333,019 posts

A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your Girl

941 upvotes
by aidscancerebola on /r/TheRedPill
19 August 2018 10:39 PM UTC

Reddit View - Download PDF - Download TXT


The advice here tends to be: "Don't get rattled when another guy hits on your girl. Keep frame, etc" This is not bad advice, but it ends up turning into a drawn out interaction that does not need to occur at all. You can get the guy to fuck off/make him look stupid without keeping it going with essentially one phrase:

"Have a good night," then simply walking away with your girl.

I have done this countless times.

Most recently I went on a little morning walk with a plate/fwb after a full night of fucking (I tend to plate women I genuinely enjoy spending time with and I like having these little "mini-dates" with them before/after hooking up.) On our walk I had to use a bathroom so I popped into a place while she waited for me outside on a bench. When I get back there is some guy trying to chat her up. Her body language was not interested and even as I was walking up I could hear him say, "Is that the guy?" meaning she most likely told him something like "I am waiting for my man/bf/wtv"

When I walk up he sticks out his hand and says, "Hi I'm Keith, nice to meet you!" with a big smile. I sort of just look at him, say, "Nice to meet you, have a good day," without shaking his hand, then I calmly take the girl by the hand and walk away. Nothing else is said regarding the incident and I still see this girl regularly, fuck her mouth, ass, etc....

Another example I am in a bar with another fwb. We are sitting at the bar when a guy plops down next to us. He starts chatting us up but in ways that are clearly meant to bust my balls. He makes comments about my appearance, my demeanor, and how hot my woman is, all in the span of about 1 minute. Instead of coming up with something to say, or otherwise engage this idiot, I say, "Have a nice night," take my girl by the hand and move to another place in the venue. The girl 100% knew without being explicitly told why I was making this decision for us and did not question or shit test me.

The truth is, swatting away an AMOG by simply avoiding the entire interaction is as alpha as you can be. Do you think a king would entertain some asshole amoging him and trying to talk up his bitch for the night? If he doesn't have the guy arrested and tortured he will just separate himself from the riffraff.

The beauty of this method is it gives the AMOG 0 chance of saying anything witty as a rebuttal, or give you any rope to hang yourself with. If this is your woman and you've already been inside her, unless you want to fuck with an AMOG for fun you have 0 obligation to 'compete' with this idiot AMOG. As Jeff Bezos himself always says: Competition is for suckers. Look to create a monopoly for yourself.

Have a good night, bitches.



Post Information
Title A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your Girl
Author aidscancerebola
Upvotes 941
Comments 235
Date 19 August 2018 10:39 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/51974
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/98o9v5/a_word_on_amogsguys_hitting_on_your_girl/
Similar Posts


Comments

0 upvotesbsutansalt1 year ago

Competition is for suckers. Look to create a monopoly for yourself.

Great line. That's the gist of my advice in the magic hour thread. Why in the fuck would you shoot yourself in the foot by voluntarily going out with terrible logistics when you can leverage things in your favor and limit competition as much as possible?

As for pulling the girl away, something else you can do that'll give a good bit of endorphin boost is simply picking her up and spinning in place. She'll get a tingle and you get choice re-positioning to pull her away. I do this from time to time and it's always gotten good reactions, even from women I fail to pull.

355 upvotesBewareTheOldMan1 year ago

"...you have zero obligation to 'compete' with this idiot..."

This is good advice - "lions do not concern themselves with mere sheep."

Even more to the fact is that when your woman follows your lead it's direct confirmation that you're her guy.

Also - with the way jerkoffs tend to behave it's as if they're looking for trouble. The occasional man has been killed entering some unnecessary physical altercation and escalating an easily avoidable situation.

99 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Not even occasional, shit happens every day. Dudes are dying every day because they cant keep it shut and walk away. People die every day bro.. just dont be one of em.

1 upvotesRokSr1 year ago

This is why I never advise anyone who is new to RP to chase after married/taken women. I see this countless times where the community pushes new comers who have no game/still have beta tendencies tell them it’s ok to push boundaries at the bar/gym/party. As a cop I have seen retaliation by the husband/boyfriend time and time again. That pussy isn’t worth your life, go for someone who is single. There are millions of women out there.

10 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

Did you see cases where BF/Husband straight up killed the guy? Too shocking to believe but I am sure there must be a lot of such cases

19 upvotesTuplad1 year ago

Friend of my dad who is in a militia knew his wife was cheating. Came home, saw them, went out and threw a grenade inside. Sat for quite a lot of years (in Russia).

13 upvotesHerefortheTuna1 year ago

if that was legal cheating would go down alot

3 upvotesjuliusstreicher1 year ago

Now THAT was one stylin' Dude!

7 upvotesEnigma2211 year ago

Yeah and it's stupid and I don't know why it even happens. Why would you want to ruin your life over some whore that cheated on you? Fucking idiots ruining their lives over a betraying cunt. Not worth it. Same rule should apply, just walk away and never talk to them again.

1 upvotesRokSr1 year ago

All. The. Time. I deal with property damage monthly from enraged partners because their wife/husband is cheating. It’s stupid. Then they cry when I take the other half to jail...

14 upvotesgreenlittleman1 year ago

You talk about property damage and guy asked about straight up killing.

7 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

How often is murder involved here?

2 upvotestigolbittiez1 year ago

I’ve met so many young women who are cheats and liars, that it doesn’t surprise me guys hit on “taken” or married women all the time, anymore. Shit, if I didn’t know any better, the Internet has led me to believe that cuckolding and wifeswapping is a normal thing that tons of couples get into.

Society truly brought this culture on itself through selfishness, and not being willing to being honest and open about their own feelings and intentions. Everybody just goes for what they want, everyone else be damned.

Hence, why we’re here. For the record, I actually lost my virginity to a girl who was still technically dating some poor dude. It wasn’t even the direct aftermath, but the fallout months later, where I learned my lesson. I shouldn’t have trusted her because of it, but I was blind and naive, and willing to love this girl.

Lesson learned. That was years ago, and I’ve been a wrecking crew for every potential relationship ever since.

21 upvotesDeCiB3l1 year ago

On top of that, you don't have a good argument for self-defense if you are attacked during a verbal altercation that you started.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

"the lion fears not the jackel" - Dexter

6 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

This weekend guard at the parking lot pointed a gun on my face because I lost my cool. The problem had an obvious solution but Parking Management was busy chatting.

I would have been the occasional guy who could have been killed for escalating an avoidable situation.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

True. I ALWAYS try and defuse a situation, remove myself from that situation whenever possible.

However, there are times it's important to stand your ground, come what may. I'm not saying this to be badass. But you seriously need to be in a position where you're willing to put yourself in a situation where you're sincerely ready to take a good hiding if need be.

You don't have to win in these situations, no-one is expecting you to be the hardest man in the world. You just have to be game for a fight.

The other person will sense if you're not, and you will end up in a fight. But more often than not the very fact you're sincere, or a at least have other people believe you're game, then you will not end up in a fight.

There are very few people who will engage with someone who is prepared to fight them back as hard as they can and are prepared to lose in the process.

The only people who will continue to engage and fight you are pyschos. But then you're going to get problems with those people even if you do walk away anyway.

As I said, walk away, diffuse the situation, but always be prepared to stand your ground if it comes to it. If that worries you, then learn self defence. It's shit, but that's the world we live in.

In an ideal world, walking away, diffusing, would and should work, but not everyone is rational, and there are some with a point to prove that will see that as weakness and will continue to come at you, and it's at that point you really do need to have that primal spark ready inside you.

No questions.

2 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

I don't consider myself a hard ass at all. Not one iota. But the question is, are you willing to beat the living fuck out of me. Because you may just have to. I can take a beating, if you are game to give one.

2 upvotesBewareTheOldMan1 year ago

You're spot on - ALWAYS be prepared to defend yourself because some self-proclaimed troublemaker may not even give you a choice.

1 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Hey, don't mind me. I'm just here to steal the top comment. Just be cool, and let it happen.

"No you need to just be cool and joke around and let him act like you're some bitch who he can walk up and take a sandwich from, OR ELSE YOU'RE MATEGUARDING! SCARCITY MENTALITY!"

"If she reacts positively to him just leave! Sure he might be going balls deep on her that night while you laid in bed alone BUT YOU DEMONSTRATED HIGH VALUE!"

A lot of the TRP mental motivation shit reminds me a lot of the shit that MLM sales people do to convince themselves that they are CEOs and one step away from driving a Rolls Royce as long as they have the mentality.

