One of the greatest paradoxes of our time is what a female thinks she wants versus what yields positive results with her.

You’ll hear an endless soliloquy about how she’s tired of assholes and just wants a nice guy who will treat her like the princess that she is(lol). You’ll hear her say she wants a “real” man who shares his feelings, one who texts her all the time and constantly shows his appreciation. The scariest part of it all is that she actually believes this to be true.

Society is not much better, spewing bullshit like pay attention to your woman, if she’s behaving like brat you just have to try harder, buy her a gift. Cheesy Hollywood films where after years of riding the carousel she realizes she’s actually in love with her best friend. Stories spawned from the fantasies of beta Hollywood males.

Besides a lucky few liberated by strong (red pill) parents, the majority of us get to mating age and get hit with sack of bricks doing Mach 3. We wipe the shit out our eyes, bamboozled that all we’ve ever learnt leaves her pussy drier than your mouth on edibles. It’s at this point some of us start to realize that something is not quite right, we’ve been sold a lie and nobody is offering a fucking refund, we take our burns and we turn them into tools.

In search of truth we dig, searching for what actually makes a women tick (hint: not what she says). To our dismay it’s very often the polar opposite of what she says it is:

Women will say they want to feel secure, and they do, but security is not what generates feelz. They want to know where you are at all times, they want you to tell her how much she means to you, but while you’re doing that that she’ll be looking to get railed by someone who does generate the tingles. Moral of the story, a women’s words are not to be trusted, watch her actions. This is not to say she doesn’t want that security, but It 100% does not make her attracted to you. What she (says)wants and what attracts her are completely different things.

When a women says you’re not paying enough attention to her, what she actually means is you’re evoking feelz in her and she wants security.

When a women says she wants you to show her love for her, what she actually means is you’re evoking feelz in her and wants security

There’s nothing more dangerous to a man’s relationship than a secure woman. Security is investment from you. As one is vigilant with their money, you need to be just as vigilant where you invest in your woman. Over investing can lead to large exposure, and this is where the modern male most often goes bankrupt(metaphorically). A prospect needs to constantly prove that it’s a good investment, otherwise you need to pull your money out.

Sexual strategy is a game whether you like it or not. The “I don’t want to have to constantly play games in my relationship” scenario is a fantasy. If you want loyalty get a dog. Bottom line is you’re either winning or losing. And whoever is winning dictates the course of any relationship. Biologically she is designed to get moist for a winning man.

Security is her winning, you’re operating in her frame. A winning women isn’t turned on by a losing man.(see dead bedroom etc). Those utterance of how she wants more of this out of you or more of that out of you are generally green lights. They’re indicators that you’re evoking emotion in her, this is always positive. I so often see these question in askTRP, where a guy says he’s implemented TRP principles but his GF is saying she doesn’t like it. Keep doing what you’re doing sunshine. That’s the green light of a wet grapefruit.

What she says is her attempt to pull you into her frame. What she does tells you who’s frame she’s actually operating in. You’re going to have to deal with some ruffled feathers from time to time, those are shit tests. Hold firm. Be the Mystery man. Be the man who evokes feelz. Be whoever the fuck you want to be, but whatever you do, do not be the man who she tells you she wants you to be.