Many times I hear guys making excuses of not gaming because they do not have wings or they are new to a city and they do not know anyone. In this field report I’ll go over strategies and techniques I use to game and lay girls without a wingman. I have been gaming solo for a number of years due to years of constant traveling and having to constantly meet new people. The following events transpired over the weekend.

Making Connections and Bridging People

The night before I went out to a nightclub, met a promoter who had girls looking for an after party. While heading out of the nightclub I see a guy and t-start talking to him, asking him how his night was and complimented him on his shirt. He tells me he’s having an after party and invites me, I tell him I’ll bring girls over. I bump into a promoter outside and he has about 7 girls with him, I tell him my friend is having an after party close by. The promoter is down, gives me his number to send him the address. He sends the address to a bunch of girls and when I arrive at the after party location I see about 15 girls all ready to have fun. (TIP: Always make friends with promoters, find a way to add value. In this case I was offering an after party location). Since I brought girls the host gave me props, gave me his number, and invited me to a pool party the next day.

Step 1 (What to do as soon as you enter the venue)

With about 6 hours of sleep I wake up the next morning, shower, eat breakfast and head to the pool party I was invited to. I arrive at the pool party and the guy who invited me is nowhere to be found, which is all good because there are a bunch of girls in bikinis ready to be gamed. I get a drink and get the bartender's name (I always get the name of the staff). While standing by the pool I see two guys drinking champagne, I compliment one of the guys on his sunglasses (Compliments are the gateway to making connections, fuck complimenting girls, always compliment the guys, ie: Nice shirt bro, nice watch, nice shoes where did you get it?, the way you're dressed you look like you run this place etc). He says thanks and I ask him if he is visiting or he lives in the city. We talk for a while and he offers me a glass of expensive champagne. I later find out these guys have reserved two of the most expensive cabana’s and have bottle service.

Afterwards I see a couple of Russian guys watching the world cup so I join them from a distance and start supporting Russia, they invite me over to their cabana to watch the game up close. The champagne guys come over and join us and refill my glass with some more champagne. (NOTE: At this time I’m not even focused on talking to girls, just guys).

A lot of PUA’s say as soon as you enter a venue game the first set you see, I disagree with this, I start with the guys and venue staff. Once the girls see you having fun and see you talking with staff they will gravitate towards you and start showing “choosing signals.”

Back to the story: Now I’m with five guys and their girlfriends in 3 cabana’s connected to each other drinking champagne while watching the world cup and having fun. This gets peoples attention and soon I see girls start to gravitate towards us, coming close to watch, asking what the score is, what team I support etc. My new Russian friends start offering me food and more drinks. What you want to do provide value not suck value. In this case the value I was providing was good vibes, good energy, and a shared interest in their soccer team.

Step 2 (Leveraging your social proof)

The Russian guys and their girfriends decide to leave to another pool party and the champagne boys decide to have some alone time with their girlfriends. This meant I had to leave the cabana’s. At this point I have built enough social proof to start talking to girls or meeting some more cool guys. I take off my shirt and jump into the pool, immediately one of the women in the pool calls me over and offers me drinks that she had smuggled into the venue. She says ‘Here try this drink, it’s got half a roofy in it” I reply “You might as well put a full roofy in it and take advantage of me.” She laughs and introduces me to her friends who are in town for a bachelorette party aka in town to get fucked and party.

They ask me if I’m friends with the Russian guys and the champagne boys, I tell them I just met them and they invited me over to hang with them (This demonstrates the type of person you are, you just met some high value guys and they invited you to come hang with them). I flirt with them a bit, they ask me where I’m from and if I’m single. They then tell me their going to hook me up with a girl since I’m a young single guy. They introduce me to a 21yr old HB8.5 with a nice ass. I game her a bit, leave talk to the bachelerette party girls and come back to her, I tell her and her friend I’m promoting at a club and they should join me (I know a lot of promoters at nightclubs in town so I always invite girls out). They agree and ask for my Instagram and tell me not to forget to follow them back. After a while I’m grabbing the 21yr old’s ass and we’re making out in the pool. Guys and girls take note and start talking to me and asking if that’s my girlfriend (pre-selection).  

I text two of my promoter friends and they both have a table ready for me with bottomless drinks (These are promoters I met about 3 weeks ago & stayed in contact because they had fun with me and I brought girls over to their table - always be giving value).

Step 3 (Keep the momentum going)

Now that I have social proof and pre-selection as I walk around the venue I’m meeting staff and getting their names. Bouncers, door guys, bartenders, waitresses/waiters… all of them. But Xhaka how do I introduce myself to staff in a non-needy way? For example: I noticed one of the bouncers getting upset at a girl for splashing water from the pool and getting his shoes wet. Later on when I passed by him I said “Girls out here trying to mess up your fresh shoes, they need to act right”, he laughs, agrees and we chat for a while, then I say “By the way whats your name, nice to meet you, my name is Xhaka.” He tells me whenever I want to come to the venue I shouldn’t worry about it he’ll get me in regardless of the queue.