Look- if someone comes up to me and takes a bite out of the sandwich I'm eating in a restaurant, they're saying that I am their bitch, that they are superior to me, and they are entitled to just do whatever they want to me. I'm going to fuck someone up if they do that. It's not about the sandwich. The sandwich is replaceable. Publicly trying to punk me and bitchmake me, is unacceptable.

(a chorus of children who spend too much time reading this sub will chime in and insist that no one performs acts of violence or intimidation without going to jail, and that if anyone like that actually existed, there are laws of the universe that somehow prevent them from having access to the internet)

Now if I'm willing to do that over something that CAN'T give me blowjobs or do my laundry...

12 upvotesVinterBot1 year ago

The point went so over your head that I don't even know what to say.

2 upvotesPitchBlackGrin1 year ago

Stop trolling and take your meds

1 upvotesFratboyOnReddit1 year ago

I think just got a brain aneurysm from reading this thanks.

1 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Ugh, your reddit handle. Would you call your country a cunt?

260 upvotesnahlolol1 year ago

Walking out of a concert Friday night I accidently bumped into a girl. Took advantage of the situation and said hey with a smirk. She smiled and said hey back. From a distance I heard some guy say "keep walking dude". I laughed and kept talking to her. She kept the conversation going. The same guy said "keep walking" again. I laughed and continued the conversation with her. This guy then yells "you don't want any of this man, keep walking".

At this point I shook my head and laughed again. Stopped talking to the girl and "kept walking" with my friends.

Her face was completely red with embarrassment.

While standing at the light waiting to cross the street, I could hear them arguing. Didn't catch anything but could feel the frustration in both their voices.

Maybe this guy was her boyfriend. Maybe he was an orbiter and paid for her ticket, bought her food, drinks and expected her to fuck him that night.

Either way. How he acted doesn't look good. I felt the cringe this girl felt.

Don't be that guy.

72 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

On the flip side to this, what is the appropriate action if your plate/girl reacts positively? Call it a night and say “have fun” while he fucks your girl? Lmao (semi serious question)

77 upvotesOhBittenicht1 year ago

Happened to me, and yes, I literally said 'have fun' and walked off. Don't know what happened with them after that and I won't say I didn't care. What I can say is she practically stalked me after that, turned up at my work, at pubs I frequent, messaged me all the time. So was I down trodden for a bit? Yes. But in the end I felt powerful and confident. I did the right thing, I moved on and I don't regret it. It's her loss and she knew it.

17 upvotesplenty_of_eesh1 year ago

Uhhh at what point did you say have fun? How much attention had she already shown him, how hard was he hitting on her, etc.

Doing that after she makes out with him is one thing. But after she smiles at his first joke is another.

Context is everything.

37 upvotesOhBittenicht1 year ago

Without going into huge detail (was a while ago). On a night out, I went to the toilet came back and found her talking to a group of guys. In hindsight I should have immediately moved us to a different pub (you live and learn). Kept drinking with them for a while, eventually she went outside with one of them for a cig, they'd been a while so I went outside to see what was going on. She was touching his face, they were stood very close, just thought, nah, not having this. It wasn't the first thing she'd done and I should have put my foot down earlier in the relationship about other things. But you know, there was no Reddit Redpill forum back then, it was all trial and error.

7 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

She just went outside for a cig and left you with your dick in your hand? And you guys had came just the two of you? Yeah fuck that man. The level of outright disrespect. Maybe it was an overt shit test but a girl that shit tests like that isn’t worth the head ache.

I could see maybe if you were working the bar as well but if she just ditches cause you had to piss....naw

6 upvotesOhBittenicht1 year ago

Basically yes to both. Looking back maybe it was a shit test but even so, fuck that, not a shit test worth passing.

3 upvotesTheProphetPhysiquiel1 year ago

You learn more from your losses than you do from your victories. I bet you haven't made the same mistake since.

7 upvotesdegenerate_killer1 year ago

You will know when it hits you. Once she starts disregarding you and choosing another guy over you. Fucking drop em and ghost town.

82 upvotestheredfinance1 year ago

If that happens , you should find another girl. Btw , I don't recommend going to clubs with your LTR. There are many chanches other men may appear better than you in some situations

38 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

This was a concert. Do you also recommend avoiding all form of entertainment just in case a better alpha is around?

39 upvotesYour_Coke_Dealer1 year ago

He specified clubs. Clubs are one of few places designed for men to flex for women’s attention. Bottle service tables and VIP entry to show your wealth, pricy drinks for men to buy but comped everything for the ladies, and the whole establishment exists for approaches. Nightlife is a scam for the average man in general, a social filter to weed out those who do give a fuck, particularly about money, but also about women. In other words, they’re one big shit test.

OP’s “have a good night” tactic works for clubs, concerts, or anywhere, but if you want to have a good time, clubs are not the place. They’re not for your entertainment, they’re for women’s, and to line someone’s pockets. So if you must go to a club in an LTR, you aren’t fucked, but you can’t really relax the same as at somewhere you go just to enjoy the place

19 upvotesBrantmobile1 year ago

Solid advice. I truly do not understand how a night out with a LTR at a club can be defined as 'fun' as it defies the very basic goal of going to a club in the first place.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Shows and concerts can have the same issues but the fuck if I’m not gonna go out and get down at a show just because I have a LTR.

1 upvotesRawketPropelled1 year ago

They’re not for your entertainment, they’re for women’s, and to line someone’s pockets.

They're not even for women's entertainment. Clubs start right off with giving you an anxiety problem (dark, can't hear others, overly loud everything, people crammed together) then selling you the 'solution' to that problem at exorbitant prices: The Bar.

Clubs are for chumps.

3 upvotesYour_Coke_Dealer1 year ago

You’re right as well, but there’s also the matter of getting people to buy into the scam in the first place. Clubs cater to women, so men show up to meet those women, so the club can rob those chumps blind with drink prices.

12 upvotesbsutansalt1 year ago

There's always another just around the corner. That's why it's just your turn. Do with that information what you will.

18 upvoteswhatsthisgarg1 year ago

That's why it's just your turn.

Wrong mindset. It was HER TURN, and her turn is over.

3 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Yes, agreed. Maybe handcuffing the LTR and sticking her in a closet will make her stay longer? Don't know, will have to try sometime, like, never.

She's either completely dedicated to making it your turn, or she's already gone. If she's gone, why on earth would I want here here?

20 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

But then you become the guy who doesnt go to clubs but Chad in the office does

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I’ve never dated a girl who wanted to go to the club and I don’t want to go to the club either.

4 upvotesCasaDeFranco1 year ago

Club's are fun with your boys, but don't bring meat to a lion's den.

5 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Can't keep her in a bottle man. Avoiding going to clubs is not going to accomplish a thing. By all means, let her out to play. You want to manipulate a woman to be with you? Nah, I take any woman, plate, LTR, whatever, anywhere, if she finds her Chad, then all the best. And good riddance.

6 upvotestheredfinance1 year ago

I don't keep her in a bottle. I read here a comment on a post, some months ago, how to respond when she wants to go partying: "My girlfriends don't go to clubs" - then withdraw attention.

Since I had used that response, she has never wanted to go to any party/club/concert without me.

I don't go to clubs because I do not enjoy them. Expensive drinks, loud music and drunk people. If you want to get laid, it's okay, but as a couple is a no go.

2 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Of course to each his own. I never went to clubs alone. I never found it to be productive enough. But if my girl wants to go dancing, I'm game. But wouldn't blame you. Just make sure it's not done so you can keep her longer.

And the post you refer to, I remember, but I think the guy was talking about his girl wanting to go clubbing with her friends. But then again, I would not give a fuck either way. Hell, all my girls can even have a boyfriend. I couldn't care either way. They usually come back for more when they break up.

4 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

I was going to ask this seriously

2 upvotesOfficerWade1 year ago

If she wants you to know some guy is getting fresh with her, you’re probably too late to intervene but if you see it happening simply step in and say hey is there a problem? So Like a cop might do when he investigates. You can set a boundary.

17 upvotesField_Of_View1 year ago

I don't think that's a good idea at all. In his shoes I would respond "no" and lots of women won't say anything in that situation. So now your question went nowhere and nothing has changed, except you've shown jealousy. How is this helping you?

0 upvoteschazthundergut1 year ago

Good for her. She found a man who made her pussy wetter than you. Be happy for your bitch and go find another one.

