One thing I have noticed in MGTOW is anything can be cherry picked and termed as "pure hatred towards others" and things like that. It mostly happens with the infamous term AWALT .

The problem is : all other non mgtows (other people) believe that when we use the term AWALT, what we basically mean is that "All Women are Lying Cheating Whores". This is the most annoying and stupid thing I have seen in my entire life (life will show me more in the future for sure, but still).

The Truth :

NO. AWALT DOES NOT MEAN "All Women are Lying Cheating Whores". Just NO. It is something we in MGTOW use to describe female nature, nothing more, nothing less.

So What AWALT is Actually?

All Women are Like That (AWALT) Does not mean all women are toxic or bad straightforwardly (its in their nature though). It is one of those many concepts that goes over people's head.

Actually, people(blue pilled ones) need some reading and reflection to fully understand this instead of yelling "rrrreeeeeeeee not all women are like that". We Don't spread hatred unnecessarily, mgtows are indifferent towards women. So Do some reading and try to understand what we mean when we say "All Women Are Like That".

Because such effort takes time, AWALT will always be mis-conceptualized by people, specially by women cause women generally apply emotions to almost everything, because women primarily operate on emotional reasoning. Complex concepts like this are misunderstood at first. Then this misconceptualization takes the form of an oversimplification that allows a person (mostly women) to form a incomplete, mistaken and coherent "understanding" of the concept.

In the case of AWALT, the misconceptualization is : AWALT is a simple, generic, gendered insult for many people out there, hence they just start to attack the person who says AWALT by throwing insults and showing their ego. Some things never get old. Why? Because they still believe the misconception.

The problem is that a female mind is always in a hivemind thinking, thus allowing the misconceptualization to easily spread to other people, ultimately making men look as the haters.

The Misconceptions that you have :

Some people may happily throw "AWALT" as a conclusion to a report describing a woman behaving in a shitty way, without giving any second thought at what it means and what lesson is in there (as I have noticed here a lot). To them it's just something related to the hatred towards women and then these people call us men "haters" or "incels" (ah you white knights). Woman does shitty thing -> "AWALT". Nope, you are wrong. Thats just the half truth.

And so they come to believe that AWALT = "women are pieces of shit. Here's another example!". Thats what a blue pilled men/women think when we throw the name AWALT. It is WRONG.

The true meaning of AWALT :

For the one who had the time to read about, think about, and fully understand and appreciate the concept, here it is :

As far as i have understood about AWALT:

1)Women, the other chromosomal variant are based on the female mould - hypergamy, hypocrisy, solipsism, narcisism, dual sexual strategy etc. There are degrees and outliers of course but overall this is the big picture. Now, some of these people will say "all men are horny and instinctively crave to fuck as many hot girls as they could". They are talking about polygamous nature. I understand, they also want to insult, thats fine. But, we have to understand this : Majority of men can control their primal instincts (in most countries). Thats why there are a lot of nice guys and good guys that are in the friendzone while their "girl" has a relationship with some other guy (mostly having sex as well). We always had to control this behaviour bcoz society and family pushes the idea of "good boy" "bad boy" in our childhood, hence most of us end up controlling this behaviour. On the other hand, AWALT is the expression that formalizes the thought that when we're talking about the dark side of women's behaviour, we're not talking about one or two bad apples in a field of good apples, but about all women. It's the necessary counter to the "Women are wonderful" effect in your brain.

2) Its not that they WILL do that, it's that they FEEL like doing that, and CAN do that, and in almost all cases most certainly WILL do that, by "that" I mean more generally "that extremely common thing that women do, and how look yet another example" . A married woman cutting the dick off her husband who cheated is absolutely not an AWALT story. A girl pushing a suicidal orbiter to kill himself so that she can get some victim status is definitely not an AWALT story. The horny and lost girl who fucks an entire football team is (maybe) an AWALT story. But, That innocent-looking, church-going, quiet next-door-neighboor girl who had a loving companion in her life who loved and cherished her, but still she friendzoned him and had relationships with other boy/man because he was the most-mature, so called "bad boy" who treated her like trash, is definitely an AWALT story. A girl having a relationship with a boy taking advantage of his niceness, and in the meantime fucking some other guy and keeping that guy as a backup is most certainly a AWALT story. A women who rode the cock carousel in her prime (jumped from relationship to relationship), now expects the same good guy that she friendzoned to be with her, and shaming him if he says no, is certainly a AWALT story. A married women having a child from some other fuckboy and then forces her husband to accept it with the help of the biased law is certainly a AWALT story. A woman nagging her husband while he returns home, tired of the day's work, instead of helping him to cool himself, is certainly a AWALT story. A woman picking a fight with her mother in law over an unnecessary topic/argument, and expecting her husband to fight his own mother is a AWALT story (indian reference). A woman who insults, shames her husband and afterwards expecting him to be her emotional punching bag is a AWALT story. There are thousands of examples like this that happen on a daily basis. Look around you.

3) No, that specific woman a guy thinks about , aka his unicorn is not a unicorn to which it doesn't apply, just no. Yes, he would be an idiot to think she's somehow "different" because she looks so innocent, and you have zero proof that "that" didnot happen in the past. Basically they thought the same thing : "C'mon, you guys are delusional, not all women are like that lol" etc etc. Yes this is exactly the thought that many men tend to have and which screwed them up eventually and they learned the hard way. Even though you are dead sure your gun is not loaded that you have just checked 3 times in a row, you STILL should treat it as loaded(reference from an old indian film, forgot the name) if only to make you learn the habit to do it with ALL guns that come your way.

Have you ever heard of superposition?

