Plate is getting married.. Wants to continue to our physical relationship behind the husband's back

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October 9, 2017
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It seems very immoral to me but then again I'm fairly convinced that most people are fairly shitty. Why should I be the one to hold up ideals of family values when I've seen plenty of both men and women cheat on their spouses?

Honestly, I'm sure I'll just call it off after she ties the knot. I guess I just wanted to know TRP's views on affairs.

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.


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Title Plate is getting married.. Wants to continue to our physical relationship behind the husband's back
Author LonesomeTraveller
Upvotes 73
Comments 77
Date 09 October 2017 10:00 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/512
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/75831b/plate_is_getting_married_wants_to_continue_to_our/
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[–]_the_shape_235 points236 points  (15 children) | Copy

The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn.

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

Absolutely horrendous idea, worse than simply fucking her as a married woman. This girl has an insatiable appetite for drama. Exit stage left immediately.

[–]RunawayGrain111 points112 points  (5 children) | Copy

Not to mention he finds out and she cries rape as a cover up.

[–]Bear-With-Bit36 points37 points  (3 children) | Copy

There is a post on the childfree sub I saw today about a husband finding out his wife was raped, pregnant from rapist, but still wants the baby. Pretty sure it's more like what OP may end up in here.

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Yup.

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[–]beginner_22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn.

So much this. While the main questions seems to be about morale and how you want to life your life. Only you, OP, can make that decisions for you. But in many cases like this one there is a logical, amoral argument why not to do it. Simply because you do not need to attract unwanted drama.

And in this specific case, run, forest run. Only way you can be sure she is not getting your seed is if you have a vasectomy. Else she might go through used condoms. Yeah, she sounds that crazy. Ghost her now.

[–]satanicpriest134 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Was going to disagree with your entire post, but the last but convinced me. Banging her is one thing, and I enjoy the chaos I must admit. But fuck letting her have your child. That's a train wreck waiting to happen and you can get fucked from all sides at once.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy

Absolutely horrendous idea

I know.

This girl has an insatiable appetite for drama.

That she does. That and my attention. I get away with treating her like shit.

exact revenge on the guy who ruined his innocent, little unicorn.

Yeah totally. I have been in this situation before with this married older woman. Almost got myself expelled. Not taking any chances.

I just wanted to hear different opinions on cheating.

[–]The__Tren__Train2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

before I was born, my father was eating in a restaurant with some friends.

a man walked into the restaurant, and shot another man right in the face, and then walked out.

turned out shootee was fucking shooter's wife

[–]darkwingduckdunn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not worth it.

[–]kimchi-22 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

After you leave her, let the guy know.

Wouldn't you want to know?

[–]pickledpeas7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Leave a post-it on the underside of the toilet seat

[–]Vinc3140 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol! Excellent way of passing a message anonymously and only to him

[–]Metartist46 points47 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dude she wants your seed, RUN! Excommunicate that bitch!

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah no she's not getting it, no worries there.

[–]Pm_your_tits11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

You should really tell her husband man. Anonymously if possible. If you won't do it some other guy will. This guy deserves to know before this whore fucks up his life

[–]empatheticapathetic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I want to help the dude but if it's going to bite OP in the ass in any shape or form, it's not worth it.

Husband isn't going to believe some random note without proof and without asking his wife, who, if she cracks (dramatic bitch) she'll point OP out in 5 seconds.

[–]Ricardo299136 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

Last line tells me you should cut all contact immediately. She isn't worth ruining your life or reputation over....is she?

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

No one is.

[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

Its the risks to you, that you need to weigh.

  1. Some type of retaliation from the husband, not always physical.

  2. Once you have a kid with her, you are on the hook for child support. Even if she says "Don't worry about it". Even if she waits 10 years to go to court to get the order. Then you find yourself immediately in arrears with the court (in the USA)... Its bad and I've seen it happen to guys I know.