1 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

You. You were the big dude who manipulates women to sleep with him despite this subreddit encouraging self improvement (which includes weight loss/gain). I am single, thank you very much. This is more likely to happen to you however.

P.S. I have plenty of bitches on deck, if you want I can send you a screen shot of tinder matches and my conversations.

1 upvoteschazthundergut1 year ago

Did a big fat guy fuck your bitch too?

1 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

Nah you wish. I would gladly have my hypothetical girl get fucked by a 6 foot plus, money making, built chad though because he’s worthy enough and put the time in, instead of you.

2 upvoteschazthundergut1 year ago

"I would gladly have my hypothetical girl get fucked by a 6 foot plus, money making, built chad though"

Cuck

4 upvoteswinterroving1 year ago

similar thing happened to me in a bar.

guy and gal on bar, i ask them if theyre together as to not stir up shit. They both strongly deny so i go for it. The guy gets more and more agitated, asking me WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS and more stupid shit. Spider tingles in my stomach but keep going. Eventually guy sucker punches me.

1.Trust your gut.

  1. Never underestimate the damage a beta can cause if he thinks hes hitting rock bottom
16 upvoteshearse2231 year ago

If he had just grabbed the girl, said to you "have a nice day man" and walked away, you'd just let her go without pursuing?

134 upvotesEighth__Man1 year ago

What else would you do? Physically stop them? That would make you look really dumb.

1 upvotesSPER1 year ago

No, you challenge him to a push-up contest. Winner gets the girl and crowned King of the corner. Loser call never walk through that side of the street again.

14 upvotesDo-it-for-you1 year ago

With or without her consent?

If the girl’s happily going along with it, you’ve already lost.
You could try to outwit him, but do you really want to “challenge” another guy for a girl that’s not respecting you.

If she’s being dragged away by force, then you intervene obviously.

10 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Pursuing who? A woman willing to walk away with another man at a club? Shit man, yeah, I'd find another girl and have a drink to Chad and the hooker he just left with.

-2 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

"hey here's a story about how a moron did a terrible job at something and made himself look bad, anyway that means you can't do that thing at all or you will look bad"

15 upvotesnahlolol1 year ago

Are you not capable of understanding that this short story of a Friday night is an example of how a women may react to AMOGing? It's pretty clear that the story agrees with OPs topic.

Acting the way the guy did was very unattractive and made the girl cringe with embarrassment.

3 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

But that story isn't about someone AMOGing. It's about a guy being a retard who lowered his status. If you can't tell the difference between these different things, and you think they're all the same as what the guy in your story did, you may be on the spectrum.

3 upvotesnahlolol1 year ago

You make a good point. It's possible I'm on the spectrum. It's also possible I don't know what AMOGing means too. Maybe I should of elaborated instead of keeping it short.

The walk from the time I bumped into her till the time he raged was about 10 min or so. In between him telling me to "keep walking" he was making comments about a guy wearing a snap back (me). He kept trying to get her attention, interrupt us, being loud and she ignored him keeping her attention on me.

The guy was clearly trying to make himself look better than me. I was hitting on her and he was trying to get me to stop by trying to put the attention back on him.

Is that not AMOGing someone?

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Nah. He was mate guarding. Neither of you were AMOGing.

1 upvotesMurkyArtichoke1 year ago

I think there’s a sweetspot between acting like you are bothered by having someone chatting up your girl, and not giving a fuck at all. Showing that you get easily jealous isn’t a good trait and makes you seem needy, but letting your girl possibly branch out isn’t a good idea either, it looks weak. Like, when you got out from the bathroom and this stranger is there chatting up your girl, why would you shake his hand and start talking to this random guy? Even if he was acting nice, it wouldn’t benefit you in any way. At the same time, if you started to show jealousy and argue with the guy, that’s when you lose frame. Just cutting him off, «have a good night» etc is the perfect response to these encounters, completely agree. And that also applies to life situations in general in my opinion. So many people out there looking for an excuse to get physical, show dominance or argue or whatever. Don’t give them an opportunity to do so.

So many times i’ve encountered situations at parties where some dude who is into the same girl you’re talking to trying to test your frame, looking for a chance to get a confrontation with you. Best thing is to just be unphased by it. Tell him to have a good night and move on. Made a mistake once to start arguing with this buff dude who was into the same girl i was chatting up. Turns out he had a short temper and did drugs. Punched me right in the mouth the fucker. Frame considerably lowered.

4 upvotesrorrr1 year ago

I hope you called the police on his ass.

1 upvotesMurkyArtichoke1 year ago

I actually called the police but i backed out. Was really drunk and i remember thinking that i didn't remember what i said or did to this guy so i didn't want to escalate the situation any further. I talked to a few of the people who were there afterwards and didn't get a clear picture. One girl said she saw us arguing and then he suddenly started choking me and then punched me or something. I got a small tear on the end of my lip and had to do stiches the day after. Got a small scar but not very noticable, people i meet don't mention it so i guess it's not that big of a deal. You're aboslutely right though i should have reported his ass immediately. Some people i talked to mentioned that he had been to prison for rape or something earlier and had drug problems before. Also used roids. I live in a small town so he often shows up in social media and he seems to be popular with girls here. Just shows girls don't really care much if the guys they fuck are assholes/convicted rapists, as long as they are attractive and buff.

4 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

I never found it to be productive enough. But if my girl wants to go dancing, I'm game. But wouldn't blame you. Just make sure it's not done so you can keep her longer.

If i ever got punched in the mouth by some roided up asshole, best believe I'm calling up my friends and driving around for him with a bat in my hand

1 upvotesMurkyArtichoke1 year ago

Think you quoted the wrong sentence mate

1 upvotesAndgelyo1 year ago

Yeah idk how that happened lol stupid iPhone

-1 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Always respect a man who's chatting up a girl. Even at the cost of losing her contact. Never compete, ever. Abundance mentality will always win out. Never, ever compete.

-123 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Made a mistake once to start arguing with this buff dude who was into the same girl i was chatting up. Turns out he had a short temper and did drugs. Punched me right in the mouth the fucker. Frame considerably lowered.

You got what you deserved. I hope the pain was a good lesson.

81 upvotesBloodSurgery1 year ago

Found the buff dude with short temper and who did drugs.

4 upvotesTheRedPike1 year ago

You seem to be creating quite the fan club around the sub lately.

-1 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

how many people have reported me

can you name names

i want to know who to mock for being whiny little babbies

5 upvotesRian_Stone1 year ago

Anyone pissing off this many LARPERs in here deserves a spot on my follow list.

cheers

3 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Sometimes I amaze even myself

49 upvotesbestplayer231 year ago

Simple and to the point, he deserves none of your time.

57 upvotesfeelingthis531 year ago

Bravo!!! Thanks for the words of wisdom.

78 upvotesNicolacho71 year ago

I legit don’t give a fuck if they hit on her. Either they pull it off or not. I gave up on trying to stop around 3 guys per night. It’s annoying. Like deal with it.

Like this shit made me reconsider about what type of girl I want. If I get a nerdy bitch she may not know how to say no. The hood rat probably knows how to reject better.

87 upvotesrpsheepdog1 year ago

If she wants another guy she is gonna make it happen anyways...

7 upvotesZech4riah1 year ago

I don't understand this. There seems to be shitloads of guys who are having this kind of problem.

There hasn't been a single time where someone had hit up my girl in bar in my presence over the last 15 year period and the couple of times it sort of has happened, the guy who came in to the group has apologized me and asked for permission to speak to us (not her, to us) while confirming if we are a couple or not.

This may be a cultural thing too?

2 upvotesSinister_Smooth1 year ago

I get the feeling that these people go to places that are swarming with single guys. I've never had to fight anyone off my partner because we look legit and only go places with respectable people.

Although my partner also has resting bitch face and snarls at any single guy that even looks at her so I think I found a good one.

19 upvoteseaazzy_131 year ago

My LTR is a payroll stripper (it presents its own unique challenges) but quite possibly the nicest benefit is that she is the BEST at curving some out of line sexual competitors. I don’t get AMOG’d ever cause she’s a ruthless bitch to any and every poor bastard that ever comes at her. It’s nice, I just get to sit back and smile. My exes were always too polite to say no so this is something I really appreciate.

She’s a cold hearted bitch to all these nerds out there but if you’re a legit dude who swings the dick right, you can make her put her evil powers to use for your own benefit.