It means 1 and 0 exist in the same place at same time. And, the one and zero will be decided when there's observers.

Women are constantly in superposition state but when men are observed by these same women, they become a paradox of themselves.

She thinks she can be one and both at the same time.

Basically, she's hypergamous and still have self esteem issue, over confident, self entited, and whatnot. And they don't want to admit it, rather continue with this and screw guys one after another. That's why modern women's nature is dangerous and hence, AWALT.

As a result, they become greedy and they don't know about it (but some does). They want it all (enjoyment, fulfillment, prosperity, authority but without any responsibility). They can't make up their mind and never think about the other person involved in that, i.e the man , who gets screwed up from time to time. But, we can't hate them for that. Because it is female nature, as men, we can not do anything about it (other than playing the game by their rules, but cuckery is not for mgtow, so we will pass)

That's why they need men to lead. So that the woman can enjoy the perks while dragging the man into a deep jungle filled with sorrow, sadness and slavery. One thing is for sure : If you are married, you are not going your way, you are going her way which leads to suffering and destruction (mentally, emotionally and physically).

Key points for AWALT :

Does this mean that all women will cheat? No. It means that if you don't build and maintain her attraction, there's a chance your girl could cheat, and in most cases, she most likely will, depending on how unsatisfied she is with you. see how fucked up it is? Exactly. AWALT.

Does it mean all women will branch swing, given the opportunity? Well if the opportunity is perfect along with the situation, then yes.

Are women capable of having intellectual conversations? Sure. But men and women have different interests. We don't usually look to women for intellectual stimulation - that's what guy friends and the Science Channel are for.

Are all women narcissists who feed off of the attention of men? It's either yes or no - but mostly yes. Excluding shy girls, who are mortified by men, most girls learn at a young age that boys go stupid over girls. They realise the power of their sex appeal at a young age. This is evolution: men evolved to manipulate their environments and women evolved to manipulate men. Men think its a bug in their software, but its not. Its a feature in the operating system of the plantation specifically designed to benefit women.

Are all women shit testing you on purpose all the time? Women only shit test you if you are of value to them, so mostly all women. And a lot of the time women don't even know why they're acting out or being pissy with you, but it's how you handle their behavior that makes or breaks their estimation of you.

AWALT means that if given the perfect opportunity, the perfect situation, the perfect reasons which she will make up from nonsense, and the perfect time, women in almost all cases will be AWALT. Because they can and will fall back to those hardwired default instincts and behaviors. Women are hardwired to care about self interests first over her partner's by design (which a normal human being calls selfishness). Even evolution favors the mother that would do anything to secure her place in the tribe, land her the best possible man she can find (after putting all the bs) and see her children safely raised to adulthood. Nothing is 100% guaranteed in a relationship, but as mgtow, we stand the best chance when we understand these behaviors. We walk away from it.

Edit : Adding some more insight as our friend @AllPeopleMatter gave in his comment :

AWALT is shorthand for "since she CAN do this to me, I'm treating her for my own safety as if she will."

I mean, look at it this way. Women do not approach men going "Listen, I'm going to marry you just so that I can eventually take your kids and your shit. I'm trying to sucker you into signing this binding contract that allows me to get tons of credit cards and take on loans that you have to pay." Women also do not tattoo Lying Cheating Whore on their foreheads(some do though), and men are just stupid for going along with it.

What they do, when they do this, is cloak their intentions so that they are indistinguishable from the next girl.

But here's the difference.

Just as how most rapists don't walk around wearing a T-shirt saying "I AM A RAPIST", the same applies to when women get assaulted. They usually trust someone they know, who drugs or overpowers them. The bash on the head and forcible attack in the public park is a rare event: girls are far more likely to be raped by someone they know and come to trust.

Do we tell them: "Well, all men aren't rapists, you're just a shitty judge of character, and it's your own fault for trusting the guy, more fool you?"

No we do not tell them this. Instead We have laws against rape, and in the cases where it can be proven, we jail these people for long lengths of time and they get theirs in prison.

Whereas when a woman decides to manipulate a guy into having a kid against his will? Even in the case where the woman commits literal fraud and forgery to access his sperm in a sperm bank so that she can paternity fraud his ass? "Too bad, so sad, PAY UP SUCKER."

When a woman decides to marry a guy so she can put in her two years or whatever until she can claim half his shit, and walks out laughing back to banging her old boyfriend once her credit score's improved and she's got cash and prizes from a judge? "Too bad, so sad, more fool you, PAY UP SUCKER."

Considering that there is LITERALLY NO JUSTICE FOR MEN in these regards, and when a man finds out a woman is pregnant by him they brayingly go "SHUDDA KEPT IT IN YER PANTS" which they NEVER say to a woman off to get her FOURTH abortion of convenience - guess what? We're going to take your advice and damn well do so.

"Why aren't you getting married?" "Cause you told me not to do so because I'm a TERRIBLE judge of character".

"Why aren't you fucking me? Are you a queer or something?" "Nope, you tell us to keep it in our pants if we don't want kids. Doing exactly that. Goodbye."

That is the FAR better and more relatable way to AWALT. Because just simply saying AWALT as such opens the door to them going "But Leslie's not like that, so therefore not all women and therefore you're just bitter."

Conclusion :

For a woman, her perspective is : women are human beings and men are human doings . Thats why Red Pill say this all the time :

you can either love women, or understand them. But once you understand them, you can't love them.

Remember, she is not your wife/girlfriend/fiance/girl/woman, its just your turn to read the book.

Edit : I have a request. Since we dont have any sidebar posts on AWALT, how about using this as one? Just a request.