Afterwards I see a women with a nice ass walk out of the pool. I approach immediately, right off the bat she tells me she has a man. My go to response when a girl tells me she has a man is “Ok I’ll allow that” (Essentially you are saying you are allowing her to have a man, it’s very cocky but always gets a laugh). Once they laugh I quickly change the subject and continue the conversation as if she didn’t even mention having a man - blasé attitude. Next thing you know I’m rubbing her thighs and screening for logistics. She is staying at the hotel and she is in the city for fun. She then tells me she is married, and is here to have fun with her side piece. She wants my number so she can have fun with me later on as well (probably after the side piece is done with her). Her husband is probably at home with the kids thinking his wife is at a business conference, little does he know she’s at the pool with Xhaka grabbing her thighs (Guy’s don’t get married!). I later find out she has multiple side pieces. These hoes definitely aint loyal. I say bye to her as she goes up to her room to get ready for D&F (dinner & fucking) with her side piece.

STEP 4 (Leave no stone unturned)

I continue meeting staff members and approaching girls and giving them my instagram. These days I do not collect numbers, I give girls my instagram, let them watch me doing cool stuff on my stories and wait for them to slide in my DM’s with a message like “Hi Xhaka, where’s my invite?”

The pool party is winding down and people are leaving. I spot a Mexican HB9 with a nice ass (as you can tell I’m an ass-man). I approach her and immediately she is receptive, she is about to leave but she asks me for my instagram and says “I hope you’re not one of those people that don’t follow back” I smirk and reply “follow me and we’ll see.” She follows me and we part ways.

STEP 5 - Don’t quit while you’re ahead

It’s about 6pm now and I’m exhausted after running off 6hrs of sleep, day drinking, gaming in the hot sun for hours while maintaining high energy. I think to myself: It’s been a good day, met some cool people, had some makeouts, got a number of leads via instagram, maybe I should call it a day. My other option was to go to the club and meet up with the girls I invited or stay at the venue and game the night crowd. I have to make a quick decision because my phone battery is about to die which means no way to communicate with the girls or promoters and no way to call an uber to get back home so I’ll be stranded. I ask the bartendar and front desk personel for a charger and non of them have one. I’m screwed but I remain calm. I decide to get some food to eat and a redbull. While eating I start talking to an older gentleman next to me, who tells me to stay because the venue is going to be packed with chicks at 10pm. I chat with the bartenders and the gentleman (at this point my energy is really low). If you go out and you have no one to talk to, talk to the bartenders especially if they are guys, they are usually cool. Sometimes the women bartenders will think you’re trying to hit on them so I avoid talking to them for long unless they keep re-engaging me. Have a few interesting stories in your back pocket that you can share with them. In my case I told them that I had been at the venue the whole day and now I’m trying to reactivate so I can unleash the dragon (they laughed & asked if I wanted another redbull).

The Next Episode

10PM comes and the gentleman was right, the venue resets and there is fresh stock ready to be conquered by Xhaka. My phone is dead at this point, my friends are trying to get a hold of my to see what I’m up to that night, and promoters are trying to finalize table plans as well. There’s nothing else to do but keep gaming, I approach a Colombian lady and she shuts me down immediately,,,,,, cool, I move on. After a while I see girl with a tight dress and a fat ass that’ll swallow up a g-string (better than any of the girls I’ve previously mentioned). Immediately my energy is back. Carbohydrates and redbull didn't work but what worked was me seeing a fat ass and my energy has been restored. I approach her and she is receptive so I proceed. She asks me if I’m with friends so I tell her I was with friends but they left (As a lone wolf you’ll get this question a lot. My response: I was with friends but they had to leave so I thought I would stick around for a bit OR I came by myself to have an adventure and meet new people). After a while her friends come over and want to leave to another venue because they weren't having fun. She says bye and gives me a hug. I tell her I was about to leave but I’ll join her at the new location. She smiles and agrees (game on! - I know if I move her to another location I can isolate). She introduces me to her friends and we move to the other venue. The friends change their minds and decide to drive to another location. I tell them I took an uber so they offer to give me a ride to the next spot. I continue talking to the girl on the ride there to keep the momentum going.

We arrive and the venue is not good so we decide to go somewhere else. We get to the 3rd spot & it’s much better. I grab my girl and start dancing with her, she starts grinding on me. I bump into one of my friends (Met him 2 months ago during one of my lone wolf escapades) and introduce him to the girls. After the club closes we decide to go to another after party, and then one of the guys we meet invites us over to his apartment to continue the party.

End of the night

Its passed 4am, I’m getting closer to my girl, whispering in her ear and I go for the kiss. She kisses me back and I do my signature move (When I kiss a girl for the first time I’m the first to pull back, this keeps them wanting more and makes them think maybe you pulled back because you think they’re not a good kisser - they want to prove you wrong so they will re-engage & initiate the next kiss). Then she tells me she doesnt kiss guys she just met (you’re right). I tell her since we’ve been to so many venues together in one night, time has accelerated, and we have been thrusted into a time warp. This is all illogical bullshit that doesnt even make sense but girls eat this shit up. I always keep it illogical which spikes their emotions. Fast forward to 10mins: and we’re alone on the couch with one tit in my mouth. Her friends walk in and she suggests we move the party to her house. When we get to her house we all talk for a while, the friend goes to bed and then the fun begins. We go to the room, things get heated and I fuck the shit out of her, wake up in the morning and fuck her some more.

In the morning I check my phone and there are messages from my friends, promoters, & the girls I met at the pool party. The girls ended up flaking so it was a good thing I didn’t go to the nightclub.

Key Points

  1. Make friends with guys at the venue

  2. Make friends with staff at the venue

  3. Keep your energy high (but not hyper like a headless chicken)

  4. Be agile and socially malleable, ready to switch venues for better logistics

  5. If your friends don’t feel like going out and you do, just go out by yourself & use the tips outlined in this FR.

Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions on “Lone Wolf Game”