12 upvotesTylerPonsford1 year ago

I agree, my LTR shuts down literally any guy and mugs him off better than anyone here ever could. I believe that if anyone is even having a problem with their girl potentially talking to another guy like this, or entertain the idea, then they need to reevaluate what they're doing in the bedroom.

5 upvoteseaazzy_131 year ago

Hell yeah dude I couldn’t agree more. Almost every problem men have with women can be solved with re-evaluating how they’re dickin their women down. If you hit it right, you can greatly increase the length of your turn with them. And there’s always room to get better at fuckin.

2 upvotesKyfhoMyoba1 year ago

I knew a guy that was engaged to a stripper and had a kid with her. Said she was amazingly loyal and when they were out (not at the strip club) and guys would hit on her - she's a hard 9, she would shut them down firmly, but politely. Seen it myself.

A stripper gets hit on all day long. They do this for a living. Their job is to manage this attention into a living for themselves. When strangers hit on her, they go into the category of "here's another customer," and I think that this has a tendency to polarize and accentuate her attraction to her man.

Just spit balling, here.

1 upvoteseaazzy_131 year ago

You’re spot on. Keeping horny men at bay is literally their profession. Entitlement is a large, negative issue unfortunately, but it works in my favor when men hit on her and she says “you think ima talk to you for free, you weirdo?” and I don’t even have to worry bout it.

She’s very, very good at maintaining boundaries with other males. If she wasn’t, I wouldn’t be able to be with her given the circumstances. But she knows whatsup and does it right, so as long as that’s the case, I’m gunna enjoy this while I can.

1 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

most likely, your non-pro LTRs simply fucked a lot of guys and don't know how to say 'no' period. inexperienced girls will simply hold onto you, or make it nonverbally known to the AMOG that she's 'with you'..... you know? lmao

44 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

I don't mean to be disrespectful with this question. But how is it that other men see fit to approach a girl who is obviously with you? I'd like to explore what we transmit to others that allow them to think they can disrespect us in that manner. Fear? Weakness? You have any idea what it could be? Do you lift? Does it show?

I don't remember ever having to defend my position in the way you describe it above. But I am curious about it.

26 upvotesebaymasochist1 year ago

Just the fact that 98% of the time there are not going to be consequences.. It's not the wild west. Most guys are not going to assault someone for having a conversation with their girl.. So it's a gamble

22 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

They think that you are their bitch and they can take your sandwich.

It does not matter that the sandwich is replaceable. What matters is the mentality behind what they are trying to do.

I wouldn't let someone take a single crushed m&m off me. Good luck trying to punk me out of something I can use as a cumdumpster.

41 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

Good answer. But what about your demeanor makes them think you're a bitch. I'm trying to get/make the point that if you're even slightly jacked and don't look like you're a wimp, it's not going to happen often. I may be lucky, but I've never had anyone hit up a woman in my presence. If I leave to go take a piss or something, yeah. But usually, my arrival alone is enough to have the guy leave.

To bottom line this. If this is happening in your presence, you have a lot, a lot more gym to do. And if you're a shorter guy, then your goals should be to become as wide as you can. Muscle wise I mean. But nobody walks up to a lion to take his food. Unless he's dressed up as a kitty.

22 upvotesChrimsonChin9881 year ago

Partly true. Some people are just very confident/drunk/on drugs and approach your girl regardless of your looks, they just don’t give a fuck. Maybe you’re jacked but short and I’m jacked and tall and I think I can AMOG you. Perhaps you’re good looking but I’m rich and therefore I think I can AMOG you. There are so many reasons as to why someone could decide to AMOG you.

For example, one guy that comes to mind who I initially would think never gets AMOGed is Dwayne Johnson. He’s good looking, charismatic, tall, jacked AF, rich and famous. Yet I’m 100% sure people will still try to amog even him. Why? Because how cool would it be to AMOG The Rock himself?

It happens to even the best of us. However, the higher your status the easier they’re dealt with. Dwayne Johnsom would merely need to laugh and they would instantly be pulled into his frame.

18 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

if you're even slightly jacked and don't look like you're a wimp, it's not going to happen often.

First, that is 100% not true- if it were, no one would ever LOSE a confrontation or a punk-out attempt, as they would only be happening to people who are 'wimps'. Second, go ask the built people at your local gym if they never get challenged by people who aren't as built as they are. They'll laugh the very idea.

Clearly, to anyone with a sense of the reality of the world, it happens all the time.

I grew up with a circle of friends who liked to do the "Q ship" tactic in bars and clubs. Act a little submissive and beta around the other guys, switch it up and properly chat up some girls, almost always lures in some guys who think they're gonna punk us based on what they saw earlier. Pretty solid way to get a good fight going where you can't get held responsible once the tapes get reviewed.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Q-ship

14 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

This guys a tool looking for fights. Unless you like fighting in public like a fucking moron, don’t listen to this person.

8 upvotesBostonPillParty1 year ago

Whoa what

Qship story please

7 upvotes-Fidelio-1 year ago

Heh, that's some art of war shit right there.

Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak

2 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Just shit like wearing khaki pants and a pink button down to punk rock bars, acting the right way, you can imagine the rest.

1 upvotespresto_manifesto1 year ago

Tbh, if you were wearing a pink button down shirt in a punk bar, and I came over and started chatting with the girl you were with, it would mostly be because I thought you were fucking gay and not actually dating her. If you got in my face I'd have to tell you "look dude, you look gay as fuck, it ain't my fault." Come on now.

0 upvotesBostonPillParty1 year ago

TIL..and there isn’t anything as far as I can see about that online. Thanks for sharing, always great to learn something that isn’t on Wikipedia

7 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

as they would only be happening to people who are 'wimps'.

Wrong, they would happen more to people who look like wimps. Being jacked is not a solution. I've seen ripped guys back down fast from a confrontation. Attitude plays a huge role. Being ripped is just another aspect that may reduce the occurrences. It really helps.

They'll laugh the very idea.

We go to very different gyms.

5 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Clearly you live in an alternate universe where people only challenge wimps.

0 upvotesGaius_Octavius1 year ago

Never happens to me either, clocking in at 235.

0 upvotesZech4riah1 year ago

But nobody walks up to a lion to take his food. Unless he's dressed up as a kitty.

Couldn't have said any better... :D

1 upvotesZech4riah1 year ago

My thoughts exactly. Never had to defend my position and if I'm visiting toilet etc and my girl gets hit around that time - it's only enough that I go and stand next to her without saying anything and just casually watch the guy. Usually in 1min they leave.

1 upvotesCasaDeFranco1 year ago

What's funny is that the hotter women I've dated haven't had this as big of a problem.

With 7's this happens all the time, return from the bar, bathroom whatever and a new orbiter appears.

But with 9's, it's super rare.

Usually, if you ask politely, "We're in the middle of a conversation that's private", and gesture for them to leave.

0 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

Combination of 'polite society', ego, and plausible deniability.

14 upvotesMrTheFalcon1 year ago

Acknowledging him and walking away is a good way to draw a line, and let the other guy save face. Not shaking is putting yourself above him, without rubbing it in his face.

The more you get into it, the more you say, the more it becomes a conflict.

Brilliant.

0 upvotesHamilton950B1 year ago

Refusing to shake the guy's hand when he offers it is an insult. It's like saying "fuck you." Why would you do that? Shake his hand, say goodbye, and leave.

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Why would you shake this guy hand lol? He his courting your women."Yeah right peace lol"

3 upvotesjuliusstreicher1 year ago

No, the dude is trying to manipulate you. He's trying to steal your girl and make you shake his hand. It's an old trick.

2 upvotesMrTheFalcon1 year ago

Exactly! It's like saying "fuck you" without actually saying it. Kinda like when he is hitting on your girl, when you are right there.

If he was polite, he would say, "Ah, sorry guys. I didn't know." And he would be on his way.

Don't be nice. Show your teeth, but do it in a way that allows the other guy to back out, and save face. Your woman will love it because it shows social acumen, and strength.

54 upvotesReturningSpider1 year ago

Not gonna disagree with the advice ITT, but if you physically intimidate the guy and make him look like a bitch it can really give her the tingles.

Again not saying you should do this, just sharing the experience lol

48 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Bluepill: women hate mateguarding

Redpill: women hate passive aggressive whiny bitch mateguarding, women love it when a man beats down the competition

8 upvotesKyfhoMyoba1 year ago

Saint Rollo of Tomassi sayeth:

Beta males mate guard, alpha males disregard. I.e., when their main woman is being engaged by another man, the alpha goes and games a different, hotter woman, showing pre-selection, and thus, inspiring DREAD.