[–]InfiniteAscent5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even if she waits 10 years to go to court to get the order.

You think she's gonna stay married to Mr beta that long? Hah!

[–]italianking132 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pussy is worth none of that.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

Oh, go ahead. I'm sure it will totes work out. /s

Verdict: "RUN, FORREST, RUUUUUUUN!!!"

[–]Metalageddon12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't like drama so I don't participate in cheaters. (If I know ahead of time.)

Ime they tend to just bring problems, either them or any number of angry third parties they are affiliated with.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good point.

[–]hamstercide21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

This is my fetish.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy

Mine too. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–]Redditisfullofcucks-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Let's be real. You're gonna blow megaton loads in her and he's gonna raise your baby none the wiser.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No I'm not. There's a line I won't cross.

[–]BrodinsOats1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shh just let it happen

[–]Westernhagen13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Think of this as case study #23,324,042 in the AWALT: Never Get Married series.

[–]setsuna06 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

RUN!!!!!

[–]SpanishHeat5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm in a similar situation except she's already married and has a kid. I'm not the only one she's cheated on him with before.

I'm planning to get out of it, maybe a bit for moral reasons but mostly because it's just annoying to me having to deal with her shit. It's taught me a lot like never get married, and take everything women say with a grain of salt.

Shit we just fucked in their bedroom with marriage pictures all over the place and I see now that marriage is simply a visage. Women will do whatever they want to when they please.

For your sake, get out of it for reasons other people have said. Drama, rape accusations, and possibility of him getting back at you.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes I'm ending it soon.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (19 children) | Copy

Tell her husband. She's a piece of shit. You would want to know.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 1 point2 points  (18 children) | Copy

I feel somewhat responsible for her being this way. I have even encouraged her to talk about it because it's such a turn on. Should have just said no when she first suggested it. That's why I just want to let go and not meddle further. At least the blood won't be on my hands.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (15 children) | Copy

Tell him anonymously

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 5 points6 points  (14 children) | Copy

I'll give it a thought.

[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v-4 points-3 points  (13 children) | Copy

Why should you tell the husband? Are you suddenly the moral and ethical police?

Live your life the way you want to live it, and let other live their life.

[–]peanutpepper48 points49 points  (11 children) | Copy

To help the clueless fucker in a world of whores. Wouldn't you want want someone to tell you if your LTR was fucking someone else?

[–]LordThunderbolt-4 points-3 points  (10 children) | Copy

That won't change shit. The husband will blame you for corrupting his little princess, they will go to marriage counseling to "fix" this, the girl will ghost u for being a bitch, and you'll be looking like a moron. It's never worth it.

[–]FJHUAI15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

"That won't change shit" Yes it will. Home boy won't marry a whore and home boy keeps his money!

[–]LordThunderbolt2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're assuming that he will break things off, and that's where you fail. You overestimate betas

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He is a beta with his idealization of how this will go. If OP is his own mental point of origin then he won't sit around worrying about this husband's future.

Higher chance of OP getting attacked/publicly outcast than the cuck breaking off the engagement.

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Can't believe you're getting downvoted. TRP demographic has changed hugely recently.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

It's TBP brigade.

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I keep having arguments all over the place with people recently, about basic sidebar shit. I don't know what the fuck is going on. It's like seddit has invaded.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's my feeling too. I'm going to cut off contact with her and let them be. Not worth the trouble.

[–]Deep_freeze2024 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You didn't make her that way bro

[–]dickbuttspleasure0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Write a lett to the dude fully explaining her slut behavior, just maybe you can save another man an pull him into the RP way

[–]Kommanderdude13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yo, drop this ho brah. Like right now. Bitch is crazy. Never stick it in the crazy. Would like to get shot by an angry man? Cause this is how you get shot.

[–]wild_deer_man4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

If at any point you have actually considered it, you are absolutely retarded.

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I haven't considered the impregnating part. The affair on the other hand, yes.

