https://www.foxnews.com/us/ohio-fathers-punishment-over-daughters-bullying-goes-viral?utm_source=quora&utm_medium=referral

Father makes his daughter learn karma and consequences. But social media calls him a bully.

It's a tough time for masculine love.

Notice how she tried shit testing her dad, playing her victim card and thinking her parents would be nice guy and support her. Didn't work.

But he went a step further and for whatever reason, decided to post it on social media. As we all know, social media is full of retards, therefore he didn't exactly get the strong dad award he probably wanted : "....

One upset user blasted the Swanton father for making his daughter walk in 36-degree weather.

“I think it’s good you’re teaching her that she shouldn’t just expect you to drive her because she screwed up on the bus, but this isn’t really helping her learn why bullying is wrong,” another user wrote, according to Newsweek.

Someone else commented: "Cure bullying with bullying. Great lesson, what’s next beating your kids so they don’t hit [others?]"...

But Cox defended himself in an interview with WTVG, saying he would do it again.

“I just want the kids to know that words truly do hurt," he said. "They cut very deep and have lasting effects. I hope that parents hold their kids accountable.""

I suppose that user (probably female or mangina) wanted the father to give a lecture or "talk with his daughter about her feelings". Or accusing the dad of beating his kids. This is exactly why kids are so fucked up these days.

Sometimes the best way to learn that fire burns is to get a little too close for comfort, but not so close you get burned. Well, that's how I learnt it. Once was enough.

Personally, when I bunked school for playing video games in 4th grade, my dad found out and took me to the school and had me apologize to the entire class and my teacher. It never happened again, ever. And today I would do the exact same thing to my younger self. Nothing teaches lessons like consequences. And nope, it didn't create toxic shame either.

That would probably be the last time that girl bullies anyone again.

Truth is, feminine love is full of sweet feels, but masculine love works differently and is based on reason and consequences. Feminine love is immediately obvious, but the impact of masculine love is realized only over a lifetime. There are even philosophies that talk about karma as a means of evolution by knowing the consequences of one's actions. Karma is the solution to sollipsism and ego.

Fact is, that dad did the very best punishment out there. If this girl doesn't learn now, when she's an adult, life will be much harsher than any dad or boss. But when society doesn't know the difference between discipline and abuse, it's fucked up retarded.

Nice is not always good. Nice Guys are not always Good guys. Stuff like this is the masculinity that Nice Guys fail to realize they lack.

And last, if you want to achieve real change in your lives and the world, stay off social media....

PS : Shaming might work on women, but really it's not masculine. What is masculine are consequences and boundaries. Kids only learn not to stay solipsistic when they realize other people are like themselves and will respond in kind if you go too far. Only long after they grow up, most people actually understand why they need to behave and what really is the impact of their behaviour, but first they must learn respect.

I have a 5 year old niece who's parents are forever absent (my cousin is a career woman, overly dominant and no good for house work, she'd be in hot water if her sisters weren't next door neighbours). She's becoming spoiled sick because she knows she can make a 2 or even 3 hour fuzz over dinner and no one will do anything about it except sit and complain and plead or reason or get exasperated and keep following her around till she swallows - she's too young for reasoning.

Also for a child, she shit tests everyone's boundaries like I've never seen kids do. Kids test paternal boundaries and they just use the same patterns when they grow up. Once she tells me for telling her to eat up, "You know I'll complain to my dad right?" I smile, call my brother in law, tell him what she's doing. He gets in on the act and tells me in front of her that I can punish her next time she does that and he'll even let me take her to my home -- you should have seen the look on her face. That did the trick. Never happened again. But then another shit test. "Do you ever lose patience uncle?" I turn around, look her straight in the eye and ask in a serious tone, "Do you want me to?" She'll be a little more careful next time. My cousin then asks me if I can come over more often and help her eat faster, but hey that is really her job.

This might sound innocuous, but really, disciplining that child is too difficult when she knows there won't be any real consequences for bad behaviour - so she keeps shit testing boundaries until she finds them. She's like 5 and already knows how to get support from aunts and neighbours if her mum scolds her, and vice versa. My parents would never have put up with this for one day from me. Truly this behaviour isn't going to stay in limits when she grows up if she keeps going like this - it will extend to all other dimensions as well. On the plus side for me, I get to learn a lot about shit tests - I realize it's the exact same behaviour in adults, just applied to other dimensions. Boundaries snap children out of sollipsism, and so it does for women. And excessive shit testing is a sign of not knowing boundaries.

As for my brother in law, he's fed up of his dominating wife, so he comes home late and just sits and watches the TV - and my cousin doesn't like the fact that she needs to boss him around either - I see it creating a feedback cycle - more bossiness, more withdrawal, even more bossiness, and even more withdrawal. If he stepped up and expressed just a forcible presence, without doing anything, this problem would be solved overnight. But he doesn't. But that time, I got him into the act, and it worked like a charm. I only wish he'd be more proactive, but he tells me he's sick and tired of fighting through his wife's walls of resistance when he tries his methods. Well, look at his kid.