Post on here a oouple of years ago, guy goes to his LTR's (10 year?) high school reunion. She goes to the bathroom, and is gone for a while, he looks for her. Sees her in the hallway surrounded by some guys, one of them is leaning in to her, and they look like they're about to kiss or something. She doesn't see the BF, so he (bf) goes back out into the main room, starts flirting with some hottie who is clearly younger than the 10 year cohort. Within a few minutes, his LTR comes looking for HIM, grinds up on him, shuts down the hottie, and never leaves his side not only the rest of the night, but starts treating him better than ever, i.e., she mate-guards HIM.

10 upvotesDo-it-for-you1 year ago

You’re not wrong, but if you intimidate the wrong person, you’ll get in a fight, at worst you’ll get stabbed. Is it really worth the effort?

14 upvotesReturningSpider1 year ago

I said twice in my comment that I don’t recommend this. I’m not saying you go out and start a fight every time someone hits on your girl. Ive been in a grand total of one fight in my life, and it wasn’t girl related.

Sometimes things just happen, and context is very important. There’s a world of difference between roughing up some drunk frat boy acting up, and picking a fight with a pack of chocolate Americans outside a bar at 2AM.

If anyone happens to give a fuck, here’s the story I had in mind with that comment - was at a college party with LTR gf at the time, I ran into some guys I hadn’t seen in a while so I left her alone to go catch up with them. When I come back, this preppy dickwad is trying to chat her up, gf says “oh see he’s back I told you I had a boyfriend”, guy comes up to me and starts saying supremely retarded stuff like “oh so I guess you don’t let her have friends huh?”. I let it be, ignored his nonsense but the dude insisted on getting in my face saying “what, did I scare you?” At this point his body language was pretty aggressive, he was half shoving me and honestly I’d had a bit to drink myself so I wasn’t exactly my normal calm self. Grabbed him by the collar and put him up against a wall and told him he’s getting annoying and he needs to shut up and fuck off. The guy walked off saying I need to relax and why do I take everything so seriously lol

I’m 210lbs and I train martial arts, this guy had your typical soy filled physique with soft skinny arms and a fat gut. I knew my odds were pretty good going in.

And just to be sure, I’m going to clarify one more time that I do not recommend this, since it seems some did not catch that. You’re endangering yourself, and it’s a dick move. You won’t always have the luxury of getting into this situation in a “safe” setting like I did. Pretty much 100% of fights are avoidable unless you’re dealing with a crazy person.

2 upvoteswhatsthisgarg1 year ago

but if you physically intimidate the guy and make him look like a bitch it can really give her the tingles.

You forgot to tell the second part of this, where the woman gets turned on.

But it's true, sometimes a bit of aggro is called for. Usually all it takes is a look of who the fuck are you and what the fuck do you think you're doing?

The last time this happened she was talking to a co-worker I didn't remember. The dude was bigger than me but he actually literally cowered and slouched down. As we left she said "what was up with that aggressive hostility?" And yes, she was very turned on. Not that I did it consciously, it was just a very natural response.

2 upvotesBrantmobile1 year ago

it can really give her the tingles.

or can it get you fucked up for good/shot/stabbed.

37 upvotesfalconiawillfall1 year ago

When I was blue pilled, I was clubbing one night with my gf and she was drunk af. I went and got drinks and came back to a guy grabbing her, but she was smiling/laughing. It was at this point I mentally checked out of my LTR and just sat back and watched the show. She came up to me after and asked why I didnt help her, to which I replied "It looks like you were having fun so I didnt bother." She said she tried telling him she has a bf but he wouldnt take no for an answer, saying "it doesn't work like that around here", which she thought was very funny. This wasn't the first time she had failed to respect our relationship. Moral of the story?

  1. I was retarded for picking her as an LTR

  2. If your girl's going to cheat on you, she'll find a way regardless of your mate guarding

  3. This was a great way for me to find out how she handled guys hitting her up on GNO (hint: she loved it)

  4. Now I could give less of a fuck if a guy's hitting up the girl I'm with, it's not worth my time or energy to intervene (of course, if she had been visibly distressed/clearly wanting him to fuck off, I would have stepped in)

1 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

It was at this point I mentally checked out of my LTR and just sat back and watched the show.

She came up to me after and asked why I didnt help her

So not only were you a cuck, but you expected mommy to do the work and fend off the interloper. Pathetic.

20 upvotesfalconiawillfall1 year ago

If she's enjoying the guy's advances, why should I bother? Genuine question btw, I'm here to learn.

13 upvotesGolfinEagle1 year ago

Be careful who you learn from around here. Read side bar material and take advice from Endorsed Contributors. Then once you’ve developed you’ll be able to sift through the good/bad.

8 upvotesfalconiawillfall1 year ago

Thanks for the heads up, will keep that in mind. I was a bit surprised by his response as I consider that moment one of the few times I acted naturally red-pilled in that LTR.

14 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Actually, TRP community is full of life losers, internet fakers and liars, you shouldn't be surprised. I rather read blogs as rationalmale than swiping through the shits by shits on reddit.

15 upvotesL1amas1 year ago

Dude, you're all over this thread with terrible advice. Cut that shit out man. You're either trolling or really sincerely just don't understand. Read the sidebar and don't comment again until you do.

13 upvotesMaleden1 year ago

If he sees what she does in person, he may now know how she will act without him.

A) He's working in his frame

B) Failure to ACT following his story would make him a cuck.

8 upvotesfalconiawillfall1 year ago

Yep, this is what I was hoping to find out about her. Demoted her to fwb, then broke up with her fully later.

47 upvotesconfusedguy9119111 year ago

I see zero point in even bothering with shit like this . 1: if some jerkoff decides to hit on the woman I’m with that night good for him and good luck 2: my woman already knows she’s with me and if she decided to flirt and give him her number or worse (hasn’t happened yet) then he can keep the bitch I’ll move on. 3: last time this happened to me at the time she was what one would consider my “gf” , she laughed at the guy and walked away with me.

Woman who wanna cheat ,get attention or go with some guy or bang a new cock will , this extra effort requirement by me isn’t necessary.There will always be betas ,orbiters,guys on the liquid courage etc etc ... Lifting or being bigger than average doesn’t scare off stupid , if it did most of us would be left alone to enjoy our nights.I also wouldn’t walk out of a venue because some guy was hitting on my woman, it’s her job to flush the garbage out. If she didn’t well.... when someone uses my toothbrush I throw it out and get a new one.

73 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

While I agree with you on paper, women will size up how you deal with other men, either conscious or subconsciously (and mostly subconsciously.) When an AMOG decides to impose himself on your conversation, are you seriously expecting the girl to tell him to fuck off? You're the man, she is going to defer to you to deal with interlopers. This post has very little to do with keeping your girl from sleeping with the interfering AMOG, and more to do with how not to be socially cucked by some random AMOG. Your plate is 99.8% not going to leave with the AMOG even if he makes you look retarded, but any interaction that lowers your frame is going to change her tingles for you. That's why imo it's simply best not to play by telling any AMOGs to "Have a good night."

14 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

when an AMOG decides to impose himself on your conversation, are you seriously expecting the girl to tell him to fuck off? You're the man, she is going to defer to you to deal with interlopers.

Hahaha wow you managed to put words to the overall idea I was feeling about this. When you spell it out, expecting HER to be mommy and deal with the interloper sure is "redpilled" and "alpha" LOL

5 upvotesbikermonk1 year ago

are you seriously expecting the girl to tell him to fuck off?

Why not, if she doesnt want something she can say so

2 upvotesfurcryingoutloud1 year ago

She most certainly has to make the first move. So yes, she should be the first to tell him to go fuck himself. If necessary, you can then ensure he does so. But being rejected by a woman outright is pretty effective. So yes, I do expect her to bother telling the guy to fuck off.

-12 upvotesHorses_On_Stilts1 year ago

Stop looking at yourself through her eyes. What she thinks doesn’t matter

23 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

The Chad is strong in this one but "Have a good night" is something I do even when there are no women around... there's no use in wasting time with asshole AMOGs, and doubly so when you're with a woman trying to have a good time.

9 upvotesioncehadsexinapool1 year ago

I like this. Have a good night.

33 upvotesWoodWizzy871 year ago

Just let your woman shut him down. If she doesn’t, then she is not your woman

-some philosopher

2 upvotesZeppKfw1 year ago

Except there are always those dudes who keep talking to your girl even if she says "I have a bf", etc.

