behavior like she displayed last night ever in the history of my dating life. I came to a point where I teetered on the thought that I was going to have to use strength to get my neck out of her arms and in doing so worried I may hurt her (bruise) and she'd call the cops. Because she mentioned so. Or suck it up and ride the wave.
RANT: Last night I was over at one of my plates homes. Low key evening, which at my age is a much better time than being at a bar, lounge, or club. We were cuddled up watching a movie in bed when suddenly she pushes her ass into my crotch (we were spooning) and I am now acutely aware that she's horny. Fine, I begin foreplay. She reciprocated.
As it came time for me to escalate things she grabbed my hand and shook her head no. I understood this as she's on her period, she's not interested, she's not that attracted to me right now, she has a headache, insert whatever her reasoning is. I didn't ask, I didn't care. Went back to focusing on the movie. As I did that she said "I'm just not shaved down there, and don't want you to witness that."
Apparently being shaved at the age of 24 is important for that age group. I smiled, told her I understand. Back to focusing on the movie. Because I am not a dentist and I refuse to pull teeth. If she felt uncomfortable with the notion of sex, so be it.
Movie wraps up 30min (ish) later and she begins to advance. I think we're back online and all systems are go. I begin to escalate she again, grabs my hand. Says "No babe, I'm not shaved." I smiled, said "That's right, I forgot." (I didn't forget) Told her it's late and time for me to head home and suddenly saw a side of her I didn't realize existed. She latched onto my neck and pushed my face onto her chest. I laid there for a minute assuming things were playful. Told her I really need to leave it's getting late, and I have church in the a.m. She said I am not letting you leave, you should stay here. I chuckled, and said "well I need to adult and go feed my dog & handle that responsibility." She proceeded to state "Not until you give me kisses." This is where frustration set in for me because I was tired of kissing. I told her "Well, I know where that leads and I don't wanna play this game with you." in a smiling manner.
As I go to lift my upper body up off of hers she interlocks her fingers. I smiled, and kept going. Her upper body is now lifted up off the bed with mine. I'm now on my knees, in bed. I put my hands, gently, on her forearms and said "Babe, I really do need to go. I can't stay in this bed any longer without coming on to you. I know you don't want that right now and I respect that. But I really should be going."
With confidence she said "You can't get out of this grip without hurting me. And if you hurt me I'll call the cops on you." She said this with a smirk on her face. One that I couldn't tell if she was serious or perhaps joking. She proceeded to say "I just want more kisses! and you're going to give them to me now. Or I will not let go of you."
It was at this moment I worried. My hamster was spinning with a decision I had to make. I was stuck in what felt like a power struggle. Any time I have said something to a woman along the lines of "I am heading out." It was never an issue.
Fearing the worst, I gave in. Afterwards, she said "See! That's all I wanted." And she walked me to the door. Re-reading all of this it doesn't sound bad. But the encounter was surreal & I'd much rather stay home with my dick in my hand than to ever feel what I felt yesterday evening.
Has anyone ever experienced a similar situation? If so, how did you handle it? As unfortunate as it is, I am completely turned off by her now and the thought of something like that happening again. I will be advising her I no longer want to see her anymore later this evening.
TL;DR OP felt he was in a power struggle w/ plate & seeks the insight of other RP's that have been in a similar situation. Plate wouldn't physically allow OP to leave her place without caving to her demand.