Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, too

If I could go back in time I would tell myself one thing: Treat women as sexual creatures. My relationships now are so much better just allowing women’s sexuality to be free in my presence. Everyone is happier.

I initially signal acceptance of their sexuality by talking about fantasies. I share some of my fantasies and have her share some of hers. I escalate into the darker stuff on my end, then they tend to open up about their darker stuff. We are all a bit twisted we just don’t open up for fear of social exclusion.

I have yet to find a woman who did not appreciate being dominated since I wholeheartedly implemented sex god method in my life. It has to be congruent with your personality. I exhibit my sexuality then when the clothes come off I pin em, throw em around, choke em (correctly, apply pressure to the side of the neck only. Don’t want to crush a windpipe or block an artery. do your research first) yank their pants down and panties off, ravish them and generally treat them like a sex object for my pleasure. They eat it up. Words cannot describe really. I do get shit from her like nobody ever fucked me like that or wow that was amazing.

Sex god method works. Read and apply it.

Had a girl that was FWB turned out she had a boyfriend but would date him and fuck me because she didn't want him to think she was a slut. And I treated this girl exactly like and object and she loved it. Look at every girl like she will suck your dick behind a dumpster and you will have more and better sex.

Judgment and sexual fantasies are not entirely mutually exclusive. There's a little void that needs to be dealt with alongside no judgment.

You have to be the sort of man she wants to submit to. You have to be powerful. She has to want to be your slave. She'll only do that if you're a man worthy of submitting to. A leader, confident, who makes her feel safe, completely letting go of herself.

If you can do that without judgment, then she's your slut. As a one night stand, plate, or LTR.

Quiet bedrooms are more centered around lack of attraction because he's not the kind of man she's willing or wanting to submit to rather than simply lack of judgment.

How can you tell if you’re dating a slut?

You are.

The therapeutic tone of this post made me throw up in my mouth a little. But there is tremendous truth here. The impact on women of feeling accepted or judged is profound and influences most of their psychology, not just sexual openness.

Consider that a woman's evolutionary survival depended almost entirely on being accepted by the tribe. There are a number of behaviors that spring from this:

1. Insecure (butthurt) behaviors from men make women not just turned-off but fearful and anxious, they are afraid that an insecure guy will smear them (thus threatening their survival in evolutionary programming)
2. This is one big reason why women are constantly talking to each other and telling each other everything - they are proactively defending themselves to the group from rumors but also gathering intel on what the group will relate to as acceptable conduct.
3. This is why women are not moral creatures - they are programmed to be reliant on the group for their survival, all that matters is compliance with group-accepted norms and whatever they can get away with in the group.
4. You should never seriously criticize a woman, you will get nothing but a knife in the back. If you need to drop her, make it a "no hard feelings, it wasn't the right time or match for either of us" kind of thing.
5. You should never talk openly about your experience with a woman because you will get a reputation for not being a safe space for her inner slut.
6. If you develop a genuine vibe of "everything is cool, no hard feelings about anything" you will be surprised to discover how many women seem to enjoy eating ass.

Check out Tucker Max's book, "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell", it's a hilarious read of random sexual exploits and it will drive home how a totally average dude can pull a lot of women by just being a carefree douche.

I think a lot of the slutty shit women do is just to satisfy their partners. If a girl is very attracted to you, odds are she’ll be down with whatever you ask her to do with a little pressure. Does that mean it’s really what she wants?

Women are more sexual than people believed in the 50’s but these days I think most people actually think women are far hornier than they really are. Mostly because a lot of the female roles in media are written by perverted gay men in Hollywood(Sex in the City being a prime example). The raw animalistic lust men experience is due to testosterone. Women have less testosterone so they don’t often experience that lust to that degree.

40% of men masturbate more than twice a week while less than 10% of women do. Only 32% of women orgasm during a one night stand. These “wild nights” are happening because the male is getting her to do wild things.

Most women are naturally submissive. They don’t often know what they want cause unlike men they don’t spend all day thinking about it in graphic visual detail(another symptom of testosterone). This is especially true for young women.

So why is she being more reserved for you? Because you didn’t ask her to fuck like a porn star unlike her past flings.

Women certainly tend to enjoy more aggressive sex from their partner, which makes sense when you consider, again, testosterone. They like being physically dominated. They also like feeling desired. A lot of the experience for women is their experience of your desire because for most men with intact endocrine systems you experience a far higher degree of desire than she does. They aim to please and if you express that pleasure it tells her she is doing it right and gives her the ability to let loose a little more.

She’s not sucking that dude off in the parking lot during her lunch break for her pleasure. She’s submitting to his intense sexual desire.

You guys project hard sometimes. You give women way too much agency and don’t realize that they are just impressionable and often go along with what they are told. Of course, if you don’t tick the right boxes they won’t go along with you. The “real her” is who her dominant, in control, partner wants her to be. There is nothing behind the mask.

I think everyone should read 60 years of challenge.

