I’m gonna keep this short and sweet for you guys. No fluff or fanfiction-style overly descriptive sex paragraphs. Just my simple description of events and the knowledge I gained.
Back in high school I had severe oneitis for a girl (let’s call her Julia) and thought that being a nice guy™ was the way to win her heart. Obviously, it failed miserably leading to her rejecting me when I declared my love for her. We lost touch for the most part and a few years pass. In those few years I’ve gained probably 25 lbs of muscle, revamped my fashion, and have adopted TRP principles when dealing with women. All of these combined have made me a lot more attractive to them than before.
So this past spring break I was in Miami with a few friends when I get a text from Julia out of the blue. She saw my snapstory of me in Miami and it just so happens that she and her college friends have rented an Airbnb there as well. She invites me and my friends to go clubbing and crash at her house. We arrive at the Airbnb and I start flirting with a few of her friends. Not because I want to make her jealous but because why not. I could tell she was expecting me to be falling head over heels for her like back in high school but I really couldn’t care less. Yeah she’s still hot and all but I’ve fucked hotter at college.
We go out to the club, yadda yadda yadda, flirt and dance. I use TRP techniques like push/pull to make her even more interested. We all go back to the Airbnb. I scoop her off her feet once we get inside, take her into her bedroom, and we fuck. And while I’m fucking her I just start thinking to myself “THIS is what I spent months and months agonizing over back in high school? Below-average pussy?” Seventeen-year-old me would have creamed his pants if he’d known that a few years later I’d be fucking Julia with a fistful of her hair in my hand but all I was thinking was that it was nothing special. I think it was at this precise moment that I knew my viewpoint on women had changed for good.
I understand this is common knowledge to TRP veterans but for all the newbies out there with severe cases of oneitis listen up. Your mind is doing mental gymnastics to prove to itself that she’s “the one” or “special” when realistically there are 10’s of thousands of girls like her out there for you. TRP recommends going out and fucking other girls to deal with your oneitis because it works. Oneitis usually comes from a place of pussy scarcity so the solution is simple, increase your pussy supply by going out and fucking different women.
TL;DR: Get over your oneitis by fucking other women.
I understand I'm not really providing any new information with this FR but I think it's good to remind the newer guys on here of the basics sometimes. I don't claim to be an expert on TRP, and definitely I have a ways still to go. But when this happened I knew I had come a long way since my beta days in high school.