5 upvotesHerefortheTuna1 year ago

well yeah because half the time its fake. I keep talking to a girl until she leaves. Sometimes I just want to have a conversation not looking to fight. If her boyfriend shows up I will talk to him.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

So much scrolling to find this idea...

-7 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Be a real man and make MOMMY fend off the interloper

1 upvoteschambercock1 year ago

"grabbed her by the hand and moved to another place in the venue". And when AMOG comes back for round 2? But really what do you do then I'm asking?

45 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

Once the girl willingly walks away with you, she has entered your frame of 'fuck the AMOG'. TBH, I've never had it happen, but should the AMOG actually follow you, and depending on how aggressive he is, I would first try to ignore him, then say something like, "look, we're just trying to have a drink" and go back to talking to my girl, and should it continue beyond that, and again depending on the level of aggression from the AMOG, I would get security involved. I'm a grown man and go to decent venues. I'm over the whole getting into fights bullshit. Being a relatively big dude (over 6ft, 200 lbs) I don't get many takers, but these days I'm the first person to say, "I'm gonna call the cops/security," rather than resort to blows. Tends to calm mother fuckers down real fast once you invoke the police. If this still doesn't get him to go, then he's prolly already swinging on you and there was prolly nothing you could have done to prevent it.

15 upvotesAxiom5021 year ago

Yeah I hate to admit it but I was that guy once. It wasn't over a girl it was over some punk/road rage incident. Flipped him off because he ran through a red light. He turned around and started following me so I pulled over and went right up to his (open) passenger window and told him to get the fuck out of the car.

Then he whined and went for his phone and said he was gonna call the cops on me you psycho!!

I admit it did immediately hit me with sense that I could have to deal with police over this insignificant shit so I just went back to my car.

9 upvotesEsk1mOz4mb1k1 year ago

Reading this reminded me american cops are really not the kind of cops you want to deal with. Good for you though, here in France they're a bunch of cowards and you can't count on them to defend you. Getting suckerpunched has litteraly no consequences (unless you're a woman), better stay on your toes.

3 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

As if USA has a monopoly on violence... people get their asses kicked all over Europe.

10 upvoteshearse2231 year ago

You point to your woman, say "my girl" and shoo him away

21 upvotesMaliciousMack1 year ago

Begs one question....

If you try to lead someone you just met and she refuses, how do you save face, other than just taking it as a loss?

47 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

My examples focus on girls you've already laid. If a girl you've slept with refuses to be led by you away from some random AMOG, then the battle was lost long before the AMOG showed up and there are holes in your game you're not seeing.

On the other hand, by attempting to physically lead a girl you just met, you are taking a leap of faith she will follow. You are assuming you've created enough tingles/attraction that no unknown AMOG will be able to prevent you from leading her. Should she refuse to follow and isn't encouraged by a light tug, you're best just ejecting and coming at her again at a later time (and moving on to other girls.) Make no mistake: Doing the 'have a good night' against an AMOG with a girl you just met is a gambit and sticking around to deal with the AMOG after you already tried to pull her out will only weaken your frame.

9 upvotesHorses_On_Stilts1 year ago

I like to give her the feeling that I want her to talk to this guy so she’ll leave me the fuck alone. Works

8 upvotesWitch-Doctor1 year ago

Pure gold brother. Why bother with these assholes? They can turn aggressive in an instant anyway. Who has time for that shit? Nice one man, really good stuff.

17 upvotesebaymasochist1 year ago

If you want to have a little fun, just say something like "Oh you're the guy who's in the threesome tonight? You have a pretty face." And then put out your hand

Life is short

5 upvotesjuju5151 year ago

lol... excellent dude... I'll have to try this... xD

edit:

what if he agrees & amplifies ? o.O

1 upvotesPestilence19111 year ago

Just tell him traps arent gay and he can borrow your ladies dress.

6 upvotesTheTrenTrannyTrain1 year ago

I like it, simple and easy to implement.

4 upvotesBobbyPeru1 year ago

The girl 100% knew without being explicitly told why I was making this decision for us and did not question or shit test me.

This is my experience after swallowing the pill. Pre-TRP I would have handled situations like this butthurt, mate guarding, entertained the guy (stayed paralyzed). The key is frame, 100%. Once you have strong frame, your girl realizes that a dude like that won’t phase you, and the best move is to move along and not even mention it (in the car or anywhere) ever.

This also applies to situations where a guy is just being a dick and not hitting on your girl. For example, recently I got shit tested by my wife’s dad in front of the whole family. I laughed off his attempt with amused mastery, and I never brought it up with my wife. She didn’t bring it up either because she knows I’m a big boy now and can handle myself. BTW, he STFU and didn’t shit test me the rest of the party. The whole family saw it, and so now they know how much stronger my frame has become, so future shit tests from other family members is less likely.

1 upvoteseaazzy_131 year ago

Mind if I ask for more details? My a LTRs Dad is a real ball buster and I’m curious what was said between you two.

4 upvotesBobbyPeru1 year ago

It was short. My wife and I were discussing where to sit at the table, and she told me she already took a seat somewhere. At that point my FIL said in a loud dickish voice, “she said she wants you to sit right there,” pointing at the obvious spot next to her. I used amused mastery and jokingly said “ I’ll sit wherever I want to sit.”

Now, the key here was the delivery in a DNGAF manner and grinning. Immediately after, I moved right along and cracked a couple unrelated jokes to my wife and she laughed. He basically didn’t reply, and he looked deflated that his little comment didn’t have the desired effect it would have a couple years ago. It’s all about frame. It’s not DEERing if you DNGAF and say it in such a way. It’s a subtle shift in mentality . The real measure was his reaction, which was deflated... and my reaction, which was boisterous and fun.

4 upvoteslaylowwww1 year ago

"As Jeff Bezos himself always says: Competition is for suckers. Look to create a monopoly for yourself. "

This was coined by Peter Thiel in Zero to One.

9 upvotesRonValhalla1 year ago

Excellent post, if you want more, this is one of the best articles I have ever read on this subject https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/09/when_was_the_last_time_you_got.html

8 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

I remember one time I was out at night with my girl at the time, and her friend, it was like 1 AM and we were at a sandwich shop. Anyways, I went to use he bathroom and when I came back there was this guy sitting in my spot at the booth. I immediately saw his bloody knuckles and the guy invited me over to try to AMOG me. I knew he was coked out and he kept saying dumb shit like “I’m bigger than you bro” and I took the bait and gave him the time of day, I was like “yeah? Good for you bro” and eventually it was the girls who got uncomfortable and asked me if I wanted to leave, and I told the guy “stay in here until we’re far gone, I’ve got the cops on speed dial.”. Needless to say I didn’t get pussy that night, and the girl said “you should’ve just left and taken us with you, I didn’t realize you could get that aggressive”. I can say for a fact that as soon as I lost frame that night, I could actually feel it slipping away when I engaged with that dude.

OP, great story and excellent advice. Don’t give assholes the time of day, folks.

10 upvotesLiveAFTSOV1 year ago

Great actionable advice. Will steal this

3 upvotesyamehameha1 year ago

Great advice. What is she gonna do? Potentially lose all the investment she put into you in order to go for a new guy she knows nothing about. Nah.

1 upvotesStuttererXXX1 year ago

If she thinks the guy is more valuable than you are, that's exactly what she is gonna do.

10 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

"No you need to just be cool and joke around and let him act like you're some bitch who he can walk up and take a sandwich from, OR ELSE YOU'RE MATEGUARDING! SCARCITY MENTALITY!"

"If she reacts positively to him just leave! Sure he might be going balls deep on her that night while you laid in bed alone BUT YOU DEMONSTRATED HIGH VALUE!"

A lot of the TRP mental motivation shit reminds me a lot of the shit that MLM sales people do to convince themselves that they are CEOs and one step away from driving a Rolls Royce as long as they have the mentality.

Look- if someone comes up to me and takes a bite out of the sandwich I'm eating in a restaurant, they're saying that I am their bitch, that they are superior to me, and they are entitled to just do whatever they want to me. I'm going to fuck someone up if they do that. It's not about the sandwich. The sandwich is replaceable. Publicly trying to punk me and bitchmake me, is unacceptable.

(a chorus of children who spend too much time reading this sub will chime in and insist that no one performs acts of violence or intimidation without going to jail, and that if anyone like that actually existed, there are laws of the universe that somehow prevent them from having access to the internet)

Now if I'm willing to do that over something that CAN'T give me blowjobs or do my laundry...

