I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With Hints

BobbyPeru · 2018-08-29T17:35:22+00:00

Rather than dropping "hints" why don't you just be direct and tell them you're not interested.

You're taking a very feminine and passive approach to rejecting people

RunawayGrain · 2018-08-29T17:34:16+00:00

I gave her every rejection I could. Even stood her up. She uses this as her opener to text me. "Hey haven't heard from you since you stood me up. How are you?"

Did you, y'know, just tell her to fuck off?

NightwingTRP · 2018-08-29T18:06:04+00:00

There is a point at which you switch from womanese to straight talk if she doesn't take the hint. You have clearly not learned this lesson yet, which is fine, but your real sin is this whiny sounding post. The shit you are suffering is your fault. You didn't go looking for a solution and you instead came here to whine at us.

You have even failed to grasp the nuance of the "gauge how you're doing" advice. The SMV of women you are attracting. Shit breaking down, plates smashing is all irrelevant. It is about the start, the opening, what level of woman is interested to know more?

Next topic for you to look up, learning to lead. You may have raised your SMV, but you are still behaving like a beta male. Ignore these dumb bitches, and if they show up at your house, be straight and unimpressed with them. They have failed to grasp the social indicators which demonstrates their low value. Don't be afraid to put dumb bitches like that down. They wouldn't have the slightest hesitation in doing the same to you if you'd committed similar offence.

CainPrice · 2018-08-29T18:39:55+00:00

Girls get it but don't believe it. They're not used to being told no by a guy. Guys want to have sex with them, so most guys are always nice to them, always pay them attention, and always give them what they want.

If you failed to do so, that can't possibly mean that you're different than 99% of guys or that you're not into her. It must be because you're stupid or gay. That's what she tells herself, anyway, because that's easier than rejection.

jonpe87 · 2018-08-29T18:01:52+00:00

02 – All bitches are crazy.

"Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense, they’re out of their fucking mind. You’re trying to use logic to figure out what they’re thinking, but this is guerilla warfare – stop with the logic."

From IM site

edit: if you want a girl out of your life act insecure, being mean and tell her to disapear will make her love you more, this is basic game

821sleepingbag · 2018-08-29T18:18:42+00:00

They aren’t ignoring their hints, the shit you are doing is just working and making them obsessed with you.

MentORPHEUS · 2018-08-30T04:07:53+00:00

Girls suck at taking hints.

As others have mentioned, this is a feminine technique of communication.

To take it a step further, it causes incongruence with whatever Alpha image you're hoping to project. This becomes a false Alpha tell.

I thought it would be cool to have girl stalkers but they don't take hints

Even benign girl-sperg stalkers are a liability. One BPD-driven stalker in your life will forever change your tolerance for it. This kind of stalking is more common when you're pushing the lower bounds of "Date 1-2 points down in SMV for optimal LTR power balance" game.

MattyAnon · 2018-08-30T13:10:34+00:00

I thought girls were supposed to be good with hints. These girls didn't grab the hint of me not replying and end up texting/email/calling or even showing up at my place for one last "is he into me?" confrontation.

Girls fucking suck with taking hints... all this "women are subtle" is really "women are ambiguous to avoid personal responsibility".

I thought it would be cool to have girl stalkers

It really isn't. If they aren't fucking you, you want them to just disappear.

And when you finally get them to leave you alone their solipsism rules themselves out of the equation ("I'm amazing it can't be me!") and they think you're a dumbass beta.

Right - you can't win by rejecting girls, you win by getting what you want rather than chasing shallow validation.

Devils_Duke · 2018-08-30T08:41:22+00:00

Wow, who would've thought that girls would get more interested when you ignore them?! Someone should really start a sub about weird phenomena like this.

Noblefiz · 2018-08-29T22:39:38+00:00

This reads more like a rant than a theory. Flair appropriately please.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-08-31T17:44:23+00:00

Girls are retarded. And they don't understand us any better than we understand them (prior to the founding of the TRP Academy of Hamsterology). They will ind the most weird, complex, bizarre rationales instead of what makes the most sense, in terms of what motivates men.

zyqkvx · 2018-08-29T17:33:09+00:00

Women are nothing they claim to be.

There's nothing romantic about wanting a ring and a lavish wedding.

They are not the moral compass of mankind. They use moral speech to manipulate, and are freely immoral.

They are not compassionate or empathetic.

They don't take your hints. The only tool you have is learning body language and reading their weak ass hints.

All of that sounded so bitter, but it wasn't, it' freedom. Amused mastery. They are children that don't know what they are doing and don't know you see it all and right through it. Don't take their kayfabe seriously.

Ray_pinasses1210 · 2018-09-01T18:48:22+00:00

Women are bad at hints, rejection, not getting their way. Everything society says men should be good at when it comes to emotions, women aren’t

tsarompy · 2018-09-07T04:03:23+00:00

ill take "things that have never happened but i wanted to look 'cool' on reddit" for 300, alex

Title	I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With Hints
Author	awalt_cupcake
Upvotes	14
Comments	54
Date	August 29, 2018 5:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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