[–]beta_no_mo3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Married women are simply not worth the hassle. I did one and never will again. The dude flipped out (even though they'd already filed) and almost cost me my job. Even betas have teeth when they're cornered.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

i would find out a way to anonymously contact this guy with the truth that she is cheating not entirely because of my moral outrage so much as an opportunity to potentially reduce a lot of suffering to another person

at the very least cut it off yourself with her full no contact and forget about them, no pussy is potential double homicide good

[–]LordThunderbolt2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Grab her phone, delete your number and text threads, then get a burner phone. Continue as normal

[–]ThickDickWarrior890 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Do you have a burner bro

[–]LordThunderbolt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No

[–]vicious_armbar2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

"The main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn."

Perfect example of the male hamster. Do you think that if the boyfriend found OP and his Plate in bed today he'd shake ops hand then get him a beer because his woman isn't married?! No he'd lose his shit. Just like he would after they tied the knot.

Every time you're fucking a woman who's cheating with you there's a small chance that her S/O may try to get revenge. For me it's worth it because I'll only cheat with women who are hotter then I can otherwise get.

I'm into Jiu-Jitsu and an admitted gun nut in a self defense friendly state. Also I only fuck attached women at my place instead of theirs. I've never had any problems, and doubt I will. But everyone has to assess their own risk tolerance and make an informed decision.

[–]beermagnate1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is a bit on a crazy side

[–]BusterVadge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing.

RUN! There are plenty of other women out there.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck morality, I wouldn't do it because it leaves you vulnerable to other bullshit. If they get a divorce and your name comes up in the proceedings, your name is now public knowledge as that dude who fucked the husband's wife.

[–]oscarkool1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

a boyfriend doesnt mean shit, but a husband/married woman? It's a turf I personally don't get involved with. Just not worth it as so many others have commented here.

[–]BestSC862 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don't stick your dick in crazy.....

Alternative title could have been:
"I am so thirsty for a pussy to stick my dick in that I let crazy, shitty people into my life without a thought to the consequences....because you know, I want any piece of pussy that will let me put my wee-wee in it.....damn I am so thirsty for pussy......What do? "

[–]LonesomeTraveller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know the difference between AWALT and crazy

FTFY

[–]GuitarHero070 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Best case scenario: you continue getting action from the plate without incident.

Worst case scenarios: husband finds out about affair, loses his shit and goes into a murderous rage...especially if he finds out he's been cuckolded. It's also possible the plate gets purposefully impregnated by you and if the husband finds out soon enough, he can file for divorce, get a paternity test and put you on the hook for child support. If the woman is as duplicitous as she seems, she could also easily falsely accuse you of rape if she is discovered by her husband.

[–]1kick60 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You get to decide your own morality. If you think it’s shitty, don’t do it.

[–]1UnluckyPenguin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I've personally read a handful of articles about husbands killing their wife's lover (and sometimes their wife too). If you need to read them to convince yourself to get out of that relationship, then just do a quick google search.

[–]RPpieceofgarbage0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I say get out of there

[–]F_Dingo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It seems very immoral to me

There's your answer. It's up to you now.

[–]dickbuttspleasure0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You should write a 3 paragraph letter to the fiancé and tell every little dirty thing you did you her, you should also point him to the redpill and maybe just maybe, you stopped another man from committing suicide by marriage.

What happens if you cuckold the husband and make him raise your child? Would you be ok with that?

You sir have the power the stop another greedy bitch from destroying another mans life.

[–]drqxx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do it!

[–]Tzeentch_Gnosis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do it, you owe it to the kid to give him/her superior genes.

[–]satanicpriest130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do it. I know we don't discuss morals here, but it's not your responsibility. The woman is a whore and the man is a beta. It's not up to us to protect the sanctity of someone else's shitty marriage. I'd bang her and kick her to the curb every night so she can cuddle with her husband. Enjoy the decline.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

How is this even a question. Grow a fucking back bone.



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