2 upvotesdark_kniggit1 year ago

Exactly. I wouldn't indulge a jehovas witness in the same situation. Why would I do it for any other twit.

1 upvotesILoveYourYogaPants1 year ago

I agree with your mindset, it is the principal.

Question for my own curiosity, if it was a guy that you knew could physically take you, would your reaction be the same, or different?

3 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

Probably provoke him into making the first move. If he's already testing me like that, he'll take the bait. Maybe I'll get my ass kicked. Maybe I won't. If he does manage to kick my ass, I'll just get him later, when he's alone, and doesn't see it coming. And then I get to feel justified about it.

Most common outcome though is he starts chimping out a bit and doing that sway armed white trash/black trash monkey dance, before his friends pull him back or security throws him out.

The point is that if someone is trying to make you look like a bitch, it must be answered, whether through making them look like a socially inept fuckhead, a bitch themselves, or someone doing the 'planking' meme IRL.

5 upvotesDakstradamus1 year ago

I saw a video on liveleak that is a great example of how losing your cool when a guy checks out/hits on your girl can actually backfire.

The vid was surveillance footage inside a store. There was a couple at the register and some dude adjacent to them giving himself a herniated disc checking out the girls ass.

The guy catches him staring and confronts him, throws a weak ass punch on the dudes jaw which makes him stumble and promptly leave the store.

There was no audio but you could tell the girl was pissed that her man resorted to blows. After being on the tailend of headshakes and arm flails for a good 15 seconds, the dudes demeanor just changes in an instant. His shoulders slump and he walks out the store, dejected, in the voyeurs wake, presumably to chase him down for an apology.

Acting too macho got his girl pissed which then, being forced by his fear of retracted intimacy, he had to enter into her frame and obey.

Maybe he could have held firm on his defense of "m'ladys sanctity" and gotten hot sex that night, but its not worth the risk. Especially nowadays when everyone is a potential concealed carrying, stand-your-ground lunatic.

2 upvotesspartan13371 year ago

i like it, short and effective.

2 upvotesLuckyluke231 year ago

great post man, it was short sharp and it has a GREAT point. no bragging no " hey look at me i fucked"

loved it!

2 upvotesNot_creative_fun1 year ago

Spot on advice. When I’ve hit on really hot women that had their boyfriends near by (without me realizing) they would often act similarly to this. Not “getting into it” with anyone shows that you’re secure, not threatened, confident and even insinuates that you get this all the time since your girl is hot af and it doesn’t even phase you.

2 upvotesDon_Himself1 year ago

lol @ being dumb enough to commit to a roastie in the first place, but if you really are dumb enough to do so, the best thing to do is agree & amplify and/or flirt with the hot girls there yourself. amuse yourself enough that your girl being hit on makes you laugh.

2 upvotesZech4riah1 year ago

I always wonder why guys are actually taking their plates/FB/FwB to dates. At that point they are not just plates/FB/FwB they are closer to GF or atleast the "girl who you are dating or seeing".

Anyway, to the subject. I never get AMOGed when I'm with a girl so your confidence/attitude/posture/bodylanguage definitely plays a role there. But if it happens some day. I'll try to keep these advices in my mind. Although I'd prefer not to switch place especially if there is lack of tables etc so maybe "have a nice night" with decisive eye contact would be sufficient?

When I'm in a club with a girl I'm fucking (usually MLTR), guys usually talk to them when I'm in toilet etc. When that happens and I come back, I usually stay back a bit and when she notices me I'll just give a smirky smile and let her to get rid of the guy. I just find those kind of situations funny.

2 upvoteswomans_algorithm1 year ago

"have a good night"

"wow chill out, i just wanted to introduce myself, why are you so antisocial?"

2 upvotesNiceReporter1 year ago

I'm gonna be honest, shit like this does rattle my cage. I usually try to bottle it and generally handle it well. But I think my problem is that I've never been able to work up the courage to chat up a random girl and when I see it happen to my girl literally right after letting her out of my sight, even though I know she's mine, it makes me feel like shit.

2 upvoteshawkeaglejesus1 year ago

Ah yes, shunning someone. It's like slapping them with silence.

2 upvotesRylanBlackwood1 year ago

In my mind walking away makes you look buthurt. I normally just totally ignore the situation and talk/dance with friends.

2 upvotesardLV1 year ago

Okay, very good point!

But my question is:

What if you're like sitting at the table with your girl. Then you go to toilet and when you come back a guy is hitting on your girl. Do you just swtich tables or leave table?

2 upvoteshiddenpleasures1231 year ago

One thing I learned as a bouncer, say it once and don't say it again. You literally sit there and just stare at them, it conveys talking is over. This is hugely intimidating, because communication is over, the next step is going to blows and you're ready for action.

2 upvotesJcHgvr1 year ago

Do you think a king would entertain some asshole amoging him and trying to talk up his bitch for the night?

I think a king would entertain himself by having the guy beheaded. Those were the days.

1 upvotesIliketoeatAMA1 year ago

How would you react if the AMOG starts hitting on the chick you havent fucked yet, but actively trying to? Would the same thing work?

1 upvotesCloudsurf891 year ago

Good point, well made.

I work in a female heavy environment and for the most part enjoy the occasional shit that gets sent my way. I'll usually playfully trade remarks and genuinely enjoy it as there is no edge on their part - women throwing shit your way can just be them checking you out.

There's one cantankerous older battle axe though who likes to get on her high horse. She ranks significantly below me professionally and interpersonally. I'll sometimes play but often just rise above it - ultimately, what does a boot care what an ant thinks?

1 upvotesnumiru1 year ago

Reading this it kind of sounds like this guy bothered you in a way. I'd say laugh at his attempt but dont get upset. it kind of shows weakness imo. He clearly wouldn't have a chance so just treat him like a child

1 upvotesauosie1 year ago

This is an amazing post and I really enjoyed reading it. I’m interested in where you guys are finding your plates or fwb. I haven’t gotten out much lately and would like to go out on more dates. Not attending any classes currently. Any ideas?

1 upvotes4ktx1 year ago

How do you keep frame when i literally pick your girl up throw her on my shoulders and walk away with her.

1 upvotesEastuss1 year ago

Happens to me sometimes, AMOGs think my short ass don't deserve my gf and try to tell her they're better deal. Another thing that also happen are boyfriend of female friend who joke about threesome with my gf, in front of me. Like nobody can read wtf he is doing...

This is something I've been always saying, aggressiveness is a sign of equality, if you get aggressive that means you feel threatened.

Somehow, the RPW seem to think "true alpha" men will fuck shit up to anyone daring. Meh. But it's been shown testosterone renders men sociable, agreeable and even generous to "lesser" beings.

1 upvoteszncmckskaowidixjsjai1 year ago

If he engages and she speaks to him that means she wants him so I leave, IDGAF.

If he engages her and she does not but he keeps pushing the line then I calmly and respectfully tell him to stop, if he wants a piece of myself he can try, I don`t do MMA for nothing.

1 upvotesSir_Distic1 year ago

Think. There HAS to be a better way to end the encounter without fighting.

1 upvoteszncmckskaowidixjsjai1 year ago

Of course, violence is the last resort and I am willing to use it if things go down the bad route.

1 upvotesresist_the_resisters1 year ago

I don't believe in tactical mate guarding, but I ABSOLUTELY believe in strategic mate guarding.

Context: I've been part of a latin dance scene for many years, including teaching and DJ'ing. I have seen dozens of relationships and marriages torpedoed by women being seduced by aggressive, overtly sexual dudes. The presence of machismo goes without saying, but in a city my size, the skill level is relatively high, engendering a groupie-like atmosphere. (Yes, advanced dancers and DJ's have TONS of groupies)

So, if you are a beginning nobody in the dance scene, you have the lowest status in the room, while high status guys SURROUND and DEVOUR attractive women. It's a recipe for disaster.

So, what's the solution? Go to family-friendly socials and outdoor events where the atmosphere is far less predatory. Or go to a random live band and mess around on the dance floor while everyone else watches.

Some of you might say 'even strategic mate guarding if for losers!'. Ok, maybe. But many years of devastating lessons have shown me that most women are like children in their unconscious decision making abilities - and you don't give loaded guns or recreational drugs to children.

1 upvotessynchronicity91 year ago

I sit back and watch to see if my girl takes the bait... she never does but if she did, it would be over in an instant.