That's the best book I've ever read that lets you understand how women love a man who's sexual.

Yeah there’s a lot of truth here but its all so symptomatic of society in decay. None of this is long term civilizationally adaptive. There’s a reason why civilizations on the rise keep hypergamy in chains. Because it is a force of nature which must be subdued. Slut shaming is pro civilization. Slut pride is anti civilization. Not that it matters now because we’re fucked anyways. But despite the truth in your post, it doesn’t shake my disgust for unchecked female behavior.

This is true, but it isn't the only reason women hide their sexuality and their past. Sometimes, it's because they had to cash out from the CC with whomever they could still snag. This person is literally the floor they intend to stand on. They aren't giving him anything more than they have to because he can only give her so little in return. He simply isn't worth the effort, he's lucky if she doesn't fuck her bf in front of him and then make him eat her cream pie.

So, how do you tell which it is: does she think you're so great that she feels unworthy in your presence, or she believes she's so much better than you that any attention she gives is more than you deserve?

It doesn't matter, the solution is to never give any women that type of standing in your life. You need to understand you, that's it. You only need to understand what you feels about her and why, while making sure those are based on objective truths. That's it.

Nailed it. A woman's greatest desire (to be a slut for an attractive man) is also her greatest fear (to be labelled a slut by an attractive man).

Madonna/whore. The nice guy - madonna, the jerk - whore. To the nice guy she is pure, they don't want to muddy her. To the assholes out there she is already a slut. So women are on gaurd, pretending to be prude.. "I'm a lady" .. yah sure. Also women slut shame way more than men. But I agree with this post

This is one of the best posts I've read on TRP this year.

A story as old as time, or at least as old as the 21st century: a woman spends her 20s partying and having some quantity of casual sex

Haha yea... this is definitely not a story as old as time. It's a story as old as birth control and forced paternity payments to a woman you are not married to.

30, married, uncomfortable read especially the last paragpraph - and that's exactly why I've saved and upvoted it.

I need to process this and revisit in a week or so

Really great post, thank you.

My only observation connects with something I've been thinking about recently. I think that a lot of the behaviors cultivated here are not only what women are looking for in one night stands, but are connected to healthy conduct in general.

Examples are Taking care of yourself and your appearance, learning to navigate social situations expertly, building your external assets, etc. All very healthy for your and anyone associated with you.

Some of the most misconceived ones are also crucial healthy behaviors. For instance, learning not to take a woman's actions seriously allows them to behave the way they want to knowing that you'll take control when you've judged something as a legitimate concern; isn't that a lot healthier than reevaluating someone on whether they are your "true love" in every moment? When the girl doesn't matter then they are free to be themselves and when they do they will create a false image; the latter is not fun for anyone.

In conclusion, yes our activities start with picking up girls and being the "fun" guy she wants to sleep with now is a great tactic because it removes her sense of reputation from the equation. We can go even further and argue that our strategies and tactics are healthy behavior once the misconceptions are exposed.

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If you find out she was a ripe whore in the past, you simply leave.

So your message was basically "don't slut-shame"?

Very good post and I agree with you...........up to a point, however as women get into their late 30's and 40's and up until the time they hit menopause, all the "nice girl" stuff goes out the window. A divorced women who is 40 and done with her child rearing - that's when you see her true nature and if its hidden, its hidden very lightly. I dated women who were "nice girls" , who were married for 20+ years. Everyone though she was an angel. Then she finds out when I'm single I'm a hardcore swinger and BOOM next weekend she's in a gang bang and having the time of her life.

If you honestly want to be a true red pill, wait until you hit your 40's. The tables are turned.

She pretends to be a good girl

Women are afraid to be vulnerable for their serious partners

stranger versus husband

OP you have great elements intermixed with some misconceptions:

There is one variable that matters and it is the desirability of her partner.

As you correctly observed, she is a slut to strangers

However she will also be a slut to long term relationships

Conversely, she will only conduct the bare minimum of kink with betas in both cases because they do not make her giney tingle.

i've got several female friends, and many of them have opened up about their sexual pasts, likes, cravings, etc.

here's how to get her to open up:

1. overtly tell her that you're not judgmental.
2. tell her and show her you're very discreet.
3. tell her that in your company, she's always safe... physically & emotionally.

then, disclose a few things about yourself and watch her tell you some very good sex stories.

don't judge. pull out your unit and enjoy her.

Well If half of the sub were not calling sluts the girls who have experience they would have 0 problems having their girls showing their sexual side.. yes indeed ^{^} thanks for pointing it out !

You cant have both a virgin and a horny girl, especially when youve been a beta for 10 years lol

It's funny how much a girl's "slutty" past doesn't bother you once you've been in on the fun.

When I was in my first LTR I wanted to "spread my wings" so to speak and hook up with other women.

I had far too much lust inside of me to commit to her even though she took my virginity and had a modest N-Count (8 total in a 5 year span).