1 upvotesSir_Distic1 year ago

When I walk up he sticks out his hand and says, "Hi I'm Keith, nice to meet you!" with a big smile.

"I'm flattered really but I'm with her. Thank you though." Take her hand and walk off with her

1 upvotesRedpillandrew1 year ago

Simple, plain, bulletproof. Few nights ago I was dancing at a club with my plate and there was this guy. I was kinda having fun with her, lifting her up while dancing, grinding on each other, just to spice things up.

This guy was trying to open us up with some amused ingenuine stupor, like suggesting us to stop this because it was too hot to watch and he was getting horny and shit like that. Two times.

I looked at him smiling and told him to mind his fucking business, with my thumbs up. Straight but delivered with no drama, playfully. Then moved away with the girl from that spot of the club in a couple of minutes (I didn't wanna rush things like something bad just happened or the big bad guy drove me away).

Now that I read this I realize I could have been much colder and dry, going with your "good. Have a good night", and removing us from the guy.

We tend to be overfriendly and often let the guy engage us in an attempt not to come across as butthurt or nervous, but... No need to, I see. Great advice, OP

1 upvoteslfc_ak1 year ago

Great advice, I once faced a situation when I was walking down the road and came across a guy whom I met once a few months back, he says "Hey good to see you after so long!" and then he starts talking non stop to the girl that was with me. In this situation don't you think the girl will think I'm being rude if I break the "conversation" between them, grab her hand and walk away?

1 upvoteslatinasonly1 year ago

hey bro, it seems like you like my girl, i can rent her to you for a week for $2000 . both of you seem to click.......watch you say babe ?

1 upvotessimplisticallysimple1 year ago

What if the girl refuses to leave with you? To play devil's advocate

1 upvotesNobilityLancer1 year ago

On the other hand that guy entered your frame and you 'ran away' from the interaction, if a lion's girl got attacked he would make the other lion leave. I'm not sure what message this converts to the girl's psychology.

1 upvotesTheStarsTurnBlue1 year ago

Solid af post. Treat these guys like you would an annoying little brat. You've seen it all before, and you're sick of it.

1 upvotesGuardian_of_Justice1 year ago

Wait wait wait guys i know i might get downvoted, but what if that other guy is you who reads the sidebar and you are just hitting on another TRPer's plate? Are we saying its okay men treat each other as "that asshole" outside of this sub? Or is out of necessity- a competition that is unavoidable even if its a buddy and a buddy?

2 upvotesMarsupian1 year ago

If a guy shuts me down like that more power to him for playing it properly.

0 upvotesbrudd_be_rad1 year ago

I see, so it’s alpha to act Like it doesn’t bother you, by allowing yourself to effectively Signal to that person hitting on your girl that it does bother you by the simple fact you are responding.

I take it as a compliment when people hit on my wife, I even wish them good luck. I know my wife is going home with me, so to even strategize in my brain how to effectively outmaneuver some skirt chaser is a stupid and desperate redundancy

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 1 year ago

Just don't mate guard. It's just that simple. Nothing screams high value like not even acknowledging that your girl is interested or talking to another man. So what? She can make up her own mind and fuck who she wants, you don't care because you have pussy on tap. If she wants to keep you, she'll have to work for it, otherwise, there's always a new one around the corner. After all the valuable posts on this, let's not return to a beta mate guarding world. You just expended energy in talking and walking away, changing your life, to protect her from other dudes socially, telling these women that you value them highly and giving them the power. That's just how the female mind works. So unless you're looking to be beta, don't.

1 upvotesDaParish91 year ago

You come off as really butthurt if you're not shaking their hand and or acting like they don't even phase you.

26 upvotesphenethyljammin1 year ago

Offering to shake OPs hand is a power play, and that's all it is. The guy knew the girl was there with OP but tried to pull her anyway.

His only intention here was to remove OP from the picture by getting him to act all polite and essentially defer to the AMOG and let him leave with the girl. The hand shake is the AMOGs foot in the door and by not engaging OP basically slammed the door shut before giving him the chance to block it.

Sure OP could have gone along for a while and indulged the dude, trusting in his plates attraction towards him, but why? The AMOG just wanted to fuck his girl and OP probably has better things to do then getting socially cucked.

9 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

Spot on.

The only way I was shaking that guy's hand was if he came from a place of respect and friendship. If he had said something like, "Hi I'm Keith, you have a really cool girl here, it's nice to meet you," I still would have given him the 'have a nice day' and moved on but also would have definitely shook his hand and thanked him for the compliment. Without acknowledging he (accidentally) encroached on my territory, there's no reason to see his handshake as anything more than a power move/AMOG.

3 upvotesFindTheBus1 year ago

The only way anyone with any sense is shaking the interloper's hand is if you're laying it on thick, patting him on the shoulder, maybe mussing his hair too. The subtext of 'aww little child, you didn't know what you were doing, that's okay run along and play' must be intense like a stinky perfume

Also, if he has a fragile ego or knows what the score is, he may start a fight right then and there, and it's always better to needle the other guy into starting first if you're in public with witnesses. Or at least make it LOOK like he started it first. My favorite thing is to draw them into to poking my chest or putting their hands on it. You can invite this with the right body language. As soon as the hand is up to the chest, press it to you hard with both hands over it, rock back a little, and drop down HARD onto one knee. This will do a number of fun things to their ligaments from the arm to the shoulder and even their back. Everyone watching will think you got shoved to the ground. Tuck your chin when you do this as their face will be following their body and it's easy to make it bounce off the hardest part of your skull.

1 upvotesaidscancerebola [OP]1 year ago

Really, there's no reason to check some guy that hard. He was hitting on your girl and if you feel like making a point I understand why you might want to make it physical, but the whole point of my post is that there are quicker and simpler ways of getting the same result without doing dumb shit like rumbling.

31 upvotes187oddfuture1 year ago

Why would you shake the hand of the guy trying to fuck your girl?

13 upvotesNumerousImprovements1 year ago

Because he is probably just a guy like us who didn’t know she was with anyone. When he found out, he probably just kept making polite conversation, or he may have found out two seconds before OP came out. So he just did the normal, respectable thing of offering to shake a guy’s hand. Clearly there were no ill intentions like in the other example OP used. He made himself look completely butt hurt by not shaking his hand, like grow up. Shake the man’s hand, then walk off on him.

8 upvotesMaliciousMack1 year ago

Thats my only caveat. Id shake his hand and then step. If he wants to follow then tell him to step off.

-6 upvotesKRISTAPORZINGA1 year ago

Just from living in the real world, you can tell that all the posts here are made-up; none of the advice posted on this subreddit is any good at all.

1 upvotesNumerousImprovements1 year ago

My issue is the mindset and beliefs that are widely spread here. You’ve got value in posts here, but they’re few and far between. That being said, we can continue taking the good from it and leave the rest. But I agree, a lot of poor advice and situations too.

7 upvotes5-methoxy-NN-DMT1 year ago

You could be one of those douchebags that tries to crush his hand to assert dominance

-22 upvotesescherbach1 year ago

Oh wow, my post was removed because I linked back to this sub!

Ok, here I go again:

Jeez, I thought this sub was a little more intelligent than this shitpost from a baboon suggests

It's obviously a made up, pretty shitty depiction of human interactions, from some inept dickhead.

Sort it out mods of TheRedPill or I'm unsubscribing

5 upvotesblackberrydoughnuts1 year ago

Why? What's wrong with this post?

-6 upvotesescherbach1 year ago

I haven't visited here for a while, but there used to be quite intelligent analysis of the war on men currently happening in privileged middle class (especially academic) environments.

This posting sounds like the rantings of a 18 year old male who really needs a good punching in the face.

9 upvotesblackberrydoughnuts1 year ago

Why does he need a good punching? This post is right on.

-3 upvotesescherbach1 year ago

Because it's not an achievement to have found a submissive female that you can fuck in the face and arse, and then post about your fake macho attempts to defend such a female.

If men don't have a level of sophistication about them then they are like baboons in the zoo.

7 upvotesblackberrydoughnuts1 year ago

That had nothing to do with the post. The post is literally the exact opposite of what you're saying... the whole point is to NOT try to be macho, just walk away.

-5 upvotesescherbach1 year ago

The described stories are fake, almost like cartoon depictions from a retard of how human interaction and the world works

This shit don't help against the war on men

2 upvotesBostonPillParty1 year ago

Huh this is a legit point. +1





© TheRedArchive 2020. All rights reserved.