All I could think about is how much "fun" she's had and how I was missing out by committing to her. Hell, she even offered to "wait" for me after I've got it all out of my system. She then said that I wasn't the "monogamous" type after I broke up with her.

I've increased my N-count considerably since then in such a short span. It's funny how now sex isn't a big deal to me anymore and I sometimes wish that I had experienced all of this before I got into that relationship.

If I had then I would still be with her today.

There’s a threshold a man who knows the game can eventually cross, where he passes from being knowledgeable at the game, even skilled at it, to accepting the game. He reaches a point where he’s no longer playing the game against women, or for women, or to get women, but is instead playing the game with women, together.

Welcome to the Promised Land, Huckleberry.

And DO NOT, and I mean, DO NOT think that an inexperienced virgin girl is pure just because some guy hasn't fucked her. I once had an infatuation towards a girl back in 6th grade. She was fairly skinny with glasses.

At one point, we went on a school field trip to see Indiana Jones at Westgate Center. We went to eat at Johnny Rockets sometime after the movies. She and I just happened to sit across each other along with her two other friends. As I looked at them joking and playing, I suddenly saw her bouncing up and down. Repeatedly. On the chair in a restaurant.

I had no clue what the hell she was doing at that time. But I did have a very weird feeling it was not something school appropriate. I also noticed how her friends didn't say anything, as if they knew something. I thought she was just doing some random shit.

After learning about sex in high school, I looked back and was surprised realizing that she was pretending to cowgirl ride a chair. And she was in middle school back in 2006-7.

My point? Girls can be and are extremely sexual if you hit the right buttons. Do not put inexperienced virgins on a pedestal just because they did not experience the CC.

I've had lots of women tell me I give off a freaky vibe. This must be totally subconscious because I never bring up sex. I am a freak though. This gets me lots of ass. Girls love being able to let go and be wild a know there will be no repercussions.

Wow. What a treat. You're doing it. Bagging sluts. Big game huntin'.

Women's insecurities are always self fulfilling prophecy. How many women betafy their husbands due to dread, only for the relationship to fall apart in another way? You know that saying in Kung Fu Panda right, "One often meets his destiny on the very road he takes to avoid it".

And sex is a raw, pure instinct. The beta provider has no idea that his imprint on her mind isn't going to compare with the no holds barred stuff of her party years.

There are two aspects to this - the path of pleasure and the path of devotion. BP guys get both mixed up - they were told if they did the socially correct stuff, things will be fine. Sex in it's unfettered glory firmly belongs to the first path. The first path needs feels, the second needs strength. The trick here is that for men, the separation between these 2 is much less than in women. Men hardly have an issue being sexual towards both lovers and wives. For women, these 2 are much more compartmentalized. This is why it is so much easier to blue pill men into mixing up these 2.

I mean yesterday my mum comes home and talks some usual BP stuff to me with some religious stuff thrown in and that sex need not be so important. Actually she just started randomly examining some memories of her college days and even now, she can't quite digest the fact that boys are almost never just friends with girls while girls can just feel nothing towards most boys - she was talking about the time she was surprised when a guy she thought was just a friend expressed interest in her (he got rejected obviously). She couldn't get it how he could think of her that way. I told her that's how it is, and she went on a rant about celibate monks and how in some cultures men were perfectly celibate till marriage (and I suppose after that they somehow pressed a button and became sex gods overnight with zero knowledge or experience or exposure).

Well, now I do know for a fact that my parents haven't probably touched each other in 2 decades (no one told me, but it's plain obvious). They're still together and devoted (which is another way of saying that it's only strength and a certain amount of pair bonding that's allowing them to tolerate each other on the bad days), but hey there's the difference between blue and red.

After she leaves, I feel an urge to puke that BP out of my head - that was the same BS that screwed me over a lot as well. The conservative old school society I live in tries to make it look like everyone's squeaky clean of sex and there was a time when I hit puberty and I thought I was the only one with an abnormal mind.

Men have a problem with women and multiple partners because women don't get better sexually with experience. They instead go the AF/BB route and can't bring their best towards their long term partners. Men to a great extent, are far less likely to do this (unless they've been conditioned by oneitis BP ideas). They get better and better with experience.

It's actually very difficult for a woman to get over the emotional impact of her past even if she put past lovers behind. Once used to riding many partners, that's the habit pattern that gets embedded in the brain. Sooner or later, after she settles down, she'll start the betaization process and go through a late stage hypergamy phase. It is not that easy to rewire the brain, or rewire stuff that happened during one's formative years.

Comes down to sexual strategy, she wants a dude that can provide for her and her offsprings, it’s in her biology since caveman days, if she considers that you’re financially stable and have enough resources/assets it’s in her best interest to act like a good girl who never sucked dick, that’s a common problem for high smv guys with very good prospects, they have trouble getting girls comfortable around them, it’s very good to downplay your income/ successful career and act like a poor fuck, easier to get laid. Only things you should be showing off are a 6pack and huge guns, let them figure